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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

How many times have you fallen in love?

Are you lucky enough to find it a second time?

Are you blessed to still be with your first love?

Are you a serial lover?

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By *ea monkeyMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Love isn’t a rare thing, not even romantic love. I’ve fallen in love, lost them and kept myself open to love again. It’s just about being open to it

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By *offiaCoolWoman
41 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

I have been lucky enough to experience it once.

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

Many times, intimacy brings you closer to it, you cuddle you kiss, you spend time with them don't you just luuuurve women

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
41 weeks ago

La La Land

True love? Just the once, I never really knew what true love was until I found my better half

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By *ookie46Woman
41 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Fallen in love twice

Yes I found it for a second time but that didn’t last

I still speak to my first love even after 28 years. Just never the right time for us

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
41 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"How many times have you fallen in love?

Are you lucky enough to find it a second time?

Are you blessed to still be with your first love?

Are you a serial lover?

Once

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

Fallen in love? Three times.

Loved someone? Quite a few times.

I'm not with my first love, no. But I'm still blessed. Blessed that she's happy, I'm happy, we're friends and we still love each other. Just not in love with each other.

I wouldn't say I'm a serial lover, no. I do love quite easily, care for people deeply. Once they're under my skin, that's me half way there really. I like loving people. It's a beautiful gift to have and share.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Three times.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Three times. "

Maybe it was love twice and one infatuation.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
41 weeks ago

East Sussex

Actual real, romantic love once.

Love for friends and family many times

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By *iss.BellaWoman
41 weeks ago

Wales

Just the once.

Well, maybe twice.

As much as I can't stop myself falling in love, I plan to avoid it for the rest of my life

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By *LiamMan
41 weeks ago

Midlands

After a deep think, once.

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By *host63Man
41 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

I don't think I ever really have.

There are reasons for that though

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Just the once for me

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By *till gameMan
41 weeks ago

Oldham

Properly been in love twice

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By *r Black 85Man
41 weeks ago

nottingham

One time

(Wycliffe voice)

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By *enStarrMan
41 weeks ago

Lancaster

True love? Probably never.

I've loved before but I found myself getting cheated on and emotionally used by folk I've loved. So I don't know if that can be classed.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Once. I'll never have it again.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"True love? Probably never.

I've loved before but I found myself getting cheated on and emotionally used by folk I've loved. So I don't know if that can be classed. "

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you, and trusting them not to use it.

You can’t control if they do.

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By * and R cple4Couple
41 weeks ago

swansea

Without sounding to soppy

.. We met when I was 15 and we are still together now, so I'm definitely still with my one true love..

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

TLDR;

I think so.

It was definitely an attraction, a crush if not love at first sight for me. Which when that friendship developed into a situationship one inebriated and uninhibited evening was a blessing and a curse.

To feel that way about someone and to be with them for a perfect moment was absolutely incredible, less so the abject and absolute heartbreak of it not being reciprocated in that way.

A few nights of sex, but countless more nights sharing the bed, sharing intimate moments; physically and mentally. The deep conversations in the middle of the night, when the candles have burned low, the wines running dry and the stars twinkle.

In the end, she asked me what I wanted; the answer was simple; her.

Her company in any capacity. It’s a sweet suffering to have been so intertwined and now just friends, I’ve compartmentalised and moved on, kept my distance from her and healed but I’d be lying if I denied having some residual hope and remnants of love for her.

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm just hoping that one day someone will actually love me back!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Probably never .

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
41 weeks ago

City Centre

Once, everything else was a cheap imitation..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Three times.

Maybe it was love twice and one infatuation. "

I like infatuation and the excitement and out for someone. It can be short lived I know, but it’s better than not feeling ‘anything’ for someone I suppose.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever

Only once, not that long ago.

I believe he was my actual twin flame and I don’t care what anyone thinks about it. It felt exactly like that.

Taken too soon by an aggressive type of cancer, and all I have left is a couple of pictures, messages and voice notes I will never delete, and memories I will never forget.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Without sounding to soppy

.. We met when I was 15 and we are still together now, so I'm definitely still with my one true love.. "

That’s not soppy that’s lovely

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By *bi HaiveMan
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41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"True love? Probably never.

I've loved before but I found myself getting cheated on and emotionally used by folk I've loved. So I don't know if that can be classed.

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you, and trusting them not to use it.

You can’t control if they do. "

This.

But if it does happen it's important to recognise that that incidence was about you and them. Not anyone else.

It doesn't mean you have to shut yourself off from loving anyone else in the future. Not always easy, but important.

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By *edeWoman
41 weeks ago

the abyss

I suppose everyone else will deem love as something slightly different.

It's an interesting thing really that something essentially so beautiful can cause so much pain, much of which you don't have control over.

Leaving yourself open to that can be difficult and sometimes the feeling that you are safer alone can he hard to push away

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Mayfair

Just the once and it was mågîçål, a long time ago during my halcyon days of innocence.

Being an old romantic I quite often come ·close· to falling in love these days. It's almost like a 'taster session', a gentle reminder of love's past.

#MoreWoo'ingNeeded

#DatingAndRomance

#IdetestHashTags

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I fell in love once was married to him for over 22 years.

So I have done my time thanks, not doing it again.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Just the once and it was mågîçål, a long time ago during my halcyon days of innocence.

Being an old romantic I quite often come ·close· to falling in love these days. It's almost like a 'taster session', a gentle reminder of love's past.

#MoreWoo'ingNeeded

#DatingAndRomance

#IdetestHashTags"

^^ sassy AF

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Just the once and it was mågîçål, a long time ago during my halcyon days of innocence.

Being an old romantic I quite often come ·close· to falling in love these days. It's almost like a 'taster session', a gentle reminder of love's past.

#MoreWoo'ingNeeded

#DatingAndRomance

#IdetestHashTags

^^ sassy AF "

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By *he MinionMan
41 weeks ago

I fell in love.

Then fell out of love.

Fell in love again and lost that love.

Falling in love can hurt. The highs are so exquisite but the lows...

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
41 weeks ago

Cardiff

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
41 weeks ago

Basingstoke

"How many times have you fallen in love?

Are you lucky enough to find it a second time?

Are you blessed to still be with your first love?

Are you a serial lover?

I thought I'd been in love - a couple of times. But maybe it was just infatuation. I care too soon and too easily. Is that love? I don't know, but it's who I am. I've tried not to care, but that hurts me more than caring and being let down. Over and over.

So... I don't know whether I've ever been in love, but my heart has definitely been broken many times. And I'm sure it'll happen again!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West

I think just the once.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

On reflection I don't think I ever have. To me if you truly love someone it never goes away, i feel fuck all for those I thought I loved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Once, everything else was a cheap imitation.."

I’m Not sure to say cheap imitation.

Different, I think any love for someone else will be different.

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
41 weeks ago

essex

I think I’ve only been in love once and the sad thing is it wasn’t with my husband. I thought I loved him but looking back nope.

I had a long term fwb after my marriage ended and I’d never experienced anything like it before we just clicked on everything, we could chat for hours without ever getting bored, I got butterflies every time we spoke or met. I’m not sure what it was about him tbh. Feelings weren’t 100% reciprocated and it ended, it broke my heart and I still miss him terribly, we’re friends but not sure it will ever be anything more than that again. But neither of us seem to be able to make that complete break from each other. Sometimes it’s better to have someone in your life as friends than not at all. But it is a struggle at times

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Twice, maybe three times...

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
41 weeks ago

Always on the move

I'm one of those "heart on sleave" idiots. So unfortunately for me, I fall in love nearly every other day. Luckily I'm not so daft to act on it. But I carry big affection for a lot of people on a daily basis

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I love easily, and continue to love everyone I ever did.

In love is a bit different. Only ever been one of those

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By *ansoffateMan
41 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Five times I reckon.

No my first love left me to move to Italy, then came back and said she changed her mind. Unfortunately, so had I and I was with someone else.

She had a penchant for the dramatic, big Bronte fan.

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By *a LunaWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales

Twice.

Although my first love was THE big love and was the only relationship I’ve had where I felt truly loved in return.

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By *JcuriousCouple
41 weeks ago

Derby

Once, Mr J, 13 years of love

Miss S x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
41 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

3 times.

I’m not in love with any of them now but I still love them to bits.

Even the first one who is under the patio

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By *JcuriousCouple
41 weeks ago

Derby

"3 times.

I’m not in love with any of them now but I still love them to bits.

Even the first one who is under the patio

This made me spit my drink out

Miss S x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
41 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I thought I was in love twice but it soon disappeared.Once truelly and deeply I've been in love.

I've closed myself off now as I will never find anyone else I love as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

A few times .... don't love any of them now.

Felt feelings of love in last relationship and the previous situationship ..... was not reciprocated in either case ....

so decided they were not for me ... happily single now .... love my kids and close friends ...

no prospect of romantic love on fab and not proactively looking to date on other apps etc.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
41 weeks ago

Coventry

Maybe once. No idea what it is .. i like people though

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By *et and WillingCouple
41 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Been madly in love with my Hubby for 34 yrs.

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By *avidbanksMan
41 weeks ago

leeds

Twice can’t see a third lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Been madly in love with my Hubby for 34 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Twice.

Although my first love was THE big love and was the only relationship I’ve had where I felt truly loved in return.

That’s the one, when you can feel how much they love you back.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

What's love got to do with Fabswingers..says Tina Turner you got to be in Nutbush city limits..

Nope no never...love is something you cannot see hence the saying

Love is blind

Not here to find love in a romantic way. I know folk have and married.

I cannot trust anyone to start any kind of relationship because hiding behind keyboard you can say shit but have hidden agenda.

I am though a lover and hate fighting. Just bought a relationship book work related. All about how to keep anxiety away

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Twice and was definitely falling for a third when it all went wrong

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