FabSwingers.com forum: If someone is a cunt to you

By *esthetic21 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do it's thing?

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

"What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do it's thing?"

depends where it is - Karma is a wonderful thing and revenge is a dish best served cold - most joyful when some idiot get it and you can sit and smile

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

"What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do it's thing?"
Just move on its really not worth getting upset

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

Neither. I just cut them off if possible.

I don't believe the universe is waiting to exact revenge on my behalf and I can't be bothered enough with horrible people to take my own

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

I believe in the whole revenge thing doing more damage to you than it ever does to the cunt. So i dwell for a little but then get over it and move on.

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By *till gameMan
35 weeks ago

Oldham

"What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do its thing?"

Walk away , life’s to short

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

Also I don't understand how you can believe in karma and revenge at the same time.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Cut ties

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Just avoid the cunt. Cunt is dead to me, then cunt can’t affect me. They might be a cunt for good reason in their own mind, but they can work that out for themselves

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By *dam1971Man
35 weeks ago

Bedford

"I believe in the whole revenge thing doing more damage to you than it ever does to the cunt. So i dwell for a little but then get over it and move on."

This for me too. Sometimes I wish I could get over it quicker.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Remember for a long time.......

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By *ell GwynnWoman
35 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"Neither. I just cut them off if possible.

I don't believe the universe is waiting to exact revenge on my behalf and I can't be bothered enough with horrible people to take my own"

This. The people I've known who have been hellbent on getting revenge never seem to feel any better once they achieve it.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Block them.

On here. In real life. On socials. I’m blocking that energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Revenge is a dish best served cold

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By *ea monkeyMan
35 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Believing that ‘karma’ will exact revenge is an act of bad Karma in itself.

Karma is about cosmic balance and energy, not tit for tat petty exchanges

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Walk away.

Not my circus, not my monkeys, not my cunt

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Neither. I just cut them off if possible.

I don't believe the universe is waiting to exact revenge on my behalf and I can't be bothered enough with horrible people to take my own

This. The people I've known who have been hellbent on getting revenge never seem to feel any better once they achieve it."

True.

It's a terrible waste of time and energy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Believing that ‘karma’ will exact revenge is an act of bad Karma in itself.

Karma is about cosmic balance and energy, not tit for tat petty exchanges"

Agreed.

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By *amie HantsWoman
35 weeks ago

Atlantis

I’m not going to do anything but cut them off. Not interested in grandiose schemed of revenge, this isn’t kill bill. I’m going to use the energy to move on with my life and focus on all the good things I have

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
35 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I tend to disassociate myself from them, and if the opportunity arises at some point in the future, to shat on them from a great height I generally make good use of that opportunity, I don’t, however, pursue that opportunity as such, that would credit them with too much of my valuable head space.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Best way to piss someone off, ignore them.

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

I don't really believe in karma.

For a brief moment I think about revenge. What can I say? I'm dramatic.

And then I remember the best thing to do is to carry on being me. Enjoying life. I'd rather have a life filled with great cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Best way to piss someone off, ignore them."

What if you just want them to drop it and go away though? Sometimes they get angry and worse…

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

I don't know enough about Karma to either believe it, comprehend it or to wish it upon someone else. Eventually I just forget about it and move on.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Usually I just stop talking to myself and that puts a stop to it.

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By *m3232Man
35 weeks ago

maidenhead

The first time they do it is their fault the second time is your fault.

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By *ellhungvweMan
35 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Karma. Life is too short to worry about doing someone over. If they are genuinely that bad then life will get them eventually.

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By *hrek101Man
35 weeks ago

Herts

Karma is my revenge

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By *adyBugsWoman
35 weeks ago

cognito

Depends. If I have emotional ties to them, I keep on letting them be a cunt to me over and over again…must be the masochist in me

Eventually they all get Karma in the end regardless.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
35 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Cut ties"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I might try to understand their motivation - jealousy, fear, loneliness etc

I don't do drama people, so if it was relatable i might put effort into trying to fix.. If its just malicious I'd likely just move on and not look back

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By *ascaIMan
35 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

If they’ve already wasted my time acting like a cunt I wouldn’t go out my way to waste any more of it on them. They can carry on cunting.

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By *uri00620Woman
35 weeks ago

Croydon

"What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do its thing?

Walk away , life’s to short"

Yeah, me too. Don't believe in karma and revenge is too much like hard work.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

I'd typically leave them cold and learn

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Tell them to take a big step back and fuck their own face and then cut all ties. Karma is a bitch

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Obeah

Why waste energy though really? There's a lot of them out there, you are going to be very busy.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
35 weeks ago

Home

Well in Ireland it's probably your best mate he's ribbing the absolute piss out of you and you take it and go for pints

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By *eyond PurityCouple
35 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Move on…no time for negativity or waiting for karma.

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By *lofeldMan
35 weeks ago

Redhill

Remove them from your life and move on, life is way too short

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

Depends who it is. If it's someone close to me I'll feel a little sad then forget.

If it's someone I don't know that we'll I'll think what a cunt, and forget.

If it's a total stranger I'll ignore.

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By *edeWoman
35 weeks ago

the abyss

I probably deserved it but I am one myself

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

Let's face if, we can all be cunts at some point in our lives.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
35 weeks ago

Bromley

Cunt them off there and then in front of their so called mates and then walk away.

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By *a LunaWoman
35 weeks ago

South Wales

Walk away. The universe sorts them out, eventually.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
35 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

You'll always be a cunt to someone depending on their narrative

I just cut them off, cut them out. Gone like yesterday's rubbish

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"You'll always be a cunt to someone depending on their narrative

I just cut them off, cut them out. Gone like yesterday's rubbish"

So buried in a landfill?

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By *awlMan
35 weeks ago

nr you

Go with Karma. It’s been said before, you seek revenge, then dig two holes.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

The way I look at negative feelings is....I look at it as self harm. Why would I want to self harm. I just let it go

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By *2000ManMan
35 weeks ago

Worthing

Let karma find a way.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Revenge is rarely worth it, karma I'm not sure I believe it.

I just get on with my life, too much cuntish behaviour and they'd be removed from my life.

Time is precious & I wouldn't spend it being angry.

Mrs

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Neither. I just cut them off if possible.

I don't believe the universe is waiting to exact revenge on my behalf and I can't be bothered enough with horrible people to take my own"
this is what I do

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By *esthetic21 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"The way I look at negative feelings is....I look at it as self harm. Why would I want to self harm. I just let it go"
agreed its like drinking poison amd expecting the other person to die

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By *JcuriousCouple
35 weeks ago

Derby

Cut then off cba with drama.

Miss S x

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
35 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"You'll always be a cunt to someone depending on their narrative

I just cut them off, cut them out. Gone like yesterday's rubbish

So buried in a landfill?"

If only

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By *intiemintieWoman
35 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

In many ways im really glad when someone reveals their true personality traits/temper shortcomings early on and at the message stage, whether they reveal themselves to be aggressive, disrespectful, emotionally immature, bullying or just plain stupid. Then they can simply be expunged - by blocking or just ignoring their persistent or nasty comebacks and consigning their trash to delete oblivion.

Always a relief when they've shown their true colours early on and its quite clear Ive dodged a bullet. xx

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By *rHotNottsMan
35 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I can be quite forgiving, I’d say 50% of the time the time I probably asked for it. I mostly just breath it out , re-centre & let it go.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
35 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It depends - is this someone I know well and is truly out of character for them? Then I'm going to set my anger aside and first see if they are in trouble/sick etc and they actually need help and are lashing out instead.

If they are just suddenly being horrible for no reason then they are cut off forever. If they need help, I help them.

Someone who I have had little interaction with etc then they are blockedy blocked. Here or real life.

No time for that in my life.

MrsAbz

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By *rucking-HellMan
35 weeks ago

Northampton

I try to understand that they're being that way for a reason, and that reason may have nothing to do with me. I therefore always aim to forgive -which I admit is often difficult. The world doesn't need continual revenge right now.

I also aim to remove myself from their company, because I don't need or want that type of energy in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

If this person is being a cunt to you the chances are they're being a cunt to someone else too.

Try and keep as much distance as yiu can . It won't be long before they upset someone who hasn't stopped to think like you have .

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By *ucka39Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

Be a better cunt and show them how it's done properly

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By *undee2Man
35 weeks ago

Dundee

Walk away ...... but make sure you that you have a can of Nitromors (other brands are just as effective .... so I am told) and know what car they drive.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wirral.

In my younger days I'd have sought revenge, or forgiven and ultimately been on the receiving end of their cuntishness again.

Now I cut them off. Sometimes I tell them why, but mostly not. And never give them another thought.

Karma? I think it's something "nice" people thought up to take pleasure in bad things happening to folk who were cunty to them, without actually exacting revenge

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
35 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me

He “groomed” me for about a year, we fucked and then made it clear it was a vengeance thing. It was really weird. The most upsetting thing was that someone would take that much time out of their life to waste on hating me

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By *OYFBWoman
35 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Younger me would have let cunts carry on treating me in a cuntish manner, and I would feel I deserve it for some reason.

Old me just cuts cunts off - I’ve no time for cuntishness.

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By *arley QuimWoman
35 weeks ago

Somewhere

"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me

That's so weird! And creepy! And just why?!

Obviously a nutter!

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
35 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me

That's so weird! And creepy! And just why?!

Obviously a nutter!

It was really weird. Plus he left in such a hurry he left behind the toy he brought - a life size dildo that was a silicone replica of his own dick. So I got to keep the cock without having to bother with the deeply unbalanced man!

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By *uckurcumMan
35 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Leave them to it as eventually they'll pull a stunt on someone who just maybe a bigger cunt than they are ....

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me

What in the fuck?? I’m sorry this happened to you darling.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
35 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me

What in the fuck?? I’m sorry this happened to you darling. "

Thank you. It wasn’t nice but I’m ok. Hopefully it says more about him than me.

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By *octor ProdMan
35 weeks ago

working Overseas

Revenge, always revenge. It may take years, but it is the only way

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
35 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"What do you do? Do you seek revenge? Or do you let karma do it's thing?"

I trust in the universe remembers...

And revenge makes me feel shit about myself, and takes up to much space in my head...so I let it be, let go n let God so to speak

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By *avexxMan
35 weeks ago

cheshire

"I once had someone on fab spite-fuck me

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,,, one sick man sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Oh right. If they’re intentionally a Cunt to me, and that means they’re not showing me any respect, which means I won’t show them any respect. Which means we have a problem.

I don’t seek revenge, but I sure as hell want respect them time any soon. Which means I’m going to be an absolute Cunt back.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
35 weeks ago

chichester

Just chuckle at their insignificance as a human being , worthless walking carcasses ultimately

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By *ora the explorerWoman
35 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Just ignore them probably. Don’t believe in karma.

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By *ornycougaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Walk away. Sometimes after calling them out on it, sometimes I don't even bother. Resentment and the desire for revenge only eat away at you so let it go and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I think it’s best to walk away if the circumstances allow. Revenge is too much effort and energy

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By *eordieJeansCouple
35 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

My reaction would depend on what they did. It could range from teabagging their coffee cup to punching them in the face.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"My reaction would depend on what they did. It could range from teabagging their coffee cup to punching them in the face."

I thought my coffee tasted salty.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
35 weeks ago

The Continental

I just laugh and move on.

Anything else is a waste of my energy.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
35 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"My reaction would depend on what they did. It could range from teabagging their coffee cup to punching them in the face.

I thought my coffee tasted salty."

I’d be more worried about the pubes.

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