FabSwingers.com forum: Question for men

By *aTina HeadTurner OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Travelling

Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
35 weeks ago

The Continental

Because I’m not the kiss n tell sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Not a man, but I’ve met more people than I have verified.

I feel a verification or two is enough to show I’m real. Otherwise they don’t serve any real purpose.

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By *aTina HeadTurner OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Travelling

"Because I’m not the kiss n tell sort. "

Fair enough

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By *enStarrMan
35 weeks ago

Lancaster

I only verify those who verify me back.

Because it's polite mostly.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
35 weeks ago

bradford

"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

its been known on here that some wont meet you because you have been with them.

as that happens for both the males and the females.

a verfy that you have met and your real would be better though

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

Let's be blunt us men need the verification more than you wonderful ladies. If you have left him one he should return the favour if not then he may feel he wants to keep it private.

I don't think we need to be keeping score on who has been upto what and who just a verification that yes the photos are reflective of them and they are pleasant company in every sense

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

If we've already verified each other previously then we wouldn't do it again.

If we've mutually agreed not to verify each other then we don't.

If I've slept with someone who is on the forums, or a known entity within Fab or a 'cause célèbre' etc then I wouldn't verify them because she wouldn't need the drama and I wouldn't want the nasty messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Maybe we're both unverified and therefore can't verify each other

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

I've also met more people than I gave verifications for

I only verify people now if they ask. I once verified someone who I'd met, who was unverified, thinking I was doing them a favour. They went ape shit! Saying I was leaving a "digital trail" for people to stalk them

So no more unasked for veris lol

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
35 weeks ago

Wherever

Happens to me all the time but I know I’m a shit shag so fair play to them.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
35 weeks ago

Herts

"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

Because she stole my last Rolo

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By *ucka39Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

Because they didn't want one and if I've met them before I wouldn't want another or because it's just something that we share amongst us

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By *otguy555Man
35 weeks ago

Bristol

"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

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I have met a few people and have always verified them and for some reason they have not verified me back yet have never had any complaints from anyone I have met

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By *otguy555Man
35 weeks ago

Bristol

"Happens to me all the time but I know I’m a shit shag so fair play to them. "
delicious I bet your not a crap shag. You look awesome to me and I would love to experience it with you x

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By *irthandgirthMan
35 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"If we've already verified each other previously then we wouldn't do it again.

If we've mutually agreed not to verify each other then we don't.

Having had wonderful times with forum users in the past, including several 'cause célèbre' (lovely term - thanks Nero) I can confirm that it can cause trouble. Not everyone is as lovely as they portray.

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By *ellhungvweMan
35 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Not everyone wants a veri - if that’s their wish then I am fine with that.

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By *omRPMan
35 weeks ago

North Curry

"Maybe we're both unverified and therefore can't verify each other

This is a situation I’m current stuck in.

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By *ysonfuryMan
35 weeks ago

Stockport

Not everyone wants a verie, I always check if they would like one first and if they would I will do one

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By *osey WalesMan
35 weeks ago

Surrey

I've always asked.

Would you mind sending me a veri or would you mind if i send you a veri. Some dont mind, some do.

It doesnt bother me either way, especially as I dont display them

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I forgot

They didn’t veri me and I don’t want to be a beg

I didn’t enjoy it or their company

I’m getting round to it but just haven’t yet

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By *lirtingentMan
35 weeks ago

Stroud

"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

There is no reason why I wouldn't...

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By *arpet manMan
35 weeks ago

resorts world

I never verify if I've had a bad experience and if I have a good time I will always right out a verification and send it to them first for them to ok they might have done things with me that they don't do with others and I'd hate another man to expect something when they met because I got it !

If its someone I really like I write one and regret the competition it's going to bring me in the future but I can understand if somebody didn't verify and didn't want competition.

Think I hold the record for the longest verification on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Maybe we're both unverified and therefore can't verify each other

This is a situation I’m current stuck in. "

I imagine theres the very first "fab members" being the seed that connects every other fab member together. Like the Adam and Eve of Fabs.

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By *ony MannMan
35 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Because I was not impressed by them

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By *ony MannMan
35 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Why wouldn't you display a verification?

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By *aTina HeadTurner OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Travelling

Interesting responses, thank you for sharing.

I’m still very new to this and have only met a few men so far yet to meet woman couples and other sexy people.

Not sure on the general consensus on this one but it’s not difficult to start thinking I was the common denominator here.

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By *aTina HeadTurner OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Travelling

"Why wouldn't you display a verification?"

Well guess what Sherlock

I don’t have any?

Those I have are cam verifications those don’t hold any value for me

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By *aTina HeadTurner OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Travelling

"Why wouldn't you display a verification?"

FIFY btw

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By *hil most chillMan
35 weeks ago

South East & Europe

This also applies to women. I've had meets where I've been told they don't provide veris. And tbh I get it, veris can cause a lot of drama

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

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if she asked me not to

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By *aTina HeadTurner OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Travelling

"This also applies to women. I've had meets where I've been told they don't provide veris. And tbh I get it, veris can cause a lot of drama"

Now I get it makes sense

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
35 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I have just the one very but many more meets have gone unverified due to mutual wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Do you meet someone because you like them or to get a verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

They asked me not to

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Always verify

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By *ex LutherMan
35 weeks ago

Closer than you think

Verifications can be more trouble than they’re worth I have known of people messaging their verifications as a way to circumnavigate filters.

I prefer not to display them - I would write one but again I wouldn’t be offended if it wasn’t displayed

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

because its no one's business who I have sex with other than mine - and it stops the nasty messages to them and to me!! Everyone has an opinion

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By *alandNitaCouple
35 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Why wouldn’t you verify someone you’ve just had sex with?

I always would.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
35 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I ask people not to. Although I don’t usually have to. I don’t tend to meet people who feel the need to announce who they’ve had sex with on here.

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By *olarbear73Man
35 weeks ago

Glasgow

Probably because I’ve met them before and there is no need to verify that they are a real person.

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