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"Did you cum? " Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez" How do you know that? | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that?" The amount saying no to Cumming | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming" That doesn’t necessarily equal bad sex though does it? | |||
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"Did you cum? " if I’m hard, always. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez" It's not always down to bad sex you know! I had fantastic sex recently with an old friend. Didn't cum (many women just dont through sex) but I totally enjoyed myself. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming" Only 2 so far tbf | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming" I generally don’t cum with someone else, I know that that is an issue I have but that doesn’t mean I have bad sex. In fact it’s the guys that don’t put on the pressure for me to cum that I end up having more fun - they tend to be just enjoying being with me and experiencing what’s fun as opposed to having this end goal. If I tell a guy that I probably won’t and they react with “you’ve just not been with me/my cock is better etc” then I know they’re not for me as they remind me of the type that wants to make a girl squirt to prove something! | |||
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"Ladies I guarantee you will come if you have sex with me " You're on. I like a challenge | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by" from a women's point of view that's definitely not true.. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by" Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming I generally don’t cum with someone else, I know that that is an issue I have but that doesn’t mean I have bad sex. In fact it’s the guys that don’t put on the pressure for me to cum that I end up having more fun - they tend to be just enjoying being with me and experiencing what’s fun as opposed to having this end goal. If I tell a guy that I probably won’t and they react with “you’ve just not been with me/my cock is better etc” then I know they’re not for me as they remind me of the type that wants to make a girl squirt to prove something! " The men that will finger blast you till your raw to try and prove a point | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by" I didn’t have an orgasm the last time I had sex. I didn’t care, the sex was great and I was satisfied afterwards. Good sex doesn’t always have to end with an orgasm. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming I generally don’t cum with someone else, I know that that is an issue I have but that doesn’t mean I have bad sex. In fact it’s the guys that don’t put on the pressure for me to cum that I end up having more fun - they tend to be just enjoying being with me and experiencing what’s fun as opposed to having this end goal. If I tell a guy that I probably won’t and they react with “you’ve just not been with me/my cock is better etc” then I know they’re not for me as they remind me of the type that wants to make a girl squirt to prove something! The men that will finger blast you till your raw to try and prove a point " Yes!! So true! | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? " Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming I generally don’t cum with someone else, I know that that is an issue I have but that doesn’t mean I have bad sex. In fact it’s the guys that don’t put on the pressure for me to cum that I end up having more fun - they tend to be just enjoying being with me and experiencing what’s fun as opposed to having this end goal. If I tell a guy that I probably won’t and they react with “you’ve just not been with me/my cock is better etc” then I know they’re not for me as they remind me of the type that wants to make a girl squirt to prove something! The men that will finger blast you till your raw to try and prove a point " Well that sounds delightfully painful | |||
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"Ladies I guarantee you will come if you have sex with me " Guaranteed she coming first like Bolt in the Olympics | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection " You make my point for me | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection " Does this mean I’m ancient and dried up? Lovely | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming I generally don’t cum with someone else, I know that that is an issue I have but that doesn’t mean I have bad sex. In fact it’s the guys that don’t put on the pressure for me to cum that I end up having more fun - they tend to be just enjoying being with me and experiencing what’s fun as opposed to having this end goal. If I tell a guy that I probably won’t and they react with “you’ve just not been with me/my cock is better etc” then I know they’re not for me as they remind me of the type that wants to make a girl squirt to prove something! " I’ve had this before funnily enough when I’ve explained that I don’t always cum. Sorry that people are trash | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection Does this mean I’m ancient and dried up? Lovely " Yes absolutely ancient. Drier than Gandhi’s flip flops. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection Does this mean I’m ancient and dried up? Lovely " No our delightful lady was just getting the immaturity she was calling me out for. If you are going to wrongly call me names and claim to be mature you can have it back at you. I am entitled to a different view point as is she. It seems like some women out there still truly value connection above all. I'm big enough to find that interesting and to be honest pleasantly surprising | |||
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" I’ve had this before funnily enough when I’ve explained that I don’t always cum. Sorry that people are trash" My last ex actually opened my eyes to guys in a similar situation as he ended up changing medication and that affected his ability to cum - we still had fun and I remember at the time feeling like it was my fault but then we both still had fun, enjoyed it and it wasn’t bad sex - it was just a side effect to medication. That wasn’t why we broke up haha! But it can affect everyone! No need to be sorry at all, especially when it’s so mainstream that people think that marks the end of sex! | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by" Shit. You’re getting cooked. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming That doesn’t necessarily equal bad sex though does it? " He knows. Nothing grinds my gears more than men who promise me x number of orgasms and measure the quality of the sex by the number of times a woman cums. I can guarantee I would leave a room with those guys severely disappointed | |||
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"Ladies I guarantee you will come if you have sex with me You're on. I like a challenge " | |||
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"Ladies I guarantee you will come if you have sex with me Guaranteed she coming first like Bolt in the Olympics" I can sign a disclaimer | |||
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"Yep. Quite a few times. Love a good playdate. " You had me until play date. Nice try but I’m familiar with your game | |||
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"Many times. " And I got chips. | |||
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"Many times. And I got chips." ok I can’t compete with that | |||
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"Many times. me next " Are we getting chips? | |||
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"Yep. Quite a few times. Love a good playdate. You had me until play date. Nice try but I’m familiar with your game" Damn it. Being serious though, yes I did. It was really hot. Still not tapped out but I have faith in me and my choice of lovers. | |||
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"Many times. me next Are we getting chips? " Are you getting chips | |||
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"Yep. Quite a few times. Love a good playdate. You had me until play date. Nice try but I’m familiar with your game Damn it. Being serious though, yes I did. It was really hot. Still not tapped out but I have faith in me and my choice of lovers. " Is that why you haven’t sat on my face yet? Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection Does this mean I’m ancient and dried up? Lovely No our delightful lady was just getting the immaturity she was calling me out for. If you are going to wrongly call me names and claim to be mature you can have it back at you. I am entitled to a different view point as is she. It seems like some women out there still truly value connection above all. I'm big enough to find that interesting and to be honest pleasantly surprising" I may be wrong but I read it less of a personal attack on you and more of that pov being immature though I would say that’s not specific to you and more a reflection on how the likes of porn represents cumming as being the ending (and without it it makes bad sex) whereas in real life that isn’t always the case. Though that’s just me speculating and not sure if I’ve explained what I mean properly doh! | |||
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"Many times. And I got chips." Oooooo now I want chips! And cheese! | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection Does this mean I’m ancient and dried up? Lovely No our delightful lady was just getting the immaturity she was calling me out for. If you are going to wrongly call me names and claim to be mature you can have it back at you. I am entitled to a different view point as is she. It seems like some women out there still truly value connection above all. I'm big enough to find that interesting and to be honest pleasantly surprising I may be wrong but I read it less of a personal attack on you and more of that pov being immature though I would say that’s not specific to you and more a reflection on how the likes of porn represents cumming as being the ending (and without it it makes bad sex) whereas in real life that isn’t always the case. Though that’s just me speculating and not sure if I’ve explained what I mean properly doh! " It was followed on from a statement aimed directly at me so it comes across personal which is why she got a little immaturity back. I should have held my tongue as I don't normally speak to a woman like that but I can't change it....if she reads this I apologise it was too far. I can tell you from a man's POV as youngster it was definitely something I feared as in the what if I can't make her and porn is likely to have played a part. As a man the more experienced I got the less I got out of my head and the more the other seemed to enjoy. Obviously an orgasm is still the most obvious way to know which is where I think the modern squirt fetish comes in. Anyway it's nice to know some women maybe most sensible ones rate connection above a scoreboard | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by Oh, my friend, you are SOOO wrong. And might I add a tad immature? Or not ancient and dried up it depends on your POV. It's not like people on here making love for the connection Does this mean I’m ancient and dried up? Lovely " I'm joining you in the ancient and dried up-lane too then | |||
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"It was 2018 and as normal we had to have a towel next to us before we started so I could put it between her legs to ‘stop any mess dribbling out’ . Horrendous " You should offer to sleep in the cold, gunky, lumpy wet patch then. | |||
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"It was 2018 and as normal we had to have a towel next to us before we started so I could put it between her legs to ‘stop any mess dribbling out’ . Horrendous You should offer to sleep in the cold, gunky, lumpy wet patch then. " I would gladly but I’d prefer to just have a wank on the sofa while she watches box sets upstairs out the way - I find that much more pleasurable if honest | |||
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"It was 2018 and as normal we had to have a towel next to us before we started so I could put it between her legs to ‘stop any mess dribbling out’ . Horrendous You should offer to sleep in the cold, gunky, lumpy wet patch then. I would gladly but I’d prefer to just have a wank on the sofa while she watches box sets upstairs out the way - I find that much more pleasurable if honest " Have you tried on the Chesterfield? | |||
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"It was 2018 and as normal we had to have a towel next to us before we started so I could put it between her legs to ‘stop any mess dribbling out’ . Horrendous You should offer to sleep in the cold, gunky, lumpy wet patch then. I would gladly but I’d prefer to just have a wank on the sofa while she watches box sets upstairs out the way - I find that much more pleasurable if honest Have you tried on the Chesterfield?" I’ve tried it everywhere duck | |||
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"It was 2018 and as normal we had to have a towel next to us before we started so I could put it between her legs to ‘stop any mess dribbling out’ . Horrendous You should offer to sleep in the cold, gunky, lumpy wet patch then. I would gladly but I’d prefer to just have a wank on the sofa while she watches box sets upstairs out the way - I find that much more pleasurable if honest Have you tried on the Chesterfield? I’ve tried it everywhere duck " I'm not exactly qualified in the field but I'd say you might need to talk with your wife and decide if you really should be married. It doesn't sound like it's going tickety boo. Wishing you all the best for your wanks on the Chesterfield. | |||
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"It was 2018 and as normal we had to have a towel next to us before we started so I could put it between her legs to ‘stop any mess dribbling out’ . Horrendous You should offer to sleep in the cold, gunky, lumpy wet patch then. I would gladly but I’d prefer to just have a wank on the sofa while she watches box sets upstairs out the way - I find that much more pleasurable if honest Have you tried on the Chesterfield? I’ve tried it everywhere duck I'm not exactly qualified in the field but I'd say you might need to talk with your wife and decide if you really should be married. It doesn't sound like it's going tickety boo. Wishing you all the best for your wanks on the Chesterfield. " No point talking as she never wants sex either ( thank fuck) so seems to suit us, plus have we have house and a kid so I’m happy just reading forums when I can be bothered to log on | |||
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"No, but you’ll pleased to hear he did. " NH that doesn’t please me | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by" That's just not true, for many women. Don't try and tell us we're wrong. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by That's just not true, for many women. Don't try and tell us we're wrong." 1) whats right for you isn't for others 2) read the whole blog before you try and call me out please. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by That's just not true, for many women. Don't try and tell us we're wrong. 1) whats right for you isn't for others 2) read the whole blog before you try and call me out please. " Don't try and speak for women | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by That's just not true, for many women. Don't try and tell us we're wrong. 1) whats right for you isn't for others 2) read the whole blog before you try and call me out please. Don't try and speak for women " Read the whole blog | |||
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"I came twice. I didn't let him cum until I was completely satisfied. " I do like a woman with spunk... Ooer | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by That's just not true, for many women. Don't try and tell us we're wrong." Mimi you're wrong Don't kill me it's a joke people | |||
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"Yes. And why are so many women on here having sex and not getting an orgasm? What’s the point???" I can hardly expect to orgasm every time with a partner when it doesn't even work every time for myself, can I? What's the point? It's fun, it feels good, closeness, intimacy etc etc. It's not all about the grand finale? | |||
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"Yes. And why are so many women on here having sex and not getting an orgasm? What’s the point???" When you define sex as good versus bad based on whether you orgasm or not, it makes it less about the intimacy, closeness, connection. For some that adds so much pressure both externally and internally that even if it’s extremely pleasurable they can’t orgasm. Sex shouldn’t stop at the orgasm and shouldn’t be measured solely by orgasms. There’s so much more to the enjoyment of sharing physical intimacy with others. | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it byfrom a women's point of view that's definitely not true.. " It definitely not true with tantra either or many other practices around sex. Like wise with some forms moving the focus slightly away from the sole, single minded focus of ejaculating to experience longer and more intense none ejaculative orgasms in men. Ultimately whether the sex is good or not, depends on wether you only value and the end result with only nutting being all that matters or wether you can enjoy sex on many different levels with your partner during foreplay, sex etc and able to enjoy and go along with equally intense forms of pleasure that doesn’t involve cuming or orgasming. Everyone is different but often over time, more experience lovers focus switch from the mentality of racing to the end like rampant teenagers eager to get to orgasmville and also start to take more time enjoying and exploring the journey as well. Enjoying and feeling fulfilled as well from enjoying sex on a deep level, mentally, emotionally and physically orgasm or not | |||
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"Yes. And why are so many women on here having sex and not getting an orgasm? What’s the point??? When you define sex as good versus bad based on whether you orgasm or not, it makes it less about the intimacy, closeness, connection. For some that adds so much pressure both externally and internally that even if it’s extremely pleasurable they can’t orgasm. Sex shouldn’t stop at the orgasm and shouldn’t be measured solely by orgasms. There’s so much more to the enjoyment of sharing physical intimacy with others. " Absolutely this, couldn’t agree more | |||
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"What is this sex you speak of? " I feel ya ( sadly not literally ) I feel like I could almost pass a virgin again lol | |||
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"Did you cum? " Yeah. Everywhere and anywhere. Spent the weekend doing in bare so I couldn't help myself | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by" What actual bollocks, so you go with an outcome in mind, of cumming and then that equates to great sex, what about everything in between...People have shit sex and not cum, people have the best sex ever and not cum....Guess what also some are medically not able to cum at all.... I personally pin it all on fisting n finger blasting... | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by What actual bollocks, so you go with an outcome in mind, of cumming and then that equates to great sex, what about everything in between...People have shit sex and not cum, people have the best sex ever and not cum....Guess what also some are medically not able to cum at all.... I personally pin it all on fisting n finger blasting..." Please before you start blasting read the full blog | |||
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"More times than me poor little fella knew what to do with himself " I bet you did | |||
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"More times than me poor little fella knew what to do with himself I bet you did " Great sex + Great feelings. What can I say | |||
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"Did you cum? Yep!! SO many women out here having bad sex....jeez How do you know that? The amount saying no to Cumming Only 2 so far tbf 3 my friend. And yes if you don't cum/orgasm it would imply not great sex. You can disagree but for the most an orgasm would be what people measure it by What actual bollocks, so you go with an outcome in mind, of cumming and then that equates to great sex, what about everything in between...People have shit sex and not cum, people have the best sex ever and not cum....Guess what also some are medically not able to cum at all.... I personally pin it all on fisting n finger blasting... Please before you start blasting read the full bollocks " FIFY Mr | |||
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"Yes. And why are so many women on here having sex and not getting an orgasm? What’s the point???" I was wondering the same thing. It's very rare I don't orgasm, I sometimes get a orgasm high that can last long after the sexual act. | |||
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"Yes. And why are so many women on here having sex and not getting an orgasm? What’s the point??? I was wondering the same thing. It's very rare I don't orgasm, I sometimes get a orgasm high that can last long after the sexual act. " Intimacy. If I just wanted an orgasm I'd use my vibe | |||
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