FabSwingers.com forum: Would you be annoyed

By *issBehave69 OP Man
37 weeks ago

Bulgaria

If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
37 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Nothing annoying about it; Some folks are veritable plonkers sadly

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By *cotty_01ukMan
37 weeks ago

birmingham

Nothing wrong with that

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By *ucka39Man
37 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope never

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By *issBehave69 OP Man
37 weeks ago

Bulgaria

Thanks for the replies so far, I didn’t think there was anything wrong with it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Never bothered me in the slightest, a fab is a fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I'd say they are the one's with the problem. If they don't want their pics fabbed, they shouldn't have posted them.

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By *istr3ssWoman
37 weeks ago

Stockton-on-Tees

Nothing wrong with anyone liking anyone else's pictures.

I'm straight but with still fab a womans picture if I happen to like it

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By *till gameMan
37 weeks ago

Oldham

Nothing up with it, if you put your goods out on display then they are there to be admired by anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Nothing wrong with tabbing the pics you like

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I’m not sure the future is going to be pleasant if something like that has annoyed them.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
37 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Always nice to be appreciated xx

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By *hrek101Man
37 weeks ago

Herts

I would be grateful someone had bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Grown men rattled by a fab.. No harm done. They just need to get out more.

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
37 weeks ago

bristol

Not at all x be honoured if you fabbed me x

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By *alandNitaCouple
37 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

I'm rarely annoyed by anything, and it's always a bit flattering is anone finds me attractive... regarless of whether I'm interested in them.

Cal

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By *illie fitMan
37 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I love being fabbed, makes my day

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By *ot to giggleWoman
37 weeks ago

Coventry

Thats sad, for them , you should be able to appreciate a photo. They're public anyway.

Its on them not you xx

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester

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By *ools and the brainCouple
37 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

There's options for people to not have pic's fabbed if people are that offended then perhaps they can change settings.

However you do make an interesting point,in these days of high profile consent cases, you could argue (I'm playing devil's advocate here) that if you fab a straight guy's picture knowing he's straight could it be described as sexual harassment??

Look I'm just saying that with all the conversations about pictures being sent unsolicited perhaps the site needs to update a few settings to move with current legislation?

I'm not suggesting that you have done anything inappropriate OP , because personally my opinion is if you put your pictures out there for all to see and knowingly don't change settings then how can people complain.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
37 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I would be grateful someone had bothered "

^^ this 100%

People are strange…

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By *he love catsCouple
37 weeks ago

South Wales

It would be totally fine with me.

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By *NewBNWOMan
37 weeks ago

back

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

I would be flattered there's nothing wrong with that they're just either a baby or very insecure for that to be troubling them

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

No I wouldn't be annoyed by anyone fabbing our pics, regardless of if I like the profile or I'm interested in them or not.

Mrs

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
37 weeks ago

St Leonards

No. I've not even been annoyed by winks or FABs from people I wouldn't shag. Most of the time, I've messaged a thank you to a wink or message.

Sometimes I haven't, if their profile is disturbing.

But as a pretty solid rule of thumb - never annoyed by a FAB, hardly ever annoyed by a wink or message.

Ignore the moron.

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By *uliette500Woman
37 weeks ago

Hull

I've seen so many men asking on here how to stop other men even looking at their profile.

Some don't like it when other men look or fab their pics because they are 100% straight and seem to think it reflects on them if other men like their body.

It's them with the problem OP not you.

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By *eliWoman
37 weeks ago

No. Op, I wouldn't spend too much time thinking about it. It's not a reflection of you.

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By *ony MannMan
37 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

Don't worry about it. If they can't handle being hansom it's not your problem.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

The fab equivalent of oi you looking at me? And just offline they are often unhappy with their social skills, the ones with arms crossed on the edge of the dance floor resenting the men who get up and dance.

Probably.

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By *UFSWoman
37 weeks ago

belfast

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

How do you know you have annoyed them?

Did they message you to tell you they were annoyed?

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By *batMan
37 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I think it’s crazy that anyone doesn’t like a compliment. You can’t catch the ghey!

Gbat

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I think it’s crazy that anyone doesn’t like a compliment. You can’t catch the ghey!

Gbat "

Fast runners, the gheys.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

No. I don’t care who fabs them, if I did I’d turn the option off.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
37 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It must be tiring for them constantly messaging people they don’t like, who have fabbed their pics

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

Finding someone attractive is not necessarily tied to sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Not at all - I don’t see why people get worked up about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
37 weeks ago

East Sussex

Has it annoyed you that they're annoyed?

People are allowed to feel whether it seems irrational to us or not.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
37 weeks ago

stanley

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

Nope not at all

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By *OUR NAKED PLUMBERMan
37 weeks ago

BRISTOL

There is no arm in looking and FABBING sexy photos

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By *inger_SnapWoman
37 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Well they can't stop you. But lots of straight men don't like anyone other than women fabbing their pics!

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By *illy IdolMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

I'm more annoyed you haven't fabbed any of my pics yet!

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By *eroLondonMan
37 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would absolutely ·not· be annoyed. A kindly gesture is just that: a kindly gesture of appreciation.

I'm aware of one particular person on Fab who literally spends most of their dwindling life blocking anyone or everyone without a Uterus who Fabs their picture, posting status updates about it and then lamenting on why they're not getting any sex whatsoever.

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By *laytime_13Woman
37 weeks ago

Lincs

Anything on here is for public consumption. If you want to control how that’s perceived/reacted to/enjoyed, think twice about what you post

Otherwise enjoy the adoration

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By *ornycougaWoman
37 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Twats. They should take the compliment and save being indignant for something that is worth getting hot n bothered about

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
37 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Any so-called straight man who gets annoyed by something like that is wildly over-reacting & possibly a bit of a closet case...

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
37 weeks ago

wonderland.

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."
no. Who fabs a photo can't upset someone I'm sure

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
37 weeks ago

Bromley

Wouldn't be annoyed in the slightest, means it's a good photo

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By *rBobbMan
37 weeks ago

Birmingham

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them. no. Who fabs a photo can't upset someone I'm sure "

I totally agree, take is a compliment

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By *espacito56Man
37 weeks ago

Orkney

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

Fuck no. Course not.

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By *nr.curiousTV/TS
37 weeks ago

mijas costa, spain

Makes my day if i get fabbed..

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By *ros40Man
37 weeks ago

Bedford

A compliment is a compliment no matter who gives it

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By *ames250122Man
37 weeks ago

Worcester

"Nothing annoying about it; Some folks are veritable plonkers sadly

Hahaha, this 100%! Nothing wrong or annoying. The other person is most definitely just being a plonker

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
37 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

I fab pics because I like the content.

I don't have to be interested in chatting to or meeting someone. They can be outside of my preferences and me theirs.

I don't do it to curry favour or expect anything in return.

To me that's not what fabbing pics is about. Others will do differently of course.

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
37 weeks ago

blackpool

Fab away flower I take it as a compliment seeing as duck normally gets all the likes

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
37 weeks ago

Dudley

I’m guessing said person has a fragile ego because they don’t get many fabs off women. Then when they get one off one of us they have some kind of meltdown, personally i don’t care who fabs my pix

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By *issBehave69 OP Man
37 weeks ago

Bulgaria

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them.

How do you know you have annoyed them?

Did they message you to tell you they were annoyed?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Wouldn't both me

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By *corpioboyMan
37 weeks ago

Glasgow

I’d be flattered if anyone fabbed my pics.

Although they probably need their eyes tested

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

Absolutely not, I fab pictures for many reasons , one of which is that I simply enjoy and appreciate the picture, not because it’s some kind of “come on”.

I’d never be annoyed about someone/anyone giving me a fab, I’d be flattered. Sorry you got the reaction you did

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
37 weeks ago

Ipswich

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

Nope, but then we';re not straight. However, people can appreciate things and enjoy them without coveting for sexual aspects.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"If you were straight and I genuinely thought your picture / pictures were hot and I fabbed them ?

I didn’t message them or wink them or send a friend request but apparently I’ve annoyed them."

If you fab'd no issue

Wink or message - I will often message to say thanks for the compliment. I'm 100% straight so no interest but happy Fabbing.

To be fair 90% are good with that but you get the odd pillock keep messaging hoping after 2nd message its a block.

I understand as annoying as it is when women don't reply why as their through numbers are much higher

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Yes, if you’re gonna fab my pictures then I expect a message!

(There are options to not be fabbed for those worried about their own sexuality)

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Don't care who fabs my pics.....I'm just happy someone likes them

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