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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

Nottingham

Who do you have everyday crushes on, and do you flirt with them?

I just went to the hairdresser's and my hairdresser is hot! I always only mildly flirt with her as I know she is straight.

My other occasional crush and mega flirt person is a contractor that comes to work every couple of months or so. He's happily paired off though, so I told him I'd be his rebound if it ever goes tits up

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By *rBobbMan
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

There is a lady who regularly visits my place of work.

Oh she knows I have a crush on her and we both often flirts. She claims she is happily married, but who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I had a rush hour crush a few months ago but I asked for her number and she said no.

I have a work crush but … yeah no.

I think that’s it. I used to have crushes on the landlady of a pub I drank at and someone at my local Tesco.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

There’s a lady that works behind the bar, but I think it’s hot and I definitely flirt with that I’ve been told.

I keep getting told that I flirt with someone in work, but I don’t think I do. So that’s weird because there’s absolutely no crush.

I definitely flirt with people in Fab that I really do fancy.

Flirting is fun.

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By *rHotNottsMan
42 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Mini crush on two of my female friends, They both know and feel the same but both in regular relationships, so it’s a no.

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By *ea monkeyMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I really don’t think that I have any crushes in my day to day life!

There isn’t anyone at my place of work or in my general goings that catches my attention. I guess that’s the downside of living in and going about in a big city; very few people crop up over and over

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

The h&s guy at work, but he's no longer coming back now so

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I’ve had a crush on the same person for the past 20 years. They’re monogamous. They’ve always been in a relationship so other than flirting nothing has ever happened. Until recently… now, they are single. I flirt endlessly. They blush, look at me in disbelief, or laugh me off. I casually drop innuendos in conversations. It’s ridiculous at times.

One day perhaps it will not simply be a crush.

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By *r Black 85Man
42 weeks ago

nottingham

There's a woman at work

She's a hottie and she knows it

We have similar interests

Alas, she has a partner of 15 years

She's now the work wife

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair


"The h&s guy at work, but he's no longer coming back now so "

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"work"? I thought you were retired??

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"The h&s guy at work, but he's no longer coming back now so

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"work"? I thought you were retired?? "

I've retired from sex, not work.

The two are not related just to clarify.

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By *partharmonyCouple
42 weeks ago

Ruislip

There is a particular lady at work I have massively have the hots for. I remain professional at all times but I'd dearly love to undress and ravish her. Luke

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By *ell GwynnWoman
42 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I have no RL crushes. There's a void in my life.

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By *a LunaWoman
42 weeks ago

South Wales

I have two fab crushes but none in real life as I’m quite reclusive. I should get out more but I really can’t be bothered with socialising with people.

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By *EAT..85 OP   Woman
42 weeks ago

Nottingham


"I’ve had a crush on the same person for the past 20 years. They’re monogamous. They’ve always been in a relationship so other than flirting nothing has ever happened. Until recently… now, they are single. I flirt endlessly. They blush, look at me in disbelief, or laugh me off. I casually drop innuendos in conversations. It’s ridiculous at times.

One day perhaps it will not simply be a crush. "

Omg BD just ask him out for a drink already!!

Someone else will now that he's single and then you'll regret not asking yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

That lady with the big tits and available hole

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By *iss.BellaWoman
42 weeks ago

Wales

I have one crush in the real world, it would never work though.

He doesn't know because I'm not great at flirting in the real world he probably just thinks I'm kinda odd

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I’ve had a crush on the same person for the past 20 years. They’re monogamous. They’ve always been in a relationship so other than flirting nothing has ever happened. Until recently… now, they are single. I flirt endlessly. They blush, look at me in disbelief, or laugh me off. I casually drop innuendos in conversations. It’s ridiculous at times.

One day perhaps it will not simply be a crush.

Omg BD just ask him out for a drink already!!

Someone else will now that he's single and then you'll regret not asking yourself! "

Too scary. What if they think I’m mad?

I tried to seduce my best friend years ago and he nearly laughed at me. Told me whilst I’m very desirable, he sees me as his younger sister and wouldn’t risk our friendship.

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By *eliWoman
42 weeks ago

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I have a crush on a builder who is working next door. I think we must flirt because he asked if I have a fella yesterday much to the amusement of my "fella" who was sitting in the living room and trying not to laugh.

I haven't had a work related one for some time now.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

Weird you should ask cos my work crush sat at the lunch table i was on. Crush he will stay though as i don't mix work and pleasure. I dont think he has a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I don’t really have one except for that Polish girl that comes over ti the UK at work every six months or so and has legs that make my legs go weak…

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By *ookie46Woman
42 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

No real life crushes

Still chat to a guy who was my first love back in my early twenties but now I’m single he’s not so just chatting it will stay

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
42 weeks ago

Southampton

Have a few crushes on here none on real life lol

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By *amie HantsWoman
42 weeks ago

Atlantis

I have a few. There’s a really handsome man in Starbucks near work. One time he remembered my order off the top of his head and I blushed all the way back to the office.

Another is a guy at work who is very shy, very quiet, never comes to work events or has lunch with anyone but in the mornings we’re usually the first ones in and we have a chat about the foxes he gets in his garden. It’s such a wholesome crush

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By *aters139Man
42 weeks ago

Sheffield


"I’ve had a crush on the same person for the past 20 years. They’re monogamous. They’ve always been in a relationship so other than flirting nothing has ever happened. Until recently… now, they are single. I flirt endlessly. They blush, look at me in disbelief, or laugh me off. I casually drop innuendos in conversations. It’s ridiculous at times.

One day perhaps it will not simply be a crush.

Omg BD just ask him out for a drink already!!

Someone else will now that he's single and then you'll regret not asking yourself!

Too scary. What if they think I’m mad?

I tried to seduce my best friend years ago and he nearly laughed at me. Told me whilst I’m very desirable, he sees me as his younger sister and wouldn’t risk our friendship. "

Ha you don't have to announce you've wanted to jump em for 20 years... But ask em to do something to you wouldn't have while they with the ex, meet for a coffee or just message them...more...

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By *ansoffateMan
42 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

You know what I don't and I miss it.

I only tend to get mild flutters these days.

I think it's where I live, the accent kills me.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
42 weeks ago

Birmingham

I have a huge crush on my friends husband and I probably flirt more than I should.

I wouldn't say I have a crush on many others. But I am a massive flirt and flirt with any man I like the look of. I don't have to crush for flirting.

On Fab, there is only one at the moment and hopefully I'll be meeting him during the Summer.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
42 weeks ago

North West

I work with Mr KC, so there's eye candy in some meetings. No-one else though

I don't really have other crushes out and about. There's a few physically attractive guys in the gym but I'm not focused on them and wouldn't approach them.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

One of the other Mums. Her son used to play rugby with my son, so she brightened up a Sunday morning.

She's very pretty with a perfect figure, amazing smile and lovely to talk to. I never flirted with her though.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I’ve had a crush on the same person for the past 20 years. They’re monogamous. They’ve always been in a relationship so other than flirting nothing has ever happened. Until recently… now, they are single. I flirt endlessly. They blush, look at me in disbelief, or laugh me off. I casually drop innuendos in conversations. It’s ridiculous at times.

One day perhaps it will not simply be a crush.

Omg BD just ask him out for a drink already!!

Someone else will now that he's single and then you'll regret not asking yourself! "

Best advice.

Be brave. No harm in asking. At the most, they will say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I’ve had a crush on the same person for the past 20 years. They’re monogamous. They’ve always been in a relationship so other than flirting nothing has ever happened. Until recently… now, they are single. I flirt endlessly. They blush, look at me in disbelief, or laugh me off. I casually drop innuendos in conversations. It’s ridiculous at times.

One day perhaps it will not simply be a crush.

Omg BD just ask him out for a drink already!!

Someone else will now that he's single and then you'll regret not asking yourself!

Best advice.

Be brave. No harm in asking. At the most, they will say no.

"

By the way, we guys are so used to no, that a yes comes as a shock.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I have one crush in the real world, it would never work though.

He doesn't know because I'm not great at flirting in the real world he probably just thinks I'm kinda odd "

It’s ok if you cannot flirt with him. When you are alone with him, just ask him out for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I have a few. There’s a really handsome man in Starbucks near work. One time he remembered my order off the top of his head and I blushed all the way back to the office.

Another is a guy at work who is very shy, very quiet, never comes to work events or has lunch with anyone but in the mornings we’re usually the first ones in and we have a chat about the foxes he gets in his garden. It’s such a wholesome crush "

That’s so sweet. Tell him he needs a vixen. Bat your eyelids

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By *ake_or_deathMan
42 weeks ago

Manchester

I recently moved to a new job and there are a ridiculous number of beautiful women who work in that office, but as they all work in other teams to mine I have no reason or real opportunity to speak to them.

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By *achig11Man
42 weeks ago

Manchester

Not me personally but recently found out a girl who was 2 years older than me from year 7 as it is now wanted me as we stood at the bus stop

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I have no RL crushes. There's a void in my life. "

Same here. I work alone (self employed) and there’s no one in my co-working office that does anything for me.

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By *ags73Man
42 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I have no RL crushes. There's a void in my life.

Same here. I work alone (self employed) and there’s no one in my co-working office that does anything for me."

I had a think and was struggling to come up with one

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