FabSwingers.com forum: You're beautiful

By *partharmony OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Ruislip

No, not the rather strange James Blunt song.

Ladies/women, if another Fabber tells you you're beautiful, what do you think? I've heard differing views. Some like it; some see it as an insincere attempt to get into a woman's pants; I know one person who finds it too romantic and personal for sex with somebody she's not in love with.

What's your take on it?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
37 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I tend to take it with a pinch of salt given that I've removed my face pic from my public gallery. And those comments often come in a first message.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
37 weeks ago

fabland

I normally laugh to myself & think a trip to spec savers

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
37 weeks ago

fabland

"I normally laugh to myself & think a trip to spec savers "
for them

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Not a woman but I do get these. Mostly I just say thank you and move on. I don’t stop to question the authenticity (let alone the accuracy) of the comment.

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By *hatbiatchWoman
37 weeks ago

craigavon

I just take it with a pinch of salt… all he can see in pics is my ass & that’s probably the best bit

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I assume - and experience has proved me correct - that it's a prelude to trying to get into my pants. For completeness, it should be, "You're beautiful. Want to fuck?"

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
37 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"I tend to take it with a pinch of salt given that I've removed my face pic from my public gallery. And those comments often come in a first message. "

This ^^

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
37 weeks ago

The Continental

I hate that it’s taken with such a pinch of salt. Why? Because if I truly find someone beautiful, I like to tell them so, even if I have no intention of trying to get into knickers. It makes me fearful of giving compliments these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I say thank you and think nothing more of it.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
37 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I say thank you bye

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Its romantic and personal and creepy.

I normally say you need to visit Specsavers

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By *ore_Please81Woman
37 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I like it, it’s a little pick me up especially on days I’m not thinking like that myself.

Anything positive and polite always gets a thank you from me

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By *rBobbMan
37 weeks ago

Birmingham

People can be beautiful in more ways than one. Yes physically, but also as a person and in the way that they speak to and treat others.

If I call someone beautiful, it is genuine and heartfelt. I am old enough to know throwing compliments for solely sexual purposes is futile.

Sometimes it is nice to pay a compliment where you feel one is due.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I think it would depend on whos saying it

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By *eliWoman
37 weeks ago

I don't have one take on it. It depends on the person, what else they've said, if they've actually met me.

Sometimes it can mean a lot.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
37 weeks ago

Chester

A random message based on my public pics? They'll say anything to anyone for half a chance of getting their dick wet.

From someone who's on my friend's list? Id like to think that had some element of honesty. The people on my friends list are the ones I've chatted with genuine interest with, plus they can actually see my face

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I don't like it x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
37 weeks ago

North West

"No, not the rather strange James Blunt song.

What's your take on it? "

Depends who it is. Generally if unsolicited and/or by people we do not know at all, I discount it as arse-licking. If someone we know/have met and seen us/me in totality, I might take the compliment.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
37 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"I don't have one take on it. It depends on the person, what else they've said, if they've actually met me.

Sometimes it can mean a lot."

This. You can usually get an idea of the sincerity.

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By *edeWoman
37 weeks ago

the abyss

I don't really know what to do with any form of compliments full stop. It doesn't matter who it's from

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
37 weeks ago

Essex

First message

If they’ve actually seen me

There are some who perhaps genuinely mean it. I can only think of a handful though. And I’ve been naked with those…. Hmm

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By *aul..Couple
37 weeks ago

Bolton

I appreciate the gesture however I too feel like a lot of ladies on here , some guys think it’s a pass go to get into my knickers …Lilly xoxo

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By *sus82Man
37 weeks ago

I've never been told I'm beautiful

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
37 weeks ago

fabland

"I've never been told I'm beautiful

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i bet your mother did

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Someone once said I had a beautiful smile and he loved all my pics. Not sure where he could see my smile.

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By *sus82Man
37 weeks ago

"I've never been told I'm beautiful

i bet your mother did "

Ha ha read my profile she's mentioned In there

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By *edtabCouple
37 weeks ago

Sexville Birmingham

If its said to me I say "thank you for the compliment which is appreciated"

Then move on, unless im intetested

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By *esparate danMan
37 weeks ago

glasgow

Whether its sincere or not, what is saying it designed to elicit?

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
37 weeks ago

fabland

"I've never been told I'm beautiful

i bet your mother did

Ha ha read my profile she's mentioned In there "

see

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By *allandathleticMan
37 weeks ago

Asgard

I say thank you and Pay a compliment back. Everyone has something beautiful about them.

If it makes someone smile brilliant. If they believe it disingenuous that's on them. I've done my bit by spreading the love.

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By *ulie.your. bottom. slutTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Glasgow

You got to take it with a pinch of salt. After a exchange of face pics, I went from drop dead gorgeous. To when I knocked him back to "not that nice looking anyway" .

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By *JcuriousCouple
37 weeks ago

Derby

I take it as a compliment, I don't deep it.

Miss S x

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By *ot to giggleWoman
37 weeks ago

Coventry

Accept compliment and thank them, it doesn't have to be anything more.

Often in chat rooms and watch a guy work a room of say 6 women will say same thing to each one.

It is what it is, thanks for saying. Depends what else that have to say for themselves

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
37 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don't care tbh. Unless it's coming from my Husband or someone I've actually met in person, I don't see it as a sincere compliment and will just add it to the buckets of other compliments people give to try and get laid.

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By *a LunaWoman
37 weeks ago

South Wales

I usually think they need to upgrade their specs to a stronger lens.

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

With this thread in mind, let me but out it out there to every single woman on this site... Each and every one of you is beautiful in your own special way!

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By *iddlesticksMan
37 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

Depends who it's from, if it's a stranger I dismiss it, if it's from someone who actually knows me I maybe more inclined to take the compliment.

Mrs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

Southampton

"Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

Awww thanks Fiddles

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

It's always lovely to hear ... but to be honest most of the men I hear it from on here just say it to get into my knickers

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

Awww thanks Fiddles

I agree with fiddles... But I'm still grumpy about you standing me up to watch the crow lol

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By *JcuriousCouple
37 weeks ago

Derby

"It's always lovely to hear ... but to be honest most of the men I hear it from on here just say it to get into my knickers

Your joking, they wouldn't do that would they?

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"It's always lovely to hear ... but to be honest most of the men I hear it from on here just say it to get into my knickers

Your joking, they wouldn't do that would they?

Miss S x"

I know... and there was ai thinking they are all genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I get it in private messages here. From men & women.

It's quite nice I guess..

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

Southampton

"Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

Awww thanks Fiddles

I agree with fiddles... But I'm still grumpy about you standing me up to watch the crow lol "

You're never going to let me forget that

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"I get it in private messages here. From men & women.

It's quite nice I guess.."

Sorry you were asking women, I just read the original post..

Different dynamic with men I guess.

Or is it...

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

Awww thanks Fiddles

I agree with fiddles... But I'm still grumpy about you standing me up to watch the crow lol

You're never going to let me forget that

Nope, it hurt me bad! I had a single dramatic tear rolling down my face (unfortunately it wasn't raining otherwise I would have sat looking out the window lol)

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
37 weeks ago

Wirral.

On here, before they've even met me? Just accept it and move on, no more thought given as it's likely a cut & paste message

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

Do your eyes ever get stuck when you roll them really far back?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"On here, before they've even met me? Just accept it and move on, no more thought given as it's likely a cut & paste message

And before I'd even posted any sort of photo

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
37 weeks ago

Sheffield

The cynic in me believes nothing. Especially when they’ve not even seen my face!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

Southampton

"Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

Awww thanks Fiddles

I agree with fiddles... But I'm still grumpy about you standing me up to watch the crow lol

You're never going to let me forget that

Nope, it hurt me bad! I had a single dramatic tear rolling down my face (unfortunately it wasn't raining otherwise I would have sat looking out the window lol)"

Awww I feel.bad now

hug ?

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By *tacy.TWoman
37 weeks ago

luton

I usually say thank you n take it with a pinch sale

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I'll believe the compliment more when they say it to me in person , never on here otherwise.

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

Awww thanks Fiddles

I agree with fiddles... But I'm still grumpy about you standing me up to watch the crow lol

You're never going to let me forget that

Nope, it hurt me bad! I had a single dramatic tear rolling down my face (unfortunately it wasn't raining otherwise I would have sat looking out the window lol)

Awww I feel.bad now

hug ? "

Nope, I'm still devastated! I almost couldn't concentrate on the movie! I had to buy myself a Lego set just to cheer myself up lol

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By *ags73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"The cynic in me believes nothing. Especially when they’ve not even seen my face!"

Gorgeous bum tho.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
37 weeks ago

London

I just say thank you, if I actually reply!!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
37 weeks ago

Wherever

Not bothered either way. I know I’m not beautiful so unless they are talking about my inner beauty (I don’t have one either) - no, thanks.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

Southampton

"Because you’re gorgeous

I’ll do anything for you.

Awww thanks Fiddles

I agree with fiddles... But I'm still grumpy about you standing me up to watch the crow lol

You're never going to let me forget that

Nope, it hurt me bad! I had a single dramatic tear rolling down my face (unfortunately it wasn't raining otherwise I would have sat looking out the window lol)

Awww I feel.bad now

hug ?

Nope, I'm still devastated! I almost couldn't concentrate on the movie! I had to buy myself a Lego set just to cheer myself up lol "

Oh which set did you get ??

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

They’res a lot of sexy/gorgeous/stunning/hot/attractive/good looking/pretty women on Fab. What makes a woman beautiful is what she does, who she is, how she acts etc. (and lots of other things that you don’t even notice.)

No matter what number you have down for that woman, when she becomes beautiful, she is a 12 out of 10

Can I send a message to some random profile on fab where her pictures look hot and say she’s beautiful? No.

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