FabSwingers.com forum: What is an ‘exceptional’ male?

By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

Insights?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Me pretty much. Plus a few inches

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Kidding. They don’t exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Kidding. They don’t exist. "

Is it just another way of saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder?It is an expression I see used a lot & gym bodies & BBC aside what else qualifies?

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

One that fits the ideal meet for that person who has asked for it, i would hazard a guess that they've been here a while

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
35 weeks ago

The Continental

Being as handsome as me.

That’s makes me exceptional.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
35 weeks ago

Darwen

"Being as handsome as me.

That’s makes me exceptional."

Well you are John Wick after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Insights?"

I can give you examples of who I think are exceptional in what they do. An actor, for example, a sportsperson. Why are they exceptional? It’s just my option I suppose, or in the case of Cristiano Ronaldo, for whatever you think about him. His records and achievements and awards speak volumes.

But to describe someone exceptional on Fab… I’d like to watch someone try.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

Someone who really stands out.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

David Gandy

A top male model and the ambassador for Battersea dogs & cats home.

So good looking and likes dogs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Someone who really stands out. "

What hooks you?A message,how the man looks?

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
35 weeks ago

Cumbria

The same as it was last time this question was asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Exceptional will be different things for different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

It sounds so pretentious and deluded to actually demand someone exceptional

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't find myself particularly interested in or attracted to most people.

There are exceptions. They are exceptional.

What makes them exceptions is wildly varied and nothing as simple as aesthetics.

You just know your people when you find them

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By *eyond PurityCouple
35 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

People who stand out to us and fit what we are looking for.

They are the exception to the mass of people who we don’t feel we’d connect with.

It also triggers some people

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Baby I light up your world like nobody else,

The way that I flip my hair gets you overwhelmed

But when I smile at the ground it ain't hard to tell

I don't know

Oh, oh

I don't know I'm exceptional.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Well I did ask my friend to list all the possible scents he wanted for Christmas. He sent me a message mentioning his favourites but did state he deliberately avoids all Coco products on political grounds.

To me that was an ‘except chanel mail’.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
35 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

There is no such thing, one persons exceptional will be another persons mediocre in my opinion

Tinder

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
35 weeks ago

Next Door

"Being as handsome as me.

That’s makes me exceptional.

Well you are John Wick after all. "

But does he share his minstrels?

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

You want a guy that's sweet

A guy that's tough

A feminist who likes to pay for stuff

The kinda guy that gets along with your friends

Without being attracted to any of them

A good boy, a bad boy, a good bad boy

A half good, half bad, half boy

Loves your brother sensitive but not weak and

Is a great lover calls your mother on the weekend

Then you might think that this guy only exists in your mind

Well guess what

You're right

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"You want a guy that's sweet

A guy that's tough

A feminist who likes to pay for stuff

The kinda guy that gets along with your friends

Without being attracted to any of them

A good boy, a bad boy, a good bad boy

A half good, half bad, half boy

Loves your brother sensitive but not weak and

Is a great lover calls your mother on the weekend

Then you might think that this guy only exists in your mind

Well guess what

You're right"

Sound like a gay bff tbh

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve only ever met one. They are exceptional to me.

One woman’s exceptional is another’s meh…

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By *ou only live onceMan
35 weeks ago

London

Exceptional just means unusual.

One could be exceptionally ugly/boring/stupid - perhaps they're after those guys?!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Somebody intelligent, kind, exciting, challenging, tall, witty, quirky, strong minded + willed with pools for eyes and lips to dive into

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Somebody intelligent, kind, exciting, challenging, tall, witty, quirky, strong minded + willed with pools for eyes and lips to dive into "
me. Like I said. Plus a few inches.

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By *illy IdolMan
35 weeks ago

Midlands

"Somebody intelligent, kind, exciting, challenging, tall, witty, quirky, strong minded + willed with pools for eyes and lips to dive into me. Like I said. Plus a few inches. "

So me then

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Somebody intelligent, kind, exciting, challenging, tall, witty, quirky, strong minded + willed with pools for eyes and lips to dive into me. Like I said. Plus a few inches.

So me then"
shit. I guess.

Assuming your face lives up to expectation

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By *esthetic21Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"I don't find myself particularly interested in or attracted to most people.

There are exceptions. They are exceptional.

What makes them exceptions is wildly varied and nothing as simple as aesthetics.

You just know your people when you find them

"
the last bit

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
35 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Definitely Down to personal preferences so very hard to say but my hubby works for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Someone who can provide a service to a couple that aren't all that

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By *iaisonseekerMan
35 weeks ago

Liverpool

If people use an epithet like exceptional when describing potential playmates, it must be intended to encourage those reading to self-select based on whether they consider themselves "exceptional" or not.

This thread suggests that it's not working

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Gandhi would pass for this

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By *exxyyDy11Man
35 weeks ago

Darwen

I'm exceptionally bad at jokes

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By *orl1971Couple
35 weeks ago

Glasgow

Fit, hung, intelligent and good looking. Oh and single. That’s exceptional.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
35 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Fit, hung, intelligent and good looking. Oh and single. That’s exceptional. "

Henceforth, this should be the official definition to put the debate to bed once and for all.

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By *undee2Man
35 weeks ago

Dundee

Someone who gives you butterflies.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

One I don’t take exception to…

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
35 weeks ago

Manchester

First class letter that arrives in a day?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
35 weeks ago

Norwich

We’re all exceptional in our own way.

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By *ark73XXXMan
35 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

"Fit, hung, intelligent and good looking. Oh and single. That’s exceptional. "

All subjective

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By *orl1971Couple
35 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Fit, hung, intelligent and good looking. Oh and single. That’s exceptional.

All subjective "

Especially the single bit .

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Fit, hung, intelligent and good looking. Oh and single. That’s exceptional.

All subjective

Especially the single bit .

GSOH a given? And I reckon adding in arrogance/humility would probably split the crowd……

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

This does beg the question - What then is an exceptional female ?

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By *illy IdolMan
35 weeks ago

Midlands

"This does beg the question - What then is an exceptional female ?"

Whoever you're messaging at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"This does beg the question - What then is an exceptional female ?"
nobody knows what it means

But it’s provocative

It gets the people going!

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By *ags73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"This does beg the question - What then is an exceptional female ?"

It might but I wouldn’t be brave enough to start a thread asking that.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Makes me cringe a little when people describe themselves as exceptional. I mean they maybe, but people willing to say it so loudly and proudly in such a public manner makes me laugh. Definitely the type of people I avoid in real life and on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Not me, I'm just Outstanding.

Exceptional would be the guy from Gabriel's Inferno.

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By *oomlMan
35 weeks ago

Fareham

Since we are all unique we are also all exceptional in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I think it’s just a bit of fab nonsense. Can’t say I hear this expression much, if at all, away from here.

I think the term was born out of the fact that this place is saturated with single males. This leads to couples and single females having a large pool to search from. Thus the notion of being somewhat ‘exceptional’ is needed in order to stand out from one’s peers.

So this makes me wonder. As the sight is not equally saturated with single females, and applying the same logic as for single males, does the concept of an ‘exceptional female’ therefore not except. There is a smaller pool and maybe they don’t need to stand out as much. Some already label single females as being unicorns. So if an exceptional female did expect would that make her an exceptional unicorn? Now that would be a sight to behold.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
35 weeks ago

Manchester

"First class letter that arrives in a day?

Come on guys… this was a really good joke. Smh

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

I have no idea, but when I see it I think “ fuck off you twat “

The mr

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
35 weeks ago

Always on the move

Me. Obviously

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By *hat.coupleCouple
35 weeks ago

Dartford

To me, Men who aren't cocky, understated men. The quiet ones who look rugged and moody but can smile and crack a joke. They aren't insecure but also are modest and laid back. He needs to look like he is strong but doesn't need to be Muscular. He looks like he could rip you in half with his bare hands but also soft and yielding. He feeds off of a woman's reaction and reads her every signal. He knows how to hold a woman down by her throat or hands but gives her just enough room to squirm around underneath him as he watches. I give you my husband, the man of my dreams. My absolute fantasy and all round man of men. But that's just me, luckily I love to share him and see other women enjoying his amazing masterfulness under him.

Sian x

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