FabSwingers.com forum: Chalant or nonchalant...

By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

When it comes to Fab in particular, would you say you're more nonchalant or chalant*?

Forum posts, interactions with people, planning things. Are you quite relaxed and composed or do you Tigger, find yourself readily irked by things?

*I know. I'm still using it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
39 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm too blooming non chalant for my own good

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I used to be chalant* in the early days, the older I get the more non I become.

You’ll get there Meli in a couple more decades!

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By *eroLondonMan
39 weeks ago

Mayfair

Both, because it ebbs and flows depending on the thread, the thread-author, the general 'mood within the room' and my demeanor.

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By *r Black 85Man
39 weeks ago

nottingham

Very nonchalant over here.

Life is too short to be stressing/worrying about things on here. If things happen, great. If not, so be it.Like the saying goes "The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment".

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By *ellhungvweMan
39 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Life is life and it is too short to worry about all the dramas and other crap.

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By *urry BlokeMan
39 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I think I'm well natured

If something irks on here, I just move on

I will call certain comments out but, in general, I will just think 'tit' to myself and move on

Is that nonchalant or *chalant?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
39 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"When it comes to Fab in particular, would you say you're more nonchalant or chalant*?

Forum posts, interactions with people, planning things. Are you quite relaxed and composed or do you Tigger, find yourself readily irked by things?

*I know. I'm still using it."

* Im laughing so hard at chalant

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By *ANDA!Man
39 weeks ago

DUMFRIES

I just let the bullshit pass me by. Yes, sometimes I'll see something that irks me, sometimes I'll comment, sometimes I won't.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
39 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Generally complete nonchalance but once in a while something irks me.

I usually just log out if I find myself getting sucked in.

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By *emorefridaCouple
39 weeks ago

La la land

It depends very much on my mood. But it also depends on if someone or something has made my cogs whirl.

Some people erk me, more that they are in my opinion quite blinkered and aren't open to discussion as they're too focused on their own narrative. But then I remind myself that I possibly have been guilty of that in the past.

So all in all, I've not really answered your question but rambled on

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
39 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Way more on the chalant side of the scale.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
39 weeks ago

Leeds

Both I think, it depends on my mood and frame of mind at the time.

There has been times I've just had to log off and not come back for a day or two because something has bugged me then there's time I'm just like meh... So what.

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
39 weeks ago

Belfast

I've only ever been properly irked once on here and that was 3 or 4 years ago.

Some things have been more eye rolling than irksome but generally I'm not invested enough in the predilections of some and the trolling of others to get annoyed.

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By *a LunaWoman
39 weeks ago

South Wales

"I used to be chalant* in the early days, the older I get the more non I become.

This for me too. I’ve chilled the fuck right out the longer I’ve been on here. Kind of been there, done it attitude.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
39 weeks ago

Herts

I just think I'm funny

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By *ikesEmBigMan
39 weeks ago

Herts

*subjective of course

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By *unnesscoupleMan
39 weeks ago

Inverness

"When it comes to Fab in particular, would you say you're more nonchalant or chalant*?

Forum posts, interactions with people, planning things. Are you quite relaxed and composed or do you Tigger, find yourself readily irked by things?

*I know. I'm still using it."

I occasionally get a bit anxious when people use words that don't exist to exemplify a feeling they should otherwise express - then at other times I don't care.

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By *sWyldWoman
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Very nonchalant. Little phases me here and most of the time these days I'm very uninterested.

I'd like my sparkle of excitement over possibilities back though.

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By *JcuriousCouple
39 weeks ago

Derby

I'm very chilled, if something bothers me I just move on. I'm not on here for drama or for things to annoy me, fuck it

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Its fab... Don't let yourself waste energy getting triggered!

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By *eroLondonMan
39 weeks ago

Mayfair

Locating vegan menu options for other people often trigger me.

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By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

"Its fab... Don't let yourself waste energy getting triggered! "

I was so confused. No dear, I meant Tiggering not triggering.

It's interesting how some posters have focused on the negative side.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I connect more with Eeyore.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I have no idea

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By *ames250122Man
39 weeks ago

Worcester

"When it comes to Fab in particular, would you say you're more nonchalant or chalant*?

Forum posts, interactions with people, planning things. Are you quite relaxed and composed or do you Tigger, find yourself readily irked by things?

*I know. I'm still using it."

I’m pretty relaxed an composed about most things. Not much really irks me. Though I have thought sometimes on forum posts it might not come over that way, when actually I’m not offended or irked just maybe a bit passionate about certain things. Doesn’t mean I don’t see other peoples point of views either. Outside the forum, interacting and planning things with people I’m very relaxed and easy to get along with x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
39 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m entirely as nonchalant as can be

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By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

"I'm very chilled, if something bothers me I just move on. I'm not on here for drama or for things to annoy me, fuck it

Miss S x"

Miss S. This is forever linked with your name now -

The other way though... do you ever find yourself grinning? Excited? Or are you quite cool and, well, nonchalant?

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By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

"When it comes to Fab in particular, would you say you're more nonchalant or chalant*?

Forum posts, interactions with people, planning things. Are you quite relaxed and composed or do you Tigger, find yourself readily irked by things?

*I know. I'm still using it.

* Im laughing so hard at chalant

I'm very chalant. A friend called me it today and I wanted to pretend to be affronted but I couldn't. It's so true. Zero poker face, zero non about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Google meaning of nonchalant! …

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I am just bubbly me and float around

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By *ittlebirdWoman
39 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"When it comes to Fab in particular, would you say you're more nonchalant or chalant*?

Forum posts, interactions with people, planning things. Are you quite relaxed and composed or do you Tigger, find yourself readily irked by things?

*I know. I'm still using it.

* Im laughing so hard at chalant

I'm very chalant. A friend called me it today and I wanted to pretend to be affronted but I couldn't. It's so true. Zero poker face, zero non about me.

I know you are. Me too

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By *JcuriousCouple
39 weeks ago

Derby

"I'm very chilled, if something bothers me I just move on. I'm not on here for drama or for things to annoy me, fuck it

Miss S x

Miss S. This is forever linked with your name now -

The other way though... do you ever find yourself grinning? Excited? Or are you quite cool and, well, nonchalant?"

Love that

Ermmmm, probably a little too much sometimes... I'm a little giddy, excited person

What about you Meli?

Miss S x

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By *ee69Man
39 weeks ago

glasgow

Bit a both a say

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Google meaning of nonchalant! …

Yes I am.

I log into here, chat rubbish, plan something’s such as the upcoming Manchester social….

I might rant now and then about something.

Fab is a sex themed website, sex is supposed to be enjoyable and fun. How can you not feel relaxed about stuff in here?

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By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

"I used to be chalant* in the early days, the older I get the more non I become.

You’ll get there Meli in a couple more decades!

Erm I'd like to think not. Going to have to really start collecting that virgin blood.

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By *ansoffateMan
39 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Nonchalant reminds me of WWF wrestling commentary in the 80s and 90s, they just loved that word.

Fab is like a Royal Rumble.

I'll take it on the chin, stay in the ring and then pop up with a last minute submission hold.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
39 weeks ago

Reading

Almost horizontal I'm that laid back.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Timothy chalant in Dune

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Its fab... Don't let yourself waste energy getting triggered!

I was so confused. No dear, I meant Tiggering not triggering.

It's interesting how some posters have focused on the negative side. "

Oh i assumed you misspelled it

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
39 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’m so laid back you could climb right on top. Just like that.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
39 weeks ago

North West

"Timothy chalant in Dune

Timothée Chalamet

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By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

"Its fab... Don't let yourself waste energy getting triggered!

I was so confused. No dear, I meant Tiggering not triggering.

It's interesting how some posters have focused on the negative side.

Oh i assumed you misspelled it

Erm this is... rather offensive. I'm off to cry. Thanks Midnight. I thought I was a somewhat decent writer. Clearly not.

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By *eli OP Woman
39 weeks ago

"I’m so laid back you could climb right on top. Just like that."

I really want to respond with something flirty but also I don't because it would be weird. Proper dilemma.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
39 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I really want to respond with something flirty but also I don't because it would be weird."

I think you just did. It’s not weird. Dilemma solved.

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