FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to meet women :(

By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Ladies looking for some advice. How do i make my profile more appealing to maybe get some replies or is it simply my face doesnt do it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Hi OP

you had some good advice on your last thread

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Your comment in your profile about "don't beat around the bush, we are all here for one thing", I find off-putting.

People are here for many different reasons and looking for many different things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Thank you. I shall remove that part. Much appreciated.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
39 weeks ago

Birmingham

Probably just follow the advice from your last post a week ago, it's unlikely to have changed.

I mean, you're still new here, what were your expectations when you joined?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Sorry i could not find my last thread. Never expectations. Just be nice to get my profile more appealing. Meeting new people an making friends would be a great start. Have anxiety so find it all a bit difficult but have to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Sorry i could not find my last thread. Never expectations. Just be nice to get my profile more appealing. Meeting new people an making friends would be a great start. Have anxiety so find it all a bit difficult but have to try. "

If you click of the green arrow beside your name on this thread it will show you your previous posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Thanks a lot all. Much appreciated. Have changed my profile up a little so hopefully this will help a little. Just be nice to meet an get to know new people. Start to socialise again now im back on my feet. Thanks again.

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By *aughty by nature 76Man
39 weeks ago

Walsall & Reading

Good morning everyone x I’m making notes x

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By *partan69Man
39 weeks ago

hyde

I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

See i thought that when i made my profile. I mean surely its best to leave it until asked for one as opposed to just having them their to see.

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By *io--Man
39 weeks ago

Near Blackpool

"Ladies looking for some advice. How do i make my profile more appealing to maybe get some replies or is it simply my face doesnt do it for you. "
Not a lady, but Id add a bit more info about yourself on your profile. I dont have a clue of the ratio of single men to women/couples but Im sure its 10:1 at least. So having pretty much the same thing the other 5 guys before you had they looked at wont be cause for any interest unless they go off your looks

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By *TG3Man
39 weeks ago

Dorchester

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Same tbh men pop up all the time but interested in making a fwb connection with a women also not into TV not trying to annoy anyone aswell but not my thing any points

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Welcome to the club

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

You're pics are good - so how is your chat - is it engaging or off putting?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

If it’s any consolation meeting guys isn’t easy either.

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By *luebell888Woman
39 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Try smiling in some of your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

There's a guy on here called Willy Idol. Message him with the header "Shacket".

He will have the answers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Hopefully engaging id like to think, i dont randomly send a dick pic or anything or just say hello do you fancy sex. Thank you, your pics are lovely an you have a great bio to read.

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By *parkle1974Woman
39 weeks ago

Leeds

If you were to take what people say to put on your profile, it would read like War and Peace. You will never have a profile that fits all.

We all know "some" women like to shop, treat your profile like a shop window....Does it entice them to want to look inside...to find out more??

Personally I find your profile quite basic, it doesn't really say much of you as a person but that's just my opinion.

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By *TG3Man
39 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Hopefully engaging id like to think, i dont randomly send a dick pic or anything or just say hello do you fancy sex. Thank you, your pics are lovely an you have a great bio to read. "
Thanks nice of you to say

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Central

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1595572

Here's your last thread. Don't worry, we were all new here at some point

Fab does need men to sell themselves in their profile, what they are going to be giving their partners. Read through a few posts from other single men and get tips too

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By *illy IdolMan
39 weeks ago

Midlands

"There's a guy on here called Willy Idol. Message him with the header "Shacket".

He will have the answers."

Still haven't received a message. You just can't help some people.

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By *rill PhilMan
39 weeks ago

Crediton

From my own experience of asking this question, I would say try not to cater your profile too much to what other people think is best. You just end up with a cookie cutter profile which shows very little of who you are.

Be like me, honest and authentic. It won't help you get meets but, it will reduce the risk that if you do meet somebody they will immediately come onto the site and tell everyone that you aren't who you portray yourself to be.

Even if I never meet anyone from here, I would rather be authentic.

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By *illy IdolMan
39 weeks ago

Midlands

"I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them "

Did you take that advice on board?

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By *rill PhilMan
39 weeks ago

Crediton

"I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them

Did you take that advice on board?"

I know you weren't asking me but, that is one of the few bits of advice I've been given about my profile that I have taken on board.

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By *illy IdolMan
39 weeks ago

Midlands

"I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them

Did you take that advice on board?

I know you weren't asking me but, that is one of the few bits of advice I've been given about my profile that I have taken on board."

And that's what makes you bril, Phil. You listen

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By *TG3Man
39 weeks ago

Dorchester

"From my own experience of asking this question, I would say try not to cater your profile too much to what other people think is best. You just end up with a cookie cutter profile which shows very little of who you are.

Even if I never meet anyone from here, I would rather be authentic."
when people meet you thats the authentic you, no matter what you write on your profile. Its always prone to misinterpretation.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
39 weeks ago

Reading

Is it a dealbreaker for you that they are shaven? If it is, some women will find that a dealbreaker.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
39 weeks ago

Coventry

"There's a guy on here called Willy Idol. Message him with the header "Shacket".

He will have the answers."

ooh and he would love more messages

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By *oxy jWoman
39 weeks ago

somerset

swinging is a lifestyle for people interested in meeting others whom there is sexual attraction for fun ... its not sex on a plate for everyone who joins it ...

you are in a sea of men with only a pool of women and couples that alone will tell any guy that its not just going to be hard but for many impossible ish....

you dont need advice how can anyone advise they dont know you only you know you or what you want and into your profile should be you not pretend you.... advice gets you a bog standard boring profile like all the others whom have asked ....

the number one thing for guys if you want to get notice is and its been said a million times clubs go to a club see what things are about chat be friendly and if your lucky you may get your foot on the ladder...

sexuak attraction is key for most but by far not the only thing ...

its super super hard for most men some will milk it and get lots of meet some may get a meet here n there most wont get any .... dont belive the veris as there are so many fake women/couples accounts giving out free veris

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By *partan69Man
39 weeks ago

hyde

"I was recently advised to remove all dick pics as apparently women don't wanna see them

Did you take that advice on board?

I know you weren't asking me but, that is one of the few bits of advice I've been given about my profile that I have taken on board."

Yeah I reckon I got rid of em all , just a few decent ones with my clothes on

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By *raigxMan
39 weeks ago

Northampton

Can be confusing. Some women seem to want to see what you’ve got and others do not. Can’t win!

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By *naswingdressWoman
39 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Can be confusing. Some women seem to want to see what you’ve got and others do not. Can’t win!"

If I were a guy I'd have one well taken cock photo in public, or none.

My reasoning is that some women want to see them and some don't, and having one (alongside other pictures) is not an enormous amount of penis for those who don't want to see it. As someone who would prefer not to see it up front, I can understand why guys would have one on show.

"well taken" and "other photos" is important, though.

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By *partharmonyCouple
39 weeks ago

Ruislip

Most women want to meet a person, not just somebody who wants to fuck somebody. Your profile basically says "I'm a man and I want sex". There's nothing about that which is different from several thousand other men here and it won't entice a lot of women.

My advice is to show a bit of personality in your text. Your photos are reasonable but are mostly very similar. Some variety who help I think.

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By *oiluvfunMan
39 weeks ago

Penrith

"Ladies looking for some advice. How do i make my profile more appealing to maybe get some replies or is it simply my face doesnt do it for you. "

It's not you mate, it's them. There's only 15 ladies in here, and they're well spaced around the country

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By *lueDressWoman
39 weeks ago

Bath

I don't claim to know why people aren't always popular, and having a lot of meets.Sometimes it's their personality.But could be their looks.

Im not attracted to certain people.And they aren't attracted to Me.

Im Marmite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Thanks everyone for all the advice. Ive tried to change profile up a little. Where would one begin when it comes to parties please. Be nice to meet new people.

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Crawley

It's much better, really good those first two lines.

The rest could use a tweak or two but had to say great improvement.

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By *partharmonyCouple
39 weeks ago

Ruislip

"It's much better, really good those first two lines.

The rest could use a tweak or two but had to say great improvement."

I'd agree with that.

I think a bit of humour would do it alot of good.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
39 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Ladies looking for some advice. How do i make my profile more appealing to maybe get some replies or is it simply my face doesnt do it for you. "

You need more dic pics

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By *ittlebirdWoman
39 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.

Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.

Most of all just enjoy yourself.

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By *rBobbMan
39 weeks ago

Birmingham

"OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.

Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.

Most of all just enjoy yourself.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
39 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.

Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.

Most of all just enjoy yourself.

LB such wise words, you've changed

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By *ittlebirdWoman
39 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.

Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.

Most of all just enjoy yourself.

LB such wise words, you've changed

I’m a wise old bird me….

Apart from being mad as a box of frogs. Obvs

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
39 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"OP your profile is pretty good. But it doesn’t jump out at me. I can’t get a sense of you from it.

Join in on the forums. Take the piss. Have a laugh. Fab is about making friends and finding your crowd. Then you may just bump into someone you get a proper connection with.

Most of all just enjoy yourself.

LB such wise words, you've changed

I’m a wise old bird me….

Apart from being mad as a box of frogs. Obvs

As mad as Broadmoor you girl

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