FabSwingers.com forum: Fake accounts

By *rowneyedgirl. OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Durham

How do you tell the difference between a real account and a fake?

I'm still newish online but I'm not totally naive and I definitely don't fall for bullshit lines.

But the more advanced fake accounts might catch me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

If he's hot and funny?

Fake.

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By *osey WalesMan
20 weeks ago

Surrey

I'm no expert but if you use other platforms when chatting to someone,they wont send you a live pic (kik) or they wont video call.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

If it feels even remotely suspicious or fake then it is fake! Run!

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By *osey WalesMan
20 weeks ago

Surrey

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

Or already married

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By *till gameMan
20 weeks ago

two doors down

"How do you tell the difference between a real account and a fake?

I'm still newish online but I'm not totally naive and I definitely don't fall for bullshit lines.

But the more advanced fake accounts might catch me out."

There’s no foolproof way to not fall for a fake, but in my experience most fake ones want to move things fast , meet or move to a different platform.

Take it at your pace and keep it on here until you are comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"I'm no expert but if you use other platforms when chatting to someone,they wont send you a live pic (kik) or they wont video call.

I wouldn’t recommend doing that tbf with online randoms!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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20 weeks ago

East Sussex

There's always a genuine person at the other end they just might not be who they say they are. There's no sure way of telling but if it seems too good to be true it probably is

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Photos not verified

Could be anyone's

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

If they ask for or offer £££

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By *osey WalesMan
20 weeks ago

Surrey

"I'm no expert but if you use other platforms when chatting to someone,they wont send you a live pic (kik) or they wont video call.

I wouldn’t recommend doing that tbf with online randoms!

What i meant, I didnt explain quite right.

I have no issue with messaging here. I do use kik and find it very useful as i get notifications on it. I dont get notifications if i recieve a new message here. So after a while of messaging back and forth on here i will suggest taking it to another platform. Not necessarily whatsapp as the person can then have my phone number. With kik, its anonamous. I know some people think everyone on kik is fake but i genuinely find it a useful platform.

But ultimately there is no fool proof way of spotting a fake. I have been wrong a few times, thinking someone was but was and indeed vice versa

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
20 weeks ago

Merseyside

We don’t think we have really experienced any fake profiles as such - I agree with the advice just take your time and do what suits you. Genuine people will wait for you

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By *rowneyedgirl. OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Durham

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

That's a total given

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By *rowneyedgirl. OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Durham

I have a few who send the same photo over and over again. Never no new ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake.

Or already married "

He wouldn't have a sense of humour if he was married.

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By *r John WickMan
20 weeks ago

The Continental

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake.

Or already married

He wouldn't have a sense of humour if he was married."

He becomes hot, and mildly annoying.

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By *lue collar bradMan
20 weeks ago

derby

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

I've been told I'm funny and I'm real ....

Hold on you said hot and funny my bad

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By *empest2KMan
20 weeks ago

Derby

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

Phew! It's a good job I'm just funny then!

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By *ucka39Man
20 weeks ago

Newcastle

The gut instinct practice makes sense

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
20 weeks ago

Here and there

Use instinct over time it will become lot easier to spot some men who set up single woman or couples account are easiest to suss after first message usually know

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By *rowneyedgirl. OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Durham

"The gut instinct practice makes sense

Yes that comes in handy

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

North West

If it is too good to be true, it more than likely is.

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By *heGentleman2024Man
20 weeks ago

North West

Verified Photos (Green Flag) Verified by meets (Green tick) is a site supporter.. a single verification could be suspicious.. more then one I would assume real..

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By *empest2KMan
20 weeks ago

Derby

I ask them what their favourite cheese is, and if they say they don't like cheese then they are 100% fake

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"Verified Photos (Green Flag) Verified by meets (Green tick) is a site supporter.. a single verification could be suspicious.. more then one I would assume real.."

Jiminy Cricket I'm not real!

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
20 weeks ago

Sydney University Wank Bank

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

Wha….

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake.

Wha….

You're ok.

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By *till gameMan
20 weeks ago

two doors down

"I ask them what their favourite cheese is, and if they say they don't like cheese then they are 100% fake

Oi I don’t cheese , well apart from cheesecake and wotsits

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
20 weeks ago

Narberth

"How do you tell the difference between a real account and a fake?

I'm still newish online but I'm not totally naive and I definitely don't fall for bullshit lines.

But the more advanced fake accounts might catch me out.

There’s no foolproof way to not fall for a fake, but in my experience most fake ones want to move things fast , meet or move to a different platform.

Take it at your pace and keep it on here until you are comfortable "

I give my number after 2 or 3 messages.. if they don't use it I assume they're hiding something

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair

For me it's the longevity of being on here — gut instinct, intuition and general due diligence.

With that said I've never come across a fake profile.

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I give my number after 2 or 3 messages.. if they don't use it I assume they're hiding something"

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That's interesting. Whenever women offer their phone number I hold off for a week or longer, giving them an explanation. It's because it throws me off-guard, I'm less trustful of such cavalier gestures of giving personal numbers. If she's giving me her number then I can't help feeling she's talking to half a dozen other men, concurrently. When she gives me her number so soon the pace and quality of messaging changes drastically. When she gives me her number so soon it's because she's got a burner SIM/burner phone...

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By *ddie1966Man
20 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

Damn....

There's nothing worse than just finding out you're not real and obviously part of the matrix.

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By *oannesTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Trafford Centre

People who hide their account are normally fake

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By *empest2KMan
20 weeks ago

Derby

"I ask them what their favourite cheese is, and if they say they don't like cheese then they are 100% fake

Oi I don’t cheese , well apart from cheesecake and wotsits

Don't worry, you're safe. Soft cheese is still cheese, so you're not fake

Plus, I'm real because I like cheesecake and wotsits too, although not together 'cos that's just weird!

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By *till gameMan
20 weeks ago

two doors down

"I ask them what their favourite cheese is, and if they say they don't like cheese then they are 100% fake

Oi I don’t cheese , well apart from cheesecake and wotsits

Don't worry, you're safe. Soft cheese is still cheese, so you're not fake

Plus, I'm real because I like cheesecake and wotsits too, although not together 'cos that's just weird!

Phew I was beginning to doubt myself

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By *herry delightWoman
20 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

They will want to move off on to another platform very quickly.

DON'T do it

Also you can image search on their pictures, I have court if you out with that.

They may ask for money which at first seam to be genuine but again don't do it.

Look at the language they use, the grandma and spelling is it consistent.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
20 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Do a reverse image search

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By *alcon43Woman
20 weeks ago

Paisley

You could go on cams just to say hello.

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By *rowneyedgirl. OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Durham

"People who hide their account are normally fake"

I hid mine a lot. For personal reasons.

I'm definitely not a fake account.

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By *ixon CiderMan
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

ahahahaahahaha

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By *lym4realCouple
20 weeks ago

plymouth

No real way to tell apart from the if does seem good to be true it normally is bit ?? and where we live they only have one hotel they stay in ? despite there being lots of hotels etc etc ?

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By *osey WalesMan
20 weeks ago

Surrey

"Verified Photos (Green Flag) Verified by meets (Green tick) is a site supporter.. a single verification could be suspicious.. more then one I would assume real..

Jiminy Cricket I'm not real!"

As others have said.

Too good to be true,fake

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By *osey WalesMan
20 weeks ago

Surrey

"They will want to move off on to another platform very quickly.

DON'T do it

Also you can image search on their pictures, I have court if you out with that.

They may ask for money which at first seam to be genuine but again don't do it.

Look at the language they use, the grandma and spelling is it consistent. "

Poor grandad

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By *herry delightWoman
20 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"They will want to move off on to another platform very quickly.

DON'T do it

Also you can image search on their pictures, I have court if you out with that.

They may ask for money which at first seam to be genuine but again don't do it.

Look at the language they use, the grandma and spelling is it consistent.

Poor grandad

Lol I just realise my bad spelling but I am consistent so that's a good sign that I am not fack lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

If there’s no secret word and she’s not demonising men, it’s a fake account.

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
20 weeks ago

Narberth

men offer their dick and whole body in just one message without even seeing your face... me offering an actual conversation sounds suspicious?

If a man cannot call to say hi and is drawn in fears and suspicions he is not for me. I am not going to engage in wasting time with someone that cannot show her voice, face and engage in conversation. You want my pussy but not my number? If I offer my pussy "come over right now" im less slutty than if I give my personal number?

I have no burner phone. I dont mind giving my number if someone is polite and genuinely wants to engage. How can someone think than fucking is less intimate than a phone number? Find it so offputting.

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
20 weeks ago

Narberth

"People who hide their account are normally fake

I hid mine a lot. For personal reasons.

I'm definitely not a fake account. "

if I get tired of messages, I hide it too. And most men I have been with hide it every so often too. And they are all genuine.

I find it weird if someone is chatting and trying to arrange meets while the profile is hidden. That is weird. But hidden while taking a brake is totally normal

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By *randMrsLPCouple
20 weeks ago

london

Nothing is fool proof. However, we oly really look at those with verified by another FS member and profile of the people that verified the account, their profile is not hidden

The few guys we have met - we have asked many questions and imo, those not real or real in the claims they make, soon out themselves by being rude and worse.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

"I have a few who send the same photo over and over again. Never no new ones.

That would be a red flag for me.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Your profile is hidden op so I'm not sure who you're looking to meet.

Are fake male accounts a thing?

If you're looking for couples, watch out for things like the woman is never available & there's just pics of him. Also wanting to move to pic swap or sex chat usually is because it's a man wanting wank fodder.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

"How do you tell the difference between a real account and a fake?

I'm still newish online but I'm not totally naive and I definitely don't fall for bullshit lines.

But the more advanced fake accounts might catch me out."

Read the account.

Message them ( or they message you )

Ask for a phone chat

More than one delay then ..... don't pay them any attention. They are playing

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

Two things.......

1. What do you mean by fake .. and...

2. I sensed fake on this thread.

Gut feelings are good too.

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By *onkoMan
20 weeks ago

here and there

I'm a fake and a time waster

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

"I'm a fake and a time waster

I knew it you sexy stockinged floozy you !

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By *rowneyedgirl. OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Durham

"Two things.......

1. What do you mean by fake .. and...

2. I sensed fake on this thread.

Gut feelings are good too."

People pretending to be someone else (IE posting photos of themselves but it's really someone's photo)

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By *onkoMan
20 weeks ago

here and there

"I'm a fake and a time waster

I knew it you sexy stockinged floozy you !"

That's me

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Two things.......

1. What do you mean by fake .. and...

2. I sensed fake on this thread.

Gut feelings are good too.

People pretending to be someone else (IE posting photos of themselves but it's really someone's photo)

Use a reverse image search if you're suspicious of any pics.

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By *rBobbMan
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

If it's an alleged couple ask for a phone conversation with both of them before moving forward. That usually does the trick.

The male half of a couple mailed me yesterday saying his wife wanted to meet as she liked older guys. On his second mail he asked about WhatsApp. I said sure after I have spoken to you both on the phone.

Never heard off him again

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

"Two things.......

1. What do you mean by fake .. and...

2. I sensed fake on this thread.

Gut feelings are good too.

People pretending to be someone else (IE posting photos of themselves but it's really someone's photo)

Use a reverse image search if you're suspicious of any pics. "

Gotcha ...... I said above - ask to speak to them on the phone. Until you've spoken don't spend ages in messages.

They have to come out of hiding

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By *lue collar bradMan
20 weeks ago

derby

It can be hard (pun intended ) to spot

I got propositioned by a couple on here ... with verifications .... and as a single male I was very excited as that doesn't happen ...

So I sent face pics etc and asked for some in return kept saying closer to the time ....

Never received any and meet never happened

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By *ustincider888Man
20 weeks ago

Preston Ish

"If he's hot and funny?

Fake."

I'm not fake

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By *arkietwoCouple
20 weeks ago

Travel All Over

Admin keep clearing my update warning people that milf51 is likely a fake account. At best a time waster. Went missing and stopped messaging as the date arrived. “Her” photos are from a USA site. Yet they clear my status and let the fake account carry on.

Jesus!!!!

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
20 weeks ago

essex

I agree with the it they seem too good to be true then they’re probably fake

I’ve had four different ones all sounded perfect and met what I was looking for chatted for a while and then I’ve been blocked. One came back with a new profile but same pics and when I pulled him up on it he blocked me instantly.

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By *ex HolesMan
20 weeks ago

Up North

I’m real and I’d fuck your anus OP

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
20 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If their name has a S in it then you can safely assume they are too good to be true.

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By *rowneyedgirl. OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Durham

"I’m real and I’d fuck your anus OP

Errmmm

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By *ex HolesMan
20 weeks ago

Up North

"I’m real and I’d fuck your anus OP

Errmmm

Bend over darlin

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By *nnCeeWoman
20 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"I’m real and I’d fuck your anus OP

Errmmm

Bend over darlin

Rex!!

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By *ames250122Man
20 weeks ago

Worcester

"How do you tell the difference between a real account and a fake?

I'm still newish online but I'm not totally naive and I definitely don't fall for bullshit lines.

But the more advanced fake accounts might catch me out."

Hard to say really, I’ve been on here for a while and never found a sure certain way. The only time I found it was a dead give away was because they used a photo of another popular fabbers body pic who comes on the forums a lot so instantly new something wasn’t right

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By *olgateSmile81Man
20 weeks ago

London

I do the Kevin Bacon approach. If they are verified, great, but then I look at the verifications of the verifications and so on, once they have a few degrees of separation I know (or am more confident) they are genuine.

That said, I had a great meet with someone who was only verified by photo. Her fabginity. Everyone has to start somewhere!

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
20 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

If it had Dom in the name or profile fake as fuck

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