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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" You tried doing that 100's of times a day? lol as crazy as it seems most of us have a life outside of fab and as much as it's nice to be nice and say thanks but no thanks they're just isn't enough hrs in the day, not to mention the risk of getting abused for no reason so yeah no response is a response. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" I do that but apparently it's still an invitation to continue the conversation for some. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Why have you not replied to everyone who's commented here? Only takes 2 seconds to respond no? | |||
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"I won't claim to get inundated, I don't. Could I reply to every message? Probably. Honestly, I just can't be arsed. "Hey thanks but you're not my type" "AHH why's that?" "We can just be friends" "You not talking now babe" I. Just. Can't. Be. Arsed. " hi | |||
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"Come on OP where are all our replies? Mrs " Honestly. It's been 7 whole minutes and he's just leaving me hanging. It'd only take two seconds to respond | |||
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"Come on OP where are all our replies? Mrs Honestly. It's been 7 whole minutes and he's just leaving me hanging. It'd only take two seconds to respond " I know I've commented twice and not had 1 reply, how very rude. Mrs | |||
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"Well you didn’t respond when I answered your dinner invitation, OP. I’m still open to deliveroo credits " This is now my 3rd forum message to you without a response. Are you a fake? | |||
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"Come on OP where are all our replies? Mrs Honestly. It's been 7 whole minutes and he's just leaving me hanging. It'd only take two seconds to respond I know I've commented twice and not had 1 reply, how very rude. Mrs " Right, I’ve commented on two of his threads and nothing! | |||
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"Come on OP where are all our replies? Mrs Honestly. It's been 7 whole minutes and he's just leaving me hanging. It'd only take two seconds to respond I know I've commented twice and not had 1 reply, how very rude. Mrs Right, I’ve commented on two of his threads and nothing! " Seems it's only rude when "he" doesn't get a response, the double standards on fab do make me giggle. Mrs | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Would you really want an inbox full of replies saying - No thanks Not my type I don't fancy you You're too short You're too tall I don't like your face You're not what I'm looking for Not for me You're too near You're too far away I don't like your bio I don't like your pics I just... No.... OVER AND OVER | |||
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"Come on OP where are all our replies? Mrs Honestly. It's been 7 whole minutes and he's just leaving me hanging. It'd only take two seconds to respond I know I've commented twice and not had 1 reply, how very rude. Mrs Right, I’ve commented on two of his threads and nothing! Seems it's only rude when "he" doesn't get a response, the double standards on fab do make me giggle. Mrs " I’m just sad he didn’t buy me that promised dinner | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" I try to with a ‘thanks but not for me’ only to be met with ‘why’. I respond with ‘you’ve read my profile, you don’t meet what I’m looking for but you still chose to message’. Apparently I’m a fat, ugly c**t | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Say you send 5 messages a day, 7 days a week. At the end of the month you've had 140 "no thanks, you're not my type" replies. Q1 - how do you feel, having been rejected 140 times? Q2 - you would of course write 140 thanks for your message replies. Right? | |||
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"To be honest I really don't get why some men want a no response? Surely the sane thought is to hope the replies they get are a yes please one? " This! | |||
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"Well you didn’t respond when I answered your dinner invitation, OP. I’m still open to deliveroo credits " that's cos not seen it lol | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" they get so many messages thats the problem, so in the site rules it says no response means not interested but having said that they may have just bulk deleted all messages and would have replied to your one | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol I try to with a ‘thanks but not for me’ only to be met with ‘why’. I respond with ‘you’ve read my profile, you don’t meet what I’m looking for but you still chose to message’. Apparently I’m a fat, ugly c**t" You’re an absolute corker, and have some blinding outfits too! | |||
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"Well you didn’t respond when I answered your dinner invitation, OP. I’m still open to deliveroo credits that's cos not seen it lol " Where is my reply? | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol I try to with a ‘thanks but not for me’ only to be met with ‘why’. I respond with ‘you’ve read my profile, you don’t meet what I’m looking for but you still chose to message’. Apparently I’m a fat, ugly c**t You’re an absolute corker, and have some blinding outfits too!" Aww thanks, too kind x | |||
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"Because a no thank you comes with - -Well I didn't wanna fuck you anyway you minger. -Why not? You don't know me. -Fuck you .....insert shitty comments about your appearance. And very rarely a thank you for the response. It's easier to block/not reply than deal with all the bruised ego and abuse. Mrs " Yup. All these things. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? " Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) " Ta | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta" Just showing research might not be necessary. Don’t think anyone actually needs a reply though. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta" Damn just got it | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Damn just got it " Hahaha. Np | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Damn just got it Hahaha. Np " K | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta" Ta is not necessarily going to deter someone. You need, “no ta” which surely exceeds the 2 second rule ? | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Ta is not necessarily going to deter someone. You need, “no ta” which surely exceeds the 2 second rule ?" Woody was trying to be shorter than nty | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Ta is not necessarily going to deter someone. You need, “no ta” which surely exceeds the 2 second rule ? Woody was trying to be shorter than nty" We need test runs in this. How quickly can someone say ‘a polite no thank you’ in a message. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Ta is not necessarily going to deter someone. You need, “no ta” which surely exceeds the 2 second rule ? Woody was trying to be shorter than nty We need test runs in this. How quickly can someone say ‘a polite no thank you’ in a message. " I’m always polite cause mostly I get polite messages. | |||
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"A woman's inbox is a very different scenario to a man's lol. I'd say no thankyou....because I get few messages. If a woman replied every no, she would need a fucking secretary. " A secretary for doing the fucking is just what fab needs. | |||
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"A woman's inbox is a very different scenario to a man's lol. I'd say no thankyou....because I get few messages. If a woman replied every no, she would need a fucking secretary. A secretary for doing the fucking is just what fab needs. " Ha ha I imagine it being a full time job | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" OP, why haven’t you responded to each message in this thread? It takes two seconds to acknowledge each of our answers. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" I promise you they would love to be able to say thanks for the compliment but not my cuppa tea. And get a yeh no worries in reply. But unfortunately so many people get butt hurt about it. | |||
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"Come on OP, there are only 59 messages in this thread! It’s so rude of you not to respond. " That's less than my daily inbox. Come on OP. At least lead by example | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Ta is not necessarily going to deter someone. You need, “no ta” which surely exceeds the 2 second rule ? Woody was trying to be shorter than nty We need test runs in this. How quickly can someone say ‘a polite no thank you’ in a message. " polite no thank you - i would depend on how fast they type - if they did enough very quickly | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Ta is not necessarily going to deter someone. You need, “no ta” which surely exceeds the 2 second rule ? Woody was trying to be shorter than nty We need test runs in this. How quickly can someone say ‘a polite no thank you’ in a message. I’m always polite cause mostly I get polite messages. " to be honest i mainly reply to all mine, and then i just delete any further replies as i said no and that it | |||
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"I know this sounds obtuse but what's an MSG?" Magnificent Splooge Gun | |||
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"I know this sounds obtuse but what's an MSG? · Magnificent Splooge Gun " • I love you. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Thanks for posting this thread rich... thanks. Thanks very much. I'm not like those other ladies. They give us GENUINE ladies a bad name. Sorry that happened to you and thanks again | |||
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"I know this sounds obtuse but what's an MSG? · Magnificent Splooge Gun • I love you. " I know | |||
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"I know this sounds obtuse but what's an MSG?" Monosodium glutamate (MSG) it's that thingy they put in hotdogs and shit to make them not taste like floor food | |||
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"Who are these idiots sending women 100 messages a day? Haven't they done their research and seen that they don't have a hope in hell?" Hope is the only bee that makes honey without flowers | |||
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"Who are these idiots sending women 100 messages a day? Haven't they done their research and seen that they don't have a hope in hell?Hope is the only bee that makes honey without flowers " Robert Green Ingersoll | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Come on OP where's our replies, it only takes 2 seconds right....still waiting. Mrs | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol How did you come up with 2 seconds? Was that a guess or good solid research for this argument? Nty That’s 2 seconds worth of typing and I’m a fairly speedy typer (of very short sentences with no punctuation) Ta Ta is not necessarily going to deter someone. You need, “no ta” which surely exceeds the 2 second rule ? Woody was trying to be shorter than nty We need test runs in this. How quickly can someone say ‘a polite no thank you’ in a message. " We need a Big Red X emoji. Or a thumbs down emoji. Or a "thanks for your message..I'm sure you're lovely, but wouldn't touch you with a barge pole" auto reply. An uncluttered inbox is but one click away! | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Because it's a massive ball ache replying to people I don't want to engage with. If you tried replying to all the comments left for you on this thread you would get an idea. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Yeah, I’m with the OP on this, it’s just tardy really, a sad reflection of the ever slipping standards amongst the female population these days | |||
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"Clearly rude people, just block and move on - bullet dodged." Not sure if you're joking | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol Come on OP where's our replies, it only takes 2 seconds right....still waiting. Mrs " I didnt get one either. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol Come on OP where's our replies, it only takes 2 seconds right....still waiting. Mrs I didnt get one either. " Politeness costs nothing. Except time and effort some people aren't willing to put in | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Perhaps it is because the person sending the message hasn't read our profile and not worked out they are not what we are looking for. Sometimes we will reply, sometimes we won't. What I can say with upmost certainty is that if we do reply to a poorly worded or ill considered email it will not be in the positive. It just depends on our mood and how sarcastic we want to get. Often it is better for us just not to reply in the first place. | |||
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"I won't claim to get inundated, I don't. Could I reply to every message? Probably. Honestly, I just can't be arsed. "Hey thanks but you're not my type" "AHH why's that?" "We can just be friends" "You not talking now babe" I. Just. Can't. Be. Arsed. " I can’t even be arsed to type my own response. If I could it would be this one. | |||
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"I agree how much effort does it take to say thanks but no thanks " A lot when you get dozens of messages every day ! | |||
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"I agree how much effort does it take to say thanks but no thanks " No effort at all, a no reply *is* a no thanks, Fab FAQ is quite clear on this. Why some men want an inbox full of "no thanks" is beyond me. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Finally, I found him, it's you OP, you're that one person on the entire planet that replies to every advertising fyler that comes through your letter box, politely saying "thank you for your kind offer of... triple gazed widows, solar panels, loft insulation... But no thanks"? | |||
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"I agree how much effort does it take to say thanks but no thanks " More effort than reading the Fab terms that we've signed up to. No reply= No Thanks! It's very polite for us to not send extra written messages, when no reply is clear. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" It is often easier to do it that way. I’ve been polite and said I’m really sorry but you’re not for me. I get a message back asking why and what can they do to change so I’d be attracted to them etc. Usually a no reply is the answer in itself. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Because most messages are so crap they don’t warrant a reply and we reply to all messages but messages like” nice tits” can stretch my English skills when replying. People are here to have fun not boost your ego. Yes we have replied to you op before. T | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" Why would you want an inbox full of rejection? Why would that make anything better? Evie | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol Finally, I found him, it's you OP, you're that one person on the entire planet that replies to every advertising fyler that comes through your letter box, politely saying "thank you for your kind offer of... triple gazed widows, solar panels, loft insulation... But no thanks"? " I think you might find that there is a difference between the (remote) possibilty of obtaining free sex and the (certainty) of paying out lots of money to get double glazing or loft insulation done! Not really sure the comparison works, other than that most people don't see the need to thank leafleters for junk mail. However, Fab's advice to users has been well thought through so why doesn't everyone accept it? What I do find curious is getting blocked by people who have winked etc within hours or less because I didn't reply virtually immediately. Even in real life I I don't walk around glued to my email inbox. I'm from a different culture. | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" No one is entitled to a reply. It's that simple | |||
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"Why is it most ladies just look at MSG's or block yet it take 2 seconds to say thanks but no thanks lol" By not answering message think the consensus of opinion is no reply not interested women get lot messages daily a lot of choice bit like sweet shop not to everybody’s taste I’m more sherbet lemon | |||
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