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"If you flirt with a person on the forum, are you genuinely interested in them? Do you like being flirted with even if someone isn't interested in you? If someone is naturally flirty with everyone, does that put you off them a little bit? Or make it harder to tell when it's intentional?" I don't think I flirt with anyone, I lost the knack years ago. I feel a little uncomfortable if someone flirts with me on the forum because I'm never sure if it's genuine (especially if they're a lot younger or very popular). If someone is flirty with everyone I feel much more comfortable with it because I know exactly where I stand. | |||
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Yeah I know people will say it's just a bit of fun and it's nice to be nice blah blah blah, but on certain threads it is just so blatantly fake it is off putting. The ones that gush over anyone that pays them a slight compliment and declare love for about 20 different women before 9am. Yeah it's definitely put me off a few people.
Call me miserable, I don't care but I can't flirt with someone I don't like in some way, I'd have to slap myself.
Though I do sometimes do it to take the piss. Not sorry.
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"I never notice when people are flirty I just assume their being nice so I don't think I'd take much notice on here to be honest. If it was blatantly obvious flirting with everyone then it maybe off-putting a little, I like to feel somewhat special I guess not that I'm just one of many who bit the bait, it can also come across as any holes a goal & if everyone can have it I dont want it. Mrs " A bit special... so you'd prefer if people were selective if they gave you attention? You're not one for just casual flirting? | |||
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"I'm terrible at flirting online In real life you need to hit me in the face with a sledge hammer that says I fancy you to make me aware So to answer the question. I have no idea if anyone is flirting with me and thus am unable to answer properly " Is that because you don't think anyone would flirt with you or is it just a lack of ability to recognise when someone is? | |||
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"If you flirt with a person on the forum, are you genuinely interested in them? Do you like being flirted with even if someone isn't interested in you? If someone is naturally flirty with everyone, does that put you off them a little bit? Or make it harder to tell when it's intentional? I don't think I flirt with anyone, I lost the knack years ago. I feel a little uncomfortable if someone flirts with me on the forum because I'm never sure if it's genuine (especially if they're a lot younger or very popular). If someone is flirty with everyone I feel much more comfortable with it because I know exactly where I stand." Ah I'd not thought about it like that! That makes sense - if it's how someone is you don't think much of it, it's them. You can be a bit flirty Nice! You've not lost the knack.  | |||
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"I enjoy flirting. When I still had a sex drive I did take it more seriously with some men on here. Now I just enjoy the fun of it. I mainly flirt with those I already consider friends as I would hate to lead anyone on. " Sorry to read about your sex drive, I hope it comes back when you're ready for it to. When you were more actively flirting, did you find that anyone did felt lead on? | |||
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"I enjoy flirting. When I still had a sex drive I did take it more seriously with some men on here. Now I just enjoy the fun of it. I mainly flirt with those I already consider friends as I would hate to lead anyone on. Sorry to read about your sex drive, I hope it comes back when you're ready for it to. When you were more actively flirting, did you find that anyone did felt lead on? " Yes. I occasionally had to let men down gently who messaged us from the forums. I'm more careful now. | |||
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"I'm terrible at flirting online In real life you need to hit me in the face with a sledge hammer that says I fancy you to make me aware So to answer the question. I have no idea if anyone is flirting with me and thus am unable to answer properly Is that because you don't think anyone would flirt with you or is it just a lack of ability to recognise when someone is?" I'm getting better at recognising it but I still struggle to believe people aren't just being polite | |||
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"I flirt with people I don't necessarily want to jump around with I know people flirt with me who would never shag me in a million years A gentle flirt, to me, is an extension of banter, a genuine liking and warmth for one another It doesn't need to be a prelude to sex" Yes yes, all of this! Mrs TMN x | |||
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"A lot of the flirting on here is
Yeah I know people will say it's just a bit of fun and it's nice to be nice blah blah blah, but on certain threads it is just so blatantly fake it is off putting. The ones that gush over anyone that pays them a slight compliment and declare love for about 20 different women before 9am. Yeah it's definitely put me off a few people.
Call me miserable, I don't care but I can't flirt with someone I don't like in some way, I'd have to slap myself.
Though I do sometimes do it to take the piss. Not sorry.
"I'm not going to call you miserable; it's your view. So you flirt but in a joking way? If a man loves women and enjoys flirting with different women - are they not compatible with you? | |||
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"I tend to flirt with those I've exchanged messages with. I don't really see people flirting on here as off putting. It's a bit of harmless fun. "You're someone I'd see as being quite flirty - how do people know if it's more than just harmless fun with you? | |||
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"I'mma give it a chance, Meli... Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Helpful, right? It really depends on my mood. I'd never take someone flirting on here as a sign they were genuinely interested, though, or vice versa. Mrs TMN x " I knew you'd get it! 
It's helpful, there's no right or wrong answer to it is there? It's personal, how we feel about it, how comfortable we are etc.
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"I think there is a grey area online of friendly banter and actual flirting. If someone is a massive flirt, then I do not take them seriously. I can come across as ungenuine and a bit patronising. But those feelings maybe due to my own insecurities who knows. " Ban.ter. Banter. Flanter. Don't mind me; I'm calming down my libido.
That aside... it's interesting you brought up your own insecurities. Do you think it's possible to not like a behaviour such as flirting not due to insecurities but because it's not you. You don't enjoy it? | |||
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There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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"A lot of the flirting on here is
Yeah I know people will say it's just a bit of fun and it's nice to be nice blah blah blah, but on certain threads it is just so blatantly fake it is off putting. The ones that gush over anyone that pays them a slight compliment and declare love for about 20 different women before 9am. Yeah it's definitely put me off a few people.
Call me miserable, I don't care but I can't flirt with someone I don't like in some way, I'd have to slap myself.
Though I do sometimes do it to take the piss. Not sorry.
I'm not going to call you miserable; it's your view.
So you flirt but in a joking way?
If a man loves women and enjoys flirting with different women - are they not compatible with you?"Like someone said above, they just come across as thirsty, is that the word? Like they'd fuck anyone basically, and that puts me off. And people who are that "nice" and jolly they flirt with anyone are just not my kinda person. | |||
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"I don't flirt with my platonic friends. Blurred lines are messy. If people are openly flirty with everyone socially, I'll just assume that's how they are & pay no attention to it. If they actually were openly trying with everyone at the same time, I'd find that too thirsty for my taste so that would put me off. Generally, I don't notice flirting, just assume people are sociable. Crap at first moves but definitely would flirt with a crush/ partner, or tease a fwb. That's fun when comfortable in that connection." What's blurring the lines if it's clearly platonic though? Is it not just... to use that word that appeared before... banter? Oh flirting and teasing someone when there's that connection is so much fun! If that doesn't exist the connection doesn't in my mind. Maybe that's needy of me. | |||
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" ….. Like someone said above, they just come across as thirsty, is that the word? Like they'd fuck anyone basically, and that puts me off. And people who are that "nice" and jolly they flirt with anyone are just not my kinda person. " I got called out for being desperate once. True story. .. I can’t remember the exact words. But if actually talking to people and having a laugh makes me look thirsty…wtf? Or desperate. Then you can shove your oppinions up your ass. Not you op. I kinda know what you mean. But you touched on something where I couldn’t answer back to the wanker that sent me that message. | |||
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"I’m awful at flirting and never able to pick it up if someone is flirting with me. " Unless it's glaringly obvious I'm guessing. Is that because you feel like people won't? They wouldn't be interested in you? | |||
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"I tend to flirt with those I've exchanged messages with. I don't really see people flirting on here as off putting. It's a bit of harmless fun.
You're someone I'd see as being quite flirty - how do people know if it's more than just harmless fun with you?"I suppose they don't. Well that's given me food food for thought | |||
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"I think there is a grey area online of friendly banter and actual flirting. If someone is a massive flirt, then I do not take them seriously. I can come across as ungenuine and a bit patronising. But those feelings maybe due to my own insecurities who knows. Ban.ter. Banter. Flanter. Don't mind me; I'm calming down my libido.
That aside... it's interesting you brought up your own insecurities. Do you think it's possible to not like a behaviour such as flirting not due to insecurities but because it's not you. You don't enjoy it?"Definitely yes, I'm not one for in your face public displays of affection. So really forward and outrageous flirting can make me feel a bit awkward. Flirting is not my love language and I'm good with that. | |||
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"I’m awful at flirting and never able to pick it up if someone is flirting with me. Unless it's glaringly obvious I'm guessing. Is that because you feel like people won't? They wouldn't be interested in you?" If it’s glaringly obvious, is it flirting? Surely we mean something more subtle? And I’ve no answer as to why. I remember pushing a crayon up my nose as a child. Maybe it’s stil there. | |||
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"I’m awful at flirting and never able to pick it up if someone is flirting with me. Unless it's glaringly obvious I'm guessing. Is that because you feel like people won't? They wouldn't be interested in you? If it’s glaringly obvious, is it flirting? Surely we mean something more subtle? And I’ve no answer as to why. I remember pushing a crayon up my nose as a child. Maybe it’s stil there. " Forgive me for not thinking nose was going to be the body part | |||
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"If it's flirting because it's a jokey, flirty kind of thread I try to make it obvious. I'm not very good at flirting anyway. I have to use the eyelash emoji liberally!
There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
J"I'm skipping but I'll go back.
You're very flirty J! Yeah, okay, sometimes in a jokey dorky way but I wouldn't say you're not good at it.
Publicly flirting with everyone else but you is kind of crap. Sod that. I went through a phase of very much being a shameful secret. It's so... refreshing? No, it's really lovely to feel like someone desires me and they don't have to hide it in case it puts others off. Someone flirted with me recently and I grinned as soon as I saw it because I'm ridiculous and have a crush. | |||
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"I'mma give it a chance, Meli... Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Helpful, right? It really depends on my mood. I'd never take someone flirting on here as a sign they were genuinely interested, though, or vice versa. Mrs TMN x I knew you'd get it!
It's helpful, there's no right or wrong answer to it is there? It's personal, how we feel about it, how comfortable we are etc.
What's a sign of genuine interest for you then? Is it away from Fab?"Probably if it moves to messages, either on here or elsewhere. | |||
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"According to a certain fabber I'm a non flirty spoil sport " Nah. You flirt in your own way. Doing your own thing. | |||
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"I’m awful at flirting and never able to pick it up if someone is flirting with me. Unless it's glaringly obvious I'm guessing. Is that because you feel like people won't? They wouldn't be interested in you? If it’s glaringly obvious, is it flirting? Surely we mean something more subtle? And I’ve no answer as to why. I remember pushing a crayon up my nose as a child. Maybe it’s stil there. Forgive me for not thinking nose was going to be the body part" If it was going up my ass I’d like to think i would have been more ambitious than a crayon even back then | |||
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"If you flirt with a person on the forum, are you genuinely interested in them? Do you like being flirted with even if someone isn't interested in you? If someone is naturally flirty with everyone, does that put you off them a little bit? Or make it harder to tell when it's intentional?" Flirting....... what is this word you speak of? I have ZERO flirt game and i'm blind to it incoming. | |||
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"In real life, yup absolutely. I’ve kinda gone off it here on the forums though. Perhaps I’m getting jaded. But it is becoming quite offputting/tired." Off putting in what way, is that a general fatigue with Fab or is it with flirting on the forums? | |||
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" Probably if it moves to messages, either on here or elsewhere. " Actually yes this, I will often move conversations with people of genuine interest to messages. | |||
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"Op. it's hard to tell genuine interest flirting online. We have different levels. I have become more conscious about flirting online and offline under the current climate but do enjoy it. " Yes, I think that's true. Everyone has different levels of flirting - it's nice when you learn a person and understand what they mean more easily. What's the current climate that makes you more cautious about flirting online? Away from? I get that. | |||
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"I like flirty people. I enjoy their company. They are gregarious and love being with others ..... it does NOT mean that they fancy that person sexually. That gets a totally different kind of flirt/attention from the flirter, more focused , more clear intentionally. There are those that mistake flirting for come on .... but the problem generally lies with them and what they wanted to see rather than the other way around. When someone flirts with me on here , I take it in jest ..... unless they are relentless - then I have to let them know that they have more chance of doing the impossible than arousing my interest in them or their fantasies.... BUT flirting is fantastic - it makes the world go around. " I said the same to my dad who is a big old flirt in a very old fashioned way. My very words to him were "it makes the world go round". I agree with what you say | |||
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"I flirt with people I don't necessarily want to jump around with I know people flirt with me who would never shag me in a million years A gentle flirt, to me, is an extension of banter, a genuine liking and warmth for one another It doesn't need to be a prelude to sex" A gentle flirt. I like that. Yes, I flirt with my platonic friends. There's one in particular where we're firmly platonic but we do love each other. Flirting is a form of communicating. Of being silly, because we know each other well. Do you think on the forums it can ever be overdone? | |||
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"I think there’s different levels to flirting and you can tell when someone is being playful or flirting with intent. If it comes across like they’re trying it on with anyone, it is a little off putting. " 100x this. I like the you put that, Mrs Shiv. Being playful versus flirting with intent. I like the distinction. And I like the phrase ‘flirting with intent’. | |||
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"I'm more likely to send a message about something that makes me happy and want to share that, than flirt. I am not sure if that makes sense - more like "here is a piece of my thinking, I hope you like it as I wanted to share with you because I like you"" MrsAbz, this is the *best* description of your chat I’ve ever seen. It’s you. 100% you. You’re very self-aware sometimes.  | |||
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"I flirt with people I don't necessarily want to jump around with I know people flirt with me who would never shag me in a million years A gentle flirt, to me, is an extension of banter, a genuine liking and warmth for one another It doesn't need to be a prelude to sex A gentle flirt. I like that. Yes, I flirt with my platonic friends. There's one in particular where we're firmly platonic but we do love each other. Flirting is a form of communicating. Of being silly, because we know each other well. Do you think on the forums it can ever be overdone?" There is a nuance to flirting that makes all the difference Done properly, it dances the line of amusement and feeling good Done wrongly, or with unfaltering reglarity, it can appear too full on, to the degree of being almost aggressive | |||
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" Probably if it moves to messages, either on here or elsewhere. Actually yes this, I will often move conversations with people of genuine interest to messages. "And not everyone is privileged to know who everyone is talking to. Could be a few could be just the one. Could been none. I take private messages seriously to find out out actual intentions. Posting on public forums are for entertainment for them/me/everyone else. | |||
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"I'm more likely to send a message about something that makes me happy and want to share that, than flirt. I am not sure if that makes sense - more like "here is a piece of my thinking, I hope you like it as I wanted to share with you because I like you" MrsAbz, this is the *best* description of your chat I’ve ever seen. It’s you. 100% you. You’re very self-aware sometimes. "Thanks RTG, you know I enjoy sharing the happy with those who like to hear/read it and grasp that this is me being openly me.
Now I'm off to shower the dog. As you do in sat morning.
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"I like being flirted with, and I enjoy flirting back but it doesn’t mean I’m interested in them or that they’re interested in me. It’s just a nice feeling and a bit of fun isn’t it? It’s a playful way of interacting with others. It’s nice to log on and just talk nonsense and flirt. I don’t mind if they are being flirty with others. I take it all with a pinch of salt anyway. I think if someone was genuinely interested in me, they would have to be direct. I don’t find flirting to be an indicator of interest when it’s on a forum " Have you ever found yourself doing this face when someone you genuinely likes flirts with you on the forum?
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"I'm more likely to send a message about something that makes me happy and want to share that, than flirt. I am not sure if that makes sense - more like "here is a piece of my thinking, I hope you like it as I wanted to share with you because I like you" MrsAbz, this is the *best* description of your chat I’ve ever seen. It’s you. 100% you. You’re very self-aware sometimes.
Thanks RTG, you know I enjoy sharing the happy with those who like to hear/read it and grasp that this is me being openly me.
Now I'm off to shower the dog. As you do in sat morning.
MrsAbz
"I love you sharing your happy! I have some happy to share with you. It's my favourite cardi in the world. I'll message you now!
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"I only flirt with those I'm interested in, but never on the forum, only over DM. " Why never on the forum? Would you dislike being flirted with on the forum? | |||
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"Flirting is fun. And who doesn’t like fun? Do you Like having fun op? "Naaaah Woody, don't be ridiculous. Fun? F*ck that.  | |||
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I have a good memory but it’s like some people seem to forget they’ve flirted with about 10 people in different threads.
Flirting, for me, is done in messages and if I’m saying something complimentary on the forums, it’s because there’s intent behind it.
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"Flirting is fun. And who doesn’t like fun? Do you Like having fun op?
Naaaah Woody, don't be ridiculous. Fun? F*ck that. "Fuck what? … doesn’t matter. I’m in.
Seriously though, people should do what they want. People will pick up on your personality, and if they like you, then hopefully they have the guts to get in touch.
Like normally attracts like.
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" My flirting skills with those I actually like completely suck. I'm more likely to send a message about something that makes me happy and want to share that, than flirt. I am not sure if that makes sense - more like "here is a piece of my thinking, I hope you like it as I wanted to share with you because I like you" MrsAbz" This is how I tend to do things too. | |||
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"I like flirty people. I enjoy their company. They are gregarious and love being with others ..... it does NOT mean that they fancy that person sexually. That gets a totally different kind of flirt/attention from the flirter, more focused , more clear intentionally. There are those that mistake flirting for come on .... but the problem generally lies with them and what they wanted to see rather than the other way around. When someone flirts with me on here , I take it in jest ..... unless they are relentless - then I have to let them know that they have more chance of doing the impossible than arousing my interest in them or their fantasies.... BUT flirting is fantastic - it makes the world go around. " It makes the world go around is such a lovely way of looking at it, I like that. I quite like flirty people as well. Those who like others, who love being around people and making others smile. It's a nice energy. Yes, sure, I'll tease them but I like people who like people. I think... that as much as I've said otherwise previously, I may be quite a flirty person. I don't think anyone has misconstrued it so far and I don't think they will. I like flirting and the little thrill of someone reciprocating. My style of flirting isn't... Carry Onesque but it's probably noticeable. | |||
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"I never notice when people are flirty I just assume their being nice so I don't think I'd take much notice on here to be honest. If it was blatantly obvious flirting with everyone then it maybe off-putting a little, I like to feel somewhat special I guess not that I'm just one of many who bit the bait, it can also come across as any holes a goal & if everyone can have it I dont want it. Mrs A bit special... so you'd prefer if people were selective if they gave you attention? You're not one for just casual flirting?" Yeah in a way, if there flirting with absolutely every woman then no I don't want it, it's kinda meaningless. Mrs | |||
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"If it's flirting because it's a jokey, flirty kind of thread I try to make it obvious. I'm not very good at flirting anyway. I have to use the eyelash emoji liberally!
There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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"I'm more likely to send a message about something that makes me happy and want to share that, than flirt. I am not sure if that makes sense - more like "here is a piece of my thinking, I hope you like it as I wanted to share with you because I like you" MrsAbz, this is the *best* description of your chat I’ve ever seen. It’s you. 100% you. You’re very self-aware sometimes.
Thanks RTG, you know I enjoy sharing the happy with those who like to hear/read it and grasp that this is me being openly me.
Now I'm off to shower the dog. As you do in sat morning.
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I love you sharing your happy! I have some happy to share with you. It's my favourite cardi in the world. I'll message you now!
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"I can be quite flirty when I’m in the mood for it, It doesn’t necessarily mean I want it to go any further, it’s just a little fun. I do have to like them in some way, though. I don’t really take flirting on the forum seriously. If they had a genuine interest I guess they would let me know privately. I think there’s different levels to flirting and you can tell when someone is being playful or flirting with intent. If it comes across like they’re trying it on with anyone, it is a little off putting. " What happens if they're genuinely interested in lots of people though? Would that put you off? I don't think flirting with intent or for another reason is always obvious unless you're the target for that attention. Or know the person you're reading. | |||
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There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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" ….. Like someone said above, they just come across as thirsty, is that the word? Like they'd fuck anyone basically, and that puts me off. And people who are that "nice" and jolly they flirt with anyone are just not my kinda person. I got called out for being desperate once. True story. .. I can’t remember the exact words. But if actually talking to people and having a laugh makes me look thirsty…wtf? Or desperate. Then you can shove your oppinions up your ass. Not you op. I kinda know what you mean. But you touched on something where I couldn’t answer back to the wanker that sent me that message. " Ass sounds so daft in my accent, it's always arse.
That tangent aside - if people are sharing their negative opinions with you via dm? Let them. Ignore it. It's not worth it.
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"I like a bit flirty nonsense. In real life I am quite flirty but it doesn't mean anything more than I enjoy your company and I am comfortable. Flirting is just fun to me and it never bothers me seeing others flirt. It makes me smile more often than not seeing the interactions. My flirting skills with those I actually like completely suck. I'm more likely to send a message about something that makes me happy and want to share that, than flirt. I am not sure if that makes sense - more like "here is a piece of my thinking, I hope you like it as I wanted to share with you because I like you" I may need to work on that and become a bit more forward MrsAbz" I don't think you do need to work on being forward. At all. There's not one true way of flirting is there? You can express interest in another in a myriad of ways, it doesn't mean your flirting sucks. It's how you communicate with another and if they're open to that style of flirting? Crack on. | |||
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"If you flirt with a person on the forum, are you genuinely interested in them? Do you like being flirted with even if someone isn't interested in you? If someone is naturally flirty with everyone, does that put you off them a little bit? Or make it harder to tell when it's intentional?" If I flirt with someone I'm genuinely interested | |||
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There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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And then there’s the flip side, when others will start to think it’s lamppost pissing.
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"I do flirt a lot but I've tried to calm it down because people then assume you will automatically be attracted when you meet. I do love a good flirt online..it's great when the connection is there in person
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You don't have to please anyone om here. I do and say what pleases me and I don't care what other people think. They're irrelevant to me."I care what some think. Although I do know what you mean. I stand by what I said above, if someone steers clear of me because of how I am on a public forum, then fine, we’re not a fit anyway. And I think I’m attracted to peoples characters how they are in public as much as how they are in private. I can’t be alone with that. | |||
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"Oh Meli, I have no idea when it comes to flirting *big sigh* Blatant flirting littered with sexual innuendos makes me uncomfortable after a few people taking it too seriously over the years if I responded in kind. So, I thought I didn't flirt, but 2 people in the last year have said that I do, in my own "special" way. I'm yet to totally figure out what that looks like, but I suspect it means being playful in a non-sexual way. Yesterday I tried out the fluttery eyelash emoji, just to see what it would be like, and it didn't feel right. Hey ho. If someone flirts with me I don't take it too seriously, especially if they're the sort to do so publicly with many many others. That does kind of put me off. " So I'm guessing asking if you wanted some naughty play time and enquiring after your sleeping pussy wouldn't have you dripping... interesting. Am I one of those two people? I think I might be. Aware that there's going to be a very big confirmation bias here because we're friends... but you're such a flirt when you're interested in someone. You're a flirty kissy person. You don't need to  (I really dislike the latter) your way through life to be flirty. | |||
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To me, on here, it's all good light hearted bants. If I want it to go further I'd message!
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There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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You can’t win in here. "No you can. Don't make people feel like they're a shameful secret. Easy. Winning. What a win. Lamppost pissing... sometimes it happens, other times it's in the eye of the reader. The forums aren't just read by those who you reply to - not everyone will understand it etc. | |||
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"So I'm guessing asking if you wanted some naughty play time and enquiring after your sleeping pussy wouldn't have you dripping... interesting. Am I one of those two people? I think I might be. Aware that there's going to be a very big confirmation bias here because we're friends... but you're such a flirt when you're interested in someone. You're a flirty kissy person. You don't need to (I really dislike the latter) your way through life to be flirty."Oh that's the worst! Like jumping into a Carry On film or an episode of Benny Hill
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Outrageous behaviour LB, truly outrageous.
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There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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J"I had no idea women thought about this and genuinely makes me re-think my approach to the forums... When I meet someone off the forums, I tend to flirt them less after because we would be flirting privately in conversations and I almost don't want to draw attention to the fact we've met, not because I'm ashamed, but because I find it cringey when two forum people have met and follow each other on every thread, flirting and making sure everyone knows they've fucked. I probably have some soul-searching to do as I hate to think I've made any women I've met feel that way while flirting with others  | |||
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There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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I had no idea women thought about this and genuinely makes me re-think my approach to the forums... When I meet someone off the forums, I tend to flirt them less after because we would be flirting privately in conversations and I almost don't want to draw attention to the fact we've met, not because I'm ashamed, but because I find it cringey when two forum people have met and follow each other on every thread, flirting and making sure everyone knows they've fucked.
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There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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I had no idea women thought about this and genuinely makes me re-think my approach to the forums... When I meet someone off the forums, I tend to flirt them less after because we would be flirting privately in conversations and I almost don't want to draw attention to the fact we've met, not because I'm ashamed, but because I find it cringey when two forum people have met and follow each other on every thread, flirting and making sure everyone knows they've fucked.
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"If it's flirting because it's a jokey, flirty kind of thread I try to make it obvious. I'm not very good at flirting anyway. I have to use the eyelash emoji liberally!
There was someone I was chatting to, trying to sort a date for a social which in all likelihood would've led to more. But I was put off by them publicly flirting with everyone else but never me. Like I was some kind of shameful secret. Fuck that.
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I had no idea women thought about this and genuinely makes me re-think my approach to the forums... When I meet someone off the forums, I tend to flirt them less after because we would be flirting privately in conversations and I almost don't want to draw attention to the fact we've met, not because I'm ashamed, but because I find it cringey when two forum people have met and follow each other on every thread, flirting and making sure everyone knows they've fucked.
I probably have some soul-searching to do as I hate to think I've made any women I've met feel that way while flirting with others
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I had no idea women thought about this and genuinely makes me re-think my approach to the forums... When I meet someone off the forums, I tend to flirt them less after because we would be flirting privately in conversations and I almost don't want to draw attention to the fact we've met, not because I'm ashamed, but because I find it cringey when two forum people have met and follow each other on every thread, flirting and making sure everyone knows they've fucked.
I probably have some soul-searching to do as I hate to think I've made any women I've met feel that way while flirting with others "I also find that cringey Joe and I think it's probably different *after* you've met. I'm not asking for LPP or more flirtiness but an acknowledgement of existence would be nice. The social hadn't even taken place and I felt completely ignored. So the social hasn't taken place. J | |||
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"I never notice when people are flirting with me, and I'm rubbish at flirting myself - partly because I find it hard to work out if it would be welcomed and how it would be taken. I have some platonic friends who I talk to in a slightly flirty way but that's because that's how they are, and we've known each other long enough to know there's nothing there that isn't platonic. Apart from that, my attempts at flirting are like my attempts at dancing - awkward and rare. Do you think you don't notice when people are flirting because you're not confident in doing it yourself? Sort of, unsure as to how it would be taken. Would you feel comfortable if you spotted another flirting with you? " It's a couple of things really. Firstly, it takes a lot to convince me that someone is or might be interested in me. Secondly I struggle to read interest even if I suspect it. And then I'm not always sure how to pitch flirting back even if I am sure people are flirting in the first place! Once I get to the point of being completely comfortable with people I can get flirty and sexual but I have to be 100% sure it will be welcome. So if someone is flirting with me, and I'm confortable with them, then I can enjoy it a lot. | |||
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Me too! Lol .... Nice suit
Oh you are a natural already! Thanks and nice boobs!...am I doing this right?
I mean your suit would look better on my bedroom floor "Oh you are a pro, you clearly don't need classes!
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
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How you doing
LB, if you are giving flirting lessons, I would like to take one please xx
Me too! Lol .... Nice suit
Oh you are a natural already! Thanks and nice boobs!...am I doing this right?
I mean your suit would look better on my bedroom floor
Oh you are a pro, you clearly don't need classes!
LB it's just me then! "Bollocks I just shot myself in my foot there | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful "I tell you when people are flirting but you don’t believe me | |||
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"I’ll flirt with anyone who’ll let me fill their holes, ANYONE "I have a big hole to fill. | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
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How you doing "I'm naked - that's the right response yes?? | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
*waves*
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I'm naked - that's the right response yes?? "Absofuckinglutely | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
I tell you when people are flirting but you don’t believe me"When was the last time we were even out together in a way that someone would flirt with me | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
*waves*
How you doing
I'm naked - that's the right response yes??
Absofuckinglutely "You're such a good teacher - please don't stop!! I learn best from hands on repetition  | |||
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"Generally I don’t detect flirting until I see this bad boy "That's because you've got your head in the clouds | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
*waves*
How you doing
I'm naked - that's the right response yes??
Absofuckinglutely
You're such a good teacher - please don't stop!! I learn best from hands on repetition "Get a room you two! Preferably with us in it! Hades x #Flirting | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
*waves*
How you doing
I'm naked - that's the right response yes??
Absofuckinglutely
You're such a good teacher - please don't stop!! I learn best from hands on repetition
Get a room you two! Preferably with us in it!
Hades
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#Flirting"Yes Sir | |||
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"Genuinely don't know how to flirt or how to tell if someone was trying to flirt with me
If someone could give me some lessons/guidance I'd be very grateful
*waves*
How you doing
I'm naked - that's the right response yes??
Absofuckinglutely
You're such a good teacher - please don't stop!! I learn best from hands on repetition
Get a room you two! Preferably with us in it!
Hades
x
#Flirting
Yes Sir "That’s outrageous flirting! You filthy flirter you! (and it totally works too )
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"If I flirt with anyone it's because I'm genuinely interested in them, that's why I never flirt with forum users." Harsh. | |||
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"If I flirt with anyone it's because I'm genuinely interested in them, that's why I never flirt with forum users. Harsh. "But true | |||
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"If I flirt with anyone it's because I'm genuinely interested in them, that's why I never flirt with forum users. Harsh.
But true "The burn heard around the Fab world .
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"If I flirt with anyone it's because I'm genuinely interested in them, that's why I never flirt with forum users. Harsh.
But true
The burn heard around the Fab world .
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