FabSwingers.com forum: Settling a difference of opinion

By *cflirty OP Man
35 weeks ago

Hampshire

Hi all, a fellow male fabber and myself have had a different take on what some ladies mean in their profiles... So they clearly state they are looking for men but not single males?????

Does this mean they want men who are playing behind a significant other's back ? Or they want multiple male attention?

My guess is the latter

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
35 weeks ago

Weymouth

You'll probably find they've just set their filters to block men so they're not inundated

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By *ags73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Could mean a MF couple.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it means that they filter out all men and message the ones they like

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I think it means that they filter out all men and message the ones they like"

That is an idea. Thanks

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By *andPextraCouple
35 weeks ago

North West

We dont have filters set to exclude single men form contacting us ( to engage on the forums for example) but we make it clear we arent looking for single men to play with on the profile.

However, by not having a filter on lots of men just assume we are, despite not ticking that box

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Hi all, a fellow male fabber and myself have had a different take on what some ladies mean in their profiles... So they clearly state they are looking for men but not single males?????

Does this mean they want men who are playing behind a significant other's back ? Or they want multiple male attention?

My guess is the latter"

Not sure as everyone looks for different things.Some men only want married women cheating and do not want single female

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Hi all, a fellow male fabber and myself have had a different take on what some ladies mean in their profiles... So they clearly state they are looking for men but not single males?????

Does this mean they want men who are playing behind a significant other's back ? Or they want multiple male attention?

My guess is the latter"

I always assumes it means they are looking for couples (and that they are not looking for single men)

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Looking for couples or men that have permission to play/meet others would be my guess.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
35 weeks ago

Ryde

From experience, we prefer married guys. It's not that we're home-wreckers or anything like that, but a married guy knows the value of discretion, not to mention of keeping his mouth shut.

Married guys can be less clingy than singles, and this is obviously a bonus when you are after no-strings fun.

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By *ags73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"From experience, we prefer married guys. It's not that we're home-wreckers or anything like that, but a married guy knows the value of discretion, not to mention of keeping his mouth shut.

Married guys can be less clingy than singles, and this is obviously a bonus when you are after no-strings fun."

I suppose technically I’m ‘single’ but not from break up or separation and I do have to be discreet in my own situation and I’m not looking for a relationship.

Can understand couples making assumptions though. Understandable.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
35 weeks ago

Ryde

"I suppose technically I’m ‘single’ but not from break up or separation and I do have to be discreet in my own situation and I’m not looking for a relationship.

Can understand couples making assumptions though. Understandable."

We DO see single guys, but tend to vet them rather more carefully - one or two bad experiences with singletons has made it necessary. Not to tar all with the same brush, but you can't be too careful when some guys out there will say whatever you want to hear when trying to get their leg over.

We've met some great footloose and fancy-free guys, but have also met some who clearly haven't had a bunk-up in literally years, being way too eager and spinning lines of bullshit which are almost insultingly untrue when they turn up.

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