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By *obb321 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Respect the wishes of your wife and what she does and doesn't want to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

She’s told you no, respect her boundary.

It would be terrible to have a partner who wants to persuade me into something I’m clearly not into.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Lots of women don't like porn especially that made for the male market.

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By *elbriceMan
41 weeks ago

Colchester


"Respect the wishes of your wife and what she does and doesn't want to do?"

Couldn’t say it any better. You’ll just have to do and watch porn solo like I’ve done for decades!!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

If you’ve asked a few times and the answer is no, she’s probably not for persuading unless she ends up doing under duress just to please you / shut you up.

In which case it unlikely she’s going to enjoy it, so why impose it on her?

Alternatively suggest a Netflix and chill night and pop Hardcore Anal Sluts on the DVD player instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?"

Divorce her

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By *obb321 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I know. I just feel we're missing out. Everything else is good.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Just tell her it’s a film on channel 5 and act all surprised when the sex starts… she might start saying that it looks good and do you think we could try some of that.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
41 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

She's said no. Nobody's going to post with tips on how to get your wife to do something under duress.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
41 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I know. I just feel we're missing out. Everything else is good. "

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She isn't missing out

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By *iss.ddWoman
41 weeks ago

Leeds + Newcastle


"I know. I just feel we're missing out. Everything else is good. "

No, you think YOU are missing out. She's said no, there shouldn't be any thoughts of persuasion

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By *obb321 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Noted. Thanks all. Advice appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

The people who say ‘she’s missing out’ obvs are watching the right porn

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Ask if she wants to make some instead

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By *offiaCoolWoman
41 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"I know. I just feel we're missing out. Everything else is good. "

If everything else is good, why are you on here ?

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By *oannesTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Trafford

Do you need the porn to be sexually arosed with your wife? Respect her wishes

Maybe the issue is not with her ...

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By *andynecklaceWoman
41 weeks ago

Someplace

if she's not interested why do you want to still convince her?....

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?"

She perhaps wants to watch different porn to you OP? I certainly did when I was married

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
41 weeks ago

Leamington Spa


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?

She perhaps wants to watch different porn to you OP? I certainly did when I was married "

Yeah this. Me and my partner have different sorts of porn that get us off we take it in turns watching our favourite sort

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

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By *a LunaWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales

She’d only talk through it and start ooohhhing and ahhhing over the stiletto heels digging into the leather sofa.

Do yourself a favour and buy her a ball gag first.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Get a vr headset & see if she'll let you watch vr porn & give u a cheeky handy or blowy

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Mayfair


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?"

Now then squire — 6 years isn't that long. You're both still in your honeymoon period. Give it time. When it's 12 years then broach the subject. If she says no then respect her wishes and leave her in peace.

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By *a LunaWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?

Now then squire — 6 years isn't that long. You're both still in your honeymoon period. Give it time. When it's 12 years then broach the subject. If she says no then respect her wishes and leave her. "

FTFY

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?

Now then squire — 6 years isn't that long. You're both still in your honeymoon period. Give it time. When it's 12 years then broach the subject. If she says no then respect her wishes and leave her.

FTFY "

Best one today

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Trying to persuade her into doing something she has made clear she doesn’t want to do, just to make you happy is not ok.

Watch porn yourself would be my tip

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By *eally_RosieWoman
41 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Don’t be that guy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central


"I know. I just feel we're missing out. Everything else is good. "

She's missing nothing if she doesn't want it. Focus on her preferences

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By *hrimper36Couple
41 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?"

Tip number one would be to respect your wife’s wishes.

Best of luck op.

T

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

Or just respect your wife.

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By *irthandgirthMan
41 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?"

If she was desperate to peg you with dildo covered in broken glass and you won't tolerate the idea.. what would persuade you?

The idea of watching porn clearly doesn't interest your wife. I think 6 years is long enough for you to take a hint.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Don't try and persuade her, what will you gain by her watching something she doesn't like, she's hardly going to be turned on and jumping on you because you've made her watch something she isn't into.

Just leave her be and find something else you both agree on.

Being nagged to go something you don't want to is such a huge turn off, no means no - not try & persuade me.

Mrs

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By *reen as JadeCouple
41 weeks ago

Cheshire

I love watching porn when having sex. This is how I learnt to do BJ's. X

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Chichester


"We've been together 6 years and I'm desperate to watch porn together but she won't tolerate it. Any persuasion tips?"

Does she flip her lid if you watch it on your own ? Like is she just anti porn in general ? Or is it just she personally doesn’t see it if any value sexually .

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