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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Coventry

I've now managed to visits clubs both in the day and the night time and wondering if my experience is typical.

Day time meets are so much more friendly and relaxed.

Not to say that night times ones are bad, but my preference, for now firmly sits with Day time...

What about you? And Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

In the words of Kid Cudi- Day N Night

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By *irthandgirthMan
40 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I've only ever visited clubs with a partner. I've found that the times when they have allowed single guys in were far more hassle, regardless of time of day.

But that is just from my experience.

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By *JcuriousCouple
40 weeks ago

Derby

Prefer evenings ourselves.

Miss S x

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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've only ever visited clubs with a partner. I've found that the times when they have allowed single guys in were far more hassle, regardless of time of day.

But that is just from my experience. "

Totally get that, it's a total different vibe when single males are allowed, yet, I find daytime meets better for that. I visit both as a couple and a single. Night time as a single feels almost like a meat auction...

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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Coventry


"Prefer evenings ourselves.

Miss S x"

Do you go to events with single males?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
40 weeks ago

Next Door

Depends on the event and club.

If a day party then its buzzing like an evening.

I've also been on a Sunday afternoon to Chams and it's been really quiet and most people were just chatting relaxing, rather than playing.

I like both, but prefer busy events

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
40 weeks ago

Sheffield

I like evenings. But my favourite event is a chams bbw party which is on a Sunday daytime into the evening.

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By *r Black 85Man
40 weeks ago

nottingham


"In the words of Kid Cudi- Day N Night "

In the words of Al B Sure

Nite and Day

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

We’ve only attended clubs in the evenings. I imagine they could be pretty quiet during the day. I prefer to go when it’s a bit busier or when they have party/theme nights.

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By *JcuriousCouple
40 weeks ago

Derby


"Prefer evenings ourselves.

Miss S x

Do you go to events with single males? "

No, we're not looking for single males but don't mind if some are at an event/club ofc.

Miss S x

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By *ife NinjaMan
40 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I like a daytime visit. More chilled and friendly

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By *irthandgirthMan
40 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"I've only ever visited clubs with a partner. I've found that the times when they have allowed single guys in were far more hassle, regardless of time of day.

But that is just from my experience.

Totally get that, it's a total different vibe when single males are allowed, yet, I find daytime meets better for that. I visit both as a couple and a single. Night time as a single feels almost like a meat auction... "

Nobody wants the walking wankers that follow people round the clubs. Having guys rapping on a closed door trying to get in, or walking up and waving their dick in a partners face without even saying hello is quite off-putting. Luckily I am quite happy to tell them to fuck off.

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By *itenDaysCouple
40 weeks ago

Vale of Glamorgan


"In the words of Kid Cudi- Day N Night

In the words of Al B Sure

Nite and Day"

In the words of Lionel Richie - Hello is it me your looking for

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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Coventry


"Prefer evenings ourselves.

Miss S x

Do you go to events with single males?

No, we're not looking for single males but don't mind if some are at an event/club ofc.

Miss S x"

Sorry I should have worded my question better. You still answered it though. Do you find single guys tend to follow you around? A recent visit, for the first time, with a partner really made me see it from a couples perspective. Some, not all, men, clearly there just to try and fuck anything. While others, not many, took time to chat and socialise.

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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Coventry


"I like evenings. But my favourite event is a chams bbw party which is on a Sunday daytime into the evening."

Sunday day time... think I might have to pop along to one of these.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
40 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Prefer evenings ourselves.

Miss S x

Do you go to events with single males?

No, we're not looking for single males but don't mind if some are at an event/club ofc.

Miss S x

Sorry I should have worded my question better. You still answered it though. Do you find single guys tend to follow you around? A recent visit, for the first time, with a partner really made me see it from a couples perspective. Some, not all, men, clearly there just to try and fuck anything. While others, not many, took time to chat and socialise. "

I go to club nights that allow single guys, and never had an issue with been followed around. A polite no thanks seems suffice.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
40 weeks ago

wonderland.

We go to clubs at all times of night and day. We avoid couples only times as find the vibe is different and not in a good way.

Days are often quieter but more relaxed.

To be fair we have always found that women touch way more without asking and are often more of an issue

Guys may lurk or follow until asked not to.. but once asked they tend to accept that. Women kick off 99% if you pull them up.

That said its rare to have any trouble and we both have considerable club experience

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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Coventry


"We go to clubs at all times of night and day. We avoid couples only times as find the vibe is different and not in a good way.

Days are often quieter but more relaxed.

To be fair we have always found that women touch way more without asking and are often more of an issue

Guys may lurk or follow until asked not to.. but once asked they tend to accept that. Women kick off 99% if you pull them up.

That said its rare to have any trouble and we both have considerable club experience "

That has surprised me, thanks for sharing your experience. Every days a school day.

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By *JcuriousCouple
40 weeks ago

Derby


"Prefer evenings ourselves.

Miss S x

Do you go to events with single males?

No, we're not looking for single males but don't mind if some are at an event/club ofc.

Miss S x

Sorry I should have worded my question better. You still answered it though. Do you find single guys tend to follow you around? A recent visit, for the first time, with a partner really made me see it from a couples perspective. Some, not all, men, clearly there just to try and fuck anything. While others, not many, took time to chat and socialise. "

Erm, we have had a little bit of that yeah when we was looking round a new club, but soon as we sat down and started talking and drinking amongst ourselves they backed off a bit.

Some call it the wanking dead

Miss S x

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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Coventry


"

Some call it the wanking dead

Miss S x"

Haha not heard that term but it's so apt lol

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By *olf and RedCouple
40 weeks ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

I prefer daytime, as I don’t like it when it’s really busy. We went to Chams Sunday afternoon, just gone and for me it was just right.

Wolf likes both, but he’s more of a night owl than me anyway.

Red

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