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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley

What's wrong with my profile

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By *ather WickmasMan
33 weeks ago

The Continental

Its generic and tells people nothing that would entice them to get in touch.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

33 weeks ago

East Sussex

If it represents you and is successful, nothing.

Do you feel there is a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Too wordy?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Being blunt…your profile is just asking other people to put all the effort in while you’ve made mine yourself.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"Being blunt…your profile is just asking other people to put all the effort in while you’ve made mine yourself. "

* none

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Central

Doesn't really mark you out as a unique person, it sounds like AI text no pics means you've got next to no chance, if people are looking for anyone like you.

You need realistic expectations here as a single man. Including expecting to have to invest a lot of hard work. You need to sell yourself.

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By *ark73XXXMan
33 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

You’ve got a one year age range - somewhat limiting

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By *elloWoman
33 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"What's wrong with my profile "

You want people to blow you away with their creative side, yet you've shown no creativity in your profile.

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"Its generic and tells people nothing that would entice them to get in touch. "

How so

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"If it represents you and is successful, nothing.

Do you feel there is a problem?"

Yeah,I'm not quite sure how to be creative with a profile

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"Too wordy?

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How so

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"Being blunt…your profile is just asking other people to put all the effort in while you’ve made mine yourself. "

How so

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"Being blunt…your profile is just asking other people to put all the effort in while you’ve made mine yourself.

* none "

Oh I see

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
33 weeks ago

Reading

More photos as you are hot

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

33 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If it represents you and is successful, nothing.

Do you feel there is a problem?

Yeah,I'm not quite sure how to be creative with a profile"

Ok.

Say what you want and then say what you offer.

Not everyone is Wordsworth but people need to know what to expect.

You've already got the what you want bit, what could people expect if they met you?

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"Doesn't really mark you out as a unique person, it sounds like AI text no pics means you've got next to no chance, if people are looking for anyone like you.

You need realistic expectations here as a single man. Including expecting to have to invest a lot of hard work. You need to sell yourself. "

Examples ...can AI give me a better profile of what I am.seeking

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"You’ve got a one year age range - somewhat limiting "

Can you explain

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"What's wrong with my profile

You want people to blow you away with their creative side, yet you've shown no creativity in your profile."

How so

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Its generic and tells people nothing that would entice them to get in touch. "

Agreed.

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"More photos as you are hot"

At the moment I dint feel that I am,plus they'd be selfies

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Being blunt…your profile is just asking other people to put all the effort in while you’ve made none yourself. "

Agreed.

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Doesn't really mark you out as a unique person, it sounds like AI text no pics means you've got next to no chance, if people are looking for anyone like you.

You need realistic expectations here as a single man. Including expecting to have to invest a lot of hard work. You need to sell yourself. "

Agreed.

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"What's wrong with my profile

You want people to blow you away with their creative side, yet you've shown no creativity in your profile."

Agreed.

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By *ark73XXXMan
33 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire


"You’ve got a one year age range - somewhat limiting

Can you explain"

You are looking for women between 39 and 40 - that’s pretty narrow - you might want to increase the range to, say, 30-45

Up to you in the end though

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"If it represents you and is successful, nothing.

Do you feel there is a problem?

Yeah,I'm not quite sure how to be creative with a profile

Ok.

Say what you want and then say what you offer.

Not everyone is Wordsworth but people need to know what to expect.

You've already got the what you want bit, what could people expect if they met you?

"

I don't know where to begin,as like I don't know myself really

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"Its generic and tells people nothing that would entice them to get in touch.

Agreed."

How so

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By *elloWoman
33 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"What's wrong with my profile

You want people to blow you away with their creative side, yet you've shown no creativity in your profile.

How so"

How so? Lol how can you seriously ask people to be creative when you haven't got any idea how to do it yourself. The mind boggles.

Use your imagination and try and write something someone would enjoy reading.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

33 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If it represents you and is successful, nothing.

Do you feel there is a problem?

Yeah,I'm not quite sure how to be creative with a profile

Ok.

Say what you want and then say what you offer.

Not everyone is Wordsworth but people need to know what to expect.

You've already got the what you want bit, what could people expect if they met you?

I don't know where to begin,as like I don't know myself really"

Just say how you would like a meet to go. Would you want a social, are you happy to meet in a club, at your home, do you like oral, kissing?

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By *ex HolesMan
33 weeks ago

Up North


"What's wrong with my profile "

There’s no stretched banjo string to view

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"What's wrong with my profile "
good honest face pic but put a few more on and you need a write up telling them about you, your wants and add a bit of humour

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"What's wrong with my profile good honest face pic but put a few more on and you need a write up telling them about you, your wants and add a bit of humour "

I have some pics I have made private as I am quite shy tbh

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"What's wrong with my profile

There’s no stretched banjo string to view "

What on earth is a banjo string

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"If it represents you and is successful, nothing.

Do you feel there is a problem?

Yeah,I'm not quite sure how to be creative with a profile

Ok.

Say what you want and then say what you offer.

Not everyone is Wordsworth but people need to know what to expect.

You've already got the what you want bit, what could people expect if they met you?

I don't know where to begin,as like I don't know myself really

Just say how you would like a meet to go. Would you want a social, are you happy to meet in a club, at your home, do you like oral, kissing?

"

I like oral,kissing maybe a social not at my home.not understanding how not to overuse saying 'i'

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
33 weeks ago

Leeds


"What's wrong with my profile

You want people to blow you away with their creative side, yet you've shown no creativity in your profile."

This, you've shown nothing about yourself yet expect others to, women don't need to put the work in on here.

Mrs

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By *elloWoman
33 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"What's wrong with my profile

There’s no stretched banjo string to view

What on earth is a banjo string"

Something you don't want to snap . So be careful with cowgirls

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"What's wrong with my profile

You want people to blow you away with their creative side, yet you've shown no creativity in your profile.

How so

How so? Lol how can you seriously ask people to be creative when you haven't got any idea how to do it yourself. The mind boggles.

Use your imagination and try and write something someone would enjoy reading."

You're making me miss the orange rough books we used to write in the early school days before putting our best in the green English books.sgaying on target though, I wish I had a moderator what I can and can't put

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By *ompovatorX24 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Wembley


"What's wrong with my profile

There’s no stretched banjo string to view

What on earth is a banjo string

Something you don't want to snap . So be careful with cowgirls "

Do I have to go and buy a banjo string

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

33 weeks ago

East Sussex

[Removed by poster at 15/05/24 13:33:34]

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By *allipygousMan
33 weeks ago

Leicester

Methinks someone is taking the piss

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
33 weeks ago

Basingstoke


"Methinks someone is taking the piss"

My thoughts too as I was scrolling through.

But in the spirit of trying to help, I'd suggest the OP review some other single male profiles to see how other men 'sell' themselves if he's really struggling for inspiration over how to talk about himself. Obviously I'm not suggesting he use the detail from other profiles, but maybe it will get his creative juices flowing.

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