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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
35 weeks ago

london

Legs

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

is that before or after we got past the FAB profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Face

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By *ardfun10Man
35 weeks ago

banbury

Has to be eyes

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By *illy IdolMan
35 weeks ago

Midlands

Dress sense for me. Not so much here though

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By *B69Woman
35 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Shoulders

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
35 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Depends, but if it’s smell then I’m out of there

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Soul

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
35 weeks ago

Bromley

Eyes, they are the gateway to the soul

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

eyes and smell for me

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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
35 weeks ago

london

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By *ggdrasil66Man
35 weeks ago

Saltdean

Bum, always. Some big some small. As long as shapely. Some perfume also gives me the horn. Hope that is not weird..:

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By *oofer1Man
35 weeks ago

consett

Eyes and smile x

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
35 weeks ago

Somewhere

Penis... On Fab, it's always the penis

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
35 weeks ago

Manchester

Eyes. Big sparkly eyes.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
35 weeks ago

wonderland.

Eyes for me

Cali

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
35 weeks ago

Folkestone

Eyes lips and hips

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Face n boobs

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By *oubleswing2019Man
35 weeks ago

Colchester

Nothing.

I have deliberately tried hard over many years to desensitise myself to what people wear, their makeup, their jewellery, their hair style, everything really.

I'd be useless in an identity parade, I know.

But I could tell you everything about meeting them. The words they said, the cadence of the words, the inflection, the intensity. The way they sat. Their posture. Their "micro" habits.

I find those aspects fascinating.

Attire and appearance...transitory. Like a train passing through a station at high speed. Blink and it's gone. A fast blur.

But the rush from the train ? The forces it made as it went. Their impact ? That's what I notice.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Uh, varies.

It's rare for me to be immediately physically drawn to someone without first getting to know at least a little about them.

But some people have outstanding things about them. Piercing eyes, musicians fingers, just something about the way they hold themselves, a nice mouth, it could be anything really.

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
35 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Nothing.

I have deliberately tried hard over many years to desensitise myself to what people wear, their makeup, their jewellery, their hair style, everything really.

I'd be useless in an identity parade, I know.

But I could tell you everything about meeting them. The words they said, the cadence of the words, the inflection, the intensity. The way they sat. Their posture. Their "micro" habits.

I find those aspects fascinating.

Attire and appearance...transitory. Like a train passing through a station at high speed. Blink and it's gone. A fast blur.

But the rush from the train ? The forces it made as it went. Their impact ? That's what I notice."

Do you note if they're a bit of a munter, or not though?

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
35 weeks ago

Folkestone


"Nothing.

I have deliberately tried hard over many years to desensitise myself to what people wear, their makeup, their jewellery, their hair style, everything really.

I'd be useless in an identity parade, I know.

But I could tell you everything about meeting them. The words they said, the cadence of the words, the inflection, the intensity. The way they sat. Their posture. Their "micro" habits.

I find those aspects fascinating.

Attire and appearance...transitory. Like a train passing through a station at high speed. Blink and it's gone. A fast blur.

But the rush from the train ? The forces it made as it went. Their impact ? That's what I notice.

Do you note if they're a bit of a munter, or not though? "

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
35 weeks ago

Bradford

Face then rest of the body .

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By *oubleswing2019Man
35 weeks ago

Colchester


"Do you note if they're a bit of a munter, or not though? "

Nope ! And I wouldn't notice if they were vogue material either ! It works both ways !

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
35 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Do you note if they're a bit of a munter, or not though?

Nope ! And I wouldn't notice if they were vogue material either ! It works both ways ! "

Now, Vogue material is highly debatable Most 'great' models, are not attractive. Certainly not in the conventional sense. What they are is photogenic, interesting aesthetically, and have a 'thing', whatever that is that's popular at that point in time. But no, most are not beautiful.

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By *ucka39Man
35 weeks ago

Newcastle

Eyes always

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By *andT2023Couple
35 weeks ago

in the middle

Eyes ...then smile x

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
35 weeks ago

Kent

Bum

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By *partharmonyCouple
35 weeks ago

Ruislip

It depends what's on show, but the first thing I look for is boobs. I don't get much further than that either, to be honest. Luke

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By *oofer1Man
35 weeks ago

consett

I love a nice body and that ass wow

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By *luebell888Woman
35 weeks ago

Glasgowish

The way they hold themselves. Confidence alone is a big turn on for me.

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By *oding1Man
35 weeks ago

marlow

If their hair is red.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Her eyes.

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By *ean counterMan
35 weeks ago

Kettering

I honestly don't know! Their style is very important to me. The way they dress is very important and I do like a look of confidence

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By *esthetic21Man
35 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

All about the eyes but above all have a sense of humour

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By *ather WickmasMan
35 weeks ago

The Continental

Whatever’s in the avatar photo.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Eyebrows.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Legs

"

Not photo verified

Unfinished profile

Was talking went UNLOS

Manners

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By *r-8-BBCMan
35 weeks ago

LONDON

Tits if we're looking face to face and arse if I'm walking up from behind her. Just being honest don't judge me.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Legs

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If based on a photo.. Hard these as so many not verified.

I do like full body and face...

If meeting. How they smell and dress and talk with teeth too and a pulse

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
35 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Eyes and smile x

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Eyes, glint in said eyes, what the eye contact is like, smile

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
35 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Whatever is most striking about that individual, it could be their eyes that instantly captivate me or it could be a huge set of norks that are totally unmissable

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

Eyes and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Legs

"

Are you watching Naked Attraction?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Face

Mrs

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By *asty tatsyMan
35 weeks ago

london

A smile

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Smile, eyes, face, hair, shoes, attire….accent

Process time….

Then take the second look

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Gum to teeth ratio

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Legs

Are you watching Naked Attraction? "

Everyone is

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton


"A smile "

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Legs

Are you watching Naked Attraction?

Everyone is "

Haha. Perverts!!!

If anyone can know they’re attracted to someone because of legs, good luck.

* yes I know that’s what the op wasn’t saying!

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By *pen to offers!Man
35 weeks ago

Carlisle

Eyes for me

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By *unthum62Man
35 weeks ago

Benidorm

Attitude.

Fun, happy, talkative, open, flirty. Yes please.

Arrogance, rudeness,miserable, off you pop.

Its the person for me, whatever shape body they live inside of.

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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
35 weeks ago

london

Where in the fabbing world did I end up with legs alone

Dr’s appointment needed

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By *ripfillMan
35 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant


"Gum to teeth ratio "

This is funny

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By *ripfillMan
35 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Eyes and smile

Then read the profile 3x

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

.

This is going to sound a bit hippyish and woo woo but a person's energy and how that makes me feel.

And then their voice a second later (if that). Oh and eyes.

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

Knees

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
35 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

In real life its smile, shoes, a naughty little something about the way they look at you or make you feel and how they're dressed..

In a swingers club its more how they smell and how respectful, or not, they are

Vixen

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Boobs lol

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By *as7643Man
35 weeks ago

staffs

Eyes and face and smile for me

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

Smile & presence. Some people have a way of looking at you that just turn your legs to jelly.

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By *a LunaWoman
35 weeks ago

South Wales

Eyes and mouth

Then shoulders

Then hands

Then sly look at the crotch

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Face. It’s all about the face.

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By *issBellaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wales

Eyes and smile

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
35 weeks ago

London or Bedford

WOMAN!

WHOA MAN!

WO-MAN GOOD!

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By *ather WickmasMan
35 weeks ago

The Continental

If I’m seeing people in the real world………I look at the face first, every time.

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By *educing_EmCouple
35 weeks ago

Tipperary

Face, eyes.

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By *oodmessMan
35 weeks ago

yumsville

Those round led lights you put a cam in the middle of

or

Hairdo

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By *alm_one4Man
35 weeks ago

RM16

Smile

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
35 weeks ago

Sunderland

1. Are they carrying a weapon

2. Are they carrying treats

3. Boobs

4. Eyes because that's what you're supposed to say on Fab

Mr

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By *rispyDuckMan
35 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

The neighbour peeking through your window

Haha

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By *antas little minxWoman
35 weeks ago

essex

I think smile, hoping it’s a wow! I’m glad to meet her! x

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By *aabmanMan
35 weeks ago

bognor regis

Definetly the eyes.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
35 weeks ago

Herts

Pulse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Eyes, smile & hands tell you almost everything

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Pulse lol"

He likes breath play

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

Face then voice.

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
35 weeks ago

Leicester

Legs

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By *ools and the brainCouple
35 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Pulse lol"

For some guy's even that's optional

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Eyes. Smile. Smell then I check out the bum

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By *ools and the brainCouple
35 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Eyes. Smile. Smell then I check out the bum"

You sound like you are buying a horse at an auction

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Face and Butt

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By *rBobbMan
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Smile, then a sneaky look at her heels

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By *andy CanesWoman
35 weeks ago

candy cane lane

Teeth/hands nails

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Teeth/hands nails "

Finger nails…..is a big one!

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By *JcuriousCouple
35 weeks ago

Derby

Eyes

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Her smile and the inevitable laugh that follows it

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
35 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

If they're invading my personal space without consent.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
35 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Smile and attitude

Mr

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
35 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Eyes

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By *has12Man
35 weeks ago

Plymouth

Eyes and arse

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

...a new hair colour of radiant copper and red from a certain 4' 11" minx!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

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By *JcuriousCouple
35 weeks ago

Derby


"...a new hair colour of radiant copper and red from a certain 4' 11" minx! "

Miss S x

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
35 weeks ago

Merseyside

Eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Eyes. Smile. Smell then I check out the bum

You sound like you are buying a horse at an auction "

Hahaha

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By *inglemenapplyhereCouple
35 weeks ago

Ely

Eyes and smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

COCK

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By *litpleaserMan
35 weeks ago

Oldham

That look and demeanor that some ladies have..I can't describe it but it wows me every time

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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
34 weeks ago

london

Pardon the pun but ‘looks’ like EYES are top of the list

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