FabSwingers.com forum: Preferences

By *lue Eyed Joker OP Man
33 weeks ago

Always on the move

So, I'll probably get crucified for this, but hey ho. It's a Monday type of Monday. And I'm feeling like a menace.

If you have a list of "preferences" on your profile that begin with "MUST HAVE, MUST BE, MUST DO"...those are mandatory requirements. Not a preference. Preference indicates that you may deviate from a physical trait occasionally. MUST indicates its non-negationable.

It makes it sound like a job application! And a rather passive aggressive one. Drop the "preference" part and just be blunt.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

U ok hun?

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By *TG3Man
33 weeks ago

Dorchester

Preferences for some are non negotiable i have non negotiables on mine

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By *lue Eyed Joker OP Man
33 weeks ago

Always on the move

"U ok hun?

Bit bored to be honest. Looking to rattle a cage or 2 haha

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"U ok hun?

Bit bored to be honest. Looking to rattle a cage or 2 haha"

Let them cages be…

I’m sure they will just add it to their “preference”(sic) list anyway

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
33 weeks ago

chichester

Just have a wank op instead. Much easier

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By *ansoffateMan
33 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Is accurate language usage essential or preferred for you?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
33 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Is accurate language usage essential or preferred for you?"

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
33 weeks ago

Wherever

Or you could just ignore said profile.

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By *onkeynutWoman
33 weeks ago

somewhere

If it irritates you just move on.

Everyone has their preferences, wants and non negotiables.

Most don’t even read profiles and if they do they ignore what’s written in them and message anyway and then wonder why they don’t get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"Is accurate language usage essential or preferred for you?"

It’s non-negationable.

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By *ex HolesMan
33 weeks ago

Up North

I don’t read profiles anyway

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By *inger_SnapWoman
33 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm very blunt. And men still take no notice

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By *ex HolesMan
33 weeks ago

Up North

"I'm very blunt. And men still take no notice

Did you just say something? I was too busy looking at your tits

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's a moot point if people aren't reading profiles which, going by the consensus of most people's experiences on here, those preferences are often ignored.

People run their profiles how they see fit. And quite rightly so.

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By *lue Eyed Joker OP Man
33 weeks ago

Always on the move

"Is accurate language usage essential or preferred for you?"

Essential..always

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Bad day?

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By *ansoffateMan
33 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Is accurate language usage essential or preferred for you?

Essential..always"

Maybe put it on your profile so people are aware of the importance to you?

Then you can moan that no one reads your profile.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
33 weeks ago

Reading

I have 2 non negotiables of which I'm really clear on my profile. They are both practicalities not me being picky. They are still ignored.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
33 weeks ago

Leeds

My preference is no men, that's not negotiated although they seem to think it is.

People can have whatever preferences they want, demand whatever they want, if you don't like it or fall outside those preferences that profile isn't for you.

Mrs

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By *essTTWoman
33 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'll never understand why people get so angry about other people's preferences

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By *nnCeeWoman
33 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"I'll never understand why people get so angry about other people's preferences "

Normally because it rules them out.

-shrug-

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By *rispyDuckMan
33 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

You like what you like & it’s alright

Other people don’t have to like what you like & you don’t have to like what they like lol.

Find people that like what you like & see if they would like your hand in their cookie jar hahaha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Central

Leave people to help you filter them in or out, as easily as possible. We can get pedantic about what and how they're expressing their tastes but just moving on is easy and better

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"I have 2 non negotiables of which I'm really clear on my profile. They are both practicalities not me being picky. They are still ignored."

Great Shout on 'City of Angels ' movie. Might have to watch this soon

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

"So, I'll probably get crucified for this, but hey ho. It's a Monday type of Monday. And I'm feeling like a menace.

It makes it sound like a job application! And a rather passive aggressive one. Drop the "preference" part and just be blunt. "

Mr Unexceptional, if you happen to make exceptional observations like this one, I'd rather you drop the passive aggressive username and just be blunt.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
33 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Preferences are good, even if expressed as a requirement.

Just means you know whom to avoid when you do not meet or do not like the preference stated.

Its helpful

MrsAbz

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
33 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yawn. It’s also your preference (or should I say, ‘non negotiable’) not to engage with these demanding or ‘passive aggressive’ profiles OP…

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By *nnCeeWoman
33 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"I have 2 non negotiables of which I'm really clear on my profile. They are both practicalities not me being picky. They are still ignored.

Great Shout on 'City of Angels ' movie. Might have to watch this soon"

City of Angels is one of my favourites. The soundtrack is absolutely mint

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