FabSwingers.com forum: Body and face?

By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Manchester

Following from another thread, I've got a question to be answered completely honestly- no judgement: you've been chatting to someone who has an insane body and is very sexy and then the person sends you a face pic and it really doesn't match the body, would you still meet them for sex or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I’m going to be looking at their face while having sex, so, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Nope,nope and nope

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I told you I arrive with a paper bag over it so you don't need to see it!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
40 weeks ago

North West

Probably not, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I’ve never done that. Ive never imagined having sex with anyone or planned anything in my mind before I know I like everything about them.

I can’t say this enough, expectations can become very high, because of the theme of this website. But you are not obliged to fancy everyone.

But, I also know I can realy be attracted to someone’s personality, and what a wonderful surprise when you do finally got to see them and they are drop dead gorgeous.

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By *eviant-Kinky-CoupleCouple
40 weeks ago

town

Attraction is important from a physical and mental perspective.

There's varying degrees of attraction. If said persons facial looks were not attractive to us we would not meet up.

Likewise, we know that we can't be attractive to everyone and wouldn't want someone to go through the motions as we feel it'd be noticeable during play.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasm OP Woman
40 weeks ago

Manchester

Thank you for the responses! Very interesting!

Personally for fab I have to find them attractive: personality, face and body. Doesn't mean I'm looking for perfection but i need to be attracted to them

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By *ittlebirdWoman
40 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"Thank you for the responses! Very interesting!

Personally for fab I have to find them attractive: personality, face and body. Doesn't mean I'm looking for perfection but i need to be attracted to them"

I need all 3, I don't think one is more important than any other.

Someone can be hot as fuck but utterly boring (there's a lot like this!), likewise someone can have the best personality but if there's no physical attraction, I'm out!

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By *rJonesx30Man
40 weeks ago

Barcelna - London

tits, face, ass. In that order

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By *viatrixWoman
40 weeks ago

Redhill

If I am very attracted by their personality, probably yes. This is why I would meet for a social first.

But 9 times out of 10 it will be a no.

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By *oofer1Man
40 weeks ago

consett

Why not

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By *urnedoutniceagainMan
40 weeks ago

louth

I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

it would be rude not to

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If I've already decided I want to have sex with them, the aesthetics of the face is largely irrelevant.

If they're really that rough there's always doggy or blindfolds

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By *a LunaWoman
40 weeks ago

South Wales

Probably. Because I’d find that quite hot.

The things that turn me on are quite weird but so long as their cock was magnificent I’d be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet"

I don’t think there’s anything shallow in needing to find the person you’re going to have sex with attractive.

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By *urry BlokeMan
40 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Nope

For me, the face is where it's at

That's where the character is

A body is just a dressing table

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester

yes if that I was initially attracted to . then no problem ... its not like I need to stare at person face 24/7 during a meet having sex .

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By *arley QuimWoman
40 weeks ago

Somewhere

I'd rather be attracted to their face than body. I really enjoy kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet"

And for that reason I thank all the women who asked for a face pic early and stopped talking to me. I get the hint.

It stops the pain of disappointment down the line.

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By *esthetic21Man
40 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Following from another thread, I've got a question to be answered completely honestly- no judgement: you've been chatting to someone who has an insane body and is very sexy and then the person sends you a face pic and it really doesn't match the body, would you still meet them for sex or not? "
no they block you

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By *esthetic21Man
40 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Nope

For me, the face is where it's at

That's where the character is

A body is just a dressing table "
I dunno I've met some absolutely lovely people.who I'm not attracted to I dont need to be attracted to someone to like them if that makes sense

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

Yes because I might still find them attractive.

A face not quite matching the body happens. People age. Get stressed, have accidents and injuries etc.

I've never spoken to someone with a view of meeting them for sex. I talk to people because I find them interesting and think it could be fun to meet them as a person.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
40 weeks ago

Kent

Nope.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I get this soooooo much.

Strike up a good conversation which naturally moves to swapping photos.

They like my body, arse and cock but blocked after seeing face or no reply. If they do reply I'm told good looking, amazing green eyes)but bald

( I shave my head so neat)

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By *EAT..85Woman
40 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Possibly "

Good to know

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
40 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Unless the face literally didn't match the body, i.e. it was sent as a separate pic & you've never seen the face & body in the same picture, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

I don't know what a "face that doesn't match the body" even means outside of the above context.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Chichester

I get this soooooo much.

Strike up a good conversation which naturally moves to swapping photos.

They like my body, arse and cock but blocked after seeing face or no reply. If they do reply I'm told good looking, amazing green eyes)but bald

( I shave my head so neat)"

just tell them the rock is a sex symbol or you can wear a baseball cap and go full Hollywood

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By *ilverfox for youMan
40 weeks ago

Hull

Yes .maybe consider doggy !!!!

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By *ou only live onceMan
40 weeks ago

London

"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet"

I don't think it's shallow at all. If anything, I think it's insulting to meet someone you don't find attractive. You either fancy someone or you don't - and no need to apologise for that. I might like parts of a person more than the other, but I'd still need to fancy them as a whole person to meet, if that makes sense.

(And I know this is true in return - I can imagine all the conversations girlfriends will have had with their friends along the lines of "yeah, he's a bit short but I like him..."

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By *JcuriousCouple
40 weeks ago

Derby

Nope!

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet

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Yes. That’s why I don’t fancy everyone. And the reason why I think they’re gorgeous and couldn’t give a shit what anyone else thinks.

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By *OYFBWoman
40 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Face, smile, eyes, teeth, facial expressions - all important to me

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By *iss.BellaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wales

I don't really allow myself to get in this situation.

I like to see their face early on to avoid this. Attraction is important so I wouldn't meet them for sex but I would maybe meet them socially.

Equally, I wouldn't want someone to meet me for sex if they didn't find my face or any other body part attractive

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By *ou only live onceMan
40 weeks ago

London

"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet

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Yes. That’s why I don’t fancy everyone. And the reason why I think they’re gorgeous and couldn’t give a shit what anyone else thinks. "

100%. I've always only ever fancied quite a small proportion of people - but those people I fancy don't all look alike!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
40 weeks ago

Leeds

No, if I don't like the face I ain't kissing it.

Mrs

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By *ornLordMan
40 weeks ago

Wiltshire and London

No. If I'm connecting to something with my lips I need to be attracted to it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
40 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I like faces. Bodies are here today, gone tomorrow commodities. While I understand this site exists for sex, you have to look at people and have a conversation afterwards

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
40 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Faces are vanity, body is sanity.

Body condition is a strong indicator of an individuals health & lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet

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Yes. That’s why I don’t fancy everyone. And the reason why I think they’re gorgeous and couldn’t give a shit what anyone else thinks.

100%. I've always only ever fancied quite a small proportion of people - but those people I fancy don't all look alike!"

It’s why I get into arguments about ‘types!’ I just know I fancy the ass off them, and they probably look nothing like Marilyn Monroe.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"If I've already decided I want to have sex with them, the aesthetics of the face is largely irrelevant.

If they're really that rough there's always doggy or blindfolds

Yes echo this

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Quite simply, No,

The face is part of the body so all of it has to be appealing but that’s just the start…it’s what behind and within that swings it

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By *inger_SnapWoman
40 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, this is why I always ask for a face pic first. That will always be where the attraction lies for me

I mean yesterday, got a msg, profile pic was slim body with abs... Face pic was round/chubby. I said no way that matches, he tried to deny it. He'd taken his profile pic from a gay porn site

Crazy....

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By *weetiepie99Woman
40 weeks ago

cardiff

Maybe..if i find them interesting/funny

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
40 weeks ago

Ipswich

Personally

Yes I’m no oil painting

If we hit it off personally wise

Why Not

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
40 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Honestly it would only be a no if they sent it and I genuinely didn't find them attractive at all.

I know I'm guilty sometimes building a picture in my head of what they may look like and when you see it then yes it can be very different to the image you've built. But sometimes it's not always a bad thing.

Tinder

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