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Is it that hard to find a female to have our first threesome with!!

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Soo many time wasters and fakes, is it that hard for a young couple to find someone to have fun with!!!

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By *ex HolesMan
33 weeks ago

Up North

But you’re a single male profile??

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Yep but we are on Feeld and apps as a couple and it’s bad ????

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Confusing? Why are you saying we when your a single male profile

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
33 weeks ago

The Continental

Start off by advertising from a couples profile?

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

lol here comes the weirdos so because it says single male profile things can’t change and people can’t get in relationships wtf is going on in this world is everyone just tapped?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

It’s hard for old people too. Your youthfulness isn’t what’s making it difficult I reckon.

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester

He said he's a couple thats good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"lol here comes the weirdos so because it says single male profile things can’t change and people can’t get in relationships wtf is going on in this world is everyone just tapped?"

Hey op you may find it easier to get what you want by having a couples profile and pictures of you both.

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Thanks for your genuine comment, fair enough I don’t think it’s about age more of what environments to engage in to fulfill our fantasies x

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"lol here comes the weirdos so because it says single male profile things can’t change and people can’t get in relationships wtf is going on in this world is everyone just tapped?"

Well I can only assume that's for either me or Mr Wick

You've been here long enough to use the site tools

I'm out

Don't need the disrespect so early in the week

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x"

If you don't have a profile on here you'll find it impossible to find another woman from here.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
33 weeks ago

The Continental


"lol here comes the weirdos so because it says single male profile things can’t change and people can’t get in relationships wtf is going on in this world is everyone just tapped?"

And oh dear, people try to help, and you don’t like the advice so immediately go in the attack. Let us know how that works out for you.

Look at it from a single woman’s perspective.

She’s messaged by a couple about meeting…

She’s messaged by a man about meeting a couple…

Which one is she more to trust?

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

I agree tbh haven’t looked on here as my experience has been a bit bad but on the apps that have been highly recommended it’s not been good either, we might look into making one together on here but we are not swingers and it feels very swingerish here x

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I agree tbh haven’t looked on here as my experience has been a bit bad but on the apps that have been highly recommended it’s not been good either, we might look into making one together on here but we are not swingers and it feels very swingerish here x"
trust me its not

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Totally agree wouldn't message a female off this account asking to meet a couple as obviously that doesn’t make no sense at all, this post was just a rant of frustration that we are struggling and to see if people had the same issue

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Totally agree wouldn't message a female off this account asking to meet a couple as obviously that doesn’t make no sense at all, this post was just a rant of frustration that we are struggling and to see if people had the same issue"
If you get a reply as a single guy some would say you're lucky, so to get one and then introduce your partner would make them suspicious because they'd wonder if she knew you were on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Totally agree wouldn't message a female off this account asking to meet a couple as obviously that doesn’t make no sense at all, this post was just a rant of frustration that we are struggling and to see if people had the same issueIf you get a reply as a single guy some would say you're lucky, so to get one and then introduce your partner would make them suspicious because they'd wonder if she knew you were on here? "

Very good point well put ,,,,, good luck though

There woman who meet MF couples my Mrs used to

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

True again I reiterate I have not and will not message of this profile as a couple ??

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Coyote ugly agreez, tried to message you but can't x

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
33 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hey OP

No not found it difficult when we were looking, think that's because we go to social events, clubs and have a couples profile on here.

Perseverance and patience are key.

Good luck in your search

S xxx

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Thanks for your reply, is there any events or socials you would recommend a newbie couple attending? X

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
33 weeks ago

Reading

FFMs are hard to find.

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Thanks for your reply, is there any events or socials you would recommend a newbie couple attending? X"
ask woody he has great success here and he's in your neck of the woods

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
33 weeks ago

Leeds

Personally no, it's not that hard.

Depends what your looking for and how you go about it.

Having a single blokes profile wouldn't help.

Mrs

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
33 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"Thanks for your reply, is there any events or socials you would recommend a newbie couple attending? X"

You've just missed the Leeds social that happened at the weekend which is a shame.

Not sure which others are coming up but the meets section on the forums is full of events and socials.

All clubs are very welcoming to newbies we've found, have a look on the events section of the forums and see if any near you take your fancy

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Thanks will do, tbh been hard for us to luck up the courage to go to a club due to having professional jobs in the city but we might go to one that’s not local to us maybe we will feel more comfortable x

Will check out the other events page now x

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By *essTTWoman
33 weeks ago

Birmingham


"lol here comes the weirdos so because it says single male profile things can’t change and people can’t get in relationships wtf is going on in this world is everyone just tapped?"

Single women don't want to be made to feel like 'play things' when joining a couple

Lots of other couples don't have an issue getting women to join them.....

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
33 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"Thanks will do, tbh been hard for us to luck up the courage to go to a club due to having professional jobs in the city but we might go to one that’s not local to us maybe we will feel more comfortable x

Will check out the other events page now x"

Leeds is great for both socials and clubs, the clubs are Pandoras and Quest.

Pandoras is best on an event night as its huge, they are mainly hosted by Butterfly or Hanky Panky, so look out for their names in the forum.

Quest is a smaller, more intimate club.

Best of luck to you both xx

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford

Thanks, I think Leeds could be a good option as it’s a different county, we have gone to cupids one night when we was d*unk enough to rock up but ended up being too late and never been to a club again.

If you do spot me one day be sure to say hi x

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
33 weeks ago

Wherever

Green arrow is an interesting read.

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By *herry delightWoman
33 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Thanks, I think Leeds could be a good option as it’s a different county, we have gone to cupids one night when we was d*unk enough to rock up but ended up being too late and never been to a club again.

If you do spot me one day be sure to say hi x "

Do not drink before going to a club as that would put of loads of people even approaching you let alone wanting to play.

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...If you do spot me one day be sure to say hi x "

Only if you wear those very same white Cristobal Balenciaga™ trainers in your photo and the black apparel. Otherwise I won't know it's you.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x"

What is Feeld and pure??

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"I agree tbh haven’t looked on here as my experience has been a bit bad but on the apps that have been highly recommended it’s not been good either, we might look into making one together on here but we are not swingers and it feels very swingerish here x"

So you don't want to swing... and came on to a swingers forum to complain how hard it is to find a unicorn on a single male profile to play with a theoretical couple with no pics /profile.. That you don't want to swing with

I don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Thanks will do, tbh been hard for us to luck up the courage to go to a club due to having professional jobs in the city but we might go to one that’s not local to us maybe we will feel more comfortable x

Will check out the other events page now x"

Luckily nobody else on fab has any sort of professional job, so you should be just fine

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x"

I’ve tried both of those places OP and they’re not great at all. Fab is a lot friendlier place.

But first things first to meet as a couple you would need a couples profile. Even then there is normally, speaking from personal experience, lots and lots of variables to get right for the FFM dynamic to work.

You’re looking for a unicorn remember (god I hate that term)…

Perhaps a different approach might work?

Ps. If you press reply+quote everyone will know who you’re replying to

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
33 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Thanks for your genuine comment, fair enough I don’t think it’s about age more of what environments to engage in to fulfill our fantasies x"

If it's about "fulfilling your fantasies" then I suggest you engage the services of a sex worker. Single bi women (not "females" either, bleurgh), don't exist simply to tick off the boxes for you and your partner. Hth.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Thanks for your genuine comment, fair enough I don’t think it’s about age more of what environments to engage in to fulfill our fantasies x

If it's about "fulfilling your fantasies" then I suggest you engage the services of a sex worker. Single bi women (not "females" either, bleurgh), don't exist simply to tick off the boxes for you and your partner. Hth. "

100%

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
33 weeks ago

Leeds


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x

What is Feeld and pure??

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They are other apps, more for poly dating from what I remember.

Mrs

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x

What is Feeld and pure??

"

They are apps similar to tinder but more like fab if that makes sense however just like fab a lot of fake profiles on there too so make sure to get people to verify in the chat with a live picture before you move forward

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x

I’ve tried both of those places OP and they’re not great at all. Fab is a lot friendlier place.

But first things first to meet as a couple you would need a couples profile. Even then there is normally, speaking from personal experience, lots and lots of variables to get right for the FFM dynamic to work.

You’re looking for a unicorn remember (god I hate that term)…

Perhaps a different approach might work?

Ps. If you press reply+quote everyone will know who you’re replying to "

Noted and thank you for telling me how to reply lol iv been doing it all wrong much appreciated x

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By *addyKay OP   Man
33 weeks ago

romford


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x

What is Feeld and pure??

Really which ones haven’t been able to find a decent one yet x

They are other apps, more for poly dating from what I remember.

Mrs "

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
33 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x"

Feeld is a total scam

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Central

It all depends on the people concerned and the preferences fit to other people. Some people use the site tools very well and get to clubs and socials, whilst others are poorer in comparison.

How well do you think you've done in this, with your single profile? It could be similar if you duplicate your approach, subject to men always facing stiffer competition

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Yes and no

Your best bet is clubs and social events

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By *JcuriousCouple
33 weeks ago

Derby


"Thanks for your genuine comment, fair enough I don’t think it’s about age more of what environments to engage in to fulfill our fantasies x"

See that's where you might be going wrong "to fulfill our fantasies" women aren't there just to fulfil a couples fantasy, they too want to be treated like a human-being and aren't just there to fullfill your fantasies.

Miss S x

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By *outhful73Man
33 weeks ago

Glossop

I think from a single profile with no verifications you will find it difficult on here.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
33 weeks ago

Kendal

First off - you need to be on a couples profile. Being on a single male profile will do you absolutely no favours on here unfortunately.

Secondly, it seems the vast majority of couples want another woman for a FFM, so those women out there who are up for it are spoilt for choice.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
33 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I think most points have already been covered. But yeah.

As a bi woman, I'm here to have a good time with people that interest me, excite me, and appreciate that I am an entire person with my own wants and desires rather than a disposable sextoy for fantasy fulfilment. If that's all you want, hire a professional.

Any contact from a single male profile on here asking to meet a woman for a threesome with their missus is a pretty much instant rejection.

If you're not into swinging, what on earth are you looking for with this woman?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
33 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Yep I agree which we do but we don’t have profile on here because it’s quite bad but tbh Feeld and pure has been just as bad regret even putting pics of us on there x"

Feeld is dire I found, it swiftly got deleted. Maybe set up a couples profile on here?

Have you thought about visiting a club or planned social, probs be your best option.

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