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By *dmundwilson OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Llandudno

Sometimes strike up chat with one of a couple but partner less enamoured perhaps. What’s clever and respectful protocol when instigating a new message thread in that situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Like taking the chat with one half elsewhere?

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
40 weeks ago

Sutton

You chat to a couple as a couple , not just to one half of them, i.e. good morning to you both .

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

As a straight man surely you'd only be interested in one half regardless?

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By *dmundwilson OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Llandudno


"Like taking the chat with one half elsewhere? "

Thanks. I try ,but in that scenario you can usually see who’s there.

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By *dmundwilson OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Llandudno


"You chat to a couple as a couple , not just to one half of them, i.e. good morning to you both . "

I like that , upbeat and open. Delightful.

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By *dmundwilson OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Llandudno


"As a straight man surely you'd only be interested in one half regardless?"

Depends Faerie.

I’ve some ideas beyond that sort of gratification sometimes. In a way… lol.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"As a straight man surely you'd only be interested in one half regardless?

Depends Faerie.

I’ve some ideas beyond that sort of gratification sometimes. In a way… lol."

Well, if you're instigating conversation with a couples profile and asking how to immediately exclude one half in the opening messages, maybe just stick to singles.

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By *dmundwilson OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Llandudno


"As a straight man surely you'd only be interested in one half regardless?

Depends Faerie.

I’ve some ideas beyond that sort of gratification sometimes. In a way… lol.

Well, if you're instigating conversation with a couples profile and asking how to immediately exclude one half in the opening messages, maybe just stick to singles."

I expressed it badly, it’s not my point. I mean you develop a dialogue often with only one half by chance. Someone above kinda gave me answer. ( I dislike ‘exclusive’.).

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By *naswingdressWoman
40 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I sometimes end up talking to couples and become aware that he or she is doing 99% of the messaging. When that's the case, I talk to the person I'm talking to, but I'm always mindful that the other half might or will know what's going on. (Not like I'm trying to hide anything, more - I assume they're still part of the conversation even though they rarely show up in the conversation)

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By *bi HaiveMan
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40 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If one half of a couple isn't keen on you it's usually game over.

They're a couple. They're not (generally) gonna take one for the team.

You either suit both or you don't. Never push it.

Accept it and move on.

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By *dmundwilson OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Llandudno


"I sometimes end up talking to couples and become aware that he or she is doing 99% of the messaging. When that's the case, I talk to the person I'm talking to, but I'm always mindful that the other half might or will know what's going on. (Not like I'm trying to hide anything, more - I assume they're still part of the conversation even though they rarely show up in the conversation)"

I n think what Peter and Jane said above covers it really. My intent was to work out how not to be divisive .. all good responses thanks

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By *TG3Man
40 weeks ago

Dorchester

He's worked it out now folks

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm with Peter & Jane, it bugs me when people message and aim it at one of us, it is usually me messaging back but the Mr does pop in and out.

Mrs

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By *dmundwilson OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Llandudno


"He's worked it out now folks "

Tad patronising but I’ll let you off. ??

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