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Men, attention and compliments.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
42 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I do give compliments to men

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By *asty tatsyMan
42 weeks ago

london


"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?"

I can’t remember so too long ago, but on the other hand I forget where I put my keys 10 mins ago so might not be

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By *sus82Man
42 weeks ago

Derby

Last compliment was one drawing I did .

A compliment from someone I didn't know on fab like you're handsome or even I would is always good ...

Long term friends etc a good compliment is that they enjoy being around me ... a long term female friend

They enjoy my company and they tell me I'm sexy ha ah

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By *JcuriousCouple
42 weeks ago

Derby

It's nice to be complimented, I especially smile if it's from someone I really like too.

I do compliment the male half of couples also, I like to compliment people in general!

Miss S x

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
42 weeks ago

Norwich

If I had a pound for every compliment I received on here, I’d be extremely poor.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move

It's been a while like. A fabber told me last week I had a nice smile after exchanging face pics, but then it was followed by a "but I'm not attracted to you". Haha

Ah well, can't win them all. It's nice to be nice. The odd compliment wouldn't go amiss. But I don't pine for them. Men rarely recieve compliments in my experience

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair

When women message me it's usually in the form of a witty and good natured compliment.

A compliment from a woman on here is like the uncorking of a fine wine: it isn't every day but it's graciously received when offered.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I remember a compliment a long time ago, which made me feel nice as I thought it was very genuine., but it is a really long time ago.

Do you know what, the biggest compliment I feel is when a woman is happy to hold my hand in public. And that’s genuine. It’s as if she is to say she does not mind to be seen with me. I actually feel very proud that a woman will hold her hand out and grab mine. It’s very flattering.

I don’t know if that makes sense to anyone else.

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair


"When women message me it's usually in the form of a witty and good natured compliment.

A compliment from a woman on here is like the uncorking of a fine wine: it isn't every day but it's graciously received when offered."

Oh, and the last time I received one was yesterday and the day before.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I do give compliments to men "

Compliments where they're just given to be nice or is it flirting?

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate

Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
42 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I do give compliments to men

Compliments where they're just given to be nice or is it flirting?"

A little of some and some of the other ...

Sometimes I'm just being nice other times I'm flirting.... they're always given sincerely though

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By *ea monkeyMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I got called gorgeous earlier. I’ll take that!

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By *parkleisback79Woman
42 weeks ago

Southend

Always giving compliments to my fwb

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?

I can’t remember so too long ago, but on the other hand I forget where I put my keys 10 mins ago so might not be "

I really hope it isn't!

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By *ezandCCouple
42 weeks ago

Telford

Kez compliments me often, on fab rarely, but a lady did say we both had nice bums, which is nice as most people get distracted when they see kez’s.

Kez doesn’t compliment men on fab as its not what she looks at.

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By *.0509Woman
42 weeks ago

luton

Yeah I definitely give compliments!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
42 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I got called gorgeous earlier. I’ll take that! "

As you should x

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise "

•

For what it's worth I like your t / herringbone waistcoat (11 January 2024).

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I get them on here, yes.

In the real world first thing is usually my hair.

It's a good ice breaker.

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I count myself as a man.

I get very few compliments.

The few I do get, are 100% always from horny men !!!

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise

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For what it's worth I like your t / herringbone waistcoat (11 January 2024).

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Why thank you squire!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

In everyday life quite often.

On the forums here not so much. But I think on here you have to be one of the ‘popular’ ones to receive those.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Last compliment was one drawing I did .

A compliment from someone I didn't know on fab like you're handsome or even I would is always good ...

Long term friends etc a good compliment is that they enjoy being around me ... a long term female friend

They enjoy my company and they tell me I'm sexy ha ah "

So you'd still smile if a random person said you're hot/attractive on Fab? You wouldn't need to know them to enjoy the compliment?

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By *empest2KMan
42 weeks ago

Derby

I guess it depends where the compliment is coming from.

I get compliments from my wife pretty much every day, plus I am not shy in complimenting her too.

When it comes to Fab, I get occasional compliments on my smile, my gold peacock feather shirt, and my collection of ‘mengerie’.

But the best compliments are from those I've met in person through swinging, mainly at parties I've attended. Those really make me feel good, especially when it has resulted in having a bit of fun together

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
42 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"In everyday life quite often.

On the forums here not so much. But I think on here you have to be one of the ‘popular’ ones to receive those. "

Well I think you have a great profile, and .. yes I had to stop myself drooling over your pics

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"It's nice to be complimented, I especially smile if it's from someone I really like too.

I do compliment the male half of couples also, I like to compliment people in general!

Miss S x"

You are the living personification of a breezy, sunny day.

Would you ever compliment a man on Fab without having spoken to him previously?

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By *JcuriousCouple
42 weeks ago

Derby


"It's nice to be complimented, I especially smile if it's from someone I really like too.

I do compliment the male half of couples also, I like to compliment people in general!

Miss S x

You are the living personification of a breezy, sunny day.

Would you ever compliment a man on Fab without having spoken to him previously? "

I love that thank you Meli.

No, that's not something I would do. I personally think it's a bit random?

Miss S x

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"If I had a pound for every compliment I received on here, I’d be extremely poor."

What sort of compliments would you like? What things do you appreciate being noticed?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Genuinely can't remember. I also tend to cringe when I do get them so probably not a bad thing

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By *empest2KMan
42 weeks ago

Derby


"In everyday life quite often.

On the forums here not so much. But I think on here you have to be one of the ‘popular’ ones to receive those. "

I wish I was ‘popular’ on here too but, ah, c'est la vie

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"It's been a while like. A fabber told me last week I had a nice smile after exchanging face pics, but then it was followed by a "but I'm not attracted to you". Haha

Ah well, can't win them all. It's nice to be nice. The odd compliment wouldn't go amiss. But I don't pine for them. Men rarely recieve compliments in my experience "

If someone isn't attracted to you but they still think your face is nice? That's a win. Ideal world they would be, but still...

Do you compliment other men?

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"When women message me it's usually in the form of a witty and good natured compliment.

A compliment from a woman on here is like the uncorking of a fine wine: it isn't every day but it's graciously received when offered."

If it was in the form of a more sexual one, perhaps still witty but far more... sexual based, would you like that? Or do you prefer a more gentle touch?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

People compliment my personality often.

In terms of being attractive? Probably Saturday? Someone called me sexy.

I like that shit. Telling me I’m attractive to you means something to me. It matters.

It sounds bad but I feel like I’ve heard a lot that I’m a nice person or wise or intelligent etc. I sometimes don’t know if it hits as hard anymore which is good but sad? But I also like hearing that shit too. I’m not ungrateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"In everyday life quite often.

On the forums here not so much. But I think on here you have to be one of the ‘popular’ ones to receive those.

I wish I was ‘popular’ on here too but, ah, c'est la vie "

Careful what you wish for - it can be a double edged sword

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move


"It's been a while like. A fabber told me last week I had a nice smile after exchanging face pics, but then it was followed by a "but I'm not attracted to you". Haha

Ah well, can't win them all. It's nice to be nice. The odd compliment wouldn't go amiss. But I don't pine for them. Men rarely recieve compliments in my experience

If someone isn't attracted to you but they still think your face is nice? That's a win. Ideal world they would be, but still...

Do you compliment other men?"

If I think a bloke looks good, I would in "real life". Not sure I would on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Am I happy with the attention I receive? No. Everyone wants to feel sexy and desired now and again.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I remember a compliment a long time ago, which made me feel nice as I thought it was very genuine., but it is a really long time ago.

Do you know what, the biggest compliment I feel is when a woman is happy to hold my hand in public. And that’s genuine. It’s as if she is to say she does not mind to be seen with me. I actually feel very proud that a woman will hold her hand out and grab mine. It’s very flattering.

I don’t know if that makes sense to anyone else. "

Oh that makes perfect sense Woody and in a not patronising way it's really lovely. It is flattering, it's that little intimate moment that shows someone is happy to be seen with you.

I recently went a bit giggly and forgot how to speak when someone took my hand. It was very cute.

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By *avexxMan
42 weeks ago

cheshire

not many tbh but hey im not a young man

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise "

Oh that's quite sad Jay. What compliments would mean something to you?

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I got called gorgeous earlier. I’ll take that! "

That's a win! Are you comfortable with complimenting other men?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I only compliment my friends in real life. Fab no way. Unless it was a social club visit with someone I know.

Random compliments bit sleazy

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise

Oh that's quite sad Jay. What compliments would mean something to you?"

I suppose something relating to how you're seen and perceived would be good.

Getting older so don't always feel as good about myself as I used to.

It's a simple little ego boost!

Just a smile raiser

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Sometimes I do

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

I have actually complimented a few blokes on here.

It's rare but it happens.

Mrs

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Kez compliments me often, on fab rarely, but a lady did say we both had nice bums, which is nice as most people get distracted when they see kez’s.

Kez doesn’t compliment men on fab as its not what she looks at."

Let's take Kez out of the picture.

Do you put yourself out there in a way in which people are easily able to compliment you? On Fab for example.

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By *ags73Man
42 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Had compliments and it’s kind of people but I don’t believe them. That’s more me than anything

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By *uiet LightMan
42 weeks ago

Hove


"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?"

I'm not sure I understand the question, what exactly are these strange...comp-plo-ments of which you speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Sometimes, rarely these days to be honest.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I get them on here, yes.

In the real world first thing is usually my hair.

It's a good ice breaker."

Ah the hair! Yes, I can see why. Do you find that you're more receptive to the compliment if it's from an attractive person (in your eyes) or do you respond in a similar fashion regardless?

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move


"Sometimes, rarely these days to be honest. "

You have really lovely stripey socks x

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"In everyday life quite often.

On the forums here not so much. But I think on here you have to be one of the ‘popular’ ones to receive those. "

Possibly. A more frequent poster perhaps so people feel more comfortable and know more about you in order to give them maybe?

Are there any types of compliments you would like to receive on here?

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Sometimes, rarely these days to be honest. "

I complimented you the other week.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
42 weeks ago

Ipswich

In real life none

On fab none

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
42 weeks ago

The Continental

I love it.

It’s usually my eyes that draw the most number of compliments. Or the surprising “oh aren’t you just a handsome chap” type messages I get on occasion.

I usually walk an inch or two taller after those.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
42 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise "

Well I think your profile is beautiful, gorgeous pictures, love your tattoo's, nice bio too - hope you're having a lovely day

S.xxx

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise

Well I think your profile is beautiful, gorgeous pictures, love your tattoo's, nice bio too - hope you're having a lovely day

S.xxx"

Why thank you very much. Sat here grinning to myself now x

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
42 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise

Well I think your profile is beautiful, gorgeous pictures, love your tattoo's, nice bio too - hope you're having a lovely day

S.xxx

Why thank you very much. Sat here grinning to myself now x"

Happy to have made you smile

S xxx

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I count myself as a man.

I get very few compliments.

The few I do get, are 100% always from horny men !!! "

Do you mind people objectifying you?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"I remember a compliment a long time ago, which made me feel nice as I thought it was very genuine., but it is a really long time ago.

Do you know what, the biggest compliment I feel is when a woman is happy to hold my hand in public. And that’s genuine. It’s as if she is to say she does not mind to be seen with me. I actually feel very proud that a woman will hold her hand out and grab mine. It’s very flattering.

I don’t know if that makes sense to anyone else. "

It does. I can count on one hand the number of guys I’ve know (intimately) who would hold my hand in public.

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By *zeroMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow

I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

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By *uiet LightMan
42 weeks ago

Hove


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The few I do get, are 100% always from horny men !!!

Do you mind people objectifying you? "

Interesting question, and no, I certainly wouldn't

Why do you ask OP?

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward "

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
42 weeks ago

york

Not necessarily fab but 3 weeks ago I went to a friends wedding and after buying a new suit, haircut and professional shave and really putting a lot of effort in my date said "you look nice" that was the last in person compliment I got

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By *rBobbMan
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

I have been told a couple of times recently that I am a nice guy. I was really happy to read those messages.

It's always nice to receive a compliment. It's true that I don't receive many here so I really value the ones that I do get and always thank someone for their kind words.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
42 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I do not give compliments to men here. Not publicly anyway and seldom do I in DM unless it's about the character/ forum persona..

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate


"I have been told a couple of times recently that I am a nice guy. I was really happy to read those messages.

It's always nice to receive a compliment. It's true that I don't receive many here so I really value the ones that I do get and always thank someone for their kind words."

Agree on thanking the person. Some people just take the compliment and don't acknowledge them. I find that a bit disheartening when you've said often what may not be ready to come out with.

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By *zeroMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag"

PG Tips

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By *JcuriousCouple
42 weeks ago

Derby


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips"

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
42 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I always welcome compliments

They mostly come from chaps on here but that’s ok

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I guess it depends where the compliment is coming from.

I get compliments from my wife pretty much every day, plus I am not shy in complimenting her too.

When it comes to Fab, I get occasional compliments on my smile, my gold peacock feather shirt, and my collection of ‘mengerie’.

But the best compliments are from those I've met in person through swinging, mainly at parties I've attended. Those really make me feel good, especially when it has resulted in having a bit of fun together "

Awww that's lovely! Yes, I think in person compliments hit differently. I also think it's about knowing what somebody likes being noticed. There are certain compliments that whilst I'll acknowledge etc they don't have me grinning away like a Cheshire cat.

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By *zeroMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x"

I like Yorkshire Tea too but PG is my go to

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

I like Yorkshire Tea too but PG is my go to"

Has to be Yorkshire Tea for me. And decent Northern Water.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Genuinely can't remember. I also tend to cringe when I do get them so probably not a bad thing "

Ha yes, if you're cringing and they're leaving you feeling awkward; that's not a fun place to be in.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x"

So pretty and yet so wrong! Yorkshire Tea is the true King of Teabags

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Yea errr no, nice things are not what people say about me.

The mr

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By *JcuriousCouple
42 weeks ago

Derby


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

So pretty and yet so wrong! Yorkshire Tea is the true King of Teabags"

let's agree to disagree so we don't de-rail the thread haha

Miss S x

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"People compliment my personality often.

In terms of being attractive? Probably Saturday? Someone called me sexy.

I like that shit. Telling me I’m attractive to you means something to me. It matters.

It sounds bad but I feel like I’ve heard a lot that I’m a nice person or wise or intelligent etc. I sometimes don’t know if it hits as hard anymore which is good but sad? But I also like hearing that shit too. I’m not ungrateful. "

No, I don't think you're ungrateful, I think you just like being seen as a sexual person. An attractive one. Personality is lovely but sometimes a little bit of objectifying is good for the soul.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

So pretty and yet so wrong! Yorkshire Tea is the true King of Teabags

let's agree to disagree so we don't de-rail the thread haha

Miss S x"

OK you're right. I'll just require 1 compliment please haha

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

So pretty and yet so wrong! Yorkshire Tea is the true King of Teabags

let's agree to disagree so we don't de-rail the thread haha

Miss S x

OK you're right. I'll just require 1 compliment please haha"

Tart

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By *zeroMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

I like Yorkshire Tea too but PG is my go to

Has to be Yorkshire Tea for me. And decent Northern Water."

Scottish water. Aka the nectar of the Gods

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
42 weeks ago

Always on the move


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

So pretty and yet so wrong! Yorkshire Tea is the true King of Teabags

let's agree to disagree so we don't de-rail the thread haha

Miss S x

OK you're right. I'll just require 1 compliment please haha

Tart "

Who, me?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
42 weeks ago

North West


"I do give compliments to men "

Yes you do

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42 weeks ago

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By *exxyyDy11Man
42 weeks ago

North West

I do get compliments on my physique from couples and women on here from time to time

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
42 weeks ago

St Leonards

I received a compliment from you yesterday Meli.

Thank you very much xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"People compliment my personality often.

In terms of being attractive? Probably Saturday? Someone called me sexy.

I like that shit. Telling me I’m attractive to you means something to me. It matters.

It sounds bad but I feel like I’ve heard a lot that I’m a nice person or wise or intelligent etc. I sometimes don’t know if it hits as hard anymore which is good but sad? But I also like hearing that shit too. I’m not ungrateful.

No, I don't think you're ungrateful, I think you just like being seen as a sexual person. An attractive one. Personality is lovely but sometimes a little bit of objectifying is good for the soul."

You get me, Meli. But in the words of ENNY, ‘charge it to the game I guess’

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"not many tbh but hey im not a young man "

But men get better as they age! I'm never sure why youth is placed on a pinnacle.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise

Oh that's quite sad Jay. What compliments would mean something to you?

I suppose something relating to how you're seen and perceived would be good.

Getting older so don't always feel as good about myself as I used to.

It's a simple little ego boost!

Just a smile raiser

"

Would you be happy with that from someone you didn't know?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"not many tbh but hey im not a young man

But men get better as they age! I'm never sure why youth is placed on a pinnacle. "

Don’t get rude

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By *ayRyuMan
42 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Generally doesn't happen. I'm complimentary so may get one back reciprocally.

But they're not forthcoming otherwise

Oh that's quite sad Jay. What compliments would mean something to you?

I suppose something relating to how you're seen and perceived would be good.

Getting older so don't always feel as good about myself as I used to.

It's a simple little ego boost!

Just a smile raiser

Would you be happy with that from someone you didn't know?"

It's always nice to see

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I received a compliment from you yesterday Meli.

Thank you very much xx."

Oh, any time. You truly deserved that comparison, happy to throw some more your way whenever your fertile imagination breeds another kooky idea. xx

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair


"When women message me it's usually in the form of a witty and good natured compliment.

A compliment from a woman on here is like the uncorking of a fine wine: it isn't every day but it's graciously received when offered.

·

If it was in the form of a more sexual one, perhaps still witty but far more... sexual based, would you like that? Or do you prefer a more gentle touch?"

•

I prefer the "gentle touch", to start off with.

I would (potentially) find the sexual one somewhat disingenuous. It would be akin to a woman receiving a sycophantic "Oooh, you're beautiful, absolutely glowing!"...sort of thing.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Had compliments and it’s kind of people but I don’t believe them. That’s more me than anything "

Ah. One of those. Yeah, that must be wank to have those brain goblins. You're happy to give but less to receive, yes?

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?

I'm not sure I understand the question, what exactly are these strange...comp-plo-ments of which you speak? "

Some newfangled notion, don't think it'll ever catch on, don't worry about it.

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By *uiet LightMan
42 weeks ago

Hove


"

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?

I'm not sure I understand the question, what exactly are these strange...comp-plo-ments of which you speak?

Some newfangled notion, don't think it'll ever catch on, don't worry about it."

Oh phew, that's a relief, knew this whole 'lets actually be decent and nice to each other on the internet' thing would never catch on!

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I love it.

It’s usually my eyes that draw the most number of compliments. Or the surprising “oh aren’t you just a handsome chap” type messages I get on occasion.

I usually walk an inch or two taller after those. "

You do have beautiful eyes! Piercing. The sort that make you fold quickly.

I like that you take joy in receiving compliments.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward "

Why do they?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
42 weeks ago

Wirral

On here I tend to be more reserved with compliments than in real life.

On here paying a compliment can be mistaken for an open invitation, so I only do it either as part of the "at 9pm you'll receive a message" threads or with guys I'm already chatting to who are less likely to read too much into it.

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By *orace99Man
42 weeks ago

York

Cannot remember the last time.

To be fair I probably wouldn't believe it given I have such a low opinion of myself in the looks department.

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By *cLovin2Man
42 weeks ago

Reading


"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?"

I'd love a complement from a woman (I had to add that caveat on fab ),

what sort? Hmmm I do love a double entendre

Something along the lines of hi handsome, are you just pleased to see me, or have you got a canoe in your pocket?

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By *r Black 85Man
42 weeks ago

nottingham

I always get people who love my hair when I have it out

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I think my last compliment was from a colleague I occasional message in fb messenger. We got onto the subject of age.

She thought I looked way younger than I was

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By *hrek101Man
42 weeks ago

Herts

On Fab , I got two unsolicited compliments 4 months ago, I kept the messages, in case I never get any more

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By *cLovin2Man
42 weeks ago

Reading


"Sometimes, rarely these days to be honest. "

From your pictures you are a very attractive lady.

but I'm wondering why you are single. Is it bad breath?

Do you have front teeth missing, that makes you spit in the others face when you imitate daffy duck saying "suffering succotash"?

It's a great mystery.

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By *ony MannMan
42 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

The last compliment I got was a couple telling me when the would be at a club, yes I'm taking that as a compliment.

The one I constantly get is a woman telling me she has to wait too long to see me, unless you count her bedroom compliments, and I'm not tell you want the are...if the woman would like to say, please, please tell all those women on here.

Tony

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By *ltmeeMan
42 weeks ago

Everywhere & Nowhere Baby

What's a compliment??

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By *ima7893Man
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

Don’t think I’ve received a compliment for at least a year x

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I don’t expect them, request or require compliments but the few lovely people I speak to here are delightful

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By *cLovin2Man
42 weeks ago

Reading


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x"

They got rid of the pyramid tea bags

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By *eordieJeansCouple
42 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

On fab I don’t get many compliments unless telling me I’m lucky is classed as one. In real life I have been receiving quite a few compliments recently.

Compliments on my personality and humour usually make me smile.

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By *cLovin2Man
42 weeks ago

Reading


"I got told I make a great cup of tea, I liked that.

Compliments about my physical appearance make me feel kind of awkward

What teabags do you use though? A decent cuppa stands on the choice of a banging teabag

PG Tips

The ONLY tea bag you should be using

Miss S x

I like Yorkshire Tea too but PG is my go to

Has to be Yorkshire Tea for me. And decent Northern Water."

Northern water straight out of the Willie's of our Scottish neighbours

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By *partharmonyCouple
42 weeks ago

Ruislip

If somebody thinks I look good and wants to express it then that's really for them. I don't have to look at myself. My hope is that somebody likes how I look enough for it not to be an impediment to us getting it on. If she particularly likes the way I look then it's her who gets the enjoyment out of it.

I would want a woman to like how I look because I want her to enjoy any experience with me be it platonic or sexual, but telling me doesn't give me any kind of warm feeling about myself.

I have learned to say thank you when it happens but I do feel quite awkward because that's just not how I see myself. Luke

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Yea errr no, nice things are not what people say about me.

The mr "

Lies. Such lies Mr Knight. Tut tut. I've said nice things about you before. Tut.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"

The few I do get, are 100% always from horny men !!!

Do you mind people objectifying you?

Interesting question, and no, I certainly wouldn't

Why do you ask OP? "

Well, I was curious as to how men view it in contrast (if there was one!) to women. What are the things they appreciate being complimented on.

If they don't mind someone saying 'hey, great cock on you, I'd love for you to fuck me silly'. That sort of thing.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"[Removed by poster at 08/05/24 16:39:38]"

This pains me so much Pickle. Hurts. Cuts me deep. Real deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Something genuine and personal would be nice

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By *he ass man 666Man
42 weeks ago

paradise city

Someone didn’t block me after asking for a face pic , suppose that’s a compliment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


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This pains me so much Pickle. Hurts. Cuts me deep. Real deep."

Lmao YEAH RIGHT

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By *illy IdolMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands

I've received some lovely comments on here. The one's I've received from men, with no hidden agenda have been great to read. There are some lovely gents on here who don't see all men as competition

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"On here I tend to be more reserved with compliments than in real life.

On here paying a compliment can be mistaken for an open invitation, so I only do it either as part of the "at 9pm you'll receive a message" threads or with guys I'm already chatting to who are less likely to read too much into it."

Yeah I think that's quite a commonly held view with women. That if they give a compliment it'll be mistaken for wanting more. I'd like to think the majority of men wouldn't see it as a come on.

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By *illy IdolMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands


"I've received some lovely comments on here. The one's I've received from men, with no hidden agenda have been great to read. There are some lovely gents on here who don't see all men as competition"

I also realise I've not answered any of your questions.

Sorry Melissa

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Never had any

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By *reeneyes40Man
42 weeks ago

Cambridge

You have a lovely hand

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By *illy IdolMan
42 weeks ago

Midlands


"Never had any "

You have gorgeous hands and lovely thighs

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By * and R cple4Couple
42 weeks ago

swansea

Someone sent us a picture once and he was nice looking and I told him that but he just wasn't our type, so I got called a cock teaser and a time waster so I probably won't be in a hurry to give any more out..

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By *iaisonseekerMan
42 weeks ago

Liverpool

Sexual, but not overtly crude, compliments are welcome on here - it is nice to feel desirable and, as others have said, they are rare!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I give compliments but dont really get any to be honest

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Cannot remember the last time.

To be fair I probably wouldn't believe it given I have such a low opinion of myself in the looks department."

Sorry to read that. Do you give compliments? I imagine you'd hope they were received as intended if you do, yes?

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By *ags73Man
42 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Had compliments and it’s kind of people but I don’t believe them. That’s more me than anything

Ah. One of those. Yeah, that must be wank to have those brain goblins. You're happy to give but less to receive, yes? "

I’d like to think I do give compliments but it just doesn’t compute when people say things about me, I’m not used to it. It’s is appreciated as I said, but doesn’t make sense

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
42 weeks ago

Essex

There are at least 6 gentlemen on here whom I have complimented.

And a new one x

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"If somebody thinks I look good and wants to express it then that's really for them. I don't have to look at myself. My hope is that somebody likes how I look enough for it not to be an impediment to us getting it on. If she particularly likes the way I look then it's her who gets the enjoyment out of it.

I would want a woman to like how I look because I want her to enjoy any experience with me be it platonic or sexual, but telling me doesn't give me any kind of warm feeling about myself.

I have learned to say thank you when it happens but I do feel quite awkward because that's just not how I see myself. Luke"

It wasn't solely about compliments on the aesthetic. You can compliment far more than someone's appearance, they tend to land better when you do.

I think if you don't see yourself in that way, that's fair enough. It's a very personal thing, down to how we respond.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I've received some lovely comments on here. The one's I've received from men, with no hidden agenda have been great to read. There are some lovely gents on here who don't see all men as competition"

Aww William, I love this for you. It's nice when people don't see it as a competition and can lift each other up.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
42 weeks ago

The Continental


"I love it.

It’s usually my eyes that draw the most number of compliments. Or the surprising “oh aren’t you just a handsome chap” type messages I get on occasion.

I usually walk an inch or two taller after those.

You do have beautiful eyes! Piercing. The sort that make you fold quickly.

I like that you take joy in receiving compliments. "

A smouldering look from me can dissolve knickers at 50 paces

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Something genuine and personal would be nice "

Genuine and personal. Yeah, I think the best compliments are both of those things. The ones that make you feel truly seen by another.

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42 weeks ago


"You have a lovely hand"

Thank you,, I only have the one

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester

Only about 10mins ago. From a fwb outside of fab. I tend not to receive many at all on fab.

It’s a tough old game having a Y chromosome. You can go yonks without so much as a tickle to your self esteem.

I reckon most guys would be happy with the most obvious of compliments. Easily pleased when there’s so little going around. It can really give us a boost. Please say something nice to the boys once in a while.

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By *amie HantsWoman
42 weeks ago

Atlantis

Excellent question.

I do give compliments to men, but usually it’s only to men I am friends with who won’t read into too much, or people I’m having sex with who will read into it a lot and take me there and then.

I give compliments more freely to other women, whether I fancy them or not. I think twice about it with men incase it’s seen as leading them on. I should probably rethink that as I love giving compliments. It’s good to give and receive them, it encourages good behaviour

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Someone sent us a picture once and he was nice looking and I told him that but he just wasn't our type, so I got called a cock teaser and a time waster so I probably won't be in a hurry to give any more out.. "

You shouldn't let one man affect you doing something nice like giving compliments. It happened, fuck it, continue sharing joy.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

As the male half of a couple, compliments don’t come along a lot but WE get some for our pics but usually guys message to try and get into C knickers

K

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By *uiet LightMan
42 weeks ago

Hove


"

Do you mind people objectifying you?

Interesting question, and no, I certainly wouldn't

Why do you ask OP?

Well, I was curious as to how men view it in contrast (if there was one!) to women. What are the things they appreciate being complimented on.

If they don't mind someone saying 'hey, great cock on you, I'd love for you to fuck me silly'. That sort of thing.

"

Oh my God, I'd give me left nut to receive a compliment like that!

And I think the vast majority of men would be absolutely nothing but smitten if women paid out more compliments like that...but equally, I think women are frequently blocked from being their usually effervescent selves by the crude treatment they receive from too many men

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Been turned down more times then a thermostat

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By *rMonkeyMan
42 weeks ago

Somewhere

On FAB, can't remedy.

In real life, last night in the gym, leg day with shorts on, complimented on my thighs

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
42 weeks ago

Bromley

Compliments are few and far apart for me. Sometimes it's my tongue on my profile pictures, in real meets its my white ball python skin cowboy boots ??

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Only about 10mins ago. From a fwb outside of fab. I tend not to receive many at all on fab.

It’s a tough old game having a Y chromosome. You can go yonks without so much as a tickle to your self esteem.

I reckon most guys would be happy with the most obvious of compliments. Easily pleased when there’s so little going around. It can really give us a boost. Please say something nice to the boys once in a while. "

Oh I do. I think they're best to give when truly meant, rather than a pity one? I do also think that more men should receive compliments and it's a shame they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"As the male half of a couple, compliments don’t come along a lot but WE get some for our pics but usually guys message to try and get into C knickers

K"

Same for us single women.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

I do give out a lot of compliments on here, and in real life too. I guess some people probably don't like it and see it as kissing arse but it doesn't bother me because I love praising people and making positive comments no matter how small and trivial they might appear to be. A compliment no matter how small can mean the world to someone who really needs to hear it. I love complimenting those I'm closer with too, and I guess when you know someone on a deeper level then a compliment is more meaningful. But I always mean what I say, and I love taking notice of things and letting people know no matter what my relationship with them is.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester


"Only about 10mins ago. From a fwb outside of fab. I tend not to receive many at all on fab.

It’s a tough old game having a Y chromosome. You can go yonks without so much as a tickle to your self esteem.

I reckon most guys would be happy with the most obvious of compliments. Easily pleased when there’s so little going around. It can really give us a boost. Please say something nice to the boys once in a while.

Oh I do. I think they're best to give when truly meant, rather than a pity one? I do also think that more men should receive compliments and it's a shame they don't."

Most men couldn’t tell a genuine compliment from a pity compliment

I like the thought through ones tho

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By *eyond PurityCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"As the male half of a couple, compliments don’t come along a lot but WE get some for our pics but usually guys message to try and get into C knickers

K

Same for us single women."

C will be happy for single women to get into her knickers

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By *ittleJohn5Man
42 weeks ago

Wickham Market

I mainly get compliments from men

Which is still nice and I accept it for what it is.

Shame more women aren’t into fat old blokes !

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By *ssexBlkMaleMan
42 weeks ago

Essex

On Fab it’s compliments on my dress sense or my body and occasionally my face / smile when I send pics via private message (sometimes the face is what stops the messages flowing hahahah)

In real life it’s usually how I smell as I own over fifty different aftershaves and wear the one I feel to suit that exact occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?"

Wanna fuck

Can I come round now and have sex

Or worse first message you think I need to compliment a stranger and do it more often to strangers.I am not here to go oh wow you have a gorgeous cock to strangers. Specially when photos are not verified. Could be anyone's photo and they get irked when turned away because no thank you was said

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By *heGateKeeperMan
42 weeks ago

Stratford

I get called sweet often

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Been turned down more times then a thermostat "

This made me snort. It's not about being turned down/rejected/whatever.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Excellent question.

I do give compliments to men, but usually it’s only to men I am friends with who won’t read into too much, or people I’m having sex with who will read into it a lot and take me there and then. "

This is a) the realest thing I've read on here today and b) so very identifiable as being you. Long live this energy.


"I give compliments more freely to other women, whether I fancy them or not. I think twice about it with men incase it’s seen as leading them on. I should probably rethink that as I love giving compliments. It’s good to give and receive them, it encourages good behaviour "

Encourages good behaviour, you're truly the gift that keeps on giving.

Yes, on a site like this, especially on a site like this, a compliment can far more easily be misconstrued. I don't like having to caveat compliments and saying 'oh I just wanted to say x, y and z and x, y and z alone'.

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By *tylebender03Man
42 weeks ago

Manchester

I normally receive compliments on my t shirts or trainers

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By *ack 500Man
42 weeks ago

stafford

All the time…………… off men

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42 weeks ago


"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?"
I am pretty sure it was for my gcse coursework.... I'm now 36

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By *heGentleman2024Man
42 weeks ago

North West

You look good today, you smell nice, Thanks for that. Little daily communications are hidden conpliments

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
42 weeks ago

Sunderland

Twas the summer of '02....

Mr

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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Do you mind people objectifying you?

Interesting question, and no, I certainly wouldn't

Why do you ask OP?

Well, I was curious as to how men view it in contrast (if there was one!) to women. What are the things they appreciate being complimented on.

If they don't mind someone saying 'hey, great cock on you, I'd love for you to fuck me silly'. That sort of thing.

Oh my God, I'd give me left nut to receive a compliment like that!

And I think the vast majority of men would be absolutely nothing but smitten if women paid out more compliments like that...but equally, I think women are frequently blocked from being their usually effervescent selves by the crude treatment they receive from too many men "

Possibly. It probably contributes but so does the chasee mentality some women adopt. They like receiving compliments (or dislike them depending on who from), wouldn't consider giving one. Like in threads. Women are quite happy waiting to have messages sent, not sending in things but wanting to be mentioned etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I am sure I've seen compliment the person above thread a few times.

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By *quirrel!Man
42 weeks ago

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The attention/conversation of an attractive woman is a compliment to me!

I wouldn’t believe it if they called me handsome!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Not in

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By *oannesTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Trafford

If they make the effort first

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I can't remember the last compliment I got.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
42 weeks ago

Maidstone

I totally give compliments where i see fit. Trouble is I'm a hard bitch to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I don’t get a lot of attention at all to be honest. Only my self to blame, I don’t put a profile picture due to work. However last compliment I received was yesterday when a women complimented my size. I’d rather be complimented on my good looks but you have to take what you get.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"I don’t get a lot of attention at all to be honest. Only my self to blame, I don’t put a profile picture due to work. However last compliment I received was yesterday when a women complimented my size. I’d rather be complimented on my good looks but you have to take what you get. "

You self awareness there which is good. I do think sometimes... what can a woman say to compliment a profile full of penis and containing one sentence? Someone above mentioned the compliment threads which made me think of that.

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By *quirrel!Man
42 weeks ago

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"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?"

Did I mention you’re gorgeous Meli

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By *r ShenanigansMan
42 weeks ago

Lancing

Saturday night. A play partner told me her orgasms were INTENSE.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"If you're a man - when was the last time you received a compliment? What sort of compliment from someone on Fab would make you smile? Are you happy with the level of attention you receive?

Women, do you give compliments to men on/from here?

Did I mention you’re gorgeous Meli "

Thank you, that's very slick. I should be the one complimenting you though! Got to do the thread right in its final few posts.

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By *eli OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

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"Saturday night. A play partner told me her orgasms were INTENSE."

Oh sexual compliments are brilliant! You don't need to high five but saying how much you enjoyed a particular thing or the effect it had on you - everyone should hear that sort of thing. Makes you feel like a deity.

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42 weeks ago


"I don’t get a lot of attention at all to be honest. Only my self to blame, I don’t put a profile picture due to work. However last compliment I received was yesterday when a women complimented my size. I’d rather be complimented on my good looks but you have to take what you get.

You self awareness there which is good. I do think sometimes... what can a woman say to compliment a profile full of penis and containing one sentence? Someone above mentioned the compliment threads which made me think of that. "

I agree, there’s much more to me than my penis but hard to show that. As men on here it’s hard giving your all in a message to only be deleted therefore we resort to one line sentences.

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By *orshamGuy69Man
42 weeks ago

Redhill

Very rarely on here!! Compliments are as rare as replies from most of the women on here!!

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