FabSwingers.com forum: A controversial thread

By *esthetic21 OP Man
32 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I feel like alot of people use mental illness as an excuse to be a shit human being. Now I'm not saying that it can't cause people to act a certain way buy I see more amd more people who I know male and female who claim they have mental health issues but are really just mean cunts. What do we think? And BTW this isn't a dig at people with mental illness it's a dig at bastards

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
32 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It's the difference between an excuse and a reason.

There are parts of me that I work hard to improve and mask because social etiquette requires a fuck of a lot more than I can ever make sense of. What remains is what I've determined as enough of a balance between empathy and truth, even if it doesn't please everyone.

"It's not their fault they've got X." No, it's not their fault that they're neurospicy. But the decision to just use it as an excuse instead of a reason to be better tells me enough for me to know I won't be compatible with them

By *r and Mrs CACACouple
32 weeks ago

congleton

I agree at times people can use their issues as a mask. Unless you’re willing to grow as a person most don’t and I avoid those types of people. I suffer with depression etc. kids been diagnosed adhd and autism. I most likely have it but is there any point in trying to diagnose myself. At this point.

I mean I sat and watched someone reverse into a car twice today while on school run the lady in question didn’t get out or look until a neighbour spoke to her. I had it all on my dashcam lol. Been a long day but huggles.

One of my issues is I can go AWOL on chats when I retreat and just don’t like talking to anyone. So some might see me as ignorant but I found it better than upsetting people. If I blew at them to just leave me be. So I gently message I’m having a down moment or I prewarn them in the incoming getting to know you part x

Charlotte x