FabSwingers.com forum: Do you find a lot of people attractive

By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

I wish I didn’t.

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By *beeMan
35 weeks ago

Bristol

I can find attractive things in a lot of people!!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

No. I am a seesaw in stasis until I work out if I find them attractive or not.

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
35 weeks ago

Arlesey

Yeah, it's a basic human feeling. There is nothing wrong with looking at somebody and thinking they are attractive. It's not the same as developing an actual crush on somebody

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

Sexually attractive no. Attractive to look at loads of people, men and women.

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By *allandathleticMan
35 weeks ago

Asgard

Physically yes. Then they open their mouths and their personality ruins them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Sexually attractive no. Attractive to look at loads of people, men and women. "
oh this has blown me

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
35 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Physically yes. Then they open their mouths and their personality ruins them."

I just spat my tea out laughing at this! You got it spot on!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Sexually attractive no. Attractive to look at loads of people, men and women. oh this has blown me"

Why?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

Yes and in many many different ways.

Looks usually at the bottom of the “list”

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By *enk15Man
35 weeks ago

Evesham

A lot of individual people, yes.

A lot of people in a group? No, that's a scary social situation.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Yeah, it's a basic human feeling. There is nothing wrong with looking at somebody and thinking they are attractive. It's not the same as developing an actual crush on somebody "

I get that. Offline out in the real world I’ve had straight guys come over and say I’m not gay but just wanted to say xyz. It’s nice it’s just being nice to someone. If I did that to a straight guy on here I’d prob get abuse.

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By *JcuriousCouple
35 weeks ago

Derby

I don't.

I do however find more women attractive than men for some reason...

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Um, I’m not sure. I can look at someone and see why people would be attracted to them, but I don’t think I find lots of people attractive. Does that even make any sense?

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
35 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Yeah, it's a basic human feeling. There is nothing wrong with looking at somebody and thinking they are attractive. It's not the same as developing an actual crush on somebody

I suspect there are quite a few straight men on here who are actually discretely bi (purely based on the winks I get from men like that)

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"Physically yes. Then they open their mouths and their personality ruins them."

Ah well I have the personality but not the looks

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Yeah, it's a basic human feeling. There is nothing wrong with looking at somebody and thinking they are attractive. It's not the same as developing an actual crush on somebody

I suspect there are quite a few straight men on here who are actually discretely bi (purely based on the winks I get from men like that)"

ALL the men who message me on here state straight on their profile. I don’t mind that, it’s the game I guess. But I can’t say to a straight guy on here hey I know you’re straight but you look xyz. And that’s a shame.

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By *viatrixWoman
35 weeks ago

Redhill

I don’t.

Which is why I am depressed and in a serious case of being a Billy-no-mates ATM.

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

Aww why Pickle?

I think lots of people are attractive but it's rare I'm attracted to them. Even people I'm not particularly fond of - I can see why others are attracted to them. Sometimes.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Not really, there's some people who I can appreciate are aesthetically pleasing but attraction for me takes some time & personality, I'm not easily attracted to people.

Mrs

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By *a LunaWoman
35 weeks ago

South Wales

"I think lots of people are attractive but it's rare I'm attracted to them. Even people I'm not particularly fond of - I can see why others are attracted to them. Sometimes.

This for me too. They usually have to have a sense of humour that is similar to mine so we gel well. THAT is the tricky part for me.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
35 weeks ago

Always on the move

I can see/find attractive traits in a lot of people. Doesnt make me want to fuck them all, but I definitely have an appreciation

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No.

There are people I'm aware of as being objectively pretty. But I'm never actually attracted to someone unless I get to know them. And I haven't the patience to do that much.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
35 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I am finding that I'm more attracted to someone's brain than their looks.

But I'm not going to go out of my way to ignore it avoid a beautiful lady woman.

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By *emorefridaCouple
35 weeks ago

La la land

"Sexually attractive no. Attractive to look at loads of people, men and women. "

Very much this ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"I don’t.

Which is why I am depressed and in a serious case of being a Billy-no-mates ATM.

Why don’t you hit me up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Sexually attractive no. Attractive to look at loads of people, men and women. oh this has blown me

Why? "

Most of the people I find attractive I find sexually attractive. I don’t often think about people that I *just* think are attractive and no more

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Yep. Loads and loads. Do I want to have the sex with them all? Also yes

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
35 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Yep. Loads and loads. Do I want to have the sex with them all? Also yes

Can't fault your honesty lol

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"Yep. Loads and loads. Do I want to have the sex with them all? Also yes

LB always says what I'm thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Yep. Loads and loads. Do I want to have the sex with them all? Also yes

Yeah sure you do

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Yep. Loads and loads. Do I want to have the sex with them all? Also yes

Yeah sure you do

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
35 weeks ago

Always on the move

"Yep. Loads and loads. Do I want to have the sex with them all? Also yes

*waves*

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
35 weeks ago

The Continental

Yes, absolutely loads.

I’m one of those that sees faces and I get that little spark in my mind that’s says “yes, I could fancy the pants off of you”.

It’s a real bind I tells ya.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Physically yes.

Mentally no.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Physically yes.

Mentally no."

Exactly this .... can physically appreciate someone and then they start to talk

But also can talk to someone and then become attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Physically yes.

Mentally no."

Oh word. There’s few people that I am attracted to mentally. Well sometimes it grows as we get to know one another I guess but not really on here

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By *rBobbMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Physically yes.

Mentally no.

Exactly this .... can physically appreciate someone and then they start to talk

But also can talk to someone and then become attracted to them"

I totally agree with this 100%

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
35 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes, I do.

I can appreciate lots of body types on men and women.

Doesn't mean I will act on it bit lots of people are attractive to me

MrsAbz

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky

I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed

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By *ell GwynnWoman
35 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

No, I find very few people attractive. I can appreciate beauty and see that someone is good looking, but, similarly to a couple of previous posters, I'm not attracted to someone until I've got to know them a bit. On here it's never someone's looks that reel me in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"No, I find very few people attractive. I can appreciate beauty and see that someone is good looking, but, similarly to a couple of previous posters, I'm not attracted to someone until I've got to know them a bit. On here it's never someone's looks that reel me in."

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Oh god no.

I find a lot of people annoying.

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By *oxy jWoman
35 weeks ago

taunton somerset

sexual attraction no .. attraction as in just looks plenty but as others have said when they start talking it can nose dive quickly .... i find more women attractive than men ...a;ot of people are attractive but gross inside ie personality / views wise

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By *2000ManMan
35 weeks ago

Worthing

I give people a chance.

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By *ornycougaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Nope. And it's getting rarer

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

"Nope. And it's getting rarer"

Absolutely agree, sadly.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
35 weeks ago

Darwen

I do yeah I won't lie. But I get even more turned on when I find out they have similar interests to me mostly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Nope. And it's getting rarer

Absolutely agree, sadly.

Charge it to the game I guess

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky

I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed

Can I take both please? Two for one?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky

I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed

Can I take both please? Two for one?!

Good luck getting us both in a room

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky

I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed

Can I take both please? Two for one?!

Good luck getting us both in a room"

I'll find a big room. Accessible rooms are usually big

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky

I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed

Can I take both please? Two for one?!

Good luck getting us both in a room

I'll find a big room. Accessible rooms are usually big

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"Actually, no. Turns out I'm quite picky

I look like will smith if you think about it with your eyes closed

Can I take both please? Two for one?!

Good luck getting us both in a room

I'll find a big room. Accessible rooms are usually big

They usually come with a big shower too

And lovely red handles to hold. Red is the colour of luuuuurrrrrrrve, right?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
35 weeks ago

Wirral

Yes I do.

I may not necessarily fancy them (sexual attraction is far more elusive for me), but I can appreciate someone's looks and there are a lot of very attractive people in the world!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
35 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Not really. I can appreciate someone is good looking but I wouldn't find them sexually attractive

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By *irthandgirthMan
35 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder and you can see it everywhere if you look. Except maybe Grimsby.

Having the ability to judge someone as attractive (which is completely subjective) doesn't necessarily equate to wanting to put my penis in them.

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By *WB85Man
35 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I tend to find people who have a really nice personality rather than people I'm really attracted to.

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By *lderguy4uMan
35 weeks ago

wirral

Defo

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

I once date a man whose mind was extremely attractive but he was quite ugly. I adored him.

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
35 weeks ago

Cambs

Nada.

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By *ony MannMan
35 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I find some women attractive, I have not asked them all to bed, but I wish I could.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
35 weeks ago

Always on the move

"I once date a man whose mind was extremely attractive but he was quite ugly. I adored him. "

I don't remember us dating?...

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By *ony MannMan
35 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

"I once date a man whose mind was extremely attractive but he was quite ugly. I adored him.

I don't remember us dating?..."

That it's what she adores about you,you forget some much....hopefully not her birthday.

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By *issmorganWoman
35 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I can see lots of people are attractive, but that doesn't mean I'll fancy them.

So no, would be my answer.

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By *till gameMan
35 weeks ago

Oldham

I can usually find attractive qualities in many different types of women, but it doesn’t mean I want to shag them

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
35 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

There's a lot of attractive people around some very good looking guys but not many I really fancy. So I'd say I appreciate looks but there has to be something else that clicks for me x

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By *astle321Man
35 weeks ago

pershore

"I can usually find attractive qualities in many different types of women, but it doesn’t mean I want to shag them"

Ah. That'll be where I'm going wrong.

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By *riel13Woman
35 weeks ago

Northampton

No... Hardly any these days

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By *till gameMan
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"I can usually find attractive qualities in many different types of women, but it doesn’t mean I want to shag them

Ah. That'll be where I'm going wrong. "

Control you urges

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By *ucka39Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sure I do but whether it's friends zone or sexually shall require an assessment

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
35 weeks ago

London

Yes, I manage to find always something interesting. I love people

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Rarely fancy anybody these days

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By *ora the explorerWoman
35 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
35 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I wish I didn’t. "

Not really, I look at a lot of people and think they are good looking but that’s very different to finding them attractive. There are relatively few people I find attractive.

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By *issBellaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wales

Attractive, yes.

Do I want to get naked with them all? Only the ones that have rainbow pubes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Yes, I manage to find always something interesting. I love people

You beautiful person

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Different things in different people

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By *ife NinjaMan
35 weeks ago

Dunfermline

A really nice face does it for me

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
35 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Ooh interesting. I can see that lots of people are attractive but I'm not sexually attracted to many people.

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By *ou only live onceMan
35 weeks ago

London

No, I'm not sure I do...

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Yeah, I think there are a lot of people who are objectively attractive. Who I find personally attractive? I'm going to be boring and say it depends. I know when I see...

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By *amie HantsWoman
35 weeks ago

Atlantis

It’s very fleeting with me. I have flurries of finding people attractive. A lot of them they’re work crushes so I think it’s probably a boredom thing

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