FabSwingers.com forum: Text or call

By *till game OP Man
35 weeks ago

Oldham

Gov study says most brits prefer to text now rather than call.

I find texting is useful but I still prefer to call people.

What do you think ?

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By *anSMan
35 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

It’s hard to convey emotion or tone in written words, but at least with texts it’s all there, no way anyone can say “but you said” etc etc

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By *till game OP Man
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"It’s hard to convey emotion or tone in written words, but at least with texts it’s all there, no way anyone can say “but you said” etc etc

Good points for both

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Hate talking on the phone

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

Voice notes/calls

Texts.

I don't mind any method of communication but I'd much rather hear someone's voice so it's easier to understand what they're really saying. Not get lost in the nuance of text.

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By *andydan69Man
35 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Don’t mind either

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

its a very age related thing - finding a lot of my work with young people they dont pick up the phone, the communication is by text - i would rather have a conversation if there is a lot of information to get across rather than hundreds of text messages

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By *rBobbMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don't mind a text, it's always nice to have personal communication via a call

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By *till game OP Man
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"Hate talking on the phone

Do you like to talk face to face ?

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By *heelerMan
35 weeks ago

Northants

"Hate talking on the phone

Easy to text you can write anything things you probably never say to someone.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

i think on the phone you can get a better sense of the person - and of course hear the accent!!

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By *r Black 85Man
35 weeks ago

nottingham

Texting to a point.

If it's going to be more than a 3 message conversation, ring me. I hate long back and forth text message conversations

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By *uri00620Woman
35 weeks ago

Croydon

Prefer messaging than calls generally unless I know someone well. Often they take too long. Messaging allows for brevity.

Voice notes I never listen to, I don't get those.

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By *till game OP Man
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"Hate talking on the phone

Easy to text you can write anything things you probably never say to someone. "

I still go by the rule , that if I wouldn’t say it to someone’s face , then I wouldn’t send it written

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By *heelerMan
35 weeks ago

Northants

"i think on the phone you can get a better sense of the person - and of course hear the accent!!

True you can tell if its a guy or female but accents can sometimes be difficult to understand.

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By *till game OP Man
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"i think on the phone you can get a better sense of the person - and of course hear the accent!!

Exactly

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By *issmorganWoman
35 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I prefer text or WhatsApp

I hate chatting on the phone, even to people I know well.

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By *esthetic21Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Depends who it is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’ll watch my phone until it stops ringing, then text and ask what they want.

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By *avid 50Man
35 weeks ago

kendal

I find texts to impersonal, and if I was arranging a meet, I would definitely prefer to speak to the couple or lady to gauge the persons commitment

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
35 weeks ago

your head

Depends who, what and why. Texts can be convenient but I like to have a proper catch up with people too so love a chat on the phone.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Depends who it is to and when. I would never call without asking anyone. They may be busy

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
35 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Unless it's urgent and/or a family member, I would much rather receive a text instead.

A phonecall implies you require my immediate attention.

Someone who repeatedly calls you to say something they could have said in a message, is likely to find themselves being forwarded to voicemail before too long.

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By *agerMorganMan
35 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I prefer texting than calling. Unless it’s from immediate family members.

At least with texting I can choose when to reply and if I want to reply, there’s no pressure on me.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
35 weeks ago

Wirral

Generally I prefer text, but some of my friends I love to natter with on the phone. So much more gets said than we would type in a text.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
35 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'll always choose to text. There's very few people, other than family, that I'll chat on the phone to.

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By *till game OP Man
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"Gov study says most brits prefer to text now rather than call.

I find texting is useful but I still prefer to call people.

What do you think ?"

I will always prefer to speak on a call , with an exception, I don’t like video calls, anyone else ?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Call. I hate texting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

I hate talking on the phone and prefer texting.

The only people apart from call centre staff that I have voice calls with are my dad, our daughter, my brother in the far east and my uncles. Everyone else gets a text or face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

For everyday texting.

But now and again i like calls as I like voices.

Voice notes can fuck off though.

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By *ags73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Text.

If I like you voice message or call is okay.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Hate talking on the phone

Do you like to talk face to face ?"
yes, I have eye contact

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Hate talking on the phone

Easy to text you can write anything things you probably never say to someone. "

No, I’m just very monosyllabic

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Quick call, preferably under 30 seconds. Far less faffing around than sat jabbing at a screen

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

50/50

Sometimes the text is all you need. By the time I really would like to hear some advice and have a much more back-and-forth conversation.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I talk a lot. I can’t get it all across in a text.

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By *kitkat.Woman
35 weeks ago

somewhere over the rainbow

I love a natter on the phone, however I can chat about nothing and everything for a long time

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By *till game OP Man
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"I love a natter on the phone, however I can chat about nothing and everything for a long time "

Same here

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

I hate speaking on the phone so text or in person.

Mrs

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By *osey WalesMan
35 weeks ago

Surrey

If its important and needs an answer straight away then call me. I may not see a text or whattsapp message immediately.

If its the begining of a blossoming relationship, then, messages i think. I like to look back at them and remember the anticipation and passion

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By *andsomeunitMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Texting begins to bore me after a while. Things can get misinterpreted and often overlap one and other.

I much prefer voicenotes or calls.

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By *r WhispererMan
35 weeks ago

brynmawr

I like both but it depends who I’m talking to. Text is good because you can have a conversation that goes on and it’s all there even if I can answer for a few hours..but text can be difficult to get the true meaning to show and can be easily misunderstood because tone of voice is missing.

Calls with my mates when I’m driving (legally hands free of course) are great because we can chat pure shit or have a deep conversation for hours..

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By *oubleswing2019Man
35 weeks ago

Colchester

Don't like calls.

Not too keen on txting either.

I much prefer an email, because you can absorb an email. Go away and think about it. Formulate a reply.

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