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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago

What your thoughts and why?

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By *esthetic21Man
36 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Being fit is always a good thing

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By *parkle1974Woman
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Nothing wrong with either x

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By *elloWoman
36 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you.

There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.

Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Being fit is always a good thing"

Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Nothing wrong with either x"

Fair enough x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you.

There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.

Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis. "

That first part made me spit my drink out haha.

But that is a great answer x

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Either are fine if there is a handsome face to go with it. It seems many people appear to choose face first over body

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Either are fine if there is a handsome face to go with it. It seems many people appear to choose face first over body "

Great so there is no hope for me then haha.

Just kidding I would like to think this is the case but yet to be convinced

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. "

That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X

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By *esthetic21Man
36 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol


"Being fit is always a good thing

Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense "
I don't say anything about body shape. Sumo wrestlers are some of the fittest people on the planet

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I am a dad and I go down the gym.

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By *esthetic21Man
36 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

And I'm pretty sure women will go for a face over a body and personality so it doesn't really matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Lot of different body shapes at the gym.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Being fit is always a good thing

Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense I don't say anything about body shape. Sumo wrestlers are some of the fittest people on the planet "

I wouldn't have guessed that. That's actually mental to think and now you say it I can probably see your right to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Lot of different body shapes at the gym."

I would never make fun of someone trying at the gym no matter their size we all start somewhere and at least they are doing something either getting after a new pr/pb or just trying to get fitter/ lose weight

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Whatever people fancy is all good

I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Whatever people fancy is all good

I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days… "

Why not just embrace it?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks.

That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X"

No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested.

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks.

That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X

No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested. "

So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks.

That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X

No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested.

So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs?"

No, a cock the size of a leg is never going in me.

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks.

That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X

No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested.

So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs?

No, a cock the size of a leg is never going in me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Whatever people fancy is all good

I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days…

Why not just embrace it? "

I do accept that with age I’m probably getting naturally less fit and more wobbly but I’d still rather be fitter/healthier than I am. I’m not a fan of embracing excuses or bad habits and I know that any belly on me is basically sweets and crisps which also caused me to be pre diabetic for a spell, so I’d always aspire to be healthy. That’s just my personal outlook

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"What your thoughts and why? "

me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with.

my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks.

That's an interesting answer so you saying as long as they have a good set of pins on the the rest can be looked over within reason? X

No and yes. It’s not a linear thing for me. Legs can grab my attention but can’t sustain it alone. I need more than just massive thighs to keep me interested.

So what you are saying is that you need three decent sized legs?

No, a cock the size of a leg is never going in me.

*again"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Whatever people fancy is all good

I’d say I’m somewhere in between. I have to suck my belly in for pics these days…

Why not just embrace it?

I do accept that with age I’m probably getting naturally less fit and more wobbly but I’d still rather be fitter/healthier than I am. I’m not a fan of embracing excuses or bad habits and I know that any belly on me is basically sweets and crisps which also caused me to be pre diabetic for a spell, so I’d always aspire to be healthy. That’s just my personal outlook "

And a good outlook to have.

I personally used to be very toned etc but over time I have got a bit of a belly and I would love to say it's because of my job bla bla black but it's not it's just laziness on my behalf something that I am currently addressing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"What your thoughts and why?

me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with.

my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing"

Conversation and personality is always a winner I would like to think

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"What your thoughts and why?

me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with.

my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing

Conversation and personality is always a winner I would like to think "

for me it is - my choice - not speaking for anyone else - if i can flirt, banter and laugh with someone and basics are good then we there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"What your thoughts and why?

me i go for personality every day of the week - i have met with gym fit and 'dad' bod of various levels - its the person i want that connection with.

my body is real and im not 20 - i have wobby bits and i have lumpy bits, you like it or you dont . if i cant talk to you then i got nothing

Conversation and personality is always a winner I would like to think

for me it is - my choice - not speaking for anyone else - if i can flirt, banter and laugh with someone and basics are good then we there"

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By *avexxMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire

nothing wrong with keeping in good shape each to there own,,, dad bods seem popular with the ladies

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By *oofer1Man
36 weeks ago

consett

Dad bod all the way

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By *ggdrasil66Man
36 weeks ago

Saltdean

What about Granddad bods?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Central

Either on the right person works but I tend to gravitate to those who watch their macros

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By *dqsyMan
36 weeks ago

Mappawell

I guess its down to where you are in life.

20s to 35 ish I was a racing snake, with a six pack and shoulders with a V to the waist.

35 to 45 a good layer of blubber but still fit enough to go to most gyms and bluff it. Could still do a bft in the 20s times.

45+ I have accepted what I am and enjoy good wines and food etc.

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By *ean counterMan
36 weeks ago

Kettering

I've always been slim, fit etc but during the last couple of years my body has deteriorated and now more of a dad bod going on . Oh well, I guess it's an age thing (that or the red wine)

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I’m a fat boy. Any love for those bodies?

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
36 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

Dad bod here but I can do a 24 minute 5k run, I’ve completed numerous triathlons and I can comfortably pass an army RFT. Fitness isn’t measured by body shape.

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By *1bttmMan
36 weeks ago

Shoreditch east London


"Being fit is always a good thing

Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense "

Depends if yr talking about professional or amateur and the level they play at. Many professional players have flat stomachs, 6 packs and nothing wobbles or bulges. They are solid muscle and extremely fit. I wouldn't class these as dad bods.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm not a fan of extreme muscles but otherwise all good, slim, average, large.

Mrs

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By *ags73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I can’t do gym so, do what I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

My body looks the way it does purely as a result of how I like to train. For some it’s too much for others too little.

I wouldn’t change it unless I wanted to.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
36 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

In terms of shape, gym fit just looks more aesthetically pleasing to me on either/any gender.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
36 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Being fit is always a good thing

Agreed but rugby players a fitter than most people but have dad bods so I am more on about shape then fitness if that makes sense

Depends if yr talking about professional or amateur and the level they play at. Many professional players have flat stomachs, 6 packs and nothing wobbles or bulges. They are solid muscle and extremely fit. I wouldn't class these as dad bods. "

Also appears to be dependent on what code of rugby is being played.

I've only ever seen 'dad bod' players in Rugby Union. Rugby League players tend to be more svelte..

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

No such thing as a dad bod.

And fit is good.

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"No such thing as a dad bod.

And fit is good. "

It's also very offensive to gym fit dads

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By *azpiz1Man
36 weeks ago

Camberley

I describe myself as "trim & toned".

No dad bod, but not hugely muscled.

I can't stand the gym - give me a couple of hours in a Martial Arts class instead, please.

But a good looking (to you!) Body is just one element of attraction. Personality matters.

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By *host63Man
36 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a

week. Please, thank you.

There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.

Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis. "

Well if I Might do?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

My thoughts are that these threads are fucking annoying. One isn't any better than the other and it all comes down to personal preference, although those with a preference for Dad bods are more likely to say so as those with a preference for gym fit bodies may not want to appear shallow.

I've also noticed that it's never those with a "gym fit" body that start these threads

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By *empest2KMan
36 weeks ago

Derby


"No such thing as a dad bod.

And fit is good. "

Whaaaaat?! I am a dad and have a bod(y). Is that not a ‘dad bod’?!?! Dang it! All my hopes and dreams dashed in one sentence

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"What your thoughts and why? "

My thoughts are I love a vending machine, the rowing machine mehhhhh

Mr

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By *rBobbMan
36 weeks ago

Birmingham

I work in a gym and I'm know as the gym Dad

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
36 weeks ago

Sunderland

I like to think of myself as having a gym bod with some extra padding.

I'm big and strong and have some decent definition. But I also love crisps.

Mr

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By *M60Couple
36 weeks ago

Central Scotland

Everyone has different tastes but i definitely think the mind is ultimately what is the greatest stimulator my wife isnt a gym person and likes both body types.

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By *ionandleopardCouple
36 weeks ago

Norwich

Dad bod for the win every single time for me .

Muscles do nothing for me but I can appreciate the hard work that goes into it . Just keep doing what's good for you .

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

This again

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"No such thing as a dad bod.

And fit is good.

It's also very offensive to gym fit dads"

It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body"

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t really have any thoughts on those. I just don’t seem to be attracted to very slim or very fat men. And if I don’t like their face none of it matters anyway. I fancy someone or I don’t, it’s that simple for me.

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"No such thing as a dad bod.

And fit is good.

It's also very offensive to gym fit dads

It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body""

To be fair a handful of studies have shown that expectant fathers experience swings in hormones such as prolactin, testosterone and the stress hormone cortisol. It is possible that these hormonal changes could drive some gain in weight but there have been few studies to test this idea

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"No such thing as a dad bod.

And fit is good.

It's also very offensive to gym fit dads

It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body"

To be fair a handful of studies have shown that expectant fathers experience swings in hormones such as prolactin, testosterone and the stress hormone cortisol. It is possible that these hormonal changes could drive some gain in weight but there have been few studies to test this idea"

It's bollocks willy

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"No such thing as a dad bod.

And fit is good.

It's also very offensive to gym fit dads

It's not a dad bod it's just a "I don't work out body"

To be fair a handful of studies have shown that expectant fathers experience swings in hormones such as prolactin, testosterone and the stress hormone cortisol. It is possible that these hormonal changes could drive some gain in weight but there have been few studies to test this idea

It's bollocks willy"

Could well be

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Gym bod every time

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By *ullsfan77Man
36 weeks ago

Torquay

Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time."

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time."

Not every time.

Also, where's my 100 men?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

The poor dad that goes to the humus 3 times a week.

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By *igNick1381Man
36 weeks ago

BRIDGEND

There's different iterations of gym bod

There's the ripped and toned gym bod

There's the 'definitely lifts but also likes cheesecake' (mine)

Then there's the really dedicated 'bodybuilder' look

I, personally, love muscle on a woman. Aesthetically I love it, and admire the work behind it, but hear so many 'its manly' comments my eyes roll like I've got the jackpot

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Not every time.

Also, where's my 100 men?"

Next door

Mr

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By *ullsfan77Man
36 weeks ago

Torquay


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Would dearly love to be be proved wrong and see if anyone can see beyond a few extra pounds.

Mr "

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By *exxyyDy11Man
36 weeks ago

Darwen


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time."

Not always. I'm gym fit but a lot of times I hardly get no replies on some days.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
36 weeks ago

Carlisle


"What your thoughts and why? "

Dad boddddd!

That's my first impressions physical preference. Why? I'm a tactile person, dad bods to me lend more than way

Mrs

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
36 weeks ago

Carlisle


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Mr "

Agree with that Mr

Mrs

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By *ittlebirdWoman
36 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt "

Best comment by far

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Would dearly love to be be proved wrong and see if anyone can see beyond a few extra pounds.

Mr "

Once as a single man before i met my partner on fab, im a fucking fat bastard and train wreck, guess what I even managed to get meets on fab......

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt "

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Do not, I repeat, do not trifle with this ^ woman.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Mr

Agree with that Mr

Mrs"

People love to put blame on external things as to why they have no success on fab, instead of looking inward and how they present on here...

Mr

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By *ittlebirdWoman
36 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt

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Do not, I repeat, do not trifle with this ^ woman."

Love you

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt

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Do not, I repeat, do not trifle with this ^ woman.

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Love you "

•

Obviously. xx²

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By *rBobbMan
36 weeks ago

Birmingham


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt "

Absolutely awesome. I love this post

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt

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Do not, I repeat, do not trifle with this ^ woman.

Love you "

Ghey

Mr

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By *iaisonseekerMan
36 weeks ago

Liverpool

Isn't gym fit an aesthetic rather than a reliable marker of physical fitness? I assume we're talking about six packs and bulging biceps rather than beating the bleep test.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
36 weeks ago

Merseyside

Healthy is the best way but I don’t mind either from our perspective - clean, considerate and funny is more important

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By *ullsfan77Man
36 weeks ago

Torquay


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

You may have a look at my profile-any feedback always gladly received! And actually heeded. In any walk of life feedback suggesting change is always helpful.

Mr

Agree with that Mr

Mrs

People love to put blame on external things as to why they have no success on fab, instead of looking inward and how they present on here...

Mr "

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time."

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Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis?

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By *ullsfan77Man
36 weeks ago

Torquay


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

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Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis?"

My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
36 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

For us always been into fitness and training in many different sports . So we both find fit muscular body a turn on . I love big strong legs on a man and some show of abs is bonus. Hubby loves a good ass and legs. Saying all this no matter how fit guys are if we don't get on and feel comfortable then a fun guys with dad bod can be more attractive xx

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

You may have a look at my profile-any feedback always gladly received! And actually heeded. In any walk of life feedback suggesting change is always helpful.

Mr

Agree with that Mr

Mrs

People love to put blame on external things as to why they have no success on fab, instead of looking inward and how they present on here...

Mr "

I may look at your profile and then again I may not, what I will say is look at other mens profiles get some inspiration feom there's, there are some great examples of great single mens profiles who use thr forums......

But alas you could have the best profile in the history of profiles, if people don't find us attractive, then we're fucked (not literally)...

Mr

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By *reffnimanMan
36 weeks ago

Donegal/dublin/ berkshire

I'd say that I was fit but am not a gym goer but of a dad bod but hey so what

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By *ittlebirdWoman
36 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt

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Do not, I repeat, do not trifle with this ^ woman.

Love you

Ghey

Mr "

100% but only on a weekend

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"No preference either way. My only rule is don’t be a cunt

•

Do not, I repeat, do not trifle with this ^ woman.

Love you

Ghey

Mr

100% but only on a weekend "

Weekend warrior

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By *avexxMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire


"My thoughts are that these threads are fucking annoying. One isn't any better than the other and it all comes down to personal preference, although those with a preference for Dad bods are more likely to say so as those with a preference for gym fit bodies may not want to appear shallow.

I've also noticed that it's never those with a "gym fit" body that start these threads "
,, this

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m somewhere in the middle of the two. I guess I win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"My thoughts are that these threads are fucking annoying. One isn't any better than the other and it all comes down to personal preference, although those with a preference for Dad bods are more likely to say so as those with a preference for gym fit bodies may not want to appear shallow.

I've also noticed that it's never those with a "gym fit" body that start these threads ,, this"

Fair enough I am new to the forum side of things so not seen this before.

Plus I was gym fit body type and currently trying to get back to it just interested in the questions as it come up in my friendship circle occasionally that's all.

But thank you for your input

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you.

There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.

Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis. "

right

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Mr

Agree with that Mr

Mrs"

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Mr

Agree with that Mr

Mrs

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both"

I win fab, got two women to agree with me, that's fab conoleted for me now....

Mr

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Mr

Agree with that Mr

Mrs

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both

I win fab, got two women to agree with me, that's fab conoleted for me now....

Mr "

well there's a first for you

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Sorry, but this is absolute bollocks...

Mr

Agree with that Mr

Mrs

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ i also agree with them both

I win fab, got two women to agree with me, that's fab conoleted for me now....

Mr

well there's a first for you "

Not only fab complete but life, such a sweet moment

Mr

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By *cLovin2Man
36 weeks ago

Reading


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

Not every time.

Also, where's my 100 men?"

They're messaging your inbox with a hey and nothing else

Nice socks btw, do they go all the way to your thighs?

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

•

Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis?

·

My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too."

•

Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

•

Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis?

·

My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too.

•

Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint."

Of course it'll be contriwise to his experience it always will be, it's your experience. However, neither are less valid than the other.

Mr

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By *oney HoneyWoman
36 weeks ago

York

I prefer a “normal” man. So preference probably to the dad bod. I have a mummy tummy, so I am more than happy with a sexy dad bod. But I don’t want a man who doesn’t care for his physical appearance at all.

I can appreciate a sexy gym body too…. And definitely perve over those amazing abs and toned men… but they don’t always come with the best personalities, and I would rather have a man who is obsessed over me, rather than obsessed over his six pack!

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By *oney HoneyWoman
36 weeks ago

York


"Dad bod here "

Very nice dad bod! Love hairy chest too! Nice to cuddle in to!

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By *lex_xxx_LucyCouple
36 weeks ago

Chester le Street

Doesn't matter really. Dicks are in the same place whatever your body shape.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London

Dadbod admirer here

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

•

Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis?

·

My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too.

•

Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint.

·

Of course it'll be contriwise to his experience it always will be, it's your experience. However, neither are less valid than the other.

Mr "

•

The validity isn't the issue. He's using his viewpoint to make a general sweeping statement, whereas I'm not.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Since there is a massive unbalance on this and all the other sites with the number of men to women (1 woman for 100 men) then women will have the pick of the bunch. Unfortunately gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection will win every time.

•

Evidence please? Or is this all hypothesis?

·

My own experience of women in general-not just on sites but in life too.

•

Well, if I add my own experience of women then it's contrariwise to your viewpoint.

·

Of course it'll be contriwise to his experience it always will be, it's your experience. However, neither are less valid than the other.

Mr

•

The validity isn't the issue. He's using his viewpoint to make a general sweeping statement, whereas I'm not."

You asked him, how he arrived at his conclusion, which is based on his experience, so to him it's very real and a solid basis to make a sweeping statement. If he keeps getting passed by, for as he puts it "gym fit, toned and chiseled to perfection" this will leave an impression and a belief system.

Mr

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By *ommy trucker1Man
36 weeks ago

south wales

Dad bod here but I do mountain biking. So consider myself fit with stamina too. Not gym body but strong powerfull arms and legs

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By *orthampton jamesMan
36 weeks ago

Northampton

Dad bod here but keep fit with exercise and my job

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I always go for face then personality clinches it. I will say though that looking at my history dad bods are more prevalent.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Dad bod here

Very nice dad bod! Love hairy chest too! Nice to cuddle in to! "

Why thank you very much

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By *ools1964Man
36 weeks ago

Swadlincote

Crikey, I hope there are some dad bod lovers here ...

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By *peak and SpellCouple
36 weeks ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

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By *peak and SpellCouple
36 weeks ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Gym fit for me. I like someone who looks after themselves.

That said, a good personality goes a long way too. So ideally a combo of the two

Mrs S&S

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
36 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

Just posted a photo of my dad bod

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By *hunky GentMan
36 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Have you got any idea how fit you have to be to carry 21 stone around all day?

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By *empest2KMan
36 weeks ago

Derby


"Have you got any idea how fit you have to be to carry 21 stone around all day? "

A man with my sense of humour. Bravo, sir!

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By *empest2KMan
36 weeks ago

Derby

Anyway, back to the main topic of the thread...

In my experience, I don't think it matters whether you're the typical ‘dad bod’ or ‘gym fit’ guy. For me, it's more about having a good personality and sense of humour rather than a ‘gym fit’ physique, and sometimes ladies just can't help but find a nice smile on a jovial, modest guy sexy

A few years ago, I used to think that ‘gym fit’ guys would always appeal to ladies ahead of more rotund guys like me, but the reality for me is that it's not the case. I might not have all the gear, but ladies have told me I've got a good idea, and that's good enough for me

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By *ionandleopardCouple
35 weeks ago

Norwich

Got to still look after yourself!

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By *ustRulesMan
33 weeks ago

Chelmsford


"There’s always going to be some that are attracted to one or the other. Even those who don’t dismiss either types.

For me, it’s all about the legs. No sticks. "

You’ll love mine then!

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
33 weeks ago

Manchester

Oooooollld thread. Let’s hear it for the middle ground bods!

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By *host63Man
32 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

I decided at 59 to get in the best possible shape for when I hit 60 last July.

So I hot the gym had a garage built in the back garden and used half of it to set up my own space. Did this for myself and in clothes do not look hugely different. But its extremely interesting how women who would not look twice at me in normal circumstances now stop and stare at me if I take my shirt off. So no matter what women say they secret do like a gym fit body.

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By *y AmoreMan
32 weeks ago

london

What if your a dad and you exercise.. what do you have???

What if you don’t have children but you never do anything??

That shouldn’t be a dad body should it??

Having kids isn’t easy

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I don’t like the term. I’m a dad of four and my dad was like me and so was my grandad, no flab, no excessive hair. Mine is a dads bod. What people call a dad bod is in fact a neglected bod that could just as well belong to a 20 y/o who lives on McDs. Perhaps it’s less intimidating to the less trim ladies to be with a guy who’s out of shape?

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"I’m a fat boy. Any love for those bodies?"

Clearly fucking not

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By *he ass man 666Man
32 weeks ago

paradise city

Dad bod trying to get back to gym bod at moment. Hate going the gym though so started cycling the 15 miles to work ,

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By *aryoonMan
32 weeks ago

southampton

I am fit, I go to the gym 5 times a week but still have a Dad bod so In my case, both?

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By *avexxMan
32 weeks ago

cheshire

i have bod thats all that counts

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By *eordieJeansCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Gym fat is never an option in these threads

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads "

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!"

Bulking season bro!

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By *929Man
32 weeks ago

bedlington

Haha why is it always either or ?

I’m sure many like both.

I like being in shape for myself, love walking around big full and vascular especially in summer and could never let be out of shape regardless of who it appeals to. Just be happy with yourself and let everything else fall into place as truthfully getting bigger and muscular only gets more attention from other blokes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

Bulking season bro!"

The last 5 years have been bulking season

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By *eordieJeansCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

Bulking season bro!

The last 5 years have been bulking season "

I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

Bulking season bro!

The last 5 years have been bulking season

I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though "

How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again

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By *igR93Man
32 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

Most women’s ideology of a dad bod would be in my opinion someone with the physique of an off season builder..

This is at least the response i get when i ask them what they mean by a “dad bod”

But yes, a good physique is always good to have…

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By *eordieJeansCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

Bulking season bro!

The last 5 years have been bulking season

I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though

How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again "

No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again

No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel."

Ahhh I see, I have the opposite problem where I've always been skinny and so putting on any kind of bulk has been a struggle. I'm glad you've found something that works though as that's genuinely great progress

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By *igR93Man
32 weeks ago

Sarcasm City


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

Bulking season bro!

The last 5 years have been bulking season

I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though

How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again

No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel."

1000 calorie surplus per day is insanity…try 120-130 for a 0.5 lb per week gain you’ll also minimalise any fat gained

It’s impossible to not add fat while adding muscle but the impact can be lessened by increasing calories sensibly, it took me 12 years to go from 2000 calories to 4700 calories per day

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By *erry bull1Man
32 weeks ago

doncaster

Dad bod

I don’t go the gym but do lots of physical work which keeps me in shape

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By *eordieJeansCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

Bulking season bro!

The last 5 years have been bulking season

I’ve genuinely only just committed to my first bulk 3 months ago and I’m somehow slimmer than when I started. Strength is through the roof though

How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again

No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel.

1000 calorie surplus per day is insanity…try 120-130 for a 0.5 lb per week gain you’ll also minimalise any fat gained

It’s impossible to not add fat while adding muscle but the impact can be lessened by increasing calories sensibly, it took me 12 years to go from 2000 calories to 4700 calories per day "

I should have clarified I was eating well under maintenance before I added 1000 calories. I’m probably 500 over maintenance and haven’t added any fat as far as I can tell.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"How did you do that? I'm worried about committing to a bulk in case I put more fat on without knowing if it will disappear again

No idea. I’ve always been overweight so have avoided bulking but just decided to add about 1000 calories a day to my diet, increased my training intensity and stayed off the scales and just measure by how my clothes feel.

Ahhh I see, I have the opposite problem where I've always been skinny and so putting on any kind of bulk has been a struggle. I'm glad you've found something that works though as that's genuinely great progress "

I honestly believe putting weight on a naturally slimmer person is a lot harder than losing weight for a naturally bigger one.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
32 weeks ago

cardiff

Neither. Both are stupid descriptions. There are so many variables.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I don’t exercise/gym. Never felt the need. Happy in the skin I’m in.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good "

I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod.

Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good

I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod.

Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc. "

No not at all, I take it to an extreme with competing and don’t expect anyone else to, as long as others understand I have to gym then we are all good

We are all individuals and I like to connect with someone

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By *igR93Man
32 weeks ago

Sarcasm City


"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good

I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod.

Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc. "

God no…I’ve been on a few dates with gym bunnies and I’d probably chalk them up as some of the worst dates I’ve been on

It’s fine to be gym fit but it’s another thing to base your entire personality off of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good

I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod.

Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc.

No not at all, I take it to an extreme with competing and don’t expect anyone else to, as long as others understand I have to gym then we are all good

We are all individuals and I like to connect with someone "

Ah ok, I get. Competitors are a different story. A member of my family ran for Britain at 2 olympics and a commonwealth but none of us do it and she doesn’t even associate with other athletes.

I wish you continued success

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By *hagTonightMan
32 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
32 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I have a 6pack bod and I like the fitness lifestyle. I train 3 times a week and I do yoga everyday, with a lot of cardio too

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By *ou only live onceMan
32 weeks ago

London


"Gym fat is never an option in these threads

It's not fat! I'm cultivating mass!

Bulking season bro!

The last 5 years have been bulking season "

And now they're telling me I need to "cut" at some point too. FML.

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By *uenevereWoman
32 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I don't have a preference between dad bod and gym fit. It's possible to be fit without being "ripped".

I'm not a fan of the body builder look though.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I think my body is a mixture,with some scaring thrown in for good measure just to mix it up a bit

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By *y AmoreMan
32 weeks ago

london


"For me it’s all about connection, if I find your personality attractive then we are all good

I’m surprised you say that after all the countless hours you obviously spend working on your bod.

Most people who gym expect the same from what I read in most profiles… “We keep in shape and prefer others that also take care of themselves..” etc.

No not at all, I take it to an extreme with competing and don’t expect anyone else to, as long as others understand I have to gym then we are all good

We are all individuals and I like to connect with someone "

I agree, I would rather have a general laugh and good time then someone just because they exercise

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By *exySenseiCouple
32 weeks ago


"What your thoughts and why? "

Gym fit. Mr Sensei works hard at the gym and I respect his dedication. Plus he's sexy AF.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I could do with cleaning up my diet a bit. I have an awful sweet tooth and I quite literally see it on my love handles.

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By *ou only live onceMan
32 weeks ago

London


"I could do with cleaning up my diet a bit. I have an awful sweet tooth and I quite literally see it on my love handles. "

This is me. 100% me.

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By *ardfun10Man
32 weeks ago

banbury

Try to stay fit but still have a dad bod

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By *avexxMan
32 weeks ago

cheshire

im fortunate i can pretty much anything, ive always been sporty, and still work out a little at my grand old age

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Just be happy within yourself … that’s all

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By *undee2Man
32 weeks ago

Dundee

Dad bod but can walk 30 miles (though can't run 100 yards)

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I have a dad bod. But I hate it. Currently working my ass off 5 days a week to get rid of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Damn it, you've just reminded me that I forgot to go to the gym today. That's 20 years in a row now.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"I could do with cleaning up my diet a bit. I have an awful sweet tooth and I quite literally see it on my love handles. "

You have love handles? I’m in disbelief.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
32 weeks ago

Cardiff


"I have a 6pack bod and I like the fitness lifestyle. I train 3 times a week and I do yoga everyday, with a lot of cardio too "
your bod is awesome shag

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
32 weeks ago

somewhere


"Could I have someone with a dad bod who visits the gym twice a week. Please, thank you.

There's only room in my bed for 1 middle-aged unfit person with wobbly bits and I've got that covered.

Don't want someone whose belly hides his winkle but don't want someone whose muscles are so hard I'll break my pelvis. "

I was going to say something along the same lines as this, summed up so perfectly x

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By *hagTonightMan
32 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I have a 6pack bod and I like the fitness lifestyle. I train 3 times a week and I do yoga everyday, with a lot of cardio too your bod is awesome shag "
Hi amber, ty, it is fun to workout too

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By *hunky GentMan
32 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Forget the 6-pack.

What about a party7?

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
32 weeks ago

Cardiff


"I have a 6pack bod and I like the fitness lifestyle. I train 3 times a week and I do yoga everyday, with a lot of cardio too your bod is awesome shag Hi amber, ty, it is fun to workout too "

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By *TG3Man
32 weeks ago

Dorchester

I think we all eventually end up putting on a few pounds don't get hung up on it is what i say

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By *ea monkeyMan
32 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I reject your false dichotomy.

There are lots of different levels of fitness and physique. Plus lots of ripped guys that have no cardio stamina and larger guys that can run, cycle or swim for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Good bodies everyone

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