FabSwingers.com forum: Wealth/wealthy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

Does it matter whether a person is wealthy when considering a match with someone or even a meet?

It doesn’t matter to me if someone is wealthy but I do hope someone I matched or planned to meet with has some sort of income

Interested to see what the for unites opinions are

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West

Don't most people have some kind of income? Otherwise they'd be totally destitute (I know some people are, I do know that).

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By *offiaCoolWoman
41 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

When I was meeting, their income and wealth was irrelevant. But I wouldn't meet someone who chose not to work.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I don’t see what it has to do with meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I can’t fathom discussions about one’s financial standings would have anything to do with any reason I’m on Fab.

Is ‘FAF?’being replaced with ‘got an income?’

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
41 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I could be being dumb (it happens a lot) but I can’t see how wealth has any impact in who you meet. Yes there can be expenses, like hotels and champagne [special brew] but as long as you’re both prepared to contribute and compromise you can work something out

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

The wealth of someone doesn't really come into consideration other than can he pay his way for any social, hotel etc

Definitely a consideration if I am considering a relationship... don't need wealthy ... I am happy to pay my own way just don't have any desire to keep a man.

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By *undee2Man
41 weeks ago

Dundee

I would have said that if you meet at theirs then a wealthier person may live in nicer surrounding, a private garden, better quality plonk. Me, I tend to ask if they can use a club hammer rather than drink a club soda

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

The reason for this query is to try and justify requests to fund Fab subscriptions in return for a “meet” etc.

Most folk have an income yes and this is irrelevant as is anything beside FAF, which I’m yet to encounter

But yeah mutual cost sharing when booking something or if asked, like Dutch dinner, is plausible.

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
41 weeks ago

Narberth

It dies matter to me, yes.

If I met at my place and someone asked yo in a bad car it's an instar turn off. If I met at theirs, I like nice sheets, fluffy towels... or nice hotels suits! Nice perfume, manners... nothing turns me on more than a man that can discuss business and investments... I like an equal I can resonate with and that shares a similar lifestyle, so I never feel attracted to someone without a good income

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
41 weeks ago

Sunderland

No one is getting near my cock until I've seen bank balance, ISA profile speard and proof of a diversified investment portfolio.

That or have nice boobies.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

For sex on a swingers site. No.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I hope someone has the income they need to survive and hopefully have one that lets them live comfortably. But then I hope that for everyone

Whether they do or not is none of my business and is immaterial as to whether I will find them attractive

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
41 weeks ago

little house on the praire

As long as they can pay their way I'm not bothered

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

"For sex on a swingers site. No. "

Although if they can't afford to go halves with any expenses, it's a no from me

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
41 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yeah it's actually my main priority when meeting someone. I want to make sure they can afford more than a Tesco meal deal because I like to be fed before anal. And I want fancy hotels not Premier Inn. I want them to be able to spoil me with fancy coffee and a trip to legoland because I am not easy and them having money shows me they are good hardworking men.

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Mayfair

I only meet Ladies if the barrel requires a little sçräpíng, otherwise it's my usual — in hierarchical order — Duchess, Marchioness, Countess, Viscountess and Baroness.

I refuse to date a Dame. They're rarely go 'dutch'.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester

If someone was really rich that would make them significantly less fuckable. So yea. I Spose I do care

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I want the posh hotel so yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"If someone was really rich that would make them significantly less fuckable. So yea. I Spose I do care

Ah dam.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"The reason for this query is to try and justify requests to fund Fab subscriptions in return for a “meet” etc.

Most folk have an income yes and this is irrelevant as is anything beside FAF, which I’m yet to encounter

But yeah mutual cost sharing when booking something or if asked, like Dutch dinner, is plausible. "

I'd block requests for money and report people

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
41 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Money doesn't guarantee a good fuck, but at times increases the cunty entitled behaviour....

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By *amhorniestMan
41 weeks ago

Surrey

Doesn't matter to me, I've never expected the woman to pay I prefer nicer hotels for meets, it all adds to the occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

If your height isn’t above six foot, salary above seven figures and cock above eight inches you ain’t getting any piece of this, baby

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
41 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"If your height isn’t above six foot, salary above seven figures and cock above eight inches you ain’t getting any piece of this, baby

Damn that's me out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"The reason for this query is to try and justify requests to fund Fab subscriptions in return for a “meet” etc.

Most folk have an income yes and this is irrelevant as is anything beside FAF, which I’m yet to encounter

But yeah mutual cost sharing when booking something or if asked, like Dutch dinner, is plausible.

I'd block requests for money and report people"

I have done just that thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I guess it matters to a certain degree. If I wanted to continue seeing someone beyond just meeting for sex, it would matter. If one of us can’t afford to do things together, it’s not going to work is it?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Chichester

not for casual fucks no .. for relationships probably somewhat yes

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By *heGateKeeperMan
41 weeks ago

Stratford

Doesn’t bother me one bit and can’t see why it would

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

What kinda forum is this??

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
41 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"What kinda forum is this??"

One for random shit

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"What kinda forum is this??"

Welcome to The Lounge…

Ps. This is kinda normal compared to most days

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By *riel13Woman
41 weeks ago

Northampton

Not sure why someones income would be a subject for discussion, other than in passing conversation, if you are only going to shag

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
41 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"What kinda forum is this??

Welcome to The Lounge…

Ps. This is kinda normal compared to most days "

Kinda slow innit LB

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By *ansoffateMan
41 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I guess from my experience I can say two things.

Wealth doesn't bring happiness.

You have to rich to think like that to begin with.

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By *oxy jWoman
41 weeks ago

somerset

if someone feels the need to say rgey are wealthy then that to me is a turn off i get a few messages like i work in law or banks or dont work dont need to or i drive a aston martin some women may well like that but me im here to swing and nothing else but swing

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By *uri00620Woman
41 weeks ago

Croydon

I'm not sure how I'd ever know. I don't think I've ever asked about work/ income before a meet.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"What kinda forum is this??

Welcome to The Lounge…

Ps. This is kinda normal compared to most days

Kinda slow innit LB

Mr "

It has its moments

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
41 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"What kinda forum is this??

Welcome to The Lounge…

Ps. This is kinda normal compared to most days

Kinda slow innit LB

It has its moments

Yeah when it all kicks off.....love a good slanging match

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
41 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

I'm considerably richer than you...

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By *B69Woman
41 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I only meet if their bringing the Krug

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I only meet if their bringing the Krug"

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The krugs don't work. ¶¶||¶..¶

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
41 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Wealth and willingness to spend is often conflated. The latter can be on credit and not a true indicator of wealth. (New) Money shouts, wealth whispers.

The latter can factor into to meet considerations: ie. Will I end up footing the bill for a hotel/club/drinks, and if so, will the juice be worth the squeeze.

Whereas wealth does not, given that I’m not looking for a future with meets.

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By *rucking-HellMan
41 weeks ago

Northampton

"nothing turns me on more than a man that can discuss business and investments"

Not sure if serious

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

No. I’m fortunate enough to be on the ‘thy’ side of things but the financial status of a meet has never crossed my mind.

It would actually put me off if that was a motivation for someone. I’m really not in to sharing anything other than myself and partner ??

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester

"If someone was really rich that would make them significantly less fuckable. So yea. I Spose I do care

Ah dam. "

That’s only the 1%.

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

No. Well, I wouldn't want to pay for everything for anyone and I also wouldn't want to feel bad if I'd rather not stay at a budget hotel.

On the same hand, and with a smidgen of hypocrisy, I don't like those who are snobby and with a superiority complex, believing wealth makes them better. Does zilch for me and I'm never impressed.

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By *urry BlokeMan
41 weeks ago

Stalybridge

For a shag, not at all

I'm not interested in anything other than them being clean, fresh and horny

For a partner, yes

Not wealthy (cos I'm not either) but the ability to do nice things together is important and, to me, that is a joint input / joint output thing

I wouldn't be happy with someone else carrying me and whilst I love to treat people, I wouldn't make it the norm / expectation

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

I can't say I've ever asked or been asked about income it's totally irrelevant - I'd be more put off if someone disclosed a large income than anything.

Mrs

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Sitting on the table

Their income & financial affairs are none of my damn business, and my income/finances are none of theirs

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