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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site? Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " On any online contact site you make your own 'luck'. Do people get replies? Yes. Some do. Do people get meets? Yep. Some do. There's generally a reason, often several, as to why some people have more luck than others. Good profiles, interesting visuals, engaging messages, good conversational skills and an ability to attract attention. Plus patience, respect, a positive attitude and zero expectations. Do some people use the site just to get validation and an ego boost? Possibly. But equally others expect sex on a plate with little effort. Both are often likely to find themselves disappointed. | |||
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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site? Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " Everyone wants attention of some sort on here, including men. I think the issue is there are way more men on here than women so it’ll always be difficult for guys to stand out. Also a good profile with a range of different photos helps. I’m not here to meet. I came back for the forums but if I meet someone I like then I will have fun with them. You need to have good conversational skills and not expect every woman you speak to to engage in horny chat or expect her to drop her knickers for you or be ready for a meet now. Just enjoy your time on here getting to know people and expect nothing. | |||
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"The secret to it is to play hard to get of course. You will not be able to cope with the attention. . You can also take on board the good advice you have been given on this and previous occassions. All the best. " exactly. Block everyone, and you will be fighting them off with sticks. | |||
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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site? Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " Yes I do, it's going great for me. | |||
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"I’ve found a friend or 2. " You've got a friend in me ... damnit I've given myself an earworm this morning | |||
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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site? Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " Yes plenty of people do. Potentially this thread won't go the way you hoped as that's quite the blanket statement women are mainly on here to seek validation. Comes across a bit of an entitled attitude which may have the opposite effect of what be you were actually seeking. | |||
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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site? Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " It doesn't make sense at the end. Can you give us that last word again OP? Thanks. | |||
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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site? Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " Its tough for guys here women get the pick of the bunch, sorry. | |||
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" I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " This reads as you’re not getting what you want so other people must be disingenuous. If you really feel that way why bother being on here? | |||
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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site? Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " Woe is me, love the final paragraph and the undercurrent of projection that's apparent, and such a lively sweeping statement as to why others use the site. Your good to be able to be other people, strange that as I thought other people have already been taken... Mr | |||
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"Anyone actually have any luck on this site?" Yes. "Or do you even get a reply that leads to a conversation let alone a meet up" Yes. "I find a lot of people mainly women use it to just get attention and validation which is pretty really " I love pretty women and all that they have to offer. Well, 'most' not "all". | |||
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"I’ve found a friend or 2. You've got a friend in me ... damnit I've given myself an earworm this morning " yea and me now thanks | |||
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"I’m just here for the attention and validation " i'm with Nora on this one attention and validation required please | |||
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"I’m just here for the attention and validation i'm with Nora on this one attention and validation required please " I validate you | |||
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"I’m just here for the attention and validation i'm with Nora on this one attention and validation required please I validate you " how much attention does that come with? im fussy you know | |||
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"I’m just here for the attention and validation i'm with Nora on this one attention and validation required please I validate you how much attention does that come with? im fussy you know " I've got scissors for the string vest | |||
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"I’m just here for the attention and validation i'm with Nora on this one attention and validation required please I validate you how much attention does that come with? im fussy you know I've got scissors for the string vest " you can eat your way through its strawberry laces | |||
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"I have been on and off this site for over 13 years and it is only in the last couple of months that I have started to have conversations with people on here. This is in no small part due to me getting involved in the forum a bit more. I did also ask the forum for advice on my profile, I know that that is a boring topic of conversation that many people are tired of having but, through doing that I started talking to three people who I still have semi-regular conversations with. Have I had any meets from the site? No. Not directly. Would I like to meet people? Of course! I would however suggest that a really good way to instantly put women off, is to bitch and moan about not getting any attention in the forums while also complaining that women just want attention. " OP, the last paragraph from Brill Phil, is the best thing you'll read today. Yes it's tough here, but moaning won't help. Instead try and get involved with people, see where it leads. Good luck. | |||
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"I’m just here for the attention and validation i'm with Nora on this one attention and validation required please I validate you how much attention does that come with? im fussy you know I've got scissors for the string vest you can eat your way through its strawberry laces" I knew that | |||
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"I have been on and off this site for over 13 years and it is only in the last couple of months that I have started to have conversations with people on here. This is in no small part due to me getting involved in the forum a bit more. I did also ask the forum for advice on my profile, I know that that is a boring topic of conversation that many people are tired of having but, through doing that I started talking to three people who I still have semi-regular conversations with. Have I had any meets from the site? No. Not directly. Would I like to meet people? Of course! I would however suggest that a really good way to instantly put women off, is to bitch and moan about not getting any attention in the forums while also complaining that women just want attention. OP, the last paragraph from Brill Phil, is the best thing you'll read today. Yes it's tough here, but moaning won't help. Instead try and get involved with people, see where it leads. Good luck. " Pretty chuffed with that response Sinister. It's not often that anyone says that something I wrote is the best thing they'll read today! | |||
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"Because view whoring oh it would be so beneath me to do that kind of thing." It would! Not the type of thing I'd expect from you at all!! | |||
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"Because view whoring oh it would be so beneath me to do that kind of thing. It would! Not the type of thing I'd expect from you at all!! " I wouldn't dare, especially in a thread where the OP's so livid. | |||
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