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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

Need advice from the women!

When I go down and make a girl cum, I tend to find a girl can like a firm fingering afterwards BUT, can girls get a complex about squirting too much. I love it, but sometime the girl will want me to stop or slow down, which of course I always do, but I can't help think they're not letting themselves go so to speak.

I'm assuming its personal choice and I've just not found enough subs haha

Discuss...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
40 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd say it's the woman's personal choice

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By *rivextrMan
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

Of course it’s that woman’s choice!! You just stop when she wants you to

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
40 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Sub or not still the womans choice

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Why don't you ask the person why they want you to stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I would say it’s the woman’s choices and never force or try to persuade her in to it

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Usually when someone is telling you to stop, it’s because they want you to stop.

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By *ags73Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I'd say it's the woman's personal choice"

Yep and if they say stop/slow down then you do. Answer in the OPs question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

It was a very poorly worded question to be fair... of course its choice, I guess the point was more around do women find it hard/embarassing to let themselves go sometimes, but again, everyones different so its still a stupid question!! Haha

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
40 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

No, I'd say a good majority of women know what they want. Being finger bashed and squirting isn't every women's idea of a good time

Tinder

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

Some do some dont

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"It was a very poorly worded question to be fair... of course its choice, I guess the point was more around do women find it hard/embarassing to let themselves go sometimes, but again, everyones different so its still a stupid question!! Haha "

Not if I feel comfortable with someone. Women, just like men, can be quite sensitive after an orgasm. If you’re fingerblasting them to within an inch of their life trying to make them squirt, it’s pretty uncomfortable.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wirral.

Hi OP, I can't speak for every woman. But when I've cum, I can't bear to be touched down there for a while as its so sensitive.

Also - and I'm not having a go here- if a woman doesn't want you fingerblasting her til her bladder leaks, it doesn't mean she isn't letting herself go.

You may well get a myriad of answers on here, but the only opinion that matters is that of the woman involved. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"If you’re fingerblasting them to within an inch of their life trying to make them squirt, it’s pretty uncomfortable. "

This made me laugh... fingerblasting, an old time classic saying!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"Hi OP, I can't speak for every woman. But when I've cum, I can't bear to be touched down there for a while as its so sensitive.

Also - and I'm not having a go here- if a woman doesn't want you fingerblasting her til her bladder leaks, it doesn't mean she isn't letting herself go.

You may well get a myriad of answers on here, but the only opinion that matters is that of the woman involved. x"

The best reply The reason I'm not much of a poster is that I find words/meaning can be lost. But your points are very valid

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
40 weeks ago

Glasgow

1 when she says stop stop!

2 many women are very sensitive after orgasm and need handled with care

3 not every woman can, or wants to squirt!

4 learn more about dom/sub - it’s actually the sun that’s in charge! They set the boundaries and the dom/Domme should stick to them

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Hi OP, I can't speak for every woman. But when I've cum, I can't bear to be touched down there for a while as its so sensitive.

Also - and I'm not having a go here- if a woman doesn't want you fingerblasting her til her bladder leaks, it doesn't mean she isn't letting herself go.

You may well get a myriad of answers on here, but the only opinion that matters is that of the woman involved. x

The best reply The reason I'm not much of a poster is that I find words/meaning can be lost. But your points are very valid "

Don't let that put you off, OP. There's always *some* that will pick holes or attribute their own meaning to your words. Most of us are pretty decent & like to help if we can.

And for the record, I thought your opening post was well worded and thought out x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Always ladies choice, id imagine that things can become a little sensitive down there, depends how comfortable they are too.

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