FabSwingers.com forum: Opinions wanted

By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

Hey FAB!

Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile

I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I like your squirrelly bum!

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By *dquestCouple
35 weeks ago

Peterborough

There are a million and one single guys on here thinking they foundnthe fountain of eternal sex... bottom line, most swinging is a couples activity with a little threesomes thrown in for variety.

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"?? So I should shave/wax it?"

Noooooo! You be you fella! Plenty of women love a furry bum!

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By *ucka39Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

What's your definition of using the site properly in which way please

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
35 weeks ago

Cardiff

"I like your squirrelly bum!

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this made me look

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

?? You a fan of it or nah? All feedback welcome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I like your squirrelly bum!

this made me look "

What were you expecting?

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

Trying to actively use it haha

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
35 weeks ago

Cardiff

"?? You a fan of it or nah? All feedback welcome lol"
I’m not but doesn’t mean someone else would be a fan though we’re all different

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

You mean message but no reply op? You and 34k single male profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Trying to actively use it haha "

Finding the reply and quote button under the message you're replying to makes using the forums a bit easier if that helps? Have a good time sir! Tis a great site for a guy

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By *viatrixWoman
35 weeks ago

Redhill

"?? You a fan of it or nah? All feedback welcome lol"

I don’t like furry bs at all. I’d recommend waxing but of course you’re super far and you should do what makes you comfy, not other people

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
35 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....

Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?

Or are you lying

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

"I like your squirrelly bum!

this made me look "

yep me too

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

"Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....

Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?

Or are you lying

Hey so I am 27! I don’t know why my age is older it was a mistake, I wouldn’t intentionally lie about something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I like your squirrelly bum!

this made me look

yep me too

What were you ladies expecting??? Like a cosplay tail or summat?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"Hey FAB!

Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile

I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ?? "

You are far from ugly lovely x

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

"I like your squirrelly bum!

this made me look

yep me too

What were you ladies expecting??? Like a cosplay tail or summat?

bum butt tail at least

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Infrared my man, I reckon if you got butt tail and added pics then the ladies would love you!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
35 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....

Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?

Or are you lying

Hey so I am 27! I don’t know why my age is older it was a mistake, I wouldn’t intentionally lie about something like that"

Well you can change your birthdate in less than a minute and that would show more honesty.

It's just going to keep on counting up from 32 every year unless you do

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
35 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hey FAB!

Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile

I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??

You are far from ugly lovely x"

I thought that. He has a nice face and nice smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Why do you call yourself a regular '27' year old guy ..... BUT your profile says 31 or 32 can't remember....

Does that mean you've not updated your profile in 4/5 years ? You've not grown at all ? Changed your desires or what you can offer ?

Or are you lying

Hey so I am 27! I don’t know why my age is older it was a mistake, I wouldn’t intentionally lie about something like that"

97 in your name makes sense, I believe you

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By *ony MannMan
35 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

You have a public face pic, that is one better than me. Most women know what a cock looks like, I have one hidden away if requested. You have hidden your verification, some will ask why.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Profile says not got face pics, then profile pic is your face, plus the age mix up, just screams not updated since joining so doesn't imply any effort being made.

Ps.. far from ugly x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"Hey FAB!

Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile

I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??

You are far from ugly lovely x

I thought that. He has a nice face and nice smile."

Definitely.. I'd have a cheeky snog with him

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

"Hey FAB!

Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile

I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??

You are far from ugly lovely x"

Thank you I appreciate that! You aren’t too far away either x

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By *lueLotusWoman
35 weeks ago

the wilderness

I love a furry bum

Maybe update your bio a bit, says no face pics yet there you are. Cute too. Not trying to shag the whole of fab blah blah it's off putting. And in my opinion, one dick pic is enough. I'm sure some ppl will disagree with me tho

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Op, you aren't ugly.

People can give you advice on your profile on what they want, just be you.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
35 weeks ago

Darwen

You are not ugly, it is just people on here are picky. I'm not everyone's type either. It is what it is.

Just keep doing you.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"Hey FAB!

Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile

I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??

You are far from ugly lovely x

Thank you I appreciate that! You aren’t too far away either x "

You're welcome.. you should update your profile to reflect the correct age, you don't say what your type is though..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. This isn't about ugliness, just the facts of human existence, in Fab and everywhere.

If someone doesn't grasp this, I struggle to understand how they cope with adult life. Couple it with swinging and you have a myriad of sexual, relationship and psychological aspects of compatibility.

Single men are not in short supply and nobody has to compromise. Men must sell themselves as well as or better than an equivalent, if they are to get competitive advantage. Ask yourself how well you are doing this and what your expectations are from swinging.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
35 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hey FAB!

Been on here a while, only just started using it properly but not having any luck which is frustrating! Wondering if I’m actually ugly - let me know how I can improve my profile

I’m open to all really apart from single Males haha ??

You are far from ugly lovely x

Thank you I appreciate that! You aren’t too far away either x "

Not too far away from what and for what ?

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

Thank you everyone I have taken on board your advice and updated my age and bio!

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple
35 weeks ago

Bristol

"There are a million and one single guys on here thinking they foundnthe fountain of eternal sex... bottom line, most swinging is a couples activity with a little threesomes thrown in for variety. "

This is exactly that. Men flooded the market, unicorns are a rare thing, couples are selective and will find you! Ask 100 couples on here, you might get a reply. If we upload a picture, we normally get around 50 messages, mainly “you free tonight”, really think about what you’re after and if this is the place for you, or are you just another male thinking this is going to be easy because the women and couples are just going to open their legs with an open invite at the first sight of another penis!

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple
35 weeks ago

Bristol

"Op, you aren't ugly.

People can give you advice on your profile on what they want, just be you.

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just read your profile, and we absolutely love it! Anyone who hasn’t read the tagged profile, do so

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

"Op, you aren't ugly.

People can give you advice on your profile on what they want, just be you.

just read your profile, and we absolutely love it! Anyone who hasn’t read the tagged profile, do so

What my profile? If so thank you! Difficult to word it properly but I hope it comes across well x

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By *partharmonyCouple
35 weeks ago

Ruislip

I would say it's a bit "cock-heavy". The vast majority of women on (at least on the forums) are not attracted by cock photos. A knob is not generally an object of desire for a woman if they have never met the man (and often even if they have).

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

"I would say it's a bit "cock-heavy". The vast majority of women on (at least on the forums) are not attracted by cock photos. A knob is not generally an object of desire for a woman if they have never met the man (and often even if they have)."

That is fair enough I need to decide which pics to delete haha

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Crawley

I think it's good. I've always shown cock pics on my profile but not if I'm looking for women. If this was my profile I'd hide all cock pics. Take more of pictures of yourself either way, I want to see one of you in a nice shirt and add two more.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
35 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Too many dick pics

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

"Too many dick pics "

Okay appreciate the feedback - down to two now.. one with body and then just one when it’s hard x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
35 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Too many dick pics

Okay appreciate the feedback - down to two now.. one with body and then just one when it’s hard x "

Personally... I would keep them in your friends album and have a variety of others for public. A man's dick is never going to be what attracts the majority of women.

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Crawley

I would edit the current status update. It's the first thing I read and it comes across a bit negative or gripey. JMVHO.

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple
35 weeks ago

Bristol

Leave something to the imagination with your pics, make them creative, seen one cock, if you’ve seen them all!! Make it a story to be revealed

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Always stay positive, unless you’re being openly sarcastic and witty, and even then use it sparingly! I’d advise the same with real life too!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wirral.

Hey OP.

You're definitely not ugly & have a rather nice bod, too.

Sadly, your age may go against you on here as a lot of folk on here have kids your age. Of course, there ARE younger folk, and older women who actively like young guys, so just hang in there.

I'd maybe explain why you can't accomodate, as it can be construed as you're not single.

Good luck! X

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By *uctifanoWoman
35 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I like your squirrelly bum!

this made me look

yep me too

What were you ladies expecting??? Like a cosplay tail or summat?

Yes, yes I was hoping

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By *nfrared97 OP Man
35 weeks ago

weston super mare

Thanks everyone! Defo given me a confidence boost

Ready to chat with and potentially meet like minded people within 2 hours of Bristol x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"Thanks everyone! Defo given me a confidence boost

Ready to chat with and potentially meet like minded people within 2 hours of Bristol x"

Great news x

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