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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

When was the last time you actually had sex with someone that had nothing to do with fab or a swingers club etc

Looking for those one night stands where you met them in a pub, nightclub, supermarket, school run,work or wherever

Or is fab and the scene your sole source of fun

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By *OYFBWoman
over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Fab is my sole source of fun.

I don’t go “out”

I don’t have friends

I don’t belong to any sports clubs etc

I work with a bunch of old women

For me, it’s the only place I can find people with the same mindset as me

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

Never...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Fab is my sole source of fun.

I don’t go “out”

I don’t have friends

I don’t belong to any sports clubs etc

I work with a bunch of old women

For me, it’s the only place I can find people with the same mindset as me "

Exactly the same as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight!

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight! "

Does the lucky victim know yet or have you not chosen yet

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By *rill PhilMan
over a year ago

Crediton

Sunday and we're meeting up again tomorrow.

If I relied on Fab, I'd literally never get laid.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yesterday. My 3 most recent dalliances were met in my day to day life.

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Yesterday. My 3 most recent dalliances were met in my day to day life. "

Love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight!

Does the lucky victim know yet or have you not chosen yet

Victim? Victim! That gives the impression they will suffer.

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By *OYFBWoman
over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

"Yesterday. My 3 most recent dalliances were met in my day to day life. "

I wish I were that lucky!

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight!

Does the lucky victim know yet or have you not chosen yet

Victim? Victim! That gives the impression they will suffer. "

Exactly ?! they might suffer from premature ejaculation !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight!

Does the lucky victim know yet or have you not chosen yet

Victim? Victim! That gives the impression they will suffer.

Exactly ?! they might suffer from premature ejaculation !!"

What if I’m into a person who doesn’t have a penis from which to ejaculate from?

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight!

Does the lucky victim know yet or have you not chosen yet

Victim? Victim! That gives the impression they will suffer.

Exactly ?! they might suffer from premature ejaculation !!

What if I’m into a person who doesn’t have a penis from which to ejaculate from? "

They might ejaculate from their none penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have. I've either been in a relationship or on here, I'm not edgy enough to go home with a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight!

Does the lucky victim know yet or have you not chosen yet

Victim? Victim! That gives the impression they will suffer.

Exactly ?! they might suffer from premature ejaculation !!

What if I’m into a person who doesn’t have a penis from which to ejaculate from?

They might ejaculate from their none penis "

There’s a massive debate about this. Do women ejaculate? Is it that they wee themselves and trick others into thinking it’s an explosion of great pleasure?

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Yesterday. My 3 most recent dalliances were met in my day to day life.

I wish I were that lucky! "

I think confidence has a lot to do with it, I dress vividly and smile lots. And behaving as though people ARE flirting with you rather than assuming they're not which is what far too many people do and miss far too many opportunities

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

"When was the last time you actually had sex with someone that had nothing to do with fab or a swingers club etc

Looking for those one night stands where you met them in a pub, nightclub, supermarket, school run,work or wherever

Or is fab and the scene your sole source of fun "

What year was the Treaty of Versailles signed? I think it was around then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago from a regular dating app .... but after that night didn't want to repeat.

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By *JcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Couple years ago with fwb's

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of hours ago

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

WAIT - you mean there's other methods

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By *ittleMissCheekWoman
over a year ago

Naas

I like Fab because verifications mean someone is less likely to harm me.

Going home with a stranger is riskier.

But I did meet someone through work earlier this week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22/23 years ago? There's no way I'd do that now. I live in a very small town and people talk.

Nell

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

2003 and I made the mistake of marrying him

Far better this way on Fab

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By *arley QuimWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

When I was 22 and still attending nightclubs?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Once. 25 years ago. Then I met B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few through my old line of work.

I find it more exciting when it's not from fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sunday and we're meeting up again tomorrow.

If I relied on Fab, I'd literally never get laid."

Literally. If I was only having sex from fab I’d be having sex quite rarely.

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Earlier this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of our fun is outside of Fab and clubs and happens on holiday or out drinking.

Our last was in February with a lady we took home from a bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only have any success on Tinder simply asking "interested in anything casual?". There will always be someone interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years ago with the ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about yourself op.

I do not divulge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had more meets through dating apps…… I prefer to meet through Fab though

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

My last girlfriend, so a year or so ago

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

About a month ago , got chatting to a lady in cosplay in hotel I was staying in .

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

Never had a one night stand.

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By *ark.aitkenMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Oh, it’s on the diary for tonight!

Does the lucky victim know yet or have you not chosen yet

Victim? Victim! That gives the impression they will suffer.

Exactly ?! they might suffer from premature ejaculation !!

What if I’m into a person who doesn’t have a penis from which to ejaculate from?

They might ejaculate from their none penis

There’s a massive debate about this. Do women ejaculate? Is it that they wee themselves and trick others into thinking it’s an explosion of great pleasure? "

I can't answer that without causing the Internet to melt down....but it tastes and feels amazing (see pics) ??

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By *CLM87Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire

December was the last time I had sex with someone who wasn't fab or swinging related.

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Probably about 2 years ago. Met in a rock club

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Honestly can't remember that far back, I'd guess I stopped going to pubs and clubs probably in my late 20's, so it's been online sites ever since

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

December. I pulled a cracker out celebrating Xmas in town

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"Fab is my sole source of fun.

I don’t go “out”

I don’t have friends

I don’t belong to any sports clubs etc

I work with a bunch of old women

For me, it’s the only place I can find people with the same mindset as me "

Snap!

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By *otgirl32Woman
37 weeks ago

Ashton Under Lyne

If coworkers come under this category then yes I've had casual sex outside of an online source

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
37 weeks ago

Bristol

"If coworkers come under this category then yes I've had casual sex outside of an online source"

Agreed with this comment, it’s rife between coworkers

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By *vaRoseWoman
37 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

A holiday romance when I was 19 probably doesn’t count does it?

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By *orki3guyMan
37 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"If coworkers come under this category then yes I've had casual sex outside of an online source

Agreed with this comment, it’s rife between coworkers "

I seriously need to move jobs

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By *sWyldWoman
37 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Last October

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By *allySlinkyWoman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

Two weeks ago with my roofer.

Last week on a cruise ship with the ballroom dancing coach.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

1997. Last time I had a non fab one night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Never done a ONS.

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By *winging for the fencesMan
37 weeks ago

london

Last night and mostly on weekends

I'm on fab looking for women that are on the scene to frequent clubs and parties with and possibly play with couples

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By *arysueCouple
37 weeks ago

West Wales

I have picked up many guys from dating sites just for one night stands .

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By *eorgesdad69Man
37 weeks ago

Long Eaton

It’s very difficult for me as a man to hit on a man cos they may be straight and whilst I can handle rejection 😩 a punch on the face is more difficult to accept 😱🤪😘

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Thursday night

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

7 years ago through work, after the staff night out. Hadn't before haven't since.

I made the mistake of letting it turn into a relationship of 5 years and well I'm here so obviously it didn't work out.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
37 weeks ago

Holibobs

6 years ago from a dating site.

That was the reason I joined fab, fed up with mediocre sex and I like pulling kinky men

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By *oiluvfunMan
36 weeks ago

Penrith

Three weeks ago. Met a woman at a gig in Kendal.

I was just a guy in a bar, no different from the times I’ve been a single guy in a swinger club, but for some reason, I’m more ‘interesting’ in the real world…..

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By *he Silver FuxMan
36 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"6 years ago from a dating site.

That was the reason I joined fab, fed up with mediocre sex and I like pulling kinky men

Like Christabell - vanilla dating is a nightmare, no longer bother with pubs and vanilla clubs. Maybe a ONS whilst travelling for work but not on the lookout.

Fab women = better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

For myself (Mrs) it'd be last year, we don't really go "out" drinking / clubs etc that are swingers clubs so not really in the environment to "try it". Not gonna try hit on some on a cinema date or bowling haha

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By *unkhouser72Man
17 weeks ago

Gtr Manchester

I approached someone in a supermarket and unbelievably it worked

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
17 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

About 6months ago… f*cking disaster that was… he pulled out, got all moody and told me “I suppose you’ll want some kind of commitment now” errrr hell no 😂😂

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

A long time ago in my early twenties.

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By *hill1965Man
17 weeks ago

Camberley

Two years ago I met a lady at a beer festival and went back to hers for some serious fun!!

Last year a contractor and I took things back to my room while away at a conference, she and I now regularly hook up!

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By *ife NinjaMan
17 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Be a club about 27 years ago 😬

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By *orphia2003Woman
17 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Late December 2024.

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By *edSirenWoman
17 weeks ago

magic mountain

Ermmm… quite a few times actually 🙈 always seem to find myself in naughty situations in the normal world. It’s a curse 😁

Fucked a guy who worked on my car once. Started off innocent enough. But then the texts turned flirty and quickly descended into pure filth. By the time it was time to pick my car up I was pushed up against the wall of the garage and fucked. Yup. Excellent service 😁

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Often on holidays but most recently with a roofer working on my house.

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By *vonne5exMan
17 weeks ago

Doncaster

"When was the last time you actually had sex with someone that had nothing to do with fab or a swingers club etc

Looking for those one night stands where you met them in a pub, nightclub, supermarket, school run,work or wherever

Or is fab and the scene your sole source of fun "
I'd say 95% is outside Swinging, it's far easier and you don't have to write an essay on first contact a simple hello seems to work

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By *oiluvfunMan
17 weeks ago

Penrith

My last one night stand was on a Norwegian cruise ship. Saw this lovely lady sat at a bar by herself, whereupon I simply approached with "Would you like some company?" It turned in to a great night

Solo guys in here should take a Fab 'reality check' and go out to traditional pubs and clubs, where they'll actually meet women

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By *ea monkeyMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s been a bloody long time but then I don’t approach people that aren’t involved in the lifestyle or kink

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
17 weeks ago

Altrincham

"When was the last time you actually had sex with someone that had nothing to do with fab or a swingers club etc

Looking for those one night stands where you met them in a pub, nightclub, supermarket, school run,work or wherever

Or is fab and the scene your sole source of fun "

1997 😁

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
17 weeks ago

Altrincham

"My last one night stand was on a Norwegian cruise ship. Saw this lovely lady sat at a bar by herself, whereupon I simply approached with "Would you like some company?" It turned in to a great night

Solo guys in here should take a Fab 'reality check' and go out to traditional pubs and clubs, where they'll actually meet women

I have never been approached in a pub, ever! 🫠

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By *iscoDougMan
17 weeks ago

London

"When was the last time you actually had sex with someone that had nothing to do with fab or a swingers club etc

Looking for those one night stands where you met them in a pub, nightclub, supermarket, school run,work or wherever

Or is fab and the scene your sole source of fun "

Met a woman in the hospital lift last October, she gave me her number & it looked to be going well but then suddenly she had a boyfriend & wanted to be loyal so that ended fast 😄

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By *each needs some creamWoman
17 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I think it was 2011 but it could be longer than that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Have no idea its that long ago. Have been chatted up in not so long ago times but never acted on it

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By *oiluvfunMan
17 weeks ago

Penrith

"My last one night stand was on a Norwegian cruise ship. Saw this lovely lady sat at a bar by herself, whereupon I simply approached with "Would you like some company?" It turned in to a great night

Solo guys in here should take a Fab 'reality check' and go out to traditional pubs and clubs, where they'll actually meet women

I have never been approached in a pub, ever! 🫠"

Fancy a weekend in the Lakes?

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By *igboy2275Man
17 weeks ago

Backworth

Last week, I picked someone up from a bar. It was very animalistic and she went home happy the next morning. Not walking so well tho lol.

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