FabSwingers.com forum: What helps to lift your mood..

By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
37 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Sunshine

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
37 weeks ago

Cardiff

Sex

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By *eroLondonMan
37 weeks ago

Mayfair

Best Bum Of The Autumn/Winter Threads, lifts my mood. That comforting feeling of shortlisting derrières whilst I sip a mulled wine...

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

Southampton

Music , feeding ducks on a sunny day

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Dark stormy days and food. And rum.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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37 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?"

Music

Snuggling on the sofa binging Netflix

Ben & Jerry's

Donuts

A long soak in a hot bath with bubbles and all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

My inspirational ‘hang in there’ cat poster on my wall.

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By *omRPMan
37 weeks ago

North Curry

A warm sunny afternoon, a clear cool starlit night, a conversation with a close friend.

Although often none are about when I need them.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
37 weeks ago

cardiff

My family, friends, animals, music, a good film and gin, or wine or any alcohol!!

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By *r SensualMan
37 weeks ago

London

Singing and dancing around the place like nobody is watching

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By *aters139Man
37 weeks ago

Sheffield

Running \ riding the trolley in the middle of the supermarket, I challenge anyone not to feel instantly happy after it.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

"My inspirational ‘hang in there’ cat poster on my wall. "

Haha I've just Googled "Hang in there..." Before I could continue, "cat" came up and they are so cute! I'll have to get one...!

Comfort food is one thing but I've found exercise to be energising - endorphins I think. It's not instant like a sugar rush, but constantly exercising (I run four miles on weekday mornings), I just feel much more together than if I didn't.

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By *elboy1978Man
37 weeks ago

Jarrow

Sex

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester

Daylight with the sun shining and absolutely no clouds

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Playing guitar / listening to music / getting my cock sucked

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
37 weeks ago

Southampton

"Playing guitar / listening to music / getting my cock sucked

All at the same time ??

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Music, food and dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

A cleared inbox

Sunshine

Music

Good food - I have a terrible sweet tooth

Good company.

Depends on what’s deflated me

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By *ean counterMan
37 weeks ago

Kettering

An hour on my Ducati

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By *luebell888Woman
37 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Definitely good weather, walking the dogs, music and ice cream.

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By *illy IdolMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

"Best Bum Of The Autumn/Winter Threads, lifts my mood. That comforting feeling of shortlisting derrières whilst I sip a mulled wine..."

I have noticed you haven't voted yet

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By *illy IdolMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

I find listening to The Jackson 5 can snap me out of any bad mood

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

The gym , old school stand up comedy

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By *ove2-lickMan
37 weeks ago

Worcester

Music nd chat with a lovely female

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By *issBellaWoman
37 weeks ago

Wales

Doing something fun with my daughter

A walk whilst listening to feel good tunes

Making time to do something for me, even if it's just a 15 minute face mask from home bargains

Gardening

Sending hugs OP

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
37 weeks ago

kent

"Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?"

Good morning OP, lots of things lift me up. Goofing about with my little one always works (giggles are infectious), but also time spent reading, or taking photographs, or being outside in the fresh air away from screens and computers, cafes, cake, yoga, kisses… there are 100 different things that help lift me up each day. How about you? Is there one thing in particular that always works? Xx

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By *lan157Man
37 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Warm sunny days,eating with lovers ,having my hair cut ,when someone smiles at me.

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
37 weeks ago

Stafford

Cooking and making real effort with it cheers me up instantly. Use great seasonal produce, set the table and present the dish nicely. Works best for brunch it’s a great time of day to cheer you and your loved one up xx

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
37 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Cadburys Dairy Milk.

As a diabetic, it’s poison to me but sometimes I just have to have the dopamine hit and it’s just heavenly.

Smiles , they lift me. Just random people who may walk past and say good morning (I’m from Birmingham, it was always normal to do)

The biggest thing was my Staffy. He died on boxing day and nothing lifts me like he did. He was pure, unadulterated love.

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By *ornucopiaMan
37 weeks ago

Bexley

Certainly not this boreal cloud cover and chilly wind.

I have virtually no spirits remaining to lift until this weather shows signs of ending. It can drag on for ages and has done so in recent years at this time of year.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I'm feeling like crap right now and think the best thing to lift my mood might just be sleep

Otherwise, usually a good gym session or a walk while listening to my favourite podcast or just meeting up with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"I find listening to The Jackson 5 can snap me out of any bad mood"

Bum

Buddha Buddha, bum

Buddha Buddha,

bum bum bum bum

bum bum bum

Do do do do do do do

….

Ahaaaaaa ahhhhhh ahhhhhhhh let me tell you now!…..

*fucking love it!!

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By *ot to giggleWoman
37 weeks ago

Coventry

Im hoping mine will be lifted after my interview today!

Its hard to be joyful when the anxiety about normal stuff is sat on your shoulder

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By *hinstrapMan
37 weeks ago

Barnsley

"Im hoping mine will be lifted after my interview today!

Its hard to be joyful when the anxiety about normal stuff is sat on your shoulder "

You'll smash it.

Food n music here. Or the occasional drive out.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
37 weeks ago

kent

"I'm feeling like crap right now and think the best thing to lift my mood might just be sleep

Otherwise, usually a good gym session or a walk while listening to my favourite podcast or just meeting up with friends

Sleep is the best tonic for all kinds of ills. Go back to bed!

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
37 weeks ago

Stourbridge

"Im hoping mine will be lifted after my interview today!

Its hard to be joyful when the anxiety about normal stuff is sat on your shoulder "

All the best with the interview I’m sure you will do well.

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By *eroLondonMan
37 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Best Bum Of The Autumn/Winter Threads, lifts my mood. That comforting feeling of shortlisting derrières whilst I sip a mulled wine...

I have noticed you haven't voted yet

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Ok, I've voted now. Happy, you insolent little pup?

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By *J the bullMan
37 weeks ago

Washington

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By *ot to giggleWoman
37 weeks ago

Coventry

"Im hoping mine will be lifted after my interview today!

Its hard to be joyful when the anxiety about normal stuff is sat on your shoulder

All the best with the interview I’m sure you will do well. "

Thank you ... good thing is, someone rang and wants to interview me next week for another role to ... liking options, greedy but options are good.

So yea starting to look a bit more positive xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

I wish I knew at the moment my usual music, stress cleaning and getting outside isn't helping.

Mrs

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By *33ukMan
37 weeks ago

fareham

1. Going for a run

2. Hitting the gym

3. Music (used in the first 2 aswell!)

4. Do I even need to say (hot steamy meet)

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By *rispyDuckMan
37 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Exercise & sex

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Cadburys Dairy Milk.

As a diabetic, it’s poison to me but sometimes I just have to have the dopamine hit and it’s just heavenly."

I guess managing the glucose spikes is the way? I'm currently waiting for my second Hb1Ac test appointment to reconfirm a first test positive.

"The biggest thing was my Staffy. He died on boxing day and nothing lifts me like he did. He was pure, unadulterated love.

I really want to get a Maltese Bichon... Resisted throughout lockdown so it's not a flash fad want. I know s/he will definitely be a mood lifter! But not sure how I'd cope if I lost them... {{Hugs}}.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

The sun and taking the cats for a walk.

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By *um2Daddy84Man
37 weeks ago

Braehead (PA4), Glasgow

Going for a drive with the music on high and having a good, loud singalong.

Got to avoid the tourists with campervans though, nothing kills the mood faster than dropping down to 40 on a 60?road because of some clown driving a tank

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
37 weeks ago

Stourbridge

If you can commit to a dog in terms of time and money then get one. Rescue if you can but dogs are just pure love.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Being left alone to just chill or going out for a walk and getting some fresh air usually helps

If that doesn’t work, I go to bed and try again tomorrow.

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By *illy IdolMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

"I find listening to The Jackson 5 can snap me out of any bad mood

Bum

Buddha Buddha, bum

Buddha Buddha,

bum bum bum bum

bum bum bum

Do do do do do do do

….

Ahaaaaaa ahhhhhh ahhhhhhhh let me tell you now!…..

*fucking love it!!

Instant happiness just reading that

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By *ucka39Man
37 weeks ago

Newcastle

Music, weight training, my nephew

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By *aptain VMan
37 weeks ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?"

A wank and a run

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

"If you can commit to a dog in terms of time and money then get one. Rescue if you can but dogs are just pure love. "

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"I'm feeling like crap right now and think the best thing to lift my mood might just be sleep

Otherwise, usually a good gym session or a walk while listening to my favourite podcast or just meeting up with friends

Sleep is the best tonic for all kinds of ills. Go back to bed!

It's annoying how low it is on my list of priorities despite knowing how good you can feel after a good night's sleep. Staying up late has been one of my worst habits for years

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By *illy IdolMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

"Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?

A wank and a run

Hopefully you run first else it's incredibly hard work

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By *etKatproject88Woman
37 weeks ago

Bristol

Stand up comedy on netflix and a hazelnut donut worked last night. Tonight I need something more long-lasting I feel.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
37 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Sun

Mowtown

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"Best Bum Of The Autumn/Winter Threads, lifts my mood. That comforting feeling of shortlisting derrières whilst I sip a mulled wine..."

Looking forward to the summer edition then?

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"Sunshine"

Sunshine always makes you feel warm inside

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"Dark stormy days and food. And rum. "

Love a stormy day and to listen to the sound of the rain while cosy in bed

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"My inspirational ‘hang in there’ cat poster on my wall. "

Need to see this in person for it to have the effect

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"A warm sunny afternoon, a clear cool starlit night, a conversation with a close friend.

Although often none are about when I need them. "

Tell me about it

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Money

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"Singing and dancing around the place like nobody is watching

Love this.I do this all the time

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"Running \ riding the trolley in the middle of the supermarket, I challenge anyone not to feel instantly happy after it. "

Off to the supermarket soon so I'll let you know if it worked haha might get some funny looks

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"Doing something fun with my daughter

A walk whilst listening to feel good tunes

Making time to do something for me, even if it's just a 15 minute face mask from home bargains

Gardening

Sending hugs OP

Love all of these and thank you lovely ?? I agree with you there always try and find the time to do something for yourself and think about you xx

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By *rumguy1982Man
37 weeks ago

Birmingham

A good walk in the sunshine, tot of whisky and an orgasm, in that order

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm feeling like crap right now and think the best thing to lift my mood might just be sleep

Otherwise, usually a good gym session or a walk while listening to my favourite podcast or just meeting up with friends

Hope you manage to get some rest..I love a nice long walk to help clear the mind and I need a new gym buddy

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By *inx000 OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Manchester

"I find listening to The Jackson 5 can snap me out of any bad mood

Bum

Buddha Buddha, bum

Buddha Buddha,

bum bum bum bum

bum bum bum

Do do do do do do do

….

Ahaaaaaa ahhhhhh ahhhhhhhh let me tell you now!…..

*fucking love it!!

Love this..now you have me singing along haha

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By *aizyWoman
37 weeks ago

west midlands

"My inspirational ‘hang in there’ cat poster on my wall. "

Athena posters were the best!! I had the cat one!

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By *rill PhilMan
37 weeks ago

Crediton

Music certainly helps.

Good company, a compliment here and there, egg fried rice

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"I'm feeling like crap right now and think the best thing to lift my mood might just be sleep

Otherwise, usually a good gym session or a walk while listening to my favourite podcast or just meeting up with friends

Hope you manage to get some rest..I love a nice long walk to help clear the mind and I need a new gym buddy

Thank you, I just took a 20min nap and feel better. I'm more than happy to spot you in the squat rack to help your peachy bum

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
37 weeks ago

North West

I've just given chocolate and coffee a chance. Off to a wonderful Teams call now though

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Usually an old Skepta freestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"My inspirational ‘hang in there’ cat poster on my wall.

Athena posters were the best!! I had the cat one!

Is Athena even around anymore? I bought quite a few posters from them.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
37 weeks ago

North Angus

Seeing someone fall over

Not like a pensioner or anything

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By *rill PhilMan
37 weeks ago

Crediton

"My inspirational ‘hang in there’ cat poster on my wall.

Athena posters were the best!! I had the cat one!

Is Athena even around anymore? I bought quite a few posters from them. "

I'm pretty sure we still have one in Exeter

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

"My inspirational ‘hang in there’ cat poster on my wall.

Athena posters were the best!! I had the cat one!

Is Athena even around anymore? I bought quite a few posters from them.

I'm pretty sure we still have one in Exeter"

I found a whole load of online sellers including Amazon. Just Google "hang in there cat". The interweb is always after your money...

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
37 weeks ago

My Own Little World

KFC bucket

Bottle of jd

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By *parkle1974Woman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

A message or phone call from a special friend x

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By *forfuntimesCouple
37 weeks ago

Sheffield

Music, Sunshine , Alcohol....

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester

Trolley jack

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By *ynamicnatureMan
37 weeks ago

Doncaster

A great shag, great food, beautiful warm sunshine, travelling and any sort of future goal I can work towards.

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By *issmorganWoman
37 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

A good book,

My pets,

A nice soak in some bubbles,

Sometimes a nap, if I'm in a weird mood because I'm exhausted.

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By *odgerMooreMan
37 weeks ago

Nowhere

Boobs - close the thread - asked and answered

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By *izzy.Woman
37 weeks ago

Stoke area

"Going for a drive with the music on high and having a good, loud singalong.

Got to avoid the tourists with campervans though, nothing kills the mood faster than dropping down to 40 on a 60?road because of some clown driving a tank

I really enjoy driving along in my motorhome, looking at the lovely countryside and ignoring the idiots behind who want to rush everywhere

No, in reality I pull over when it's safe to do so. But exploring a new area and some peace & quiet and a change of scenery always lifts my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Some 420 smoke

And some good food.

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By *eliWoman
37 weeks ago

It depends on if I'm sad or if another has triggered those feelings.

Sometimes it'll be going to the gym. Sometimes it's sex because not thinking for a little bit gives me that space to be and to breathe. Other times I'll go for a long walk and listen to an appropriate playlist.

Or sometimes I'll sit with those feelings and watch Criminal Minds and eat grapes and tell myself tomorrow is a new day but today I can goblin.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
37 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Cute/funny animal vids on YouTube.

….or pimple popping ones - they’re great!

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By *eliWoman
37 weeks ago

"….or pimple popping ones - they’re great!

I love these so much! And the ingrown hair removals one. I think growing up with a mum who didn't shy away from discussing medical issues etc has made me a bit gross though.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
37 weeks ago

Epsom

Hubby and a cuddle

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By *ascaIMan
37 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Lying on the couch with the heating on and loads of snacks.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

A walk on the beach

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By *rHotNottsMan
37 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Running , in the rain

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By *ensuallover1000Man
37 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"….or pimple popping ones - they’re great!

I love these so much! And the ingrown hair removals one. I think growing up with a mum who didn't shy away from discussing medical issues etc has made me a bit gross though.

And those delightful earwax removal ones to; blissful!

Some of the blackhead removing ones even have mellow, accompanying piano tracks in the background; the combination of popping/dirt extraction and aforementioned acoustic tracks are incredibly relaxing I find

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By *ilnotbite13Man
37 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Music

Sitting in the sunshine drawing or writing poetry

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

MUSIC and a nice take out

Or given the option a bloody lush Cwtch

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
37 weeks ago

Carlisle

"Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?"

Music, a good chat, a hug or the sun shining and longer days. I hate heat, but the sun shining makes things so much better. Oh and the Mr of course :D .......

Mrs

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By *ittlebirdWoman
37 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Cat in a flip flop. 7 seconds of pure joy

https://youtube.com/shorts/856Gq5YMMF4?si=3if-tLOZxzcMqKwf

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By *orksRockerMan
37 weeks ago

Bradford

WILTY Always makes me smile.

Prime example...

https://youtu.be/B94q7gUu75k?si=cdUoWgm_vZ_PvJeu

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
37 weeks ago

Torquay

"Sunshine"

This definitely. A nice walk in the warm sunshine makes such a difference.

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By *iddle ManMan
37 weeks ago

Walsall

"Sex "

Obviously, but sometimes it is not that we require, something else to get us going again. Music, food or meeting up with friends. Sometimes even the smallest of things, like a complement from someone is enough.

I always try to be nice to people as you never know how they are doing, a little bit of care and happiness goes along way.

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By *afkaMan
37 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)

The birds- hung out with a blue tit in the back garden yesterday, just a few moments of tranquility

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By *rsteveMan
37 weeks ago

sheffield

"Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?"

Having my balls emptied

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By *ornucopiaMan
37 weeks ago

Bexley

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Having my balls emptied

I was put in mind of this always intriguing phrase a moment ago when I saw that the golfing section thread had come back to life.

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By *nkn0wn123Man
37 weeks ago

london

Anyone in london

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

My daughter. She's awesome... and a nice bottle of wine. And a swim with my swimming buddy.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
37 weeks ago

Merseyside

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
37 weeks ago

Merseyside

"[Removed by poster at 25/04/24 23:00:21]"

My family and music

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By *J the bullMan
37 weeks ago

Washington

Sun, family, friends and fun

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
37 weeks ago

Stroking a dog will always cheer me up

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Listening to music.

A wee trip in the car even if only to sit at the beach on a sunny day, watch people go by.

Have someone unexpectedly get in touch with me means i know someone is thinking about me.

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By *ags73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Stroking a dog will always cheer me up"

Got my pal on sofa with me, definitely helps

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By *quirtyandflirty73Couple
37 weeks ago

hebden bridge

It was going to the workshop and working on some wood! Not that type of wood you naughty buggers!

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By *oubleswing2019Man
37 weeks ago

Colchester

Nietzsche or Schopenhauer

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By *entleman JayMan
37 weeks ago

Wakefield

Being out on my bike with the sunshine on my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Walking, music, the gym

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By *ath_ladMan
37 weeks ago

Bath

Sunshine and loud music is my happy place

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

Saying goodbye to dead wood

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By *ceicebabyMan
37 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Music and a nice long drive

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By *uke OzadeMan
37 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"Wanking, music, the gym"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

In the mornings - coffee

I’m the evening- rum

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester

"In the mornings - coffee

I’m the evening- rum "
i see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"In the mornings - coffee

I’m the evening- rum i see what you did there

*hic

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester

Sanatogen

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By *um2Daddy84Man
36 weeks ago

Braehead (PA4), Glasgow

My pets never fail to lift my mood. About to add to my pack again in a few weeks with a shih tzu puppy

I'm looking forward to training her as a therapy pet if she shows the aptitude and temperament.

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By *JcuriousCouple
36 weeks ago

Derby

Sunshine, music and being round good vibes

Miss S x

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By *ad NannaWoman
36 weeks ago

East London

A good night's sleep and waking up not feeling like my body is full of lead.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
36 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Kebab

Foof

Not in any particular order

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
36 weeks ago

Arlesey

Boobs

Music

Boobs

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

A Krispy Kreme doughnut and a hot cup of tea.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"A Krispy Kreme doughnut and a hot cup of tea."

I could do with that now.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Logging off

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By *tephanie 9090TV/TS
36 weeks ago

BISHOP

Doing the ironing wearing high heels.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry

going from no job to having 2 offers on the table - completely different roles and trying to make a sensible decision as to which one to take

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By *ags73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

going from no job to having 2 offers on the table - completely different roles and trying to make a sensible decision as to which one to take"

Have a walk. Fresh air and come back to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

RANDOM

ACTS

OFF

KINDNESS.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Serotonin and Dopamine generally

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By *uke OzadeMan
36 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

A blowjob works every time!

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By *agatoXXXMan
36 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

A walk in a forest, or sitting by water.

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
36 weeks ago

Bourne lincs

Looking at this site and all the pics hunters and talkers on here. so obvious.

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By *uke OzadeMan
36 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"A wank in a forest, or shitting by water. "

Yep, this would work too

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

The smell and sounds of the seaside

Massages

A good book

Boiling hot showers

Laughing

Surrounding myself with loved ones

A good coffee or tea

Alain Ducasse extra dark chocolate

Cuddles on the sofa under a cosy blanket

Kisses

Flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Humour. Trying to find something funny to laugh about, even in bad situations really helps you get through life. Laughter is life's best tonic.

Music also helps, but on a good dance, or sing a long song/feel good tune, and dance/sing your heart out.

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By *ripfillMan
36 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Good friends and helpless laughter is a real tiramisu for me

Riding my bike and singing at the same time

Playing my guitar

Sunshine and being out on the Downs or Fells

- just smiling a lot

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By *ames250122Man
36 weeks ago

Worcester

"Cheers you up when you feel like crap and wondering why the hell you still bother?

Music is good for the soul and helps to lift your spirits..either that or putting the world to rights with a good friend over a tub of Ben and Jerry's..what helps you?"

Laughter is the number one thing, if some makes me laughs and distracts me from what wrong even if it just briefly it cheers me up and appreciate even more just how lucky I am to have them in my life and they care enough to try and make things seem not so bad x

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

The sun, I'm already in a good mood when i wake up

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By *partan69Man
36 weeks ago

hyde

"Walking, music, the gym"

Discovering your profile X very sexy

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By *partan69Man
36 weeks ago

hyde

"Listening to music.

A wee trip in the car even if only to sit at the beach on a sunny day, watch people go by.

Have someone unexpectedly get in touch with me means i know someone is thinking about me. "

I like that, it's good to know someone is thinking about you and no necessarily in a pervy way x

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

going from no job to having 2 offers on the table - completely different roles and trying to make a sensible decision as to which one to take"
never take the one with the most money

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By *partan69Man
36 weeks ago

hyde

"Doing something fun with my daughter

A walk whilst listening to feel good tunes

Making time to do something for me, even if it's just a 15 minute face mask from home bargains

Gardening

Sending hugs OP

Making time for myself, it's been a while, so tonight I'm gonna have a bath and shave my balls , cause I'm worth it x

Thanks for the inspiration

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Usually fast paced music, usually around the 170 bpm mark.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Running, even just walking to and from work really helps

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Music, exercise, time with family & friends, time in nature. Achieving something, even if it’s a small thing can build momentum.

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By *itygamesMan
36 weeks ago

an orgasm , it even takes pain away , like toothache or earache

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Walking in the dark, alone.

(Preferably with a gingerbread latte)

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By *neforutoMan
36 weeks ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Spending time with the grandkids, splitting logs for the log burner and lots of choc n fizzy pop while watching rubbish on youtrube

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By *elsh.couple1Couple
36 weeks ago

Swansea/neath

Music got to be the best mood booster.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
36 weeks ago

Cardiff

Watch a romcom & a box of black magic chocolates

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Watch a romcom & a box of black magic chocolates "
omg I'm gonna do this i need lifting

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Boobs and chocolate or boobs with chocolate not fussed

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

A play date in the diary!!

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By *um2Daddy84Man
36 weeks ago

Braehead (PA4), Glasgow

"I really enjoy driving along in my motorhome, looking at the lovely countryside and ignoring the idiots behind who want to rush everywhere

No, in reality I pull over when it's safe to do so. But exploring a new area and some peace & quiet and a change of scenery always lifts my mood. "

Drivers like you will always get a toot toot, a smile, and a wave from me when I'm passing. A little courtesy goes a long way on the road

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
36 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Watch a romcom & a box of black magic chocolates omg I'm gonna do this i need lifting

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By *ansoffateMan
36 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

That show where people die in ridiculous ways through a mix of stupidity and misfortune.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"That show where people die in ridiculous ways through a mix of stupidity and misfortune."

Stupid deaths?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton

Having a natter with a friend , whether over a glass of wine or a coffee

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By *arrus8t5Man
36 weeks ago

manchester

Rum, and good company.

Also spending quality time outdoors. Sunshine is a great tonic

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