FabSwingers.com forum: Sleeping over

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

When I started swinging I said I would never let anyone stay over, but recently I have not only let someone stay over, I am looking forward to the staying again.

So have you ever had someone you met on fab sleep over, or would you ?

Or is it a definite no

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

Its a definite yes for me

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yes I have. Would I again? Yes. But I wouldn’t let them stay in my house unless I really liked them.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I have done on occasion. It depends who it is

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
41 weeks ago

Cardiff

If they’d be happy to stay on the sofa then yes but my bed is my bed only for me no one else

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
41 weeks ago

ashford

Ohh no! Never! X

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
41 weeks ago

wonderland.

"When I started swinging I said I would never let anyone stay over, but recently I have not only let someone stay over, I am looking forward to the staying again.

So have you ever had someone you met on fab sleep over, or would you ?

Or is it a definite no "
Mr has and enjoyed it in the past. I have and its not for me. As a couple I don't think we would ever spend the night with anyone else now

Cali

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By *sus82Man
41 weeks ago

Derby

New friend no ... longer lasting regular and I have fun refuardless of sex then yeah why not ... who else will play Mario kart with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"New friend no ... longer lasting regular and I have fun refuardless of sex then yeah why not ... who else will play Mario kart with me "

What if they are pretty good at Mario Kart ?

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By *sus82Man
41 weeks ago

Derby

"New friend no ... longer lasting regular and I have fun refuardless of sex then yeah why not ... who else will play Mario kart with me

What if they are pretty good at Mario Kart ? "

Depends on the version ..... most can be good at mk8

But I'm talking about n64 mario kart

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
41 weeks ago

Depends who they are…

Some people no, others yes.

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By *tacy.TWoman
41 weeks ago

luton

Most of the time yes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
41 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I had the odd person stay over but it wasn't something I did as a rule

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By *partharmonyCouple
41 weeks ago

Ruislip

We have had a lady stay over a couple of times but in the spare room. She would be very welcome in our bed but as far as I'm aware that's not what she wants.

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By *ookie46Woman
41 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have yes in the past and there is one I’d let now

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

It’s nothing something I want to do. I don’t enjoy sharing a bed and struggle to sleep when I’m away from home.

Having a good time together, then going home to our own bed is enough for me.

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By *a LunaWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales

I have done (at theirs), but we were established shaggers at that point.

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By *JcuriousCouple
41 weeks ago

Derby

Don't accommodate but we have slept at a couples house before

Miss S x

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

Do you mean staying at my house or spending the night with them?

Staying here, there are a few friends I'd happily sort out the guest room for.

In terms of spending the night... if I'm fond of them yes. I wouldn't do it with anyone, I'd have to quite like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I love sleep overs

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By *orders-cplCouple
41 weeks ago

middx cpl

yes had few sleepover and loved it xx

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By *eyond PurityCouple
41 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Sleep overs are our preferred meet. I mean it doesn’t have to be but we enjoy unhurried times where we aren’t clock watching.

Our regular FWB lady stays in our bed too. She has the choice to sleep separately but chooses not to.

A gent would sleep separately but if they become regular then C might wake them up nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I'd only sleep over with someone I was having a relationship with who I trusted because it is very intimate.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
41 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Yes as long as we get to have a midnight snack with lashings of ginger beer, it'll be spiffing.

Hurrah

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By *empest2KMan
41 weeks ago

Derby

"Sleep overs are our preferred meet. I mean it doesn’t have to be but we enjoy unhurried times where we aren’t clock watching.

Our regular FWB lady stays in our bed too. She has the choice to sleep separately but chooses not to.

A gent would sleep separately but if they become regular then C might wake them up nicely

To be fair, some of your stays look very scenic, especially your photo of the sunset (or sunrise?) and clouds, with C standing naked on a balcony that you've added today in your public gallery. Looks absolutely mesmerising... and so does the view in the distance

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
41 weeks ago

your head

Yeah I have a few times. I've had people stay at mine and stayed at theirs. I have to get on really well with them to do it but it's all part of building a connection so I wouldn't meet them if I wasn't already establishing that.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

I've had a couple of successful overnights but it's still something i try to avoid. I dont sleep well at the best of times.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
41 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Yes as long as we get to have a midnight snack with lashings of ginger beer, it'll be spiffing.

Hurrah "

"Oh Timmy you're still asleep licky as ever"

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
41 weeks ago

Wirral.

Yes, I prefer this as I only shag folk whose company I really enjoy. I prefer it at mine to a hotel though, no rush in getting up. And I always have loads of snacks xx

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
41 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I really hate sleeping with people so I try to avoid it at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

In a hotel yes can have another round first thing and again I. The shower after haha

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By *opping_candyWoman
41 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

In general it's a huge no. Regardless of whether we meet at theirs, mine or a hotel. But I first stayed over with my fwb for convenience after we'd been to a gig, and it wasn't awful. Usually I'm pretty antisocial, I like my own space, time to myself and yes my bed to myself too. He's one of the rare ones I can chill with for longer periods.

It's probably become more of a situationship but that's ok. We hang out platonically as much as we do sexual stuff. I'm currently teaching him how to cook and bake, and I've nicked one of his bass guitars and he's helping me out with that

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever

Generally no but I’m all for a bit of a morning sex.

So not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Never at my house no , hotels yes of course

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By *rHotNottsMan
41 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Single women of course, couples only once. But I’ve stayed at a couples and even have my own room….. a little bit odd

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Only one woman has stayed over at mine. And I think that type of relationship builds, it’s very hard to somebody you don’t know and I don’t think I would.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

I like sleepovers.

I'm good at breakfasts.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West

We don't host at our house, so no. But we/I would do sleeping over in a hotel, in the right circumstances.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
41 weeks ago

somewhere

Last man I had a sleep over with I married him 18 months later lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

It used to be a yes. Now it's a 100% no.

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By *ornycougaWoman
41 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

I very rarely share a bed but will do with the right guy. I love morning sex

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By *ea monkeyMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I prefer them as there’s no clock watching or rushing. Plus morning sex is wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

It's not something I thought I'd ever do when I joined Fab and have only done it (and will probably still only do it) with one person because I just feel more comfortable with them. I may do it again if the right person pops up and we've met beforehand too

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By *amie HantsWoman
41 weeks ago

Atlantis

I have no objections to staying at theirs, I’m not overly keen on people being in mine unless I know them super super well but that’s purely a safety thing

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By *uriousscouserWoman
41 weeks ago

Wirral

I prefer a sleepover and it's something I actively look for. I like the sleepy, warm-skinned, loose-limbed morning sex.

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By *amie HantsWoman
41 weeks ago

Atlantis

"I prefer a sleepover and it's something I actively look for. I like the sleepy, warm-skinned, loose-limbed morning sex."

Exactly this. Also coffee in bed. I usually am awake first but I pretend to be asleep so I don’t feel obligated to be the one to go downstairs and put the kettle on. It comes to me

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By *lder.Woman
41 weeks ago

Not Local

Ive been the one to sleep over and I like it. Ideally the toilet would be in a different wing of the house until we were much more acquainted but nevermind.

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By *arley QuimWoman
41 weeks ago

Somewhere

I'm fine with staying over. Less comfortable for the other person due to my sleep apnea, so snoring is really bad! Also had my contact lens mistakenly tipped away a few times if in a glass.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

I like a sleepover but it doesn't happen very often in fact it's very rare but it can be very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"We have had a lady stay over a couple of times but in the spare room. She would be very welcome in our bed but as far as I'm aware that's not what she wants. "

It's such a comfy spare bed though

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By *dquestCouple
41 weeks ago

Peterborough

We had a hotel meet with a favourite couple that turned into an all night session, a couple of hours of coma sleep together on a giant kindsized bed, and a happy breakfast chatting and laughing a bit too much for the other guests.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
41 weeks ago

Bromley

I'm always accommodating

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

No reason why not, if everyone is comfortable and happy then why not!

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By *partharmonyCouple
41 weeks ago

Ruislip

"We have had a lady stay over a couple of times but in the spare room. She would be very welcome in our bed but as far as I'm aware that's not what she wants.

It's such a comfy spare bed though

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By *orphia2003Woman
41 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Some people I'm very happy to stay over with. Others I wouldn't, not would they ask in all probability.

Depends on the dynamic.

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By *hil most chillMan
41 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I've often stayed over on first meets, but also had flying visits where a meet only lasted for a couple of hours before we parted ways. It really just depends on the situation and how well you click

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By *iaandjamesCouple
41 weeks ago

We had an apartment and did an overnighter with a chap last week.

Me and him had separate rooms, so along with MFM stuff, Mia hopped between both rooms throughout the night.

It was one of the hottest nights of sex we have ever had, and a good insight into hotwife and poly type scenarios (fantasies of ours).

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By *lan157Man
41 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Yes I have done and will do so again . I have stayed overnight with single playmates at their homes too. I enjoy cooking breakfast!

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By *ee69Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow

Stayings good more time for fucking , love a morning session

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By *ecky and justCouple
41 weeks ago

Godalming

We regularly have friends stay overnight.

So much easier when theres no worry about time to leave and people can just make their way to bed.

Breakfast is always fun to recollect.

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By *ickerladMan
41 weeks ago

wem

At the moment- very definitely never, things may change though !!

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By *hil most chillMan
41 weeks ago

South East & Europe

"We had an apartment and did an overnighter with a chap last week.

Me and him had separate rooms, so along with MFM stuff, Mia hopped between both rooms throughout the night.

It was one of the hottest nights of sex we have ever had, and a good insight into hotwife and poly type scenarios (fantasies of ours).

That sounds amazing, an exciting way to spend the night

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

It's a yes but unlikely.

I enjoy the space in a large bed that I don't have to share with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"It's a yes but unlikely.

I enjoy the space in a large bed that I don't have to share with anyone "

This is me too. I cannot sleep if I share my bed.

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By *quirrel!Man
41 weeks ago

I’d only have a sleepover if I’d brought my PJs, and there were snacks for a midnight feast to have with a scary movie. Also, the other person needs to be cuddly and not snore!

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By *cotty696969Man
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes definitely if the vibe is right

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By *dam1971Man
41 weeks ago

Bedford

I’ve done it a few times, sometimes it makes the evening more relaxed and sleepy morning sex is fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Sleeping over is wonderful if the connection is there!

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By *tylebender03Man
41 weeks ago

Manchester

If she’s nice and wholesome she can sleep over at the crib

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
41 weeks ago

Maidstone

I have done. I would again but it's not the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I’d only have a sleepover if I’d brought my PJs, and there were snacks for a midnight feast to have with a scary movie. Also, the other person needs to be cuddly and not snore!

Snoring is a no no for me too.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
41 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, never spent the night with anyone I've met from Fab.

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Havent really had to think that through

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By *quirrel!Man
41 weeks ago

"No, never spent the night with anyone I've met from Fab. "

So what other sites are you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Yes, why not. Need to be able to trust them mind

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By *ad NannaWoman
41 weeks ago

East London

Unfortunately, I don't live alone so they can't stay over.

It's hard enough getting the house to myself at reasonable times without the chance my son could come home early from work.

It ruins my experience if I'm worrying my son might come home.

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By *entleman JayMan
41 weeks ago

Wakefield

Yes. If I’m meeting them a few times at least.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
41 weeks ago

Someplace

Nah, it's giving situationship

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By *pYaMan
41 weeks ago

Ready…

"Generally no but I’m all for a bit of a morning sex.

So not sure."

Don’t need to stay over for morning sex

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I love a sleepover but never in my home. That's what hotels are for.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
41 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"No, never spent the night with anyone I've met from Fab.

So what other sites are you on?

I'm not. Wouldn't spend the night with anyone I wasn't in a relationship with.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
41 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes as long as I know them well enough..

I have numerous times and would again

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By *ora the explorerWoman
41 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

At my house? Hell no

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By *dreamMan
41 weeks ago

London

I haven't so far, and to be honest I don't know if I would

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
41 weeks ago

Portstewart

It would depend on how well we know them

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By *till gameMan
41 weeks ago

Oldham

"I had the odd person stay over but it wasn't something I did as a rule"

Only the odd people? What about the normal ones

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Only with one but she was more than just a meet

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

When I was single I did a couple of times, including my partner who I met here over 8 years ago.

I don't think I would now, my partner has had sleepovers with other women, with my blessing though.

I struggle to sleep at the best of times.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

I really value my sleep so much. Despite the men who promise a jackhammerring all night, I truly must have sleep. I doubt I'd sleep much, especially if a man snores

. Murder would happen

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Stockport

I generally like it, but it's a rare treat. I think that I sometimes sleep better when there is someone else nearby, although it might well be that my "octopussing" keeps them awake. Have been told before that I've grabbed all the bed space.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
41 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have done in the past, I may do it again if the right person came along

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