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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well... I just watched this programme on Channel 4 and it was facinating!

Did anyone watch it?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

yes .. made me giggle a bit.. lord that hairy grey man wouldnt have got ear me .. ewwww..

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

near *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missed it!

Did Steve Carell put in an appearance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hahah!! I felt for the male Sex Therapist. He had his work cut out with her. She was brutal like, and going on about the smell and his sweat, lol.

The psychology around it is fascinating and I understand why it doesn't happen for some folks as early as others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40! Bloody hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it was minging

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

Great prog. Sorry for them both, when I think of all the sex they have both missed for 20+ year's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well... I felt sad for them yeah. i felt for both of them. The woman for suffering the sexual abuse and the guy, who has obviously suffered psychological abuse from his peers and liekly his upbringing making him think sex is dirty, bad and wrong.

I only lost my virginity 3 years ago - I'm 30 now. Mine was though just not feeling sexy really - being overweight as a child growing up like that and having bad experiences with rude men. But I didn't worry or have any anxiety over it. I lost the weight and just put myself out there. it was scary, but fucking awesome too!

i've put the weight back on a little bit, but the difference is I've grown and don't give a fuck what folks may say now as I've met plenty of guys who want me, lol.

perhaps I have missed out a little by not starting earlier, but I have no regrets, as I can honestly say that my first time was amazing.

The people I've spoken to who have had sex in their teens, have usually told me that their first time wasn't that great! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why dont they join fab ??? didnt watch it celebrity juice time for me hool and kelly are BANG TIDY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people I've spoken to who have had sex in their teens, have usually told me that their first time wasn't that great! lol"

I can't imagine the bloke will look back at that and think his was that great either! The 'sex therapist' (my husband understands ) must have been pushing 70 and there it was all filmed on national TV. Not the best way of avoiding comments by rude men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah... but you shouldn't have to avoid rude comments. You should just not receive them in the first place, lol

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"Great prog. Sorry for them both, when I think of all the sex they have both missed for 20+ year's."

didn't see it but that sounds like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah... but you shouldn't have to avoid rude comments. You should just not receive them in the first place, lol"

You can't stop people commenting - only the notice you take of them - and whether you place yourself in positions to encourage them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was interesting, i wonder if they will ever realy change that much though, because even swingers have their hang ups.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Might give them the confidence to meet and interact with a partner now tho.. good luck to them..Yes the sex therapist was older ..but she was kind and empathetic. Would a younger and better looking woman do what that lady did for the man. she gave him confidence a young pretty thing would have made him feel even more sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might give them the confidence to meet and interact with a partner now tho.. good luck to them..Yes the sex therapist was older ..but she was kind and empathetic. Would a younger and better looking woman do what that lady did for the man. she gave him confidence a young pretty thing would have made him feel even more sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might give them the confidence to meet and interact with a partner now tho.. good luck to them..Yes the sex therapist was older ..but she was kind and empathetic. Would a younger and better looking woman do what that lady did for the man. she gave him confidence a young pretty thing would have made him feel even more sensitive.

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Sorry but that's poppycock - how can you have any idea if a younger better looking woman would have been able to be kind and empathetic? That only comes with retirement age?!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

some of us are more empathetic than others..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Bizarre program. You're too nervous to lose your virginity on your own, but with a production company, free jaunt to the USA and free granny sex, recorded for posterity you can?!!

Please, pull the other one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bizarre program. You're too nervous to lose your virginity on your own, but with a production company, free jaunt to the USA and free granny sex, recorded for posterity you can?!!

Please, pull the other one!"

That pretty much summed up our own discussion about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with Embarrassing Bodies, C4 like to show their caring sensitive side, just as long as we get to giggle at some peoples hang-ups and wobbly bits. And they get free medical procedures that they would not get on the NHS or at least have a very long waiting list. Chuck in a couple of serious "issues" to justify some cock shots and speculum exams and everyones supposed to be happy. Who do they think they are kidding?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Same with Embarrassing Bodies, C4 like to show their caring sensitive side, just as long as we get to giggle at some peoples hang-ups and wobbly bits. And they get free medical procedures that they would not get on the NHS or at least have a very long waiting list. Chuck in a couple of serious "issues" to justify some cock shots and speculum exams and everyones supposed to be happy. Who do they think they are kidding?"

I was going to mention embarrassing bodies too. Can't muster up the courage to have a word in private with your own GP but without any hesitation get your kit off in front of the world and spread your legs to see your raw fanny!

Yes, that makes sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt loose mine til recently.

Not by choice.

I was never going to pay for it.

I was never going to force or rape someone.

If someone wasn't attracted to me enough what am i suppose to do.

Everyone always says its personality comes first but 99% of people will not bother getting to know your personality unless they are attracted to you in the first place.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ok I am watching it now... Is it wrong of me to say I feel quite embrassessed wathing it??..

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