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"I remember when the forums were alot busier they seem a bit dead now" I prefer them when they're quiet, OP. ![]() | |||
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"Here's an idea; Start a thread with one or two words, like: I wonder if... or Did you ever... And then in the thread itself post the most banal shite you can imagine. That will get people going. It's seems to work well." Only during the day! Only the grown ups are awake now ![]() | |||
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"Here's an idea; Start a thread with one or two words, like: I wonder if... or Did you ever... And then in the thread itself post the most banal shite you can imagine. That will get people going. It's seems to work well. Only during the day! Only the grown ups are awake now ![]() Riiiight. I'm still quite new here. I'll learn | |||
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"Here's an idea; Start a thread with one or two words, like: I wonder if... or Did you ever... And then in the thread itself post the most banal shite you can imagine. That will get people going. It's seems to work well. Only during the day! Only the grown ups are awake now ![]() Don't listen to me, I talk shite ![]() | |||
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"Here's an idea; Start a thread with one or two words, like: I wonder if... or Did you ever... And then in the thread itself post the most banal shite you can imagine. That will get people going. It's seems to work well. Only during the day! Only the grown ups are awake now ![]() And those stupid enough to have weird working hours. ![]() | |||
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"Still far busier than the Australian forum." Everywhere is busier than the Ozzy forum , especially if you're in Perth , lol | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. " It's called having an opinion, something people aren't seem to be allowed to have . So people are afraid to comment on stuff now for fear of being accused of one thing or another. | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. It's called having an opinion, something people aren't seem to be allowed to have . So people are afraid to comment on stuff now for fear of being accused of one thing or another." Everyone has an opinion, you just need the confidence to state it and the ability to learn when someone else has a different and potentially more intelligent view on it ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. It's called having an opinion, something people aren't seem to be allowed to have . So people are afraid to comment on stuff now for fear of being accused of one thing or another. Everyone has an opinion, you just need the confidence to state it and the ability to learn when someone else has a different and potentially more intelligent view on it ![]() Wait, what? There is intelligent life here? When did that happen? | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. It's called having an opinion, something people aren't seem to be allowed to have . So people are afraid to comment on stuff now for fear of being accused of one thing or another." Everyone has a right to an opinion on the subject matter that op started but what I am talking about is the people deliberately making fun of the subject matter for example someone posted a thread on HAH and instead of saying they opinion on the subject there are people making fun of the subject. This is not an isolated case SPH threads get the same and so on. | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. " I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me. | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me." well I'd shame you for that ridiculous exageration ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me.well I'd shame you for that ridiculous exageration ![]() Which bit? There are so many to choose from Fred ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me.well I'd shame you for that ridiculous exageration ![]() ![]() exactly my point ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me.well I'd shame you for that ridiculous exageration ![]() ![]() ![]() You're making Norman sulk... | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me.well I'd shame you for that ridiculous exageration ![]() ![]() ![]() wisdom or lamont? ![]() | |||
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"I remember when the forums were alot busier they seem a bit dead now" Couldn't be arsed to run the numbers, but a cursory glance over the volume of threads just in the Lounge shows them quieter than the peak of lockdown, when let's face it many had sod all else to do bar spend time in here, but on average no different to any other time since 2009. Sometimes it just 'seems' quieter. ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me.well I'd shame you for that ridiculous exageration ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And you wonder why people don't like posting on a thered. | |||
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"There's an awful lot of the exact same posts happening day in day out - especially "help with profile" types who have already posted before. Also there seems to be a lot of subjects started with the clear aim of picture collecting/fishing types. Seems to be so much BS as well sometimes it's hard to actually treat a topic seriously." I try very hard to post thought provoking and interesting threads. Such as and not limited to: Pants what do you prefer. | |||
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"If you think the forums are dead start threads, chat with people. They are as dead or busy as we allow them to be. " ^^ This ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. " Inevitable that they become repetitive I think. | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. Inevitable that they become repetitive I think." I guess there's only so many topics which can be debated. A bit like fashion, eventually everything becomes a little cyclical? | |||
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"One of the problems with the forums is newbies and less established forummers get mostly ignored regardless of post content. If one of the established forummers would have posted the same message I think they get more traction. This can lead to a less than positive experience for some users. " That's true. I think it can be really difficult to reply to posts if you're an OP - personally I try and work down the thread but I'll end up busy or dickstracted and don't finish. I think it's a shame that more people aren't acknowledged, sure I might not always know their sense of humour but it doesn't take much to not just reply to those who I'm good friends with. I do wish that instead of people complaining (this isn't directed at the person whose post I'm replying to!), they try and be the change they want to see. Start threads. Be more proactive. Interact with more people. | |||
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"Sorry OP, we're all busy having sex" Omg ![]() | |||
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" ![]() Oh no, now you're going to get people complaining you evil one trick pony you. | |||
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" ![]() Maybe, if I’m really good, I’ll post so much that nobody else wants to post. ![]() | |||
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"I remember when the forums were alot busier they seem a bit dead now" Wokeism mate | |||
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"I remember when the forums were alot busier they seem a bit dead now Wokeism mate " RIP Wokingham Glory | |||
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"It's a vicious circle. People complain about the forums being dead and are encouraged to be proactive and post more threads themselves. Some do and get a little traction but many are put off by overly productive fabbers who fill the forums with multiple threads every day and it becomes a love-in. I'm not shy about offering opinions and over the years I've started hundreds of threads but can't be arsed anymore because 90 percent of those threads have struggled to get more than 30 replies while more crowdpleasing forumites are lauded for being one trick ponies. It is what it is and will never change but it's never surprising when people mention the clique word or roll their eyes at continuous flirting on what should be pretty serious topics. " The hijacking of a thread by the clique is a very common thing that happens, especially if they don't like the subject matter. | |||
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"It's a vicious circle. People complain about the forums being dead and are encouraged to be proactive and post more threads themselves. Some do and get a little traction but many are put off by overly productive fabbers who fill the forums with multiple threads every day and it becomes a love-in. I'm not shy about offering opinions and over the years I've started hundreds of threads but can't be arsed anymore because 90 percent of those threads have struggled to get more than 30 replies while more crowdpleasing forumites are lauded for being one trick ponies. It is what it is and will never change but it's never surprising when people mention the clique word or roll their eyes at continuous flirting on what should be pretty serious topics. The hijacking of a thread by the clique is a very common thing that happens, especially if they don't like the subject matter. " The inability of some of the 'clique' to discuss subjects that they vehemently disagree with too. The block button is their weapon of choice. I find it laughable that some adults who consider themselves "liberated" cannot calmly discuss a subject, or at least agree to disagree. | |||
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"It was miss scarlet seduction… In the lounge… With the candlestick." Cluedo is my favourite board game. I wish there was a way to do a cluedo thread. I’m sure there is but I don’t have the organisational skills to do it | |||
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"It was miss scarlet seduction… In the lounge… With the candlestick. Cluedo is my favourite board game. I wish there was a way to do a cluedo thread. I’m sure there is but I don’t have the organisational skills to do it" Have a bit of faith in yourself Hants. You could do it. And if not, console yourself with the knowledge that you’ll always put lead in my pipe. | |||
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"It was miss scarlet seduction… In the lounge… With the candlestick. Cluedo is my favourite board game. I wish there was a way to do a cluedo thread. I’m sure there is but I don’t have the organisational skills to do it Have a bit of faith in yourself Hants. You could do it. And if not, console yourself with the knowledge that you’ll always put lead in my pipe." I’m glad to put the lead in your pipe. For what it’s worth, I would do you in the lounge with an unknown object. There was a similar one years ago. Murder mystery on a train. I got killed off first and I’m still bitter | |||
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"It was miss scarlet seduction… In the lounge… With the candlestick. Cluedo is my favourite board game. I wish there was a way to do a cluedo thread. I’m sure there is but I don’t have the organisational skills to do it Have a bit of faith in yourself Hants. You could do it. And if not, console yourself with the knowledge that you’ll always put lead in my pipe. I’m glad to put the lead in your pipe. For what it’s worth, I would do you in the lounge with an unknown object. There was a similar one years ago. Murder mystery on a train. I got killed off first and I’m still bitter " I remember that thread and I do remember you being pissy about being killed off. Can’t believe you’re still bitter! Maybe this time you’ll play a lager part. | |||
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"It's a vicious circle. People complain about the forums being dead and are encouraged to be proactive and post more threads themselves. Some do and get a little traction but many are put off by overly productive fabbers who fill the forums with multiple threads every day and it becomes a love-in. I'm not shy about offering opinions and over the years I've started hundreds of threads but can't be arsed anymore because 90 percent of those threads have struggled to get more than 30 replies while more crowdpleasing forumites are lauded for being one trick ponies. It is what it is and will never change but it's never surprising when people mention the clique word or roll their eyes at continuous flirting on what should be pretty serious topics. The hijacking of a thread by the clique is a very common thing that happens, especially if they don't like the subject matter. The inability of some of the 'clique' to discuss subjects that they vehemently disagree with too. The block button is their weapon of choice. I find it laughable that some adults who consider themselves "liberated" cannot calmly discuss a subject, or at least agree to disagree." ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. I had a dream last night in which I had 79 penises (varying sizes) on tentacles and one massive, central ballsac called Norman. I was on holiday on Ben-y-dohrm, just left of Uranus, and fucked 137 female-y creatures in 3 hours 42 minutes. It was very messy. But I'd never share that story here, because people would shame me." Now that made me laugh xx | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. It's called having an opinion, something people aren't seem to be allowed to have . So people are afraid to comment on stuff now for fear of being accused of one thing or another." Now aint that the truth sister ! | |||
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"They mostly come at night...mostly." Who do Nanna ? I'm not a night bod. Who comes at night ? | |||
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"They mostly come at night...mostly. Who do Nanna ? I'm not a night bod. Who comes at night ?" Take it you're not a sci-fi fan, Gran. | |||
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"They mostly come at night...mostly. Who do Nanna ? I'm not a night bod. Who comes at night ? Take it you're not a sci-fi fan, Gran. " E.T. and Close Encounters, The one with Tom Cruise in ....... uhmmmm Star Trek .....Space 1999 ...... n that's about it ... Alien .... errrrrrm Quatermass..... errrrrrrr Not especially ..... | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. It's called having an opinion, something people aren't seem to be allowed to have . So people are afraid to comment on stuff now for fear of being accused of one thing or another. Now aint that the truth sister !" There is a difference from having an opinion on the subject of the thread then purposely makeing fun of the subject and going on to highjacked. | |||
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"I remember when the forums were alot busier they seem a bit dead now" Just amuse yourself by ‘baiting’ the usual forumites, it’s quite easy to liven threads up when you want to…… ![]() | |||
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"Probably because the subject matters have become very boring. Also when people do post a thread there is a lot of kink shaming. It's called having an opinion, something people aren't seem to be allowed to have . So people are afraid to comment on stuff now for fear of being accused of one thing or another. Now aint that the truth sister ! There is a difference from having an opinion on the subject of the thread then purposely makeing fun of the subject and going on to highjacked. " Opinions are like arseholes we all have them ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Mama. Just killed a thread. My comment was a joke. Half the people had a stroke. The mr" What comment made the guys have a wank? ![]() | |||
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"Mama. Just killed a thread. My comment was a joke. Half the people had a stroke. The mr What comment made the guys have a wank? ![]() Wondered how it would take. ![]() | |||
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"Mama. Just killed a thread. My comment was a joke. Half the people had a stroke. The mr What comment made the guys have a wank? ![]() ![]() What sauce did you go for Mr | |||
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"Mama. Just killed a thread. My comment was a joke. Half the people had a stroke. The mr What comment made the guys have a wank? ![]() ![]() Peri peri of course, I like my sausage spicy. The mr | |||
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"They did when wonko returned " To be fair not many people noticed so they really didn’t . The forums are imho generally the same week in week out. T | |||
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