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"I’ve only ever had one and I don’t think I did in all honesty… waaaay out of my league. ![]() ![]() ![]() Should never think that. ![]() | |||
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"Always. How can anything happen if everyone stays silent?" It doesn't always need to happen. Sometimes it's a blessing when nothing does. ![]() | |||
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"Always. How can anything happen if everyone stays silent? It doesn't always need to happen. Sometimes it's a blessing when nothing does. ![]() Absolute heartache from a crush? Oh, maybe you mean if it progresses then yeah sure, that could happen. You can face disappointment if it's not reciprocated. It's worth it when it works though. As much as I'm relieved at times I've not said that, I can also think about the times where I'm still happy I said something. | |||
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"I have lusted for people ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ^^^I thought that was just you on a regular rainy Tuesday evening, Cherry? ![]() | |||
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"I have lusted for people ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It doesn't have to be raining... or a Tuesday ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why? Where would it get me? " Naked in a room with them potentially? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sure" I've got a crush on Cayote's socks... | |||
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"Always. How can anything happen if everyone stays silent? It doesn't always need to happen. Sometimes it's a blessing when nothing does. ![]() You know you’re right. And I say the same thing to others, happiness is rare to find, and if there’s a chance, go for it!!! ![]() | |||
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"Yes and no, think the fear of them finding it hilarious or repulsed always weighs heavy in the back of my mind. I need to be braver and start putting my big girl pants on Tinder " Nothing ventured, nothing gained ![]() | |||
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"Yes and no, think the fear of them finding it hilarious or repulsed always weighs heavy in the back of my mind. I need to be braver and start putting my big girl pants on Tinder " If it helps. The no thank yous hurt less than you’d think ![]() | |||
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"Wouldn’t be direct about it, maybe fab pics or comment on post and see if a conversation started" This is it for me too. Honestly, what a brilliant and concise way of putting it ![]() | |||
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"Is there a point really? I gave up sending messages after most of them just get left unread or deleted. Women are always saying they get hundreds of messages a day so why just join the baying mob?" There’s a difference between me saying hello to a profile I like and actually ’crushing’ on someone though. It’s easy to say hello and get knocked back from someone you dont know. | |||
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"I probably would say if I'm interested. I'll drop hints first and if they're picked up then I'd say. B wouldn't. A crush though, those are very few and far between. Those I keep close to my chest. J" What's the difference? I don't think of them as different things. | |||
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"Possibly. It depends. Sometimes it's quite obvious when I do and I don't mind that at all. ![]() Interesting ![]() | |||
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"Would you ever admit it to them? " I think I already have. The main one, that is. Luke | |||
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"I have told a few before, but a few don’t have direct interaction with so I take it as I’m not of interest ![]() if only you were nearer ![]() | |||
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"I probably would say if I'm interested. I'll drop hints first and if they're picked up then I'd say. B wouldn't. A crush though, those are very few and far between. Those I keep close to my chest. J What's the difference? I don't think of them as different things. " For me a crush is more. It's butterflies and daydreaming. I'm unlikely to admit that to anyone, rarely even to myself ![]() | |||
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"Has Norwegian_Wood come back yet?" I’ve not seen him for several months. | |||
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"I think they know ![]() ![]() ![]() I think we have too, GingerSpiceBomb. You are ![]() | |||
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"I’d message someone if I liked them. I just rarely do. I’d definitely tell someone though. Only really had one I think sensual lover1000. For years! He definitely knows ![]() Perhaps you need to take more risks xx | |||
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"I’d message someone if I liked them. I just rarely do. I’d definitely tell someone though. Only really had one I think sensual lover1000. For years! He definitely knows ![]() I would if I liked them. I meant I very rarely like anyone not that I very rarely message ![]() | |||
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"I’d message someone if I liked them. I just rarely do. I’d definitely tell someone though. Only really had one I think sensual lover1000. For years! He definitely knows ![]() ![]() I could have worded that better ![]() | |||
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"I’d message someone if I liked them. I just rarely do. I’d definitely tell someone though. Only really had one I think sensual lover1000. For years! He definitely knows ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Oh and I’ve always had a soft spot for Joe Beans ![]() Who doesn't | |||
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"Oh and I’ve always had a soft spot for Joe Beans ![]() Such a lovely guy! ![]() | |||
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"There is one lady on here who's outstanding but I read profiles and I'm not what she's after so I've never bothered messaging her " Does she knock you out? ![]() | |||
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"There is one lady on here who's outstanding but I read profiles and I'm not what she's after so I've never bothered messaging her " I get this but if I thought we were compatible I’d tell them. Well I have done. What’s the worst that can happen? | |||
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"Oh and I’ve always had a soft spot for Joe Beans ![]() I will out myself to Veronica ![]() | |||
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"I'm definitely too shy to admit anything like that, but there is someone ![]() JFDI | |||
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"I definitely would as you never know where it could lead " Ah see, now this is why I probably wouldn't. There's a couple I do like but you tell them and it leads to conversation and the inevitable "so when are you free?". I just haven't the headspace for further conversations and meets right now. If one of my current friends annoys me though I'll given them a nudge. | |||
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"Would you ever admit it to them? " Of course I've number Ive a crush on but above all others. It my lady of the forum moderation mrs nicecouple 561 that I have biggest crush of all. But as I'm taken a crush Is all it can Be . | |||
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"Oh and I’ve always had a soft spot for Joe Beans ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why? Where would it get me? " • It would get you a hearty handshake at the very least or a steamy power-shower scene with them at the very best. | |||
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"Why? Where would it get me? • It would get you a hearty handshake at the very least or a steamy power-shower scene with them at the very best." You don’t even get handshakes ![]() | |||
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"Of course, you don’t know until you try. But my only problem is distance. ![]() I tried... I failed .. . ![]() | |||
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"Would you actually want to meet your crush though? " Absolutely ![]() | |||
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"Would you actually want to meet your crush though? " Yeah. | |||
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"Would you actually want to meet your crush though? Yeah. " I repeat what I said above. happiness is rare to find, and if there’s a chance, go for it!!! So yeh, I would. ![]() | |||
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"Would you actually want to meet your crush though? " Yes. I’d like to get lost in her lips over a couple of drinks and then, hopefully, we could bang each other senseless. Not gonna do that if I don’t meet her. | |||
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"Would you actually want to meet your crush though? Yes. I’d like to get lost in her lips over a couple of drinks and then, hopefully, we could bang each other senseless. Not gonna do that if I don’t meet her." Sometimes fantasies are best left at just that. | |||
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"I think I'd rather keep it a secret.. What if they didn't reciprocate... What if they did ![]() ![]() do you have a crush? | |||
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"Sometimes fantasies are best left at just that. " That’s one thing we’re never going to agree on. | |||
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"I did once, I would not do it again ![]() Same ! | |||
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"I did once, I would not do it again ![]() Ditto ![]() | |||
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"Can you have more than one crush though? " Of course you can! We've a few ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think I'd rather keep it a secret.. What if they didn't reciprocate... What if they did ![]() ![]() I love you too X | |||
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"I did once, I would not do it again ![]() Same. Same. | |||
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"I did once, I would not do it again ![]() See, even the chance it could be like this is why I wouldn't. B | |||
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"I did once, I would not do it again ![]() Not everyone is a piece of shit that deliberately hurts people though. In general it’s worth a chance. ![]() | |||
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"I did once, I would not do it again ![]() ![]() Having did it earlier this year, that feeling of seeing it read but no reply, wasn’t good. But, I know no ones under any obligation to reply to any message, so all cool and who knows what may happen in future? | |||
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"Have done in the past and ended up in a hotel room with them naked ![]() Aww I love a happy ending ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I did once, I would not do it again ![]() ![]() There are lots of them though ![]() | |||
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