FabSwingers.com forum: NTD*

By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

Hello.

What is, to you, not that deep, that is deep to seemingly everyone else?

I had someone highlight to me recently that saying it’s not that deep to someone undermines the fact that, to them it is that deep. That was a good lesson. Anyway go on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

I’ll go first- spooning.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Can you translate please? It’s early…

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

S. Herts

Shallow graves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Can you translate please? It’s early…"

I did! In the OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Shallow graves. "

Lmao whattttt

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Can you translate please? It’s early…

I did! In the OP!

Yes but TL;DR

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Can you translate please? It’s early…

I did! In the OP!

Yes but TL;DR"
the question is literally right after ‘Hello’

Dfkm

bye

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By *partharmonyCouple
6 weeks ago

Ruislip

"Shallow graves. "

Woah. Grim.

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By *amie HantsWoman
6 weeks ago

Atlantis

Some days literally everything. I am an unbothered queen.

Other days everything IS that deep and I don’t want to be told it’s not.

Very hard to give a specific example it’s mood dependant with me

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By *emorefridaCouple
6 weeks ago

La la land

Ntd due to work means neural tube defects but I'm guessing that this isn't what you meant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Ntd due to work means neural tube defects but I'm guessing that this isn't what you meant? "

No. No it isn’t

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By *herry delightWoman
6 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

You are going to deep in your thinking NTD

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Some days literally everything. I am an unbothered queen.

Other days everything IS that deep and I don’t want to be told it’s not.

Very hard to give a specific example it’s mood dependant with me "

You don’t like to be told it’s not that deep yeah? Bet

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By *emorefridaCouple
6 weeks ago

La la land

"Ntd due to work means neural tube defects but I'm guessing that this isn't what you meant?

No. No it isn’t"

Darn it, going to have to look it up. You and your obscure abbreviations

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

You are going to deep in your thinking NTD"

It’s genuinely ntd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Ntd due to work means neural tube defects but I'm guessing that this isn't what you meant?

No. No it isn’t

Darn it, going to have to look it up. You and your obscure abbreviations

I explain it in the OP!!

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By *ea monkeyMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Can you translate please? It’s early…

I did! In the OP!

Yes but TL;DR"

I think it’s examples of things that aren’t that deep to you but might be for someone else.

For instance; kissing for couples. It might not be deep for me but it can be for them.

That’s my understanding of it

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By *emorefridaCouple
6 weeks ago

La la land

"Ntd due to work means neural tube defects but I'm guessing that this isn't what you meant?

No. No it isn’t

Darn it, going to have to look it up. You and your obscure abbreviations

I explain it in the OP!!

Dyslexia is not my friend. Penny just dropped

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Can you translate please? It’s early…

I did! In the OP!

Yes but TL;DR

I think it’s examples of things that aren’t that deep to you but might be for someone else.

For instance; kissing for couples. It might not be deep for me but it can be for them.

That’s my understanding of it"

Yes!

Or losing something easily replaceable. Like an Oyster card

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By *edeWoman
6 weeks ago

the abyss

"Shallow graves. "

Damnit I was too slow

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Check out Belinda Carlisle's new single "In Too Deep" if you get the chance, OP.

Sound of the summer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Check out Belinda Carlisle's new single "In Too Deep" if you get the chance, OP.

Sound of the summer."

I’m not going to do that P

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By *ikeSM23Man
6 weeks ago

Manchester

"Hello.

What is, to you, not that deep, that is deep to seemingly everyone else?

I had someone highlight to me recently that saying it’s not that deep to someone undermines the fact that, to them it is that deep. That was a good lesson. Anyway go on?

One such interpretation could be ….. “pointless and irrelevant chat posts, such as this”.

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.

Erm various things. I don't like that saying. It does undermine how I feel and then I just think, nope, I'm not sharing how I really feel with you again.

Having typed that... sometimes it's good to get a reality check. I know I can be a tad dramatic at times so really, it depends on who you are and how my mood is as to how I take it.

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By *emorefridaCouple
6 weeks ago

La la land

Some of family who get embroiled in reading conspiracy theories. I swear they look for added levels of complexities for fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Erm various things. I don't like that saying. It does undermine how I feel and then I just think, nope, I'm not sharing how I really feel with you again.

Having typed that... sometimes it's good to get a reality check. I know I can be a tad dramatic at times so really, it depends on who you are and how my mood is as to how I take it.

It’s true when said to others.

I also say it about something that happens to me. People might say ‘oh I’m sorry that happened’ and I might reply, ‘eh it’s ntd anyway’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Hello.

What is, to you, not that deep, that is deep to seemingly everyone else?

I had someone highlight to me recently that saying it’s not that deep to someone undermines the fact that, to them it is that deep. That was a good lesson. Anyway go on?

One such interpretation could be ….. “pointless and irrelevant chat posts, such as this”.

These posts are ntd? I agree. It’s not deep at all

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By *herry delightWoman
6 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

You are going to deep in your thinking NTD

It’s genuinely ntd "

It's NTD to get out of that kind of thinking.

Don't overthink it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

You are going to deep in your thinking NTD

It’s genuinely ntd

It's NTD to get out of that kind of thinking.

Don't overthink it "

I’m not overthinking it

The only things I really think deeply about are social issues tbh

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

S. Herts

"Shallow graves.

Damnit I was too slow

I’m 3 coffees in, I’m quiiiiick this morning

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By *ea monkeyMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Some of family who get embroiled in reading conspiracy theories. I swear they look for added levels of complexities for fun

Occam's razor

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By *illy IdolMan
6 weeks ago

~Rear of the Year winner 2024~

The forums

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"The forums"

I'll see your 'forums' and raise you Fab and swinging life in general.

Not overthinking every aspect of either makes for a far less stressful and significantly more enjoyable life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"The forums"

Definitely this.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
6 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I like deep

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

Paddling pools

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Can you translate please? It’s early…

I did! In the OP!

Yes but TL;DR the question is literally right after ‘Hello’

Dfkm

bye "

Ok yes then. That’s my answer

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Stockport

"Shallow graves. "

What about shallow graves dug in a basement? Shallow graves at the bottom of a mineshaft?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
6 weeks ago

Coalville

"Shallow graves. "

I love you

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By *r Black 85Man
6 weeks ago

nottingham

"Shallow graves. "

"I'll bury you two foot shallow. Ain't got time to dig six foot deep"

One of the greatest lines ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Shallow graves.

"I'll bury you two foot shallow. Ain't got time to dig six foot deep"

One of the greatest lines ever "

My fucking guyyyyyyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Shallow graves.

"I'll bury you two foot shallow. Ain't got time to dig six foot deep"

One of the greatest lines ever

My fucking guyyyyyyyyyy

Literally this place would be dead without you

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Giving my kid the wrong cup.

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By *r Black 85Man
6 weeks ago

nottingham

"Shallow graves.

"I'll bury you two foot shallow. Ain't got time to dig six foot deep"

One of the greatest lines ever

My fucking guyyyyyyyyyy

Literally this place would be dead without you

Postman Black ALWAYS delivers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Shallow graves.

"I'll bury you two foot shallow. Ain't got time to dig six foot deep"

One of the greatest lines ever

My fucking guyyyyyyyyyy

Literally this place would be dead without you

Postman Black ALWAYS delivers

You’re probably secretly Jammer aren’t you

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
6 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

NTD down a rabbits hole now

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By *r Black 85Man
6 weeks ago

nottingham

"Shallow graves.

"I'll bury you two foot shallow. Ain't got time to dig six foot deep"

One of the greatest lines ever

My fucking guyyyyyyyyyy

Literally this place would be dead without you

Postman Black ALWAYS delivers

You’re probably secretly Jammer aren’t you

Nah

My locks are wayyyyyyyyyyy longer than his

Plus, I'm not a 'Top Producer'

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By *imi_RougeWoman
6 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Vaginas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Shallow graves.

"I'll bury you two foot shallow. Ain't got time to dig six foot deep"

One of the greatest lines ever

My fucking guyyyyyyyyyy

Literally this place would be dead without you

Postman Black ALWAYS delivers

You’re probably secretly Jammer aren’t you

Nah

My locks are wayyyyyyyyyyy longer than his

Plus, I'm not a 'Top Producer'

I’m going to need to see you in the same room to believe you

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By *r Black 85Man
6 weeks ago

nottingham

"Vaginas"

Is that why some women say 'not that deep' during sex

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By *herry delightWoman
6 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

_. _ _..

-. --- - / - .... .- - / -.. . . .--.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 weeks ago

North West

"Some of family who get embroiled in reading conspiracy theories. I swear they look for added levels of complexities for fun

Occam's razor"

It's not the sharpest tool in the box

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 weeks ago

North West

What's NTD but might be deep to me? I get told to stop getting irritated by places that aren't accessible, or don't have wheelchair accessible loos or when they turn Blue Badge spaces into taxi ranks and outdoor café seating areas or electric car charging places (though I can jib in on those now, but ironically, they're often not wide enough). Apparently it's completely impossible for the world to be more accessible and I should just go somewhere else or not go out at all.

So, café toilets are deep to me but NTD for others.

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