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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing"
I would tell him.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I would suggest it to him and let him decide. If he is completely new to the site he prob wont realise yet how 'available' his pic will be to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing"

Tell him in 'general terms', but not that you happen to have seen him in the bakers the other day!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I would tell him to drive 39.5 miles down the road and pick a fellow member up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as easy as it seems. Does he know your here to. If not are you happy with him knowing? If the answer is yes then definately tell him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing

Tell him in 'general terms', but not that you happen to have seen him in the bakers the other day!! "

I saw him in the pub last week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would tell him to drive 39.5 miles down the road and pick a fellow member up "

I doubt he would do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MMM I would give him the NOD !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not as easy as it seems. Does he know your here to. If not are you happy with him knowing? If the answer is yes then definately tell him.

"

Jeez no he doesn't know and I won't be unveiling who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing

Tell him in 'general terms', but not that you happen to have seen him in the bakers the other day!!

I saw him in the pub last week "

ooooOOOOOOooooh! Get you Miss Pedantic!!

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing"

I say tell him. He might be perfectly ok with it, but if it was me I'd appreciate the advice of a friend.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing"

What is it with people minding other people's business?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he doesn't know it's you and you don't want him to - just send a helpful tip and friendly advice - then block!

If he's new to the scene he'll brick himself and have his face pic down faster than his ideal woman's knickers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag him

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x"

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just me!"

Hey c'mon !

Don't be assuming that all the men here have the ability to act in an adult manner

A seasoned veteran like you should know much better than that

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just me!"

Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he doesn't know it's you and you don't want him to - just send a helpful tip and friendly advice - then block!

If he's new to the scene he'll brick himself and have his face pic down faster than his ideal woman's knickers!! "

knowing him he will brick himself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shag him "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x"

Yes he does

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By *H.coupleCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

i'd appreciate it if i was new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shag him let us know the outcome xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'd message him and tell him, I had someone kind enough to give me a few profile hints when I started, like taking my village name off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing"
yes and be honest i had someone keep asking to be my friend and say they knew me but wouldn't say why or how but they liked they could perv at my life and then see me in. My personal life so differently .when they refused to say who they were or how they knew me i blocked them.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just

me!

Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing"

Go one better and invite him round for some fun. Why not, you're both on here looking for sexy times. Go for it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing

Go one better and invite him round for some fun. Why not, you're both on here looking for sexy times. Go for it!! "

Well I could as he only lives like two streets away but I'm not

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I would say nothing...

Im assuming he knows he lives in a small town, therefore showing his face doesnt bother him.....

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I saw an exposure like this in a chat room about a month ago. There was a fairly young couple on cam with no clothes on (and very attractive they were too!) and someone stated the guy's name in chat. They disappeared faster than Usain Bolt. I felt really sorry for them so, yes, tell him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha this thread is so funny ! i know lots of fellow swingers , and its funny , we all know what goes on , but topic is never brought up in conversation , xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just me!

Hey c'mon !

Don't be assuming that all the men here have the ability to act in an adult manner

A seasoned veteran like you should know much better than that "

As if you called Miss_tress a veteran!

I'm revving up my helicopter.... RUN!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just me!

Hey c'mon !

Don't be assuming that all the men here have the ability to act in an adult manner

A seasoned veteran like you should know much better than that

As if you called Miss_tress a veteran!

I'm revving up my helicopter.... RUN!!! "

Hmmm...where's my anti-aircraft missile launcher...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yoiks...!!! I've heard stories about Goliath... But that's pushing it a bit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say don't as he might try to find out your identity, or inadvertently find out who you are, block and let him get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just me!

Hey c'mon !

Don't be assuming that all the men here have the ability to act in an adult manner

A seasoned veteran like you should know much better than that

As if you called Miss_tress a veteran!

I'm revving up my helicopter.... RUN!!!

Hmmm...where's my anti-aircraft missile launcher... "

Get yer zimmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would he know it was you if you sent him a message? If not then just send him a polite message saying that its likely you wont be the only one from your town to recognise him x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I decided to send a polite message .. The account has been deleted

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yoiks...!!! I've heard stories about Goliath... But that's pushing it a bit.... "

C'mon! Ya gotta push boundaries!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I decided to send a polite message .. The account has been deleted"

oh dear! I bet he will be back, with a slightly amended profile and pics hidden. I think it was for the best that you told him.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does he have any reason to 'hide' other than the normal considerations for discretion etc ?

If not, I would leave it as it will only potentially blow your own anonymity x

I'd assume he was an adult and capable of deciding what pictures he wants on his own profile...but that's just me!

Hey c'mon !

Don't be assuming that all the men here have the ability to act in an adult manner

A seasoned veteran like you should know much better than that

As if you called Miss_tress a veteran!

I'm revving up my helicopter.... RUN!!!

Hmmm...where's my anti-aircraft missile launcher...

Get yer zimmer! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to send a polite message .. The account has been deleted"

I know I'd appreciate it if I was him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I decided to send a polite message .. The account has been deleted

I know I'd appreciate it if I was him x"

Just be wary of any new profiles popping up requesting face pics!

If he comes back with another profile he may be curious to see who you are!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I decided to send a polite message .. The account has been deleted

I know I'd appreciate it if I was him x

Just be wary of any new profiles popping up requesting face pics!

If he comes back with another profile he may be curious to see who you are!! "

It wasn't you was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking through who's near and I see a new member within half a mile of me. He's also a friend of mine. Do I tell him to take his face pic off as there are loads on here from my little town or just say nothing"

Has anyone ever seen a friend on here that you didn't know was a swinger and then played with them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've already thought of that Obi , thanks.

Knowing him he will do just that.

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