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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

........... time someone has 'borrowed' something off you?

My neighbour has just returned my jet wash after 3 weeks of nagging him that I wanted it back - he did have to jet wash his patio this morning before he returned it !!!!!

Oh he has had it since July 2023!

Whats the longest you have had to wait for the return of an item loaned? Or have they still got it!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
35 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’ve had a few buggers ‘borrow’ stuff from me indefinitely

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By *uri00620Woman
35 weeks ago

Croydon

Money. I loaned someone a grand and never got it back

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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

"I’ve had a few buggers ‘borrow’ stuff from me indefinitely

yea i have lost a few specialist books and horse tack that people have 'borrowed' and havent returned

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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

"Money. I loaned someone a grand and never got it back

bum! people are just lovely

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By *uriousscouserWoman
35 weeks ago

Wirral

In 2013 I loaned a TV to a colleague after hers went pop.

She sold it to her neighbour when she bought a proper new telly.

We're both pretending that didn't happen and that she'll return it some day. Part of me would find it really funny to message her asking for it back after all this time, but in fairness I understood when I handed it over that I would never see it again (she wasn't known for returning borrowed items. Or borrowed money, for that matter).

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By *rill PhilMan
35 weeks ago

Crediton

I almost never lend anyone anything anymore because of not having things returned to me.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
35 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I lent a school friend a PlayStation game.

That was in December 1997, as far as I know he still has it

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By *pablo67Man
35 weeks ago

Bootle

A Northern Soul double album lent to a friend in 1992. Spotted his wife selling it at a Car Boot Sale 3 weeks ago and I pointed out to her that it was mine and she gave it back to me.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Still waiting for a carpet cleaner back from 2003…

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By *lym4realCouple
35 weeks ago

plymouth

We've had loadsa of stuff we've "Loaned" or even dissapear from our flat and Mr4 now refuses to lend any of his books or even CD'S out anymore !! and it's just wrong and annoying though ! as we do like most people try to help out if we can ?? as unlike some we do remember what it's like....

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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

its amazing how we just let it go ... i had initially forgotten he had it -

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By *uriousscouserWoman
35 weeks ago

Wirral

Oh, I have a side table on indefinite loan!

Years ago I escaped a bad situation with very little and was trying to set up a flat with no furniture except what I could afford in charity shops.

My best friend's dad knew I admired a table he used as a phone table, and he sent my friend round with it as a loan until I got set up and could buy furniture I liked as well as I liked that table.

Over the years that followed I tried to give it back many times, but he would never take it back, telling me to hang onto it a bit longer.

He passed over 15 years ago and I offered the table back to my friend, but she told me her dad would've been happy that someone had it who appreciated it.

I still consider it as on loan rather than being mine though.

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By *ornym66Man
35 weeks ago

Col /ips

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By *eneralKenobiMan
35 weeks ago

North Angus

Still waiting for my Star Wars original trilogy box set being returned after about 3 years

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By *ornym66Man
35 weeks ago

Col /ips

Lent a friend of a friend my hand winch so he could pull out a tree stump got it back 3 years later on my doorstep broken with a note saying sorry but I'm not sure how it went

Learnt from that day never lend anything out in future

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By *allandathleticMan
35 weeks ago

Asgard

Learnt along time only to lend the things I'm not precious about.

Don't tend to lend anymore.

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By *hristopherd999Man
35 weeks ago

Brentwood

I lent my vinyl lp to a friend, haven't returned it yet, that was in 1974!

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
35 weeks ago

your head

A jumper that was "borrowed" about 5 years ago never to be seen again. Countless DVDS, books and CDs also never found their way back to me.

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By *rispyDuckMan
35 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

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By *rispyDuckMan
35 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Leant a friend a Spartacus DVD box set & this fucker kept my shit for so long I had to borrow my own box set back haha.

Then this same fucker to ask me ‘hey when you comeover don’t forget my dvd box set’

(the audacity! he was joking but initially almost spat my tea out when he said it

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

"........... time someone has 'borrowed' something off you?

My neighbour has just returned my jet wash after 3 weeks of nagging him that I wanted it back - he did have to jet wash his patio this morning before he returned it !!!!!

Oh he has had it since July 2023!

Whats the longest you have had to wait for the return of an item loaned? Or have they still got it!"
My dad always said to me if you can't afford to lose it don't lend it

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
35 weeks ago

There and Here

I let a friend borrow my school tennis kit in 1984. Still waiting for her to return it...

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By *partan69Man
35 weeks ago

hyde

That would be my son , I just don't think I'll ever get that £10 back it's been 17 years now

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By *partan69Man
35 weeks ago

hyde

"I let a friend borrow my school tennis kit in 1984. Still waiting for her to return it..."

Does she look hot in it , I'm sure you did

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By *reat me rightWoman
35 weeks ago

Rotherham

My mum and dad leant my cot to someone (it had been made for all the grandchildren to use and further generations by my granddad). It's never been seen since. Thats nigh on 50 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Lent a friend of a friend my hand winch so he could pull out a tree stump got it back 3 years later on my doorstep broken with a note saying sorry but I'm not sure how it went

Learnt from that day never lend anything out in future "

I had a new floor sander returned broken, with no offer for payment for repair or to replace

A friends wallpaper stripper once died on me - it was 20 years old or so, but i replaced it with a new one.. Its the right thing to do

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Lent a friend of a friend my hand winch so he could pull out a tree stump got it back 3 years later on my doorstep broken with a note saying sorry but I'm not sure how it went

Learnt from that day never lend anything out in future

I had a new floor sander returned broken, with no offer for payment for repair or to replace

A friends wallpaper stripper once died on me - it was 20 years old or so, but i replaced it with a new one.. Its the right thing to do "
Very admirable

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
35 weeks ago

Cardiff

"........... time someone has 'borrowed' something off you?

My neighbour has just returned my jet wash after 3 weeks of nagging him that I wanted it back - he did have to jet wash his patio this morning before he returned it !!!!!

Oh he has had it since July 2023!

Whats the longest you have had to wait for the return of an item loaned? Or have they still got it!"
that’s damn right cheek that is I wouldn’t lend them again

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By *ot to giggle OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

"........... time someone has 'borrowed' something off you?

My neighbour has just returned my jet wash after 3 weeks of nagging him that I wanted it back - he did have to jet wash his patio this morning before he returned it !!!!!

Oh he has had it since July 2023!

Whats the longest you have had to wait for the return of an item loaned? Or have they still got it! that’s damn right cheek that is I wouldn’t lend them again "

oh i wont be

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

40 years, I'm sure he'll back with my BMX any time now.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I let someone borrow some baby stuff that I made clear I needed back once they were done with it. They moved house and binned the lot

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I let someone borrow some baby stuff that I made clear I needed back once they were done with it. They moved house and binned the lot

You know my sister?

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By *cLovin2Man
35 weeks ago

Reading

"Lent a friend of a friend my hand winch so he could pull out a tree stump got it back 3 years later on my doorstep broken with a note saying sorry but I'm not sure how it went

Learnt from that day never lend anything out in future

I had a new floor sander returned broken, with no offer for payment for repair or to replace

A friends wallpaper stripper once died on me - it was 20 years old or so, but i replaced it with a new one.. Its the right thing to do "

Tell that to my brother, who borrowed a screwdriver set and returned it with the screwdriver tips ruined.

Just out of order to break summat then not own up to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"I let someone borrow some baby stuff that I made clear I needed back once they were done with it. They moved house and binned the lot

You know my sister?"

It was actually my sister in law! Must be a sister thing

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By *ripfillMan
35 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I hate lending technical books on trees ( yes I know …)

I tend to mail these borrower every other day to ask how my book(s) are … doing !

Note how caring I am !

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
35 weeks ago

Cardiff

"........... time someone has 'borrowed' something off you?

My neighbour has just returned my jet wash after 3 weeks of nagging him that I wanted it back - he did have to jet wash his patio this morning before he returned it !!!!!

Oh he has had it since July 2023!

Whats the longest you have had to wait for the return of an item loaned? Or have they still got it! that’s damn right cheek that is I wouldn’t lend them again

oh i wont be

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By *nnCeeWoman
35 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"Money. I loaned someone a grand and never got it back

Same... I fell into that trap too.

Too kind for our own good, eh?

At least the money I loaned my ex-husband is coming back to me. At £100 a month. I'll be dead before he pays it back

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Cash

I borrowed a, what I thought, long time friend a few hundred squid only for it to take almost 3 years to repay

I wrote it off due to bs excuses and ignorance and safe to say they’re no longer “friends”

And no it wasn’t just because of cash

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By *arkus1812Man
35 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Four years ago I loaned my Fiat 500 to a very close friend for an agreed period of 12 months, I included Tax, MOT, Breakdown,and Insurance.

Still waiting its return.

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