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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.

Fab a more enjoyable experience for you?

What would you like more of from Fab? Excluding the word meet, come up with a more creative term for it please.

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By *arley QuimWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere

Sex

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Actually local events would be good for me. But that's less about the site and more about the county.

Having actually all the clubs listed rather than excluding some excellent ones for reasons undisclosed.

An option to blur images listed as above 'page 3' level until clicked on, whether it's a profile pic or gallery.

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By *ongue tastikMan
2 weeks ago

Chorley

A local lady for fun x

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Sex "

Ha. So simple. Do you think you're doing all you can to get the more frequent sex you'd like?

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere

More humour.

A hash brown emoji.

And when you delete your account you're never allowed to rejoin. Ever.

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By *emorefridaCouple
2 weeks ago

La la land

On the forum, if you replied and quote it wouldn't show the whole post. On some threads they can become too long to bother reading. I'd also like a like button for some posts.

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By *oody BMan
2 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin

People that want to meet up more, and more intimate get togethers. A bigger social group with friends that all get along. That type of vibe.

And a weekly competition where a winner gets to fuck someone of their choice.

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By *ucka39Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Less moaning and saving it for the bedroom

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By *arley QuimWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Sex

Ha. So simple. Do you think you're doing all you can to get the more frequent sex you'd like? "

In all honesty Meli probably not

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By *mmaleiaWoman
2 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

More detailed searches of what you’re interested in, height etc

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

A weekly meat raffle.

A daily fab based crossword.

A " user of the month".

An annual summer BBQ on Brighton beach.

Free membership for users who have been on more than ten years.

Post count on forum post's.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
2 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on.

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By *hubs101Man
2 weeks ago

West Midlands

To actually have a meet or 2

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

More blow jobs.

Not just decent ones though. The kind where it's been turned into an artform and you are left a shuddering mess of aftershocks - ready to declare your eternal love.

Or coffee and a giggle, ya know whatever, either works.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere

[Removed by poster at 02/05/24 19:55:03]

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"[Removed by poster at 02/05/24 19:55:03]"

Ever ever??

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By *oody BMan
2 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"[Account Removed by poster at 02/05/24 19:55:03]"

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"[Account Removed by poster at 02/05/24 19:55:03]"

You wish

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Actually local events would be good for me. But that's less about the site and more about the county.

Having actually all the clubs listed rather than excluding some excellent ones for reasons undisclosed.

An option to blur images listed as above 'page 3' level until clicked on, whether it's a profile pic or gallery."

Oh I like the blurred image idea! Yeah, sometimes when I've logged on and am enjoying a twister I don't want to be confronted with Bob's splodge sprayed over Tina's spread apart lips.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
2 weeks ago

Carlisle


"Actually local events would be good for me. But that's less about the site and more about the county.

Having actually all the clubs listed rather than excluding some excellent ones for reasons undisclosed.

An option to blur images listed as above 'page 3' level until clicked on, whether it's a profile pic or gallery."

YES!

Mrs

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By *oody BMan
2 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"[Account Removed by poster at 02/05/24 19:55:03]

You wish"

Nah, I don’t.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Actually local events would be good for me. But that's less about the site and more about the county.

Having actually all the clubs listed rather than excluding some excellent ones for reasons undisclosed.

An option to blur images listed as above 'page 3' level until clicked on, whether it's a profile pic or gallery.

Oh I like the blurred image idea! Yeah, sometimes when I've logged on and am enjoying a twister I don't want to be confronted with Bob's splodge sprayed over Tina's spread apart lips. "

Poor old Bob

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By *rbobbMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Actually local events would be good for me. But that's less about the site and more about the county.

Having actually all the clubs listed rather than excluding some excellent ones for reasons undisclosed.

An option to blur images listed as above 'page 3' level until clicked on, whether it's a profile pic or gallery.

Oh I like the blurred image idea! Yeah, sometimes when I've logged on and am enjoying a twister I don't want to be confronted with Bob's splodge sprayed over Tina's spread apart lips. "

How did my splodge get dragged into this

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"More humour.

A hash brown emoji.

And when you delete your account you're never allowed to rejoin. Ever. "

Humour is very subjective isn't it?

Love the hash brown emoji idea.

Less so deleting and never allowed to rejoin. I'd miss watching your icy self thaw and refreeze over the week.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

More guys that meet what I'm looking for that live close to me please. Not too much to ask for?

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"More humour.

A hash brown emoji.

And when you delete your account you're never allowed to rejoin. Ever.

Humour is very subjective isn't it?

Love the hash brown emoji idea.

Less so deleting and never allowed to rejoin. I'd miss watching your icy self thaw and refreeze over the week. "

Less moaning then, yes I know I moan. I annoy myself at times.

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By *arrus8t5Man
2 weeks ago

manchester


"Actually local events would be good for me. But that's less about the site and more about the county.

Having actually all the clubs listed rather than excluding some excellent ones for reasons undisclosed.

An option to blur images listed as above 'page 3' level until clicked on, whether it's a profile pic or gallery."

Definitely on board with the blur pics option

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By *icassoxxxMan
2 weeks ago

leeds skelton

A section for people who have a perversion for old, fat, ugly truckers…..

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"On the forum, if you replied and quote it wouldn't show the whole post. On some threads they can become too long to bother reading. I'd also like a like button for some posts. "

Yep. Or at least a reminder that flashes up and tells people to edit it down if there's more than four paragraphs in the quote. People, don't quote the entire text. Stop it.

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton


"People that want to meet up more, and more intimate get togethers. A bigger social group with friends that all get along. That type of vibe.

And a weekly competition where a winner gets to fuck someone of their choice. "

Funny you should mention it I'm heading your way for a couple of days next week coffee??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on."

This one too.

I'd like to add this to my list

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Mandatory sock photos for all forum profiles.

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By *r John WickMan
2 weeks ago

The Continental

The ability to edit posts.

I hate deleting them because of typos, when a simple correction feature would suffice.

Oh, and more hot chicks fancying the y-fronts off me.

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By *r.Stephen-PickleMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

I’d like it if more of the friends I’ve made lived in London.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"People that want to meet up more, and more intimate get togethers. A bigger social group with friends that all get along. That type of vibe.

And a weekly competition where a winner gets to fuck someone of their choice. "

What do you mean by more intimate get togethers? As in a group of friends who all have sex with each other?

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By *oody BMan
2 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"On the forum, if you replied and quote it wouldn't show the whole post. On some threads they can become too long to bother reading. I'd also like a like button for some posts.

Yep. Or at least a reminder that flashes up and tells people to edit it down if there's more than four paragraphs in the quote. People, don't quote the entire text. Stop it."

Yes.

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By *oody BMan
2 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"People that want to meet up more, and more intimate get togethers. A bigger social group with friends that all get along. That type of vibe.

And a weekly competition where a winner gets to fuck someone of their choice.

Funny you should mention it I'm heading your way for a couple of days next week coffee??"

If you buy, I’m in

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham


".What do you mean by more intimate get togethers? As in a group of friends who all have sex with each other?"

Stop the thread here. This is the winning suggestion!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Free sherbet dib dabs on the last Friday of the month.

For hidden profiles or no profile picture profiles you can choose a cartoon character a generic non copyright one of course.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"A weekly meat raffle.

A daily fab based crossword.

A " user of the month".

An annual summer BBQ on Brighton beach.

Free membership for users who have been on more than ten years.

Post count on forum post's."

I'd love a Fab based crossword! Probably far more than I should admit. Also, yes to the free membership. When you've been on here long enough, they really should reward you for the images you've had scarred in to your retina for life.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"Mandatory sock photos for all forum profiles."

Yes!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Mandatory sock photos for all forum profiles."

Enforced foot fetish feeding is a hard no from me

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By *arrus8t5Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

Maybe a travel option for location so you will show up in areas where you will be at future dates

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on."

Great shout Frodo.

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton


"People that want to meet up more, and more intimate get togethers. A bigger social group with friends that all get along. That type of vibe.

And a weekly competition where a winner gets to fuck someone of their choice.

Funny you should mention it I'm heading your way for a couple of days next week coffee??

If you buy, I’m in "

I'm sure I can shout you a coffee

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By *ell GwynnWoman
2 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


"The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on.

Great shout Frodo. "

*stink-eye emoji ×10!*

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
2 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Top shagger of the month awards

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply

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By *r.Stephen-PickleMan
2 weeks ago

Ends


"The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on.

Great shout Frodo. "

when you hide your profile I think people can only see if they go to their hotlist or friends list if they can see at all?

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By *r John WickMan
2 weeks ago

The Continental


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply "

Really?

You’d rather be called horrible names vs having a message deleted?

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By *avin77Man
2 weeks ago

camberley

The cams in the chat rooms working properly and the chat not having glitches which has been there years

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"More blow jobs.

Not just decent ones though. The kind where it's been turned into an artform and you are left a shuddering mess of aftershocks - ready to declare your eternal love.

Or coffee and a giggle, ya know whatever, either works.

"

If everyone responded to oral sex in the way you've described there? I'd constantly be on my knees to make sure I've got it down to an art form.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"More guys that meet what I'm looking for that live close to me please. Not too much to ask for? "

Nah, I don't think it is at all Scarlet. The way people talk about the male/female ratios you'd think there would be rows upon rows of eligible, suitable penis owners, primed for action.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply

Really?

You’d rather be called horrible names vs having a message deleted? "

So, whenever a woman deletes a message or simply leaves it unresponded to for more than 15 minutes, the system sends a "Fuck off wanker" message and blocks them?

I'm down for that.

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By *oody BMan
2 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"Mandatory sock photos for all forum profiles.

Yes!"

Haha.

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By *tylebender03Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

A VR video game

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
2 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Make it mandatory for Everybody to read Irvin Welsh's books, p0rno and filth first

Mr

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By * man -Man
2 weeks ago

Bath

Warm tentacles wrapped around my bits

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By *EAT..85Woman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

A function that allows you to block men with penis profile pics and/or penis' in their gallery from messaging.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

IQ test before joining

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Mandatory sock photos for all forum profiles."

I'm saying yes to this because Coyote's avatar is really cute and I think socks come in for a lot of hate around here. Unfairly. More socks please!

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By *illy IdolMan
2 weeks ago

Somewhere near the middle

More Meli threads

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would like more creative and quirky small group socials such as a visit to the National Archives or The British Library, nosing about and ogling at musty manuscripts, hardcore hardbacks and bootylicious bibliothèques. And when it's all done we hit the library's wood-panelled gin and rum bar, exchange tongues and kisses, find myself a bespectacled geeky-swot bitch and bonk her like it's her life's epilogue of desire.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"More guys that meet what I'm looking for that live close to me please. Not too much to ask for?

Nah, I don't think it is at all Scarlet. The way people talk about the male/female ratios you'd think there would be rows upon rows of eligible, suitable penis owners, primed for action. "

Mental image of the Matrix movie growing field power plants but with penises

J

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"The ability to edit posts.

I hate deleting them because of typos, when a simple correction feature would suffice.

Oh, and more hot chicks fancying the y-fronts off me."

It's so annoying isn't it? I make stupid mistakes and either think fuck it, these words don't pay the mortgage or I write a post underneath acknowledging my stupidity. Fab Gods, you glorious deities; let us edit our mistakes.

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By *ustPeteMan
2 weeks ago

Harrogate

It needs to be more like Smash Hits.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
2 weeks ago

Debauchery

GIFs. I want GIFs!

Hades

x

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"More guys that meet what I'm looking for that live close to me please. Not too much to ask for?

Nah, I don't think it is at all Scarlet. The way people talk about the male/female ratios you'd think there would be rows upon rows of eligible, suitable penis owners, primed for action.

Mental image of the Matrix movie growing field power plants but with penises

J"

Thanks for that very welcome addition to my wankbank, it was running a bit dry.

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2 weeks ago


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply

Really?

You’d rather be called horrible names vs having a message deleted? "

At least its a reply, acknowledgement that that your message has been read

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 weeks ago

Maidstone


"More guys that meet what I'm looking for that live close to me please. Not too much to ask for?

Nah, I don't think it is at all Scarlet. The way people talk about the male/female ratios you'd think there would be rows upon rows of eligible, suitable penis owners, primed for action.

Mental image of the Matrix movie growing field power plants but with penises

J"

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply

Really?

You’d rather be called horrible names vs having a message deleted?

So, whenever a woman deletes a message or simply leaves it unresponded to for more than 15 minutes, the system sends a "Fuck off wanker" message and blocks them?

I'm down for that."

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By *harlieandMontyCouple
2 weeks ago

Seaton

Mandatory 5 minute period between writing and sending message to re-read message and think do I really want to send this ..

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"I’d like it if more of the friends I’ve made lived in London. "

Aww Pickle, x

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By *ot to giggleWoman
2 weeks ago

Coventry


"The cams in the chat rooms working properly and the chat not having glitches which has been there years "

they seem to work ok when i go in ??? oh occasionally you get a cock cam which is hilarious

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


".What do you mean by more intimate get togethers? As in a group of friends who all have sex with each other?

Stop the thread here. This is the winning suggestion!"

Ha. I thought you'd already have that for some reason.

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham


".What do you mean by more intimate get togethers? As in a group of friends who all have sex with each other?

Stop the thread here. This is the winning suggestion!

Ha. I thought you'd already have that for some reason. "

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By *ot to giggleWoman
2 weeks ago

Coventry


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply

Really?

You’d rather be called horrible names vs having a message deleted?

At least its a reply, acknowledgement that that your message has been read"

it changes from yellow doesnt it if it has been read ??

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
2 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Automatic time outs for entitlement, length to be decided by forumites

Mr

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By *ot to giggleWoman
2 weeks ago

Coventry

ability to like or laugh at a post without creating a whole new post

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
2 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply

Really?

You’d rather be called horrible names vs having a message deleted?

At least its a reply, acknowledgement that that your message has been read

it changes from yellow doesnt it if it has been read ?? "

Option to unread the message again, so they never know

Mr

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Maybe a travel option for location so you will show up in areas where you will be at future dates"

I quite like that. I guess there's the meet today/whatever date notification thing you can add to your profile but it's a bit... yeah. Naff looking.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Top shagger of the month awards

Mr "

How will that be decided Mr B+W?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
2 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Top shagger of the month awards

Mr

How will that be decided Mr B+W?"

With a cum off who ever shoots thr furthest wins

Mr

Excuse my thickness what is B+W?

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply "

Is it though? I think it's best to view it as casual interaction with no expectation of replies until it's something more. I do think it must be disheartening at times but focusing on other avenues/ways to form interactions is a good idea.

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By *laterMan
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

More 'body type' options 'muscular' as well as 'athletic', 'fat' as well as 'curvy'.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Top shagger of the month awards

Mr

How will that be decided Mr B+W?

With a cum off who ever shoots thr furthest wins

Mr

Excuse my thickness what is B+W? "

But how will women be judged?

Grey. I didn't want to call you Mr "Grey" because yeah...

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
2 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Top shagger of the month awards

Mr

How will that be decided Mr B+W?

With a cum off who ever shoots thr furthest wins

Mr

Excuse my thickness what is B+W?

But how will women be judged?

Grey. I didn't want to call you Mr "Grey" because yeah... "

You got me there Meli, I'm not that invested in this idea anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Replies to messages, especially when the person you're messaging says come say hi or let's chat, even a fuck off your an ugly bastard is better than no reply

Is it though? I think it's best to view it as casual interaction with no expectation of replies until it's something more. I do think it must be disheartening at times but focusing on other avenues/ways to form interactions is a good idea."

I do, I visit clubs etc, I don't expect a reply from everyone but it is frustrating when the poster says drop us a message, or we always respond, or I want to chat etc and never replies.

Unless I'm actively chatting with someone I normally delete the message after I have sent it so I don't know if it's ever been read or not

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By *lexm87Man
2 weeks ago

Cumford

Spellchecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Fab fun.

A trip to circus ..already here.

Fab is Fab it will never change its spots.HD photos that show spotty bums and cocks or anything nice should be banned who agrees to spotty bums or dicks.I mean blackheads or rashes is not Fab for my eyes as op says her retina hurts.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

A local and regular FWB who I could go to clubs with and explore the lifestyle a bit more with

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By *iss LovelyWoman
2 weeks ago

Here and There

I’d like to be able to better tailor who I see and who can contact me

I’d like an option the accept/decline the pics sent to me without them being forced upon me as soon as I open a message

I’d like to be able to opt out of people being to reply privately from the forum

I’d like to be able to reorder the pics in my gallery

Amongst other things

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By *ustardChuckerMan
2 weeks ago

Exetershire

You agreeing to a snog Meli

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"It needs to be more like Smash Hits."

Like the chart show? No Pete, no, we don't need that sort of thing around here. Tut. Tut.

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By *ustPeteMan
2 weeks ago

Harrogate


"It needs to be more like Smash Hits.

Like the chart show? No Pete, no, we don't need that sort of thing around here. Tut. Tut."

Everyone liked the top ten.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"It needs to be more like Smash Hits.

Like the chart show? No Pete, no, we don't need that sort of thing around here. Tut. Tut.

Everyone liked the top ten."

Ah true. Can't believe I forgot what a success that was, apologies; clearly not thinking straight! x

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By *agnar73Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Views. It’s rarely anyone I’d be interested in, and I know most women use ninja mode.

Be nice to think there was someone in my area at least interested for a start, doesn’t need to be more than that, just for a bit of hope.

Maybe something that indicates someone is getting a lot of messages, so you know to leave it alone?

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"More Meli threads"

I'm taking this as you being serious, the early morning delusion is real. Don't worry, there'll be more to come this weekend.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"I would like more creative and quirky small group socials such as a visit to the National Archives or The British Library, nosing about and ogling at musty manuscripts, hardcore hardbacks and bootylicious bibliothèques. And when it's all done we hit the library's wood-panelled gin and rum bar, exchange tongues and kisses, find myself a bespectacled geeky-swot bitch and bonk her like it's her life's epilogue of desire."

I don't know if you've deliberately typed this because I'm the OP but that sounds like my idea of a perfect social. If it could include a visit to a little independent bookshop as well? Pure heaven.

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By *otsossieMan
2 weeks ago

Chez/Sheff


"Sex "

I mean, it’s not a bad shout.

If I’m honest, the only thing holding me back is me.

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By *herry delightWoman
2 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

A wider range of pictures allowed

Better category for pictures

More tolerance and understanding about sex.

But most of all A lot less kink shaming.

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By *r.Stephen-PickleMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

POC socials. More POC on the forums.

Bye.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 weeks ago

Wherever


"The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on."

Exactly this.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 weeks ago

Wherever


"A local and regular FWB who I could go to clubs with and explore the lifestyle a bit more with "

And this, for me too.

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By *igBlondeWoman
2 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)


"The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on."

Yeah - like an incognito mode.

Some people think that because you’re online, you’re available to fuck there and then.

Sometimes it’s nice to come on and have a wee perve, or read and comment on forums

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Morning boobs from a few ladies wouldn’t go a miss.

EVERY MORNING!!!

The mr

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By *allandathleticMan
2 weeks ago

lincolnshire

Like anything in life. It is what you make of it.

Less nudity and more prudish conversations wouldn't go a miss though

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By *orl1971Couple
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

It would be good to have a hotlist matching feature where you could, with agreement, see people you have hotlisted but who have also hotlisted you. Like a matching service for the shy.

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
2 weeks ago

North Wales

The site itself, being able to mention people in posts, voice notes - it's easier especially when I'm asked if I have a Welsh accent. Only show online now to people on your friends list.

Fab experience - the only thing would be to have time to make plans with people, but that's down to my personal circumstances. - I avoided the m word

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By *illan-KillashMan
2 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

No changes please, Fab is perfect exactly as it is, it couldn't be better, please don't change it.

Also, "Suck Up" of the week awards.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester


"It would be good to have a hotlist matching feature where you could, with agreement, see people you have hotlisted but who have also hotlisted you. Like a matching service for the shy. "

This is a good shout

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By *mmaleiaWoman
2 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire


"The option to deactivate "online now" and not show when you last logged on.

Great shout Frodo. "

. Yes to this!!!!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Morning boobs from a few ladies wouldn’t go a miss.

EVERY MORNING!!!

The mr "

I'm with the Mr, morning boobs please.

Mrs

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Morning boobs from a few ladies wouldn’t go a miss.

EVERY MORNING!!!

The mr "

Every morning? That's a tad demanding what with the caps and everything.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"The site itself, being able to mention people in posts, voice notes - it's easier especially when I'm asked if I have a Welsh accent. Only show online now to people on your friends list.

Fab experience - the only thing would be to have time to make plans with people, but that's down to my personal circumstances. - I avoided the m word "

Thank you Bella, really appreciate that.

Voice notes would be good if both parties agree to it. Else you'd end up with wanking notes and no one needs that - they'll be worse than the cock pics.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
2 weeks ago

Okehampton

More boobs in my inbox. I’m a simple man. Boobs make me happy.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester


"More boobs in my inbox. I’m a simple man. Boobs make me happy. "

This would also improve my fab experience.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
2 weeks ago

Bromley


"I would like more creative and quirky small group socials such as a visit to the National Archives or The British Library, nosing about and ogling at musty manuscripts, hardcore hardbacks and bootylicious bibliothèques. And when it's all done we hit the library's wood-panelled gin and rum bar, exchange tongues and kisses, find myself a bespectacled geeky-swot bitch and bonk her like it's her life's epilogue of desire.

I don't know if you've deliberately typed this because I'm the OP but that sounds like my idea of a perfect social. If it could include a visit to a little independent bookshop as well? Pure heaven. "

Sounds great to me. And a trip down Charing Cross road for the cornucopia of book shops and try and squeeze in a visit to the British Museum

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"POC socials. More POC on the forums.

Bye. "

Do you think there are enough on here who are interested in socials to hold one?

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By *Four_uCouple
2 weeks ago

Nr Blackpool

Less rules about what you can and can't say on here without upsetting the powers that be!

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By *eavilMan
2 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Empathy

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Back in Gatwick!


"More humour.

A hash brown emoji.

And when you delete your account you're never allowed to rejoin. Ever. "

The last option would be pretty cool.

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By *rbobbMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Photo verification to become mandatory in a bid to reduce the number of fake profiles

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By *illy IdolMan
2 weeks ago

Somewhere near the middle

An internationally recognised emoji for sarcasm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

King's Crustacean


"Photo verification to become mandatory in a bid to reduce the number of fake profiles"

How would that stop fake profiles ?

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By *Four_uCouple
2 weeks ago

Nr Blackpool


"Photo verification to become mandatory in a bid to reduce the number of fake profiles"

This would be a very good idea and add mandatory paid wall if you want to contact anyone.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"An internationally recognised emoji for sarcasm"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

I would like the QUOTE button , to show the picture or at least the name of the person being QUOTED.

At the moment it just shows the text and I have to scroll up to find out who said it.....

and of course..... should be mandatory that your first meet is filmed and shared.

Not much to ask

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
2 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Such a bloody cliche, but for people I like to live closer to me! That or fab to provide a private helicopter to get about more quickly.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ex HolesMan
2 weeks ago

Up North

The poo emoji please (poo)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

How's about a announcement system that goes .......

Granny has entered the room.

Meli is DM ing with someone right now

Rex is looking at bum holes

Sam is wearing white pants again ...

etc

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By *partharmonyCouple
2 weeks ago

Ruislip


"Fab a more enjoyable experience for you?

What would you like more of from Fab? Excluding the word meet, come up with a more creative term for it please."

Couples (at least those that want to meet other couples) putting photos of the man in their gallery. I can't imagine why the vast majority of couples think that attraction to the man is not relevant.

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By *illy IdolMan
2 weeks ago

Somewhere near the middle


"An internationally recognised emoji for sarcasm

"

that doesn't cut it

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By *ex HolesMan
2 weeks ago

Up North


"How's about a announcement system that goes .......

Granny has entered the room.

Meli is DM ing with someone right now

Rex is looking at bum holes

Sam is wearing white pants again ...

etc"

In

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By *illan-KillashMan
2 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Granny Crumpet has entered the chat.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Morning boobs from a few ladies wouldn’t go a miss.

EVERY MORNING!!!

The mr

Every morning? That's a tad demanding what with the caps and everything. "

Don’t ask you don’t get, and I was shouting so you knew how serious I was.

The mr

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By *ustamanMan
2 weeks ago

weymouth

Hash brown emoji - quick check on urban dictionary there are too many meanings, so in the context of this site what is it meant to represent (besides a pointless American good import that tastes hideous with a similar texture)

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By *ustamanMan
2 weeks ago

weymouth


"Hash brown emoji - quick check on urban dictionary there are too many meanings, so in the context of this site what is it meant to represent (besides a pointless American good import that tastes hideous with a similar texture) "

Food not good

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"I would like the QUOTE button , to show the picture or at least the name of the person being QUOTED.

At the moment it just shows the text and I have to scroll up to find out who said it.....

"

That would be really useful - sometimes it's a lot of effort to scroll through and work out who is saying what.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

King's Crustacean


"Granny Crumpet has entered the chat. "

Now that made me guffawwwww.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Glitter

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Glitter"

It's a bit like sand though isn't it? Are you sure you can cope with it getting in every crevice and crack?

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"Hash brown emoji - quick check on urban dictionary there are too many meanings, so in the context of this site what is it meant to represent (besides a pointless American good import that tastes hideous with a similar texture)

Food not good "

Wait, hash brown has a different meaning?

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By *Dick DastardlyMan
2 weeks ago

here and there

More detailed searches for kinks etc

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By *illan-KillashMan
2 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Granny Crumpet has entered the chat.

Now that made me guffawwwww.....

"

My work here is done......

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"No changes please, Fab is perfect exactly as it is, it couldn't be better, please don't change it.

Also, "Suck Up" of the week awards."

Couldn't be better. So not more hot young things to help make that fantasy of yours a reality? You think you know someone. Sigh.

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By *illan-KillashMan
2 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"No changes please, Fab is perfect exactly as it is, it couldn't be better, please don't change it.

Also, "Suck Up" of the week awards.

Couldn't be better. So not more hot young things to help make that fantasy of yours a reality? You think you know someone. Sigh."

There's just the one hot young thing I yearn for Meli...... Alas a chap can only dream, for she wants me not.

*sadface

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By *ymClassHero.Man
1 week ago

cognito

Less repetitive / regurgitated threads. They seem to be cyclic.

Less ‘nonsense’ threads.

Less judgement passed.

Less clique.

Less fawning over various members.

A button I could press to blank everyone’s memory if I happened to post a message that I wish I hadn’t.

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By *ongandharderMan
1 week ago

Rotherham

Fake profiles/ fake couple's/

Less People listing straight as a lie

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By *hampagnesteveMan
1 week ago

Wimbledon


"Sex "

Snap, what to do....hmmm

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
1 week ago

District 13


"Fab a more enjoyable experience for you?

What would you like more of from Fab? Excluding the word meet, come up with a more creative term for it please."

Just a great chat, laughs, dinner, great hug and or kiss to show some that not all single guys are god awful

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