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"Anyone got any ideas ? Crap at this and constantly getting fucked over by someone " what your job is | |||
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"Look for a woman wearing a hard hat and swinging a pick axe and sounding like Gollum from LOTR "I’d be all over that  | |||
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"They always need to nip to the loos when the bill comes. " good one glow  | |||
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"Anyone got any ideas ? Crap at this and constantly getting fucked over by someone " How much gold you got | |||
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"Don’t be overly generous regardless if you can be. You’ll soon see the independent woman for who they are. Those with self respect always, always insist on going Dutch and that’s when you choose how generous you wish to be. Another tell tale sign, the good ones always wants to take you for a drink post people and they will insist on paying for it " I sometimes come across guys who double triple insist on paying for me. I often cave because fuck me it's not worth the argument. However, because I'd rather pay for myself, I order the cheapest thing I can stand on the menu 
(Some guys also think that buying me a drink/meal etc means I owe them something. It also works for this. If general you want to argue that buying me a drink means you deserve sex... come on, I'm worth a bit more than a fucking lemonade ) | |||
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"Don’t be overly generous regardless if you can be. You’ll soon see the independent woman for who they are. Those with self respect always, always insist on going Dutch and that’s when you choose how generous you wish to be. Another tell tale sign, the good ones always wants to take you for a drink post people and they will insist on paying for it " I don’t agree with any of that! It is possible to accept someone’s generosity and not be a golddigger. Many people find it uncomfortable and strange going Dutch and would rather take it in turns paying or go with trust and generosity , that includes many on here and they’re definitely not gold diggers, the complete opposite , often insisting on paying for me ! | |||
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"Don’t be overly generous regardless if you can be. You’ll soon see the independent woman for who they are. Those with self respect always, always insist on going Dutch and that’s when you choose how generous you wish to be. Another tell tale sign, the good ones always wants to take you for a drink post people and they will insist on paying for it I sometimes come across guys who double triple insist on paying for me. I often cave because fuck me it's not worth the argument. However, because I'd rather pay for myself, I order the cheapest thing I can stand on the menu
(Some guys also think that buying me a drink/meal etc means I owe them something. It also works for this. If general you want to argue that buying me a drink means you deserve sex... come on, I'm worth a bit more than a fucking lemonade )"If I’m taking someone to dinner, I always say to them, me casa su casa, order what you like. I’m old school, if you invite someone for dinner, they are your guest, so you make sure your guest is looked after. Just the way I was brought up | |||
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"Don’t be overly generous regardless if you can be. You’ll soon see the independent woman for who they are. Those with self respect always, always insist on going Dutch and that’s when you choose how generous you wish to be. Another tell tale sign, the good ones always wants to take you for a drink post people and they will insist on paying for it I sometimes come across guys who double triple insist on paying for me. I often cave because fuck me it's not worth the argument. However, because I'd rather pay for myself, I order the cheapest thing I can stand on the menu
(Some guys also think that buying me a drink/meal etc means I owe them something. It also works for this. If general you want to argue that buying me a drink means you deserve sex... come on, I'm worth a bit more than a fucking lemonade )
If I’m taking someone to dinner, I always say to them, me casa su casa, order what you like.
I’m old school, if you invite someone for dinner, they are your guest, so you make sure your guest is looked after.
Just the way I was brought up "Yes. It's difficult to navigate as someone who doesn't want to feel beholden to someone. I'm new school. Like, do I insist on paying and annoy you? Or do I give in and risk you think I'm a money grubbing whatever? Ordering the cheapest thing on the menu is my compromise. I guess what I'm saying is, someone who lets you pay isn't automatically a gold digger (as has been said above). I'm just trying to go along to get along. And because I'd rather pay and don't want people thinking I'm scrounging, I will nurse that lemonade like a boss all night! | |||
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"Don’t be overly generous regardless if you can be. You’ll soon see the independent woman for who they are. Those with self respect always, always insist on going Dutch and that’s when you choose how generous you wish to be. Another tell tale sign, the good ones always wants to take you for a drink post people and they will insist on paying for it I sometimes come across guys who double triple insist on paying for me. I often cave because fuck me it's not worth the argument. However, because I'd rather pay for myself, I order the cheapest thing I can stand on the menu
(Some guys also think that buying me a drink/meal etc means I owe them something. It also works for this. If general you want to argue that buying me a drink means you deserve sex... come on, I'm worth a bit more than a fucking lemonade )
If I’m taking someone to dinner, I always say to them, me casa su casa, order what you like.
I’m old school, if you invite someone for dinner, they are your guest, so you make sure your guest is looked after.
Just the way I was brought up
Yes. It's difficult to navigate as someone who doesn't want to feel beholden to someone. I'm new school.
Like, do I insist on paying and annoy you? Or do I give in and risk you think I'm a money grubbing whatever?
Ordering the cheapest thing on the menu is my compromise.
I guess what I'm saying is, someone who lets you pay isn't automatically a gold digger (as has been said above). I'm just trying to go along to get along.
And because I'd rather pay and don't want people thinking I'm scrounging, I will nurse that lemonade like a boss all night!"Touche! I can respect that opinion and point of view | |||
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"Look for a woman wearing a hard hat and swinging a pick axe and sounding like Gollum from LOTR "• The worse ones are the women mining for Mithril. They rarely go Dutch, much. | |||
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"Anyone got any ideas ? Crap at this and constantly getting fucked over by someone what your job is " I own my own business | |||
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"They carry a tiny little shovel." ffs ! that was my next answer along with the headlamp ! | |||
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The worse ones are the women mining for Mithril. They rarely go Dutch, much."Yeh but you don't see many Dwarf-women. And in fact, they are so alike in voice and appearance, that they are often mistaken for Dwarf-men. | |||
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The worse ones are the women mining for Mithril. They rarely go Dutch, much.
Yeh but you don't see many Dwarf-women. And in fact, they are so alike in voice and appearance, that they are often mistaken for Dwarf-men."It's the beards. | |||
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"If you are a simp or weak-willed, a woman can become a gold digger. " Nonsense, any decent human being would never take advantage of another's kindness. Gold-diggers are anything but decent. | |||
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"If you are a simp or weak-willed, a woman can become a gold digger. " That’s mean! I think they focus on simps & weak-willed, but they also target strong willed men who don’t care . I remember a conversation around a gf that cost over 200k a year and he was like yeah but the sex is worth it and she disappears when I tell her to without issues | |||
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"If you are a simp or weak-willed, a woman can become a gold digger. That’s mean! I think they focus on simps & weak-willed, but they also target strong willed men who don’t care . I remember a conversation around a gf that cost over 200k a year and he was like yeah but the sex is worth it and she disappears when I tell her to without issues " Surely that’s more of a transactional agreement than gold digger territory? | |||
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The worse ones are the women mining for Mithril. They rarely go Dutch, much.
Yeh but you don't see many Dwarf-women. And in fact, they are so alike in voice and appearance, that they are often mistaken for Dwarf-men.
It's the beards. " well done everyone haha | |||
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Failing that they instantly want or need something financially based from you in return for fuck all, aka no actual physical contact or actual plans to be with you  plus if you flaunt it the will come  | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice guys. It is really appreciated. I suppose I’m just old School in my day if you took a lady out for dinner, you paid suppose I just need to get with a modern times thank you" You can still be old school in your approach Op, if that's how you want to be. It doesn't mean that someone is a gold digger if they say yes to it. I do think being sensible is a very good idea. Personally, I'm the one who is happy paying for drinks, food, whatever. I buy drinks for men, pay for dinner, without expecting anything. If I know they're more traditional in their approach? Well that's when I'll let them pay for dinner and I'll pay for drinks. Or similar. I think on Fab, it's best to be sensible really. Not discussing salary, not offering to pay for everything. You can be a gentleman and also sensible, x | |||
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"They carry a tiny little shovel. ffs ! that was my next answer along with the headlamp ! " complete with pick axe and rope | |||
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" If I’m taking someone to dinner, I always say to them, me casa su casa, order what you like. I’m old school, if you invite someone for dinner, they are your guest, so you make sure your guest is looked after. Just the way I was brought up "Same | |||
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