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By *anillaboy OP   Man
40 weeks ago

london

Some profiles are so beautiful that I am afraid to message them ( don't ask me why).

Does anyone of you feels the same?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
40 weeks ago

Norwich

Am I only dreaming, or is this burning an eternal flame?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Some profiles are so beautiful that I am afraid to message them ( don't ask me why).

Does anyone of you feels the same? "

Yes, of course! Most of us are a little self conscious when it comes to absolute perfection.

But I say do it, OP. Send the message! You never know.....

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By *anillaboy OP   Man
40 weeks ago

london


"Some profiles are so beautiful that I am afraid to message them ( don't ask me why).

Does anyone of you feels the same?

Yes, of course! Most of us are a little self conscious when it comes to absolute perfection.

But I say do it, OP. Send the message! You never know..... "

Thank you, that means a lot

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By *ags73Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Some profiles are so beautiful that I am afraid to message them ( don't ask me why).

Does anyone of you feels the same?

Yes, of course! Most of us are a little self conscious when it comes to absolute perfection.

But I say do it, OP. Send the message! You never know.....

Thank you, that means a lot"

Its easy to look and put others on a pedestal, but they’re maybe not wanting you to think that way

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By *ee69Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

Just go for it , worst that happens is nothing , same as no saying hi

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I once received a message from a person who looked like a model. Their pictures were magazine worthy!

For over a year I continually declined their offers to meet up. They would keep in touch and kindly suggest it again every few months. Finally, one day I said okay let’s have a coffee together.

What ensued was hours of intriguing, engaging company with a fun person. I literally licked myself for wasting time meeting them.

All to is to say, you never know. Give it a go.

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By *anillaboy OP   Man
40 weeks ago

london


"I once received a message from a person who looked like a model. Their pictures were magazine worthy!

For over a year I continually declined their offers to meet up. They would keep in touch and kindly suggest it again every few months. Finally, one day I said okay let’s have a coffee together.

What ensued was hours of intriguing, engaging company with a fun person. I literally licked myself for wasting time meeting them.

All to is to say, you never know. Give it a go. "

Big hugs

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wirral.


"I once received a message from a person who looked like a model. Their pictures were magazine worthy!

For over a year I continually declined their offers to meet up. They would keep in touch and kindly suggest it again every few months. Finally, one day I said okay let’s have a coffee together.

What ensued was hours of intriguing, engaging company with a fun person. I literally licked myself for wasting time meeting them.

All to is to say, you never know. Give it a go. "

Same here. And he actually WAS a model. We met for a good 6 months prior to lockdown. He is still one of the nicest guys I've ever met from here. He genuinely had no idea the effect he had on women! X

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"I once received a message from a person who looked like a model. Their pictures were magazine worthy!

For over a year I continually declined their offers to meet up. They would keep in touch and kindly suggest it again every few months. Finally, one day I said okay let’s have a coffee together.

What ensued was hours of intriguing, engaging company with a fun person. I literally licked myself for wasting time meeting them.

All to is to say, you never know. Give it a go.

Same here. And he actually WAS a model. We met for a good 6 months prior to lockdown. He is still one of the nicest guys I've ever met from here. He genuinely had no idea the effect he had on women! X

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Same guy?

He’s a model but outside of his looks he’s kind, fun, nice, and intelligent.

A true surprise.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wirral.


"I once received a message from a person who looked like a model. Their pictures were magazine worthy!

For over a year I continually declined their offers to meet up. They would keep in touch and kindly suggest it again every few months. Finally, one day I said okay let’s have a coffee together.

What ensued was hours of intriguing, engaging company with a fun person. I literally licked myself for wasting time meeting them.

All to is to say, you never know. Give it a go.

Same here. And he actually WAS a model. We met for a good 6 months prior to lockdown. He is still one of the nicest guys I've ever met from here. He genuinely had no idea the effect he had on women! X

Same guy?

He’s a model but outside of his looks he’s kind, fun, nice, and intelligent.

A true surprise. "

No, sorry! I didnt mean it was the same guy, just the same situation

I couldn't believe this beautiful guy was interested in me. I was the same age as his mum!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wirral.

By the way, Bella, I've just looked at your photos. You are bloody gorgeous with a killer bod - he probably couldn't believe his luck

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By *ucka39Man
40 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope not me if I see something I like I may or may not but have a good reason like the mad rush

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Nope I don’t at all I shoot my shot

I mean I can see how it can be intimidating

As i literally have assets that people are paying thousands for

Speaking about my bum

Woman and tv/ts are playing thousands appon thousands for a BBL

And I just got mine naturally so I can see how that could intmadate some from messing me

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Yes often. I find the forums helpful for that

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By *ustfulbigboyMan
40 weeks ago

North Wales

Most definitely I do, makes it worse knowing that if you pluck up the courage to message it will probably get lost within the loads of messages they receive too.

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By *anillaboy OP   Man
40 weeks ago

london


"By the way, Bella, I've just looked at your photos. You are bloody gorgeous with a killer bod - he probably couldn't believe his luck "

You see, the same thing I want it to tell her and you also but I couldn't. I thing that being a foreigner I'm afraid to say something that in my language is very nice but in English sounds stupid. I don't know what to say

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By *anillaboy OP   Man
40 weeks ago

london


"Yes often. I find the forums helpful for that "

Agree with you.

Btw- you look gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I guess confidence comes into this.

I'm a confident guy in real life, but making the 1st move on here, with the very little experience I have and no person verification yet.

Seems intimidating.

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By *anillaboy OP   Man
40 weeks ago

london


"I guess confidence comes into this.

I'm a confident guy in real life, but making the 1st move on here, with the very little experience I have and no person verification yet.

Seems intimidating. "

I feel you. I have verifications but is hard for me to make the first step.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

If you fit her profile messafe her.

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By *ISTER.STRETCHMan
40 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Thumbs up to this one , woman love a confidence but boys just get too ahead of yourself and send weird messages specially first time then you just seem weird

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Stockport

Generally I can recognise when I'm not going to be wanted, and the most I do is drop hints that I find them attractive by fabbing their photos. Occasionally some kind of conversation can develop coming out of forum postings.

Out and out rejection hurts when it's happened too many times, eventually you have to try and protect yourself from disappointment.

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By *TG3Man
40 weeks ago

Dorchester

No i don't but you have to be practical its just the mirror image of life here the beautiful don't necessarily have the package you want as in life a beautiful girl may not have a personality because she hasn't had to try (not all), so my opinion would be if you don't ask you don't get but the same as life the more beautiful the profile the more popular it will be so your chances of getting a reply are even less than normal and replies aren't always a thing.

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