FabSwingers.com forum: Sex in your top 3?

By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

How important is sex in your life?

Feature in your top 3 life priorities? Top 5? Top 10?!

If you were told you could never have sex again how peeved would you be?

For the Meli's here we'll classify sex as anything more than kissing with another person. You can wank yourself silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Top 5

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By *igNick1381Man
36 weeks ago

BRIDGEND

Top 10

But just barely

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Not even top 10.

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By *ags73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Very peeved.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
36 weeks ago

little house on the praire

It doesn't feature at all

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Probably top 10 I'd say. More important things in my day to day life

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By *elloWoman
36 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"You can wank yourself silly.

Well if I can still do that, sex would be way down the bottom of the list.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
36 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Top 20 right now. I have far more pressing things to deal with. Hopefully that will change at some point, but, ya know, life.

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By *edeWoman
36 weeks ago

the abyss

Mmm maybe close to my top 10 as in I enjoy having it iny life. But then again I've got quite skilled at getting myself off so it wouldn't be the end of the world if I could only wank

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I can’t wait to fuck you op

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"I can’t wait to fuck you op

He's going to fuck you right op.

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Not having sex would definitely be an issue. I think I would be a little more than peeved if I was told never again.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Not even in my top 20, I'd say. If I never had sex again, it wouldn't bother me. In fact, I may well never have sex again.

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By *ags73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I don’t know on top ten or whatever, I do know I missed it and I have to think/plan ahead for even getting to a social

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By *andynecklaceWoman
36 weeks ago

Someplace

Nah maybe top 10

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By *quirrel!Man
36 weeks ago

Can someone bump it up to number 1?

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By *ore_Please81Woman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I went 8 years without sex in a miserable marriage, lots all sense of myself so never again.

Definitely in my top 5 but quality over quantity always x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wirral.

Probably top 10

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By *cflirtyMan
36 weeks ago

Hampshire

My mood denotes how high up the scale sex is thought of ... so

Mostly in the top 20, however

chats have made it into the top 10 tonight

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By *uri00620Woman
36 weeks ago

Croydon

Wank yourself silly you say?

That's good enough for me!

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By *ea monkeyMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Mmm maybe close to my top 10 as in I enjoy having it iny life. But then again I've got quite skilled at getting myself off so it wouldn't be the end of the world if I could only wank

Isn’t it better having someone else doing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I’d give up sex if I had to. It’s not in my top 3 priorities. I value other forms of intimacy more that I couldn’t give up.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

Oh it's a freaking issue not having any. I'm a proper grouch. Be warned.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Definitely top 3 in my life

After all it's a wonderful fabulous amazing activity.

I have no intention and giving up sex for a long time yet. Not when you can have a day like I did today.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Making a cup of coffee is like making love to a beautiful woman. It's got to be hot. You've got to take your time. You've got to stir... gently and firmly. You've got to grind your beans until they squeak. And then you put in the milk.

Don't know why but Swiss Tony came to mind

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester

It’s not a touch on self actualisation but it’s important enough for me to actively search it out

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"It’s not a touch on self actualisation but it’s important enough for me to actively search it out

Is self-actualization achievable then?

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By *amie HantsWoman
36 weeks ago

Atlantis

I’m single at the moment so it’s not a top priority, although it still ranks quite high.

In a relationship then I would put it in the top 3

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I’m single at the moment so it’s not a top priority, although it still ranks quite high.

In a relationship then I would put it in the top 3 "

Do you stop wanting it when you're single? Genuine question. Since I've become single it seems more important somehow so just wondered if I needed to learn something?

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By *ags73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"It’s not a touch on self actualisation but it’s important enough for me to actively search it out

Is self-actualization achievable then?

Mr "

I’d say no. You can probably get close but one of these things where there’s always room for improvement

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By *cLovin2Man
36 weeks ago

Reading

"How important is sex in your life?

Feature in your top 3 life priorities? Top 5? Top 10?!

If you were told you could never have sex again how peeved would you be?

For the Meli's here we'll classify sex as anything more than kissing with another person. You can wank yourself silly.

I guess food and water is the most important, but certainly sex and intimacy is important too, we have a basic human need for intimacy. I'd say it's probably in my top 3.

Fundamentally we humans need intimacy

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By *amie HantsWoman
36 weeks ago

Atlantis

"I’m single at the moment so it’s not a top priority, although it still ranks quite high.

In a relationship then I would put it in the top 3

Do you stop wanting it when you're single? Genuine question. Since I've become single it seems more important somehow so just wondered if I needed to learn something?"

No I like the intimacy of a partner. It’s the closeness I need and prioritise that for us.

Being single, sex is great but and it fills a need but not the same need so not as much as a priority

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"It’s not a touch on self actualisation but it’s important enough for me to actively search it out

Is self-actualization achievable then?

I’d say no. You can probably get close but one of these things where there’s always room for improvement "

Even Maslow, who came up with the theory says self-actualization is not achieved, despite striving for it...

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By *parkle1974Woman
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Not even in my top 5 x

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London

Top of the Pops

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By *ags73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"It’s not a touch on self actualisation but it’s important enough for me to actively search it out

Is self-actualization achievable then?

I’d say no. You can probably get close but one of these things where there’s always room for improvement

Even Maslow, who came up with the theory says self-actualization is not achieved, despite striving for it...

Mr "

Thanks I was trying to recall why I thought that. Hierarchy of needs and all that

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair

Top 3. Genuinely. Honestly.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"It’s not a touch on self actualisation but it’s important enough for me to actively search it out

Is self-actualization achievable then?

I’d say no. You can probably get close but one of these things where there’s always room for improvement

Even Maslow, who came up with the theory says self-actualization is not achieved, despite striving for it...

Thanks I was trying to recall why I thought that. Hierarchy of needs and all that "

Yeah his hierarchy of needs....that's the one

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