FabSwingers.com forum: Dusting yourself off !!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have had a really bad week this week, and not just swinging either !!

I used to be a very hard person to crack and never really got emotional at all.

Since sorting all my problems out from the past you would think that your life would run in the right direction, wouldn't you?

But it seems to have turned me up side down, everything that upsets me seems reduce me to tears no matter how much i try to control it.

This last week has been especially Problematic !!

But what you do is look at every thing at face value and pick yourself up dust your yourself down and start all over again !!

I would say that, that would address most of us on here !!

I sincerely apologise if this comes over as a rant, it wasn't meant to be !!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Menopause ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Menopause ?"

Been through that lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorting out the past is great but there are and will always be times when it infringes on the present, that cannot be helped. Take a step back and analyse it; the plus side, the down side, why does it make you feel how you do and mull it over with friends. Once you feel you have the answer, even if it isn't the nice one, it does make you feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya. We all go phases like that, even us guys. Seems everything is stacked against you, work wise, social life wise... U name it!! But stay positive and tell yourself that there is always someone worse off than you. That works for me. Stay happy. Have a cuppa too. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a really bad week this week, and not just swinging either !!

I used to be a very hard person to crack and never really got emotional at all.

Since sorting all my problems out from the past you would think that your life would run in the right direction, wouldn't you?

But it seems to have turned me up side down, everything that upsets me seems reduce me to tears no matter how much i try to control it.

This last week has been especially Problematic !!

But what you do is look at every thing at face value and pick yourself up dust your yourself down and start all over again !!

I would say that, that would address most of us on here !!

I sincerely apologise if this comes over as a rant, it wasn't meant to be !!"

((( hugs)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh honey I am sooooo with u!!!!

Been lost for a few months, got myself in a mess with one thing and another!!

I like u have dealt with past issues but seem to go along really well for a while and then all of a sudden I realise I'm not doing so well after all!!

I always know I'm in trouble when I start isolating myself from my friends/family etc.....

At the moment I'm rallying my support network and taking it hour by hour!!!

Big hugs xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh honey I am sooooo with u!!!!

Been lost for a few months, got myself in a mess with one thing and another!!

I like u have dealt with past issues but seem to go along really well for a while and then all of a sudden I realise I'm not doing so well after all!!

I always know I'm in trouble when I start isolating myself from my friends/family etc.....

At the moment I'm rallying my support network and taking it hour by hour!!!

Big hugs xxxx"

That is a good plan and well done for recognising what is going on.

If I am feeling down, I play certain records at full blast, dance round the kitchen, tears streaming down my face but I soon feel better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh honey I am sooooo with u!!!!

Been lost for a few months, got myself in a mess with one thing and another!!

I like u have dealt with past issues but seem to go along really well for a while and then all of a sudden I realise I'm not doing so well after all!!

I always know I'm in trouble when I start isolating myself from my friends/family etc.....

At the moment I'm rallying my support network and taking it hour by hour!!!

Big hugs xxxx

That is a good plan and well done for recognising what is going on.

If I am feeling down, I play certain records at full blast, dance round the kitchen, tears streaming down my face but I soon feel better

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Look at it this way....

If you are vertical and breathing.... everything else is a bonus!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look at it this way....

If you are vertical and breathing.... everything else is a bonus!!

Right at this moment would rather be horizontal

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Well, having looked, I think horizontal is ok, but you'll need a couple of people to check you over from time to time (hint hint!) lol

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark

"Look at it this way....

If you are vertical and breathing.... everything else is a bonus!!

Right at this moment would rather be horizontal

Wouldn't we all

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I spent years controlling the tears. Now I think they are there for a reason. Let them flow and feel some release.

Dealing with past issues doesn't mean that you haven't got new ones.

Take care and be kind to yourself.

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