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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield

I assume this arose out of COVID...but seriously....why do people now do this?!

I was at the bar the other week...a everyone stood normally...plenty of people.stood\gaps at the bar...I fill one...then some bloke behind another bloke (I thought they were being served together) tells me that's he's next?!?

If he's next...why isn't he at the bar!?!

Sorry for the rant. The respect post made me think...it's one situation where I will be a dick to people if they don't know how to use a pub....

(To clarify the bar staff have told us they also hate it) And there's no signs or anything indicating queueing or waiting to be served...

Right...where was I...

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By *obilebottomMan
36 weeks ago

All over

At the pub wanting to push and shove to get to the bar. Or am I reading this wrong?

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

You want to be first to get noticed gets served i guess

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield


"You want to be first to get noticed gets served i guess "

Not at all, I will always make sure others there before me get served before I do...thems the rules..

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By *rHotNottsMan
36 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve never heard of this. The bars I go to, You sit down and someone comes and takes your order.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester

If they come to me and I know others have been there first I always give way.

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield

To clarify....the issue I have is when there is a literal single file queue stood about 6ft from the bar

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester


"To clarify....the issue I have is when there is a literal single file queue stood about 6ft from the bar"

That’s not the worst thing ever. No great injustice that way. Other than having to walk around the queue.

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield


"To clarify....the issue I have is when there is a literal single file queue stood about 6ft from the bar

That’s not the worst thing ever. No great injustice that way. Other than having to walk around the queue. "

Ha not the worst thing ever, but I just don't understand why people don it if there's no sign asking them to?

The bar staff hate it and surely they know how a bar works and has for centuries?

Who looks at an empty bar...where there's one person getting servers and thinks...I better stand over here where noone knows I want to be served...?

Ok I look like a nutter...I'll shut up..

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By *obilebottomMan
36 weeks ago

All over

Nothing wrong giving people a little bit of space whatever they are doing whether queueing gor a dring or to pay for their groceries or to get on the bus or whatever. Nobody wants anyone breathing at the back of their neck. Unless invited of course.

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
36 weeks ago

Pontypool

I quite miss the 2m social distancing. I liked having that much personal space at the supermarket etc.

(Other situations require no social distancing, whatsoever)

But queueing in single file at a bar does seem unusual.

Mrs

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Nothing wrong giving people a little bit of space whatever they are doing whether queueing gor a dring or to pay for their groceries or to get on the bus or whatever. Nobody wants anyone breathing at the back of their neck. Unless invited of course. "

So stand 3ft to the side of them at the bar...not 6ft behind them so the bar staff think they are done serving...go and start another job...they see you...have to come back...

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Don't see what the problem is here .

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By *obilebottomMan
36 weeks ago

All over


"Nothing wrong giving people a little bit of space whatever they are doing whether queueing gor a dring or to pay for their groceries or to get on the bus or whatever. Nobody wants anyone breathing at the back of their neck. Unless invited of course.

So stand 3ft to the side of them at the bar...not 6ft behind them so the bar staff think they are done serving...go and start another job...they see you...have to come back..."

But then you come along and squeeze in between so now is just a foot between us and somebody else sees that little gap too and just about manages to squeeze in between and so on and before you know it I smell his breath, feel the litlle fellow brushing against my leg and the one behind starts drilling for oil. Yes a little odd to queue like that in a pub I suppose but I don't realy go much to pubs anymore. However I do like my space and and not to be crowded amd find it a bit rude when people do that

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I'd go to the gap in the bar, if they want to stand 2 metres back like a dick that's their issue.

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Nothing wrong giving people a little bit of space whatever they are doing whether queueing gor a dring or to pay for their groceries or to get on the bus or whatever. Nobody wants anyone breathing at the back of their neck. Unless invited of course.

So stand 3ft to the side of them at the bar...not 6ft behind them so the bar staff think they are done serving...go and start another job...they see you...have to come back...

But then you come along and squeeze in between so now is just a foot between us and somebody else sees that little gap too and just about manages to squeeze in between and so on and before you know it I smell his breath, feel the litlle fellow brushing against my leg and the one behind starts drilling for oil. Yes a little odd to queue like that in a pub I suppose but I don't realy go much to pubs anymore. However I do like my space and and not to be crowded amd find it a bit rude when people do that "

Couple assumptions there ..I'd stand the other side of said fellow...as bars are generally wider than 4ft..plus a 1ft gap is a lot more than you'd get in a queue with people literally stood breathing down your neck and bumping into you.

You find it rude when people stand next to you at a bar and wait to get served?!?

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By *obilebottomMan
36 weeks ago

All over


"Nothing wrong giving people a little bit of space whatever they are doing whether queueing gor a dring or to pay for their groceries or to get on the bus or whatever. Nobody wants anyone breathing at the back of their neck. Unless invited of course.

So stand 3ft to the side of them at the bar...not 6ft behind them so the bar staff think they are done serving...go and start another job...they see you...have to come back...

But then you come along and squeeze in between so now is just a foot between us and somebody else sees that little gap too and just about manages to squeeze in between and so on and before you know it I smell his breath, feel the litlle fellow brushing against my leg and the one behind starts drilling for oil. Yes a little odd to queue like that in a pub I suppose but I don't realy go much to pubs anymore. However I do like my space and and not to be crowded amd find it a bit rude when people do that

Couple assumptions there ..I'd stand the other side of said fellow...as bars are generally wider than 4ft..plus a 1ft gap is a lot more than you'd get in a queue with people literally stood breathing down your neck and bumping into you.

You find it rude when people stand next to you at a bar and wait to get served?!?"

Ok, just last comment and out. You pick and choose words. I said I find it a bit strange queueing like that but also said I found crowding (word you missed out) someone as sometimes some get far too close to others and I do find that disrespectful yes. Over and out. Like I said is not a big issue for me, just basic manners.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Do you not all pile half way across the bar anymore waving your tenners and twenties in the bar people’s faces?

Times have changed

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield

Apologies didn't mean to pick and choose there.

If someone is crowding you for no reason...yeh I agree...it says either rude, inconsiderate, or oblivious but if the bar is busy, surely you dont take offence in that situation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Do you not all pile half way across the bar anymore waving your tenners and twenties in the bar people’s faces?

Times have changed "

The good old days

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Do you not all pile half way across the bar anymore waving your tenners and twenties in the bar people’s faces?

Times have changed "
£50s

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do you not all pile half way across the bar anymore waving your tenners and twenties in the bar people’s faces?

Times have changed £50s "

Does a tenner not get a round anymore?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Sit at the table. Order a pint online.

Wait two minutes for delivery.

Spoons has its virtues.....

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

When the queue actually goes out the pub door in the summer! Wtaf!

I preferred it when we waived £20 notes at bar wenches!

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By *ortyairCouple
36 weeks ago

Wallasey

Get to the bar, order your drink, drink it, repeat... simple,

Mrs x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
36 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Sit at the table. Order a pint online.

Wait two minutes for delivery.

Spoons has its virtues..... "

As long as you don’t need a wee

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Sit at the table. Order a pint online.

Wait two minutes for delivery.

Spoons has its virtues.....

As long as you don’t need a wee "

I can cope with stairs.

*most of the time anyway.....

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By *itygamesMan
36 weeks ago

UK

its not queueing , its waiting to get the bar persons attention .

queueing in general is in a straught line , in a bar you wait for a spot and dive in.....

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry

you found a busy pub!

to be fair I did in Blackpool the other weekend but i have no idea what happened at the bar

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By *ddie1966Man
36 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I have done bar work in the past and trained as a bar manager.

The guy who trained me was the senior Steward on the QE2.

I was always taught that a good Bar Person always noted who arrived ad who left and in what order.

Even if a person was pushed two rows back, I always knew who was next to be served and informed them that they were next.

I got a lot of respect for it and always got tips or a drink bought for me.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
36 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Sit at the table. Order a pint online.

Wait two minutes for delivery.

Spoons has its virtues.....

As long as you don’t need a wee

I can cope with stairs.

*most of the time anyway..... "

That’s because you have long legs

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By *na64Woman
36 weeks ago

Manchester


"I assume this arose out of COVID...but seriously....why do people now do this?!

I was at the bar the other week...a everyone stood normally...plenty of people.stood\gaps at the bar...I fill one...then some bloke behind another bloke (I thought they were being served together) tells me that's he's next?!?

If he's next...why isn't he at the bar!?!

Sorry for the rant. The respect post made me think...it's one situation where I will be a dick to people if they don't know how to use a pub....

(To clarify the bar staff have told us they also hate it) And there's no signs or anything indicating queueing or waiting to be served...

Right...where was I..."

This totally happened to me the other day, and I just went right ahead and joined the queue, it would’ve been rude not too

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I’ve worked a bar. You need to see who is next, and to do that you need to see what order people aproach the bar. It makes sense.

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By *aters139 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield


"I’ve worked a bar. You need to see who is next, and to do that you need to see what order people aproach the bar. It makes sense. "

So have I...no-one ever single file queued and I had no issues knowing who was next.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Never have I or will I.

Get to the bar by stealth and guile, own my space, catch a servers eye, order my round, ignore the fuckwits queuing.

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By *tylebender03Man
36 weeks ago

Manchester

It sounds crazy at first but sometimes bar staff serve regulars or people they know first and your waiting ages when it should have been your turn

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"I’ve worked a bar. You need to see who is next, and to do that you need to see what order people aproach the bar. It makes sense. "

And pretend you can't see the dicks that click their fingers at you.

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By *iddle ManMan
36 weeks ago

Walsall

Personally I would rather queue, it's gets down quick.

Plus no one liked pushing and shoving at the bar, nothing short of a scrum in weatherspoons, then some idiot trying to get infront of everyone.

I know it wasn't fun for women I spoke to about it since the covid queues started, and it became much easier.

I'd order on an app if at all possible.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It sounds crazy at first but sometimes bar staff serve regulars or people they know first and your waiting ages when it should have been your turn "

Happens a lot with boobies too.

#sexist

##buttotallyunderstandable

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By *iaisonseekerMan
36 weeks ago

Liverpool

There has been a marked decline in pubcraft since COVID. Getting served at the bar used to be a hard-won skill forged over many Friday nights of being overlooked in favour of more assertive regulars. Now people have become so used to soulless automation that they can't deal with the rough and tumble of a night out.

*rolls up newspaper, tucks it under arm and dons flat cap*

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"I’ve worked a bar. You need to see who is next, and to do that you need to see what order people aproach the bar. It makes sense.

And pretend you can't see the dicks that click their fingers at you. "

Yes. Exactly, or serve the hot chicks.

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

Don't queue its not the British way

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By *olf and RedCouple
36 weeks ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

At our local we don’t queue, you stand in a space at the bar and get served. Seems to work well like it always has done.

Red

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Central

Some places do develop their own ways of doing things - I've seen it in drivers on some roads, who let others take priority, outside of standard norms.

Having bar service to be less cut and thrust and more relaxed and respectful, is a good thing.

Staff can chat with regulars, if they'd like changes

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By *nnCeeWoman
36 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Do you not all pile half way across the bar anymore waving your tenners and twenties in the bar people’s faces?

Times have changed £50s "

No no no... wave your Apple watch, or tappy phone thingamagig!!

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