FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *J Statham OP Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester

Why do so many people write them like erotic novels?

Why are they dramatised so much?

How would you feel if someone left you a verification that was fairly bland but to the point

E.g

"I met [Person] and they are real"

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
40 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"Why do so many people write them like erotic novels?

Why are they dramatised so much?

How would you feel if someone left you a verification that was fairly bland but to the point

E.g

"I met [Person] and they are real""

My "longest" one is a Bitch

says a lot.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Why do so many people write them like erotic novels?

Why are they dramatised so much?

How would you feel if someone left you a verification that was fairly bland but to the point

E.g

"I met [Person] and they are real""

Those are the kind of verifications I like. The person who left me a verification left a very pleasant one. She's a real sweetie.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I saw one once that was just

HE SHOWED UP

I liked that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

We prefer that type. A basic 'these people look like their photos and turned up' will do for us.

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

Very very crap, cheap erotic stories. I don't know why OP. It makes them happy, doesn't affect me really.

One of my favourites says Meli is a woman - says everything anyone needs to ever know.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Central

I view them as tools to help to filter people who are more likely to be reliable. I want to know if they are realistic and meet reliably.

I'm happy to get the same confirmed about me

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
40 weeks ago

Narberth

That's all I need to be honest.

The filthier the veris the more stupid messages I get.

Loads of my veris in the past and the present are actually compliments to my personality, which I love because I look for compatibility at that level.

I usually verify without making any comments about the sexual encounter at all. "He is nice, genuine, clean, good chat too" kind of thing.

More than enough lol

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
40 weeks ago

Narberth

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
40 weeks ago

Narberth

"I view them as tools to help to filter people who are more likely to be reliable. I want to know if they are realistic and meet reliably.

I'm happy to get the same confirmed about me"

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

….

Can we check your verifications op?

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By *etal and KinkMan
40 weeks ago

Malice

I've thought about this.

'she really knows how to suck a dick, I came all over her tits and we both left satisfied. Looking forward to round two'

I thought Sid James died years ago.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
40 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They are an opportunity to have a bit of fun for us.

Some people take themselves so seriously here, why is it a problem that some enjoy writing down their erotic experiences?

I really don’t understand why people feel the need to ridicule others for their actions in what’s supposed to be a very accepting environment.

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Why do so many people write them like erotic novels? Why are they dramatised so much?"

If people have had an enjoyable meet or a social then it's often lovely to see verifications that are pleasing to read, and which give me an indication of how interesting, sexy and convivial they are. If their experience was hedonistic then an 'erotic novella' would be quite apt.

Don't forget — this is Fab; drama is everywhere. Dramatised verifications are often prone to hyperbole. I still find them enjoyable in my own perverse way.

"How would you feel if someone left you a verification that was fairly bland but to the point?"

I tell all my meets that, if they wish to leave a verification, then they need to send a draft for me to proof read, in case they've unwittingly written something I'm not comfortable with (e.g. stated my real name etc). A bland verification would be unlikely because I rarely meet bland people.

I leave quirky and unconventional verifications for people, but they are accurate and realistic nevertheless.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
40 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I thought Sid James died years ago."

Nope. I’m alive and well

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By *ACOLCouple
40 weeks ago

limerick

"Why do so many people write them like erotic novels? Why are they dramatised so much?

Don't forget — this is Fab; drama is everywhere. Dramatised verifications are often prone to hyperbole. I still find them enjoyable in my own perverse way.

How would you feel if someone left you a verification that was fairly bland but to the point?

I leave quirky and unconventional verifications for people, but they are accurate and realistic nevertheless."

Your verifications are actually charming. You should do a thread on the forum based on people's profile and what would you leave as a verification.

Lina.

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Mayfair

I thought Sid James died years ago.

Nope. I’m alive and well

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By *ot to giggleWoman
40 weeks ago

Coventry

umm i like the ones that link to the character of the person - i dont share my private ones, just the social ones. they a bit of fun i think

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

For me that's a little brief. I would want something about your impression of me.

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By *J Statham OP Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester

"….

Can we check your verifications op? "

Sure

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Mayfair

"….

Can we check your verifications op?

Sure"

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Admirable, OP. However Woody wants to see the ones of you being a champion lover and not the ones of you spinning the decks and giving people a symphonic mind-melding hippy trip.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"….

Can we check your verifications op?

Sure"

So why don’t your DJ ones say you turned up and charge £20 an hour?

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By *ornycougaWoman
40 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

My best is "she's a fucking nightmare". He's not wrong

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By *espacito56Man
40 weeks ago

Orkney

"Why do so many people write them like erotic novels?

Why are they dramatised so much?

How would you feel if someone left you a verification that was fairly bland but to the point

E.g

"I met [Person] and they are real""

That would do for me

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Mayfair

"My best is "she's a fucking Knight Mare †". He's not wrong

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Fixed...^

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By *urry BlokeMan
40 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I tend to leave them pretty bland

A veri, to me, is proof that someone is real, I met them and lived to tell the tale

Everything else is both incidental and private

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By *rowneyedgirl.Woman
40 weeks ago

Durham

I have been verified by 1 person 4 times .. they keep deleting their account and then joining back up. It's been about a year since we last met up. But according to my verifications it was Friday!

We should be allowed to accept the verification!

This is why most of mine are hidden!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I leave quirky and unconventional verifications for people, but they are accurate and realistic nevertheless."

We don’t have any verifications yet but I think I’d like one that is quirky and unconventional

When reading them on other people’s profiles, I like to see that they are real, polite and have a nice personality. Everything else is down to personal taste but it’s interesting to see how different people approach writing them.

Mrs Classy

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By *eroLondonMan
40 weeks ago

Mayfair

I leave quirky and unconventional verifications for people, but they are accurate and realistic nevertheless.

We don’t have any verifications yet but I think I’d like one that is quirky and unconventional

Mrs Classy "

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Get yourself down to ye olde London Towne and I'll bestow upon thee a classy one.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I leave quirky and unconventional verifications for people, but they are accurate and realistic nevertheless.

We don’t have any verifications yet but I think I’d like one that is quirky and unconventional

Mrs Classy

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Get yourself down to ye olde London Towne and I'll bestow upon thee a classy one."

If we’re ever down your way, we’ll be sure to let you know

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I read all the veris of anyone I might meet, the more detail the better.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
40 weeks ago

Essex

It’s part of the experience

How someone writes & what they say, build up a picture. It rounds out characters.

I don’t publish the more sexually explicit ones.. because the crazy fuckers come knocking. But I love my veris. They say I’m honest, what I portray & that I meet likeminded souls.

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By *rightonsteveMan
40 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh, I have some dreadful ones and they’re yonks old and I don’t care a jot really. (He said desperately)

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By *inger_SnapWoman
40 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I did have one that said "she's legit" or similar.... Like dude... Please. And he was supposed to be a writer!

Most of the others have always been pretty pleasant, and not graphic.

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By *J Statham OP Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester

"….

Can we check your verifications op?

Sure

So why don’t your DJ ones say you turned up and charge £20 an hour?

Because that would be false and I wouldn't want anyone to paint a wrong picture or me.

It would be £20.99 - I'm a high end top of the range kind of entertainer

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester

"Why do so many people write them like erotic novels?

Why are they dramatised so much?

How would you feel if someone left you a verification that was fairly bland but to the point

E.g

"I met [Person] and they are real""

I don’t care as I don’t read my veris or others. They all get hidden regardless. It’s only the number count that matters for me

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By *ee69Man
40 weeks ago

glasgow

Keep it simple I say lol

Short too

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By *bi HaiveMan
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40 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Veris are what veris are.

I've always felt it says as much about the person writing it as it does the receiver.

Some want acknowledgement that their sexual prowess surpasses all others, or that their dick spurts champagne, or that they're hotter than the sun or that (obvs) you should treat them with respect, not pass them by, keep your hands off because they're all someone else's or that (after the 13th consecutive veri) every time just gets better and better.

Trying to work out why some people leave the veris they do is like trying to herd cats.

Make your own evaluation based on what you read. You'll either like what you see, won't, or will be largely indifferent.

They are, at rhe end of the day, just one person's view of another.

Not yours.

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By *mily36CWoman
40 weeks ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I tend to leave them pretty bland

A veri, to me, is proof that someone is real, I met them and lived to tell the tale... "

Living to tell the tale is quite crucial

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
40 weeks ago

wonderland.

I once had one on my singles profile left by a mate that said " Better than a wank" my reply back was" amazing 20 seconds, thanks" lol

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
40 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I think there’s a risk of damming with feint praise. A veri reading, “this is a man, we met him” would put me off as I’d find it telling that the verifier couldn’t find something nice to say about them.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
40 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I think there’s a risk of damming with feint praise. A veri reading, “this is a man, we met him” would put me off as I’d find it telling that the verifier couldn’t find something nice to say about them. "

Faint* praise

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
40 weeks ago

Always on the move

Im yet to see "met for shag, was a bit shit"

Or "meh, 5/10"

They're always so positive!

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
40 weeks ago

Ryde

We have had a few shockers turn up (stealthing, getting rough, etc) and both closed down their profiles soon after, so we didn't have the chance to leave honest feedback. Not that they would have willingly posted it, of course.

Good experiences should be praised, and always with a dose of humour. A VWE regular of ours prompted us to put the following:

"Met up with this lovely guy again for some adult fun! What he can do with his 9" weapon stretches more than just the imagination!! He's everything we want in a play-partner: honest, discrete, clean, respectful and hung like a Fleischwurst sausage!!"

Not exactly porno prose, but strikes a reasonable balance.

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