FabSwingers.com forum: Tell me one thing you were doing with your life

By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

At the age of 27. X

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Herts

Getting d*unk.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Wasting it trying to be a 'normal' person instead of embracing who I am

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By *ell GwynnWoman
22 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Renovating a house

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By *ell GwynnWoman
22 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"Wasting it trying to be a 'normal' person instead of embracing who I am

That too

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
22 weeks ago

Sunderland

Travelling the world managing huge interesting engineering projects and making a damn good impression of someone who knew what they were doing.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
22 weeks ago

London

Studying in Japan x

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By *educing_EmCouple
22 weeks ago

Tipperary

Getting used to being called Mrs instead of miss,

Having lots of the sex.

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By *OYFBWoman
22 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Working my arse off instead of enjoying my life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Working my arse off instead of enjoying my life

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and using your Nokia as a vibrator

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By *ora the explorerWoman
22 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Changing nappies

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By *ot to giggleWoman
22 weeks ago

Coventry

travelling overseas

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
22 weeks ago

Leeds

What year was that ?

I don’t know probably laying in a ditch somewhere on my nut.

The mr

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By *iddlesticksMan
22 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m afraid records don’t go that far back.

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By *ellhungvweMan
22 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Climbing all the way up the Andes and through to the artic circle.

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By *hatty_Guy22Man
22 weeks ago

Newcastle

Making bird houses from left over refurbishment material!

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By *esthetic21Man
22 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Not aching all over

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By *abonTedCouple
22 weeks ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

Getting ready to launch

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By *onn8955Man
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Trying not to get killed!

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By *ean counterMan
22 weeks ago

Kettering

I was being half the age that I am now !!

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
22 weeks ago

District 13

Doing something somewhere

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By *OYFBWoman
22 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

"Working my arse off instead of enjoying my life

and using your Nokia as a vibrator

Probably…what a shit life I’ve had.

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By *mf123Man
22 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Getting bans and upsetting people

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By *irthandgirthMan
22 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Living my best life, working half the year in california doing cool shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Working my arse off instead of enjoying my life

and using your Nokia as a vibrator

Probably…what a shit life I’ve had. "

It sounds fun to me.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
22 weeks ago

chichester

jumping out of planes

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By *OYFBWoman
22 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

"Working my arse off instead of enjoying my life

and using your Nokia as a vibrator

Probably…what a shit life I’ve had.

It sounds fun to me.

A quick release after 13 hour shifts.

Being called a weirdo for not being married and having kids by then.

Having no ambition other than to help people.

Sad that I couldn’t get a boyfriend and nobody was interested.

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By *mf123Man
22 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"Getting bans and upsetting people

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damn it that two things

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By *ickshawedCouple
22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Getting pregnant, miscarrying, then getting pregnant again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Getting pregnant, miscarrying, then getting pregnant again "
I love rainbows

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By *iddlesticksMan
22 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

A 6 stretch for poaching Squegee Steve’s window round.

It got very messy.

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By *JcuriousCouple
22 weeks ago

Derby

Right now? Working

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Getting d*unk. "

Join this list of d*unkken debauchery bit late I know

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Married with a two year old

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Plus going on holiday with my mates to Ibiza

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By *lder.Woman
22 weeks ago

Not Local

Working, holidays, riding horses, hopelessly entrapped in a doomed relationship, gardening... the usual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Right now? Working

Miss S x"

Are you a fellow 97 baby?

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Getting bans and upsetting people

Bans surely not the gentle folk on here are squeaky clean

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By *JcuriousCouple
22 weeks ago

Derby

"Right now? Working

Miss S x

Are you a fellow 97 baby?"

96 myself and Mr J is 97

Miss S x

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By *midnight-Woman
22 weeks ago

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Getting married

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Having another baby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Right now? Working

Miss S x

Are you a fellow 97 baby?

96 myself and Mr J is 97

Miss S x"

Shout out to Mr J

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By *iscean_dreamMan
22 weeks ago

Llanelli

Learning the delights of being a Daddy, poonarmies, baby sick etc

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By *heseeker73Man
22 weeks ago

witney

This afternoon...feeling horny and watching porn. And loving life. Happy fabbing everyone

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
22 weeks ago

Next Door

2 kids, my father had just passed away, moved up north and filed for divorce.

Oh what a year.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading

Looking after two toddlers

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By *rHotNottsMan
22 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

God so long ago….I was returning to the uk to start my uni education & trying to decide what course to do and find a job and figure how to get a mortgage

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By *uriousscouserWoman
22 weeks ago

Wirral

Recovering from a nightmarish relationship. Embracing celibacy. Flying back and forth to America a lot with work, grabbing as many goody bags as I could every time.

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By *ad NannaWoman
22 weeks ago

East London

Looking after a severely disabled person full time.

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By *angria_girlukWoman
22 weeks ago

LUTON

Steam powered Internet (dial up)

But I was exchanging emails with my future husband.

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By *oo..Woman
22 weeks ago

Boo's World

Getting married

Working far too much

Buying a bigger house

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By *emorefridaCouple
22 weeks ago

La la land

Finally finished my formal education

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By *herry delightWoman
22 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Not having one as I would have been married for 7 years, had two children and a mortgage to pay.

What life ??

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

Realising that buying a house meant I had to live somewhere for longer than three years for the first time in my life. I think I had a late quarter life crisis.

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By *r BobMan
22 weeks ago

Banffshire

Finishing a PhD

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By *2000ManMan
22 weeks ago

Worthing

Left an awful company through redundancy. I was so happy! Got a better job closer to home and was there 15 years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

The future is bright for me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Existential crisis while trying to cling to what I thought would save me.

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By *arkus1812Man
22 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Heralding the arrival of Radio 1 on the BBC in 1967.

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By *illy IdolMan
22 weeks ago

Midlands

"Renovating a house"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Renovating a house

Ditto"
ditto

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
22 weeks ago

Markfield

"At the age of 27. X"

It was 1997. I was finishing my time at uni, finally! It was the year that Tony Blair’s New Labour kicked the Tories out after ruling for my formative years. I went on holiday to Turkey and had sex with far too many boys. Princess Diana was murdered in Paris. The millennium dome was being built and I could see the workers from my bathroom window. Life was good. Disposable income was high, rent was cheap, working in the city of London square mile was exciting. Yeah, 27 was a good year.

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By *illy IdolMan
22 weeks ago

Midlands

"Renovating a house

Dittoditto"

Enjoy

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By *B69Woman
22 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Had the best job ever, everyday was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Trying to be a gangster..

.was going quite well until a friend got shot and another got put away for 24 years. I changed my mind at that point and started earning a legal pittance

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By *r TriomanMan
22 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Xcountry skiing (and running; I was good at them. Whilst I'd lost all directions with my career and I was no longer in a relationship, my skiing (and running) were going really well and they were the only things stopping me from feeling hopeless at life.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 weeks ago

North West

Went to the Olympics.

Finishing my teacher training.

Acquired pet rabbits.

Went on holiday to Menorca.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
22 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Working and home chores

Feeding babies changing nappies feeding

Entertain such

Holidays in Benidorm

Never again

Mean Benidorm

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By *onn8955Man
22 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *oeBeansMan
22 weeks ago

Derby

Probably the same things I'm doing now. It was only 6 months ago

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By *trawberry lacesWoman
22 weeks ago

angus

Married with a 3 year old

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 weeks ago

North West

"Went to the Olympics.

Finishing my teacher training.

Acquired pet rabbits.

Went on holiday to Menorca."

I can't count either.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
22 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Probably same shit I'm doing now.. except it didn't involve dressing up in women's clothes..

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By *oeBeansMan
22 weeks ago

Derby

"Married with a 3 year old "

*Internal monologue* don't make the joke, Joe. You know what she meant. Don't be a dick...

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By *oelDorianMan
22 weeks ago

vanaheim

Working long hours

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By *elloWoman
22 weeks ago

alpha centauri

First half of being 27 I was creating a human being inside me, second half of being 27 I was wondering what the hell have I done! Whilst changing dirty nappies a million times a day.

Oh and dealing with milk dripping huge boobies.

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By *JcuriousCouple
22 weeks ago

Derby

"Right now? Working

Miss S x

Are you a fellow 97 baby?

96 myself and Mr J is 97

Miss S x

Shout out to Mr J"

Ooooahhh oooooahhh!!

He's got a cool birthday 7/7/97

Miss S x

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
22 weeks ago

Carlisle

Being a first time mam alone for half the year, then moving me and the baby and all our stuff from Cumbria to Kent.

Losing my identity, but enjoying being 'mam'.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Living it

Ps. Still am

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By *ie n MashCouple
22 weeks ago

Back in Malice

Buying my first flat in East London.

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
22 weeks ago

North Wales

Wasting it if I'm really honest. But we live and learn

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By *adyBugsWoman
22 weeks ago

cognito

I was in an unhappy relationship.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
22 weeks ago

Tamworth

Ending a toxic relationship

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By *r John WickMan
22 weeks ago

The Continental

Working 90-100 hours a week, and having no life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Renovating a house

Dittoditto

Enjoy"
enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"At the age of 27. X

I was born. Polling day. 1997. And the world got a little bit worse from then on. Was it me? Was it Blair? Who knows.

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By *alcon77Man
22 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Playing gigs on my own.

Usually opening for larger acts.

Practicing the guitar like a fiend..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Playing gigs on my own.

Usually opening for larger acts.

Practicing the guitar like a fiend.."

Any that we will know?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
22 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Running

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By *alcon77Man
22 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

"Playing gigs on my own.

Usually opening for larger acts.

Practicing the guitar like a fiend.."

Most were underground acts. I can think of one that were managed by the happy mondays' management...and another that were on Depeche mode's label.. most never really became well known.

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By *r Black 85Man
22 weeks ago

nottingham

Travelling

I had 3 holidays

Gambia

Ayia Napa

Barbados

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By *agnar73Man
22 weeks ago

Glasgow

"At the age of 27. X"

1999. Oh I was being irresponsible

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
22 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Getting married to one of my horror exes

Tinder

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By *ittleJohn5Man
22 weeks ago

Wickham Market

At 27

Fast car fast motor cycles and fast women

Got the broken bank account and body to prove

Great times

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By *arla SwingerWoman
22 weeks ago

Somewhere

Attending uni as a mature student

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Trying to make it as a professional racing driver didn't workout now I build race cars for other people

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By *reative-mindMan
22 weeks ago

Exeter

Being a bit of a dick

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By *uenevereWoman
22 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Getting a life again following separation from my ex-husband

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By *oeBeansMan
22 weeks ago

Derby

One thing I'm glad I wasn't doing was being a celebrity with personal demons. That wouldn't have ended well

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I was having a baby

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By *holoMan
22 weeks ago

Hastings

Getting deployed to benghazi

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By *exyEggsCouple
22 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Re-examining it.

Mrs TMN x

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By *enk15Man
22 weeks ago

Bidford On Avon

Learning how to look after a new tiny human.

Also not sleeping much.

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By *aulupforitMan
22 weeks ago

Corbridge

Going out more

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By *erry bull1Man
22 weeks ago

doncaster

Stationed in Germany in the Army

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Not having a clue generally

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
22 weeks ago

North West

"At the age of 27. X"

Significant time for me. Most upbeat, going back to uni and re-starting my life.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
22 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Marrying J

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
22 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Working my bollocks of trying to cover three separate borrowings, one of which was a short term unsecured loan with an interest rate of nearly 14%, it was a gamble but it payed off and am glad I took the risk.

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By *laytime_13Woman
22 weeks ago

Lincs

"Not having a clue generally

To be fair, that still applies now for me

At 27, nothing of any note.

It got better when I turned 30, grew a pair (metaphorically speaking) and started working out what I wanted from life - and doing it

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Fucking my life up on smack and crack, hey ho lesson learnt, just say no

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By *nnCeeWoman
22 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Going to as many gigs as possible. All-but followed a band round the country on their tour. Oh to be have that sort of money and freedom once more!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
22 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Chasing eggs.

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By *ysizeMan
22 weeks ago

Nottingham

At 27? trying to figure out what to do with my life.

Still not figured that one out yet.

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By *aulupforitMan
22 weeks ago

Corbridge

"Fucking my life up on smack and crack, hey ho lesson learnt, just say no

Mr "

At least you can come out and hold your hands up.I had a problem with drink and I sorted it myself but takes a brave person to hold the hands up.Good man and keep up the good work.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Becoming a dad for the first time. That was one sure way to give me a kick up the arse and to sort my life out. Well sort of. Still not fully mastered it.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Fucking my life up on smack and crack, hey ho lesson learnt, just say no

At least you can come out and hold your hands up.I had a problem with drink and I sorted it myself but takes a brave person to hold the hands up.Good man and keep up the good work."

There's no shame attached to it for me, just a part of my lifes journey is all, well done you also

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By *anielpiercedMan
22 weeks ago

by the seaside

"At the age of 27. X"

Partying in Ibiza waaayyyy too much. Worked over there for a bit and decided to stay for a couple of years.

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By *alandNitaCouple
22 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"At the age of 27. X"

Meeting Anita & falling in love

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Marrying J

I’m hoping to get married in my 27th year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"One thing I'm glad I wasn't doing was being a celebrity with personal demons. That wouldn't have ended well

You were a fab celebrity though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"Being a bit of a dick "

I’ll probably do that still in my 27th year. I’m not stopping that until I’m at least 30.

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