FabSwingers.com forum: Wife cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
29 weeks ago

When you find out your wife has been seeing someone else for the last few months, what do I do, accept the fact or go and find my self someone???

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Errrrmmmm you are on this site so not sure we have the right to criticise.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Looks like you already started looking a while ago

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

And your own profile pretty much says you are OK with married people.

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By *obajxMan
29 weeks ago

Cheshire

Are you on here as a couple with your wife, or as a single?

If a single, is that with your wife's permission?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

If she's cheating and you joined this site I'd say it's a done deal OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Not sure this is going to end well or how you'd expect. Maybe she has seen your profile and is following your advice, namely "If your married/attached that's your business not mine. Discretion assured."

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
29 weeks ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

No verifications, but it seems she might have...

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By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Covent Garden

In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.

Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.

Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk."

In fairness joining a swinging site is probably not the first step in cheating, it's more a 3rd date kinda thing.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
29 weeks ago

Coventry

i would so love one of those emoji with the hands in the air! - think its all been said !

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By *eroLondonMan
29 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.

Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk.

In fairness joining a swinging site is probably not the first step in cheating, it's more a 3rd date kinda thing.

I wasn't being serious.

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By *orace99Man
29 weeks ago

York

"When you find out your wife has been seeing someone else for the last few months, what do I do, accept the fact or go and find my self someone???"

I think I would want to know the reason why and take it from there.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

"When you find out your wife has been seeing someone else for the last few months, what do I do, accept the fact or go and find my self someone???"

Fix things or walk away, revenge cheating is no better, joining a swingers site behind her back isn't an ideal way to fix things.

You either want to be with her or you don't, don't be a child about it it's not enough excuse to cheat because she did

Mrs

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By *illan-KillashMan
29 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"When you find out your wife has been seeing someone else for the last few months, what do I do, accept the fact or go and find my self someone???"

What do you do? Simple.

Talk to her. Calm, rational, patient. And listen. And most important, hear what she says.

*This concludes my Ted Talk.

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By *rispyDuckMan
29 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Just divorce so you can both move on, no point dragging a dead horse

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"In fairness, the OP's been on here for a mere 7 weeks. He said his wife's been cheating for a few months; that's probably roughly 10 weeks, or thereabouts.

Also, he probably joined to garner some advice from you kindly folk."

Ah sorry OP and Nero, you are right, a few months is more than seven weeks.

To give a fair response OP, if you want to save the relationship, then not convinced a tit for tat approach is best, if you want to spice it up, see what she thinks about a couple's profile - but otherwise, it does look like you have made up your mind, so good luck in the search.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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29 weeks ago

East Sussex

What do you want to do?

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By *issmorganWoman
29 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

You need to decide if you both want to work to fix this and stay together.

Just cheating yourself isn't the answer and won't solve your issues.

Only you know if your marriage is worth saving or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Hi op

You need to decide if you both want to work to fix this and stay together.

Just cheating yourself isn't the answer and won't solve your issues.

Only you know if your marriage is worth saving or not. "

This.

Dragging another person into your drama is not fair.

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By *osey WalesMan
29 weeks ago

Surrey

I'm more thinking this.

Are you upset that your wife has cheated on you or are you upset that she didnt tell you?.

You are on a swingers site. Does her cheating upset you or turn you on?.

Does she know you are here ?.

Do you want to stay together ?. Does the idea of her being with another man (or woman) and perhaps you with another woman (or man) excite or repulse you ?

Too much unknown data for me

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
29 weeks ago

Arlesey

Maybe try talking to her about why she cheated etc. Perhaps it's something you could work through using this site together rather than behind her back as she cheats on you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Central

Communicate and find your common ground for the future.

If you're hurt, do what you can to support your wellbeing.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I don’t get it after reading your profile? You’re happy to help another wife cheat? If that’s the case then you’re happy to make another guy feel the way you do now if he discovers you are seeing his wife, right?

I thinking your business and know what’s wrong and right and and so do all the other people involved or potentially involved, so nobody seems to be in a position to take the moral high ground in this situation from what I can see…

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By *ights-cdTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Liverpool

My wife sees other guys , she’s not aware that I know .

I can hardly complain about it as she doesn’t know I’m on here and dress etc ..

as long as she’s happy I’m fine with it

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