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Forum safety phrase....

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By *aters139 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Sheffield

As a long time member and short time participant...

I'd say those people who engage in the forum are people who Id be happy to chat with, granted, not every chat will lead to something but it's pretty easy to tell those who are here for a speedy wank...and those who are genuine...

And when you like someone...it's easy to get lost in the inbox...

I'm sure its been tried\failed before....but is there any traction in a 'safe phrase' in the subject to help the opposite party know if you are someone whos engaged in the community or just after a short shifty ham shank?

...here's looking at you Mr 'sheffield' forum posts.

Right...back in my box...

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I guess if you message directly from a thread the thread title is the message subject. That’s a good indicator?

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By *aters139 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Sheffield

[Removed by poster at 26/04/24 01:31:28]

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By *aters139 OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Sheffield


"I guess if you message directly from a thread the thread title is the message subject. That’s a good indicator?"

You sir...know this site much better than me...also...I didnt even realise you could direct message from a post...

I'll..just get back in my corner.

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I guess if you message directly from a thread the thread title is the message subject. That’s a good indicator?"

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Agreed.

However it also depends on the thread. You're not going to get much traction if you message directly from a "Rate My Cock" thread. The recipient will probably purge that one straightaway.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

You can use the reply privately button. But you’ll also see forum users saying ‘keep it in the forum so not every such message will be welcome.

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By *eliWoman
42 weeks ago

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The easiest way would be if it was a thread that says to private message people. Even then you're not guaranteed a reply though. It's best if you're part of the thread as well.

I'd avoid private messaging people off the back of threads where the topic is sex related unless you've already spoken before.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

There is nothing safe about entering my inbox

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

Yes 'do not cross the yellow line'

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
42 weeks ago

Southampton


"There is nothing safe about entering my inbox "

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Just beware of the " keep it the forums please" brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Keep it to the forums …

^has any GUY. ever needed to say this?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Keep it to the forums …

^has any GUY. ever needed to say this? "

No one needs to say it.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
42 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I find my inbox quite depressing, and that’s with filters, I think it’s why I spend so much time in the forums, I can have a laugh & banter with folk, but once it goes to my inbox, it gets lost

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
42 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Re. keep it on the thread... I have posted this before, usually when someone uses my post to dm me about something sexual, and if we haven't engaged in the forums before. If it's someone I have spoken to on here, I don't mind the dm. There's not a hard and fast rule.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
42 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Bloody Binary Worlds.....

So now if you are just after a ham shank you are not a member of the community .???

What configuration are you today ? A ham shanker or neighbour ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
42 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Suggested Safe Phrase.........

I'm a nice person and have NO interest in you what so fucking everrrrrrrr....

That should do it.

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By *ellhungvweMan
42 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Keep it to the forums …

^has any GUY. ever needed to say this? "

Please keep it to the forums Woody.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
42 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Keep it to the forums …

^has any GUY. ever needed to say this?

No one needs to say it.

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I never say it , never have. I think it's worse behaviour than the message in the first place.

Just message them privately , ignore totally or block.

In reality very few would get a kick out of shaming or outing someone who spoke to them privately in front of everyone present.

A needless and hateful little 'law' that sprang from nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Keep it to the forums …

^has any GUY. ever needed to say this?

Please keep it to the forums Woody. "

Haha. I should copy and paste your reply

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

On the (rare) occasion I’ve been messaged from a forum thread it’s been quite interesting and thought out. So it can be a good thing.

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Suggested Safe Phrase.........

I'm a nice person and have NO interest in you what so fucking everrrrrrrr....

That should do it."
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Whoever pissed in everyone’s cornflakes this morning is a real villain.

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By *ickshawedCouple
42 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Whoever pissed in everyone’s cornflakes this morning is a real villain. "

That was piss?! You told me it was love juice

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Whoever pissed in everyone’s cornflakes this morning is a real villain.

That was piss?! You told me it was love juice "

Cornflakes don't turn the milk yellow like coco pops turn it brown.......

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By *ad NannaWoman
42 weeks ago

East London

If more than one person sent me a sexual message after from a thread I'd commented on I might say replies on the thread please.

They usually get ignored anyway, or told to respond on the thread, if I don't want to be dragged into a sex chat or they want to meet me.

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